Lois Hinderlie Lamb

Lois Hinderlie Lamb obituary, Walnut Creek, CA

Lois Hinderlie Lamb

Lois Hinderlie Lamb Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 5, 2023.
Lois Marjorie Hinderlie Lamb departed this world from the sunny confines of California on August 20th, 2023. She was 79. A New York City resident for most of her adult life, she chose to reside for her final years in Walnut Creek, CA to be close to her newest grandchild. She was preceded in death by her loving husband James Lamb. Lois is survived by her three sons Alexander "Sasha" (Teresa) of Austin, TX; Charles (Joanna) of Piedmont, CA; and Paul of New York, NY.

Born April 20th, 1944 in Seattle, WA to Mandrup 'Donald' Hinderlie and Helen Pederson, Lois was one of 5 siblings. Inquisitive by nature, she lived her life by the rule that "experience is everything." Whether it was by going against convention by attending Sarah Lawrence College in New York while being a pastor's daughter, or living in Mexico among indigenous families to practice photography, or even pursuing a dream of being a classical singer and joining a traveling choral group touring through the United States & Europe, Lois did it all with aplomb. A position as a social worker in the inner city of New York during the 1970's? Lois said "why not?" Ask for the solo part in a performance for the visit of Queen Elizabeth at Trinity Church in Manhattan and deliver it beautifully? Lois replied "yes, please!" She ended up working for the City of New York in a project management capacity at DCAS for over twenty years, where she held her own against many officials, both elected and dictatorial. Perhaps her favorite position in life was her last, as a grandmother to Henry, Walter, and Anthony.

Lois married her husband James Lamb in 1977 in a small ceremony in upper Manhattan and she loved to share that she cooked the reception food herself. She met James and bonded over their mutual love of music and especially Opera at the Met. Lois raised her children in the St. George neighborhood of Staten Island, NY where she made countless friends and became a part of the musical community there. There were few churches or synagogues in the borough that she did not sing at and would always be remembered by parishioners for her stunning voice which brightened most Sundays. Lois was a lover of all forms of art, be it a community classical performance, a trip to the Frick collection on the upper west side of Manhattan, a screening of French new wave cinema at the Film Forum, or watching a good Knicks game. She was especially fond of the music society she helped found and manage (and perform in), the Richmond Choral Society of Staten Island. Lois loved to garden and considered growing vegetables in her backyard a blissful endeavor.

Time spent with Lois always went too fast and she had the ability to make everyone feel special. She could always have the last word, but it would typically be a compliment. A woman small of stature, she will be remembered as a towering personality of generosity, warmth, intellect, and hilarious wit.

Visitation will be held in Glenside, Pennsylvania at Grace Lutheran Church, 801 E Willow Grove Ave., Saturday, September 16th starting at 10:30am. Funeral service will be at the church at 11am. Lois will be laid to rest beside her husband at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery in Cheltenham, PA. In lieu of Flowers, Lois would have wanted a donation to be made in her memory to the Metropolitan Opera of New York at Metropolitan Opera or to Carnegie Hall.

View All Photos

Add Photos to Memorial

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Sign Lois Hinderlie Lamb's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

September 14, 2023

Maren Hinderlie posted to the memorial.

September 11, 2023

Elizabeth Brooks West posted to the memorial.

September 11, 2023

Diane Hinderlie and Families. sent flowers.

3 Entries

Maren Hinderlie

September 14, 2023

Lois was someone her big sister Mary and I kept our eyes on especially when we we were all "up north" at our cabin near the Brule River seven miles inland from Lake Superior. Lois and my little sister Elise were potential rivals for access to the treasures we had in the attic of our old log cabin. There was a wealth of stories to play out with the old fashioned paper dolls Most of them flappers left by children from another age. Mary and I prized them so did our sisters. Who got to them first? We thought we had them safely hidden in the attic until that cabin burned down . Then the only flappers were the ones Lois had kept hidden in the corner of her family's cabin! Lois always came through with at least one surprise and a story to go with it. I can hear her singing now making the flowers bloom.

Elizabeth Brooks West

September 11, 2023

My first memory of Lois was at Sarah Lawrence College: I was introduced to her, and immediately her smile became for me perhaps the most magnificent of smiles ever! Later, of course, I learned that she had a beautiful singing voice, as well as her soft and distinctive speaking voice -- not loud but gently intense. And her laugh was fine!

The last time I visited with Lois, occurred when I was in New York, not long before she left for California, and I'm not sure she completely remembered me; however, while looking at photographs which her sons had put together in a booklet, she was reminded of things to tell me. And she still had a version of that stunning smile!

Long Stem White Rose Bouquet VASE INCLUDED

Diane Hinderlie and Families.

Sent Flowers

Showing 1 - 3 of 3 results

Make a Donation
in Lois Hinderlie Lamb's name

How to support Lois's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Lois Hinderlie Lamb's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Lois Hinderlie Lamb's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

September 14, 2023

Maren Hinderlie posted to the memorial.

September 11, 2023

Elizabeth Brooks West posted to the memorial.

September 11, 2023

Diane Hinderlie and Families. sent flowers.