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Louis E.”Lou” Pagano, 63, of Harleysville, passed away Wednesday, October 18, 2017, at Thomas Jefferson University Hospital in Philadelphia. He was the beloved husband of Evon (Isabelle) Pagano to whom he was married for over 42 years.
Born September 19, 1954, in Long Island City, NY he was the son of the late Paul and Josephine (Daddiego) Pagano.
He met his wife in grade school in Queens, separating for high school and college only to reunite again years later in an elevator in Manhattan. His 46 year career at Merrill Lynch took him and his family first from New York to the Philly area, and later on to Central NJ and the Lehigh Valley. With every move, he remained true to his New York roots and friendships while at the same time creating a new life in each community. Never at a loss for words, he made friends wherever he went with his commanding presence and an infectious laugh. He had a sometimes tough and analytical exterior with a protective, generous heart, and his family and friends were most important to him. Lou loved sports and never strayed from the Yankees or Jets. He enjoyed playing softball and golf and played with everyone from the neighborhood friends, to his co-workers and later on his grandchildren. He loved to travel with his wife and friends and had, even more fun retelling their stories later on. After being diagnosed with cancer 4 years ago, he continued to inspire those around him with his courage and his larger than life personality- Italian cookies for the nurses didn’t hurt either. From one clinical trial to the next, he beat his odds to the point where his wife nicknamed him the Miracle Man.
In addition to his wife he is survived by his children Alissa Pagano Ellis and her husband John, of Philadelphia, Joseph Pagano and his wife Jaclyn, of Long Island; and his four grandchildren Aidan Ellis, Gavin Ellis, Nicola Pagano, and Luca Pagano.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend his funeral Mass at 10 AM on Monday, October 23, 2017, at St. Patrick’s Roman Catholic Church, 39-38 29th St, Long Island City, NY 11101. A viewing will be held in Pennsylvania on Saturday, October 21, 2017, from 3-6PM at the Williams-Bergey-Koffel Funeral Home, Inc. 667 Harleysville Pike Telford, PA 18969. A viewing will be held Sunday, October 22, 2017, from 3-8 PM at the Joseph Farenga and Sons Funeral Home, Inc. 3808 Ditmars Blvd, Astoria, NY 11105. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in his memory to the Bladder Cancer Advocacy Network https://www.bcan.org/donate/. Online condolences may be made to the family at www.williamsbergeykoffel.com
This is a picture from a pamphlet that Jefferson put out on their Cancer Center a number of years ago. We have Buddy meetings every two weeks and I often think of your Lou when we meet. In fact we were known as Luigi One and Luigi Two. Of course with a
Lou Lanza
October 13, 2020
This is a picture from a pamphlet that Jefferson put out on their Cancer Center a number of years ago. We have “Buddy” meetings every two weeks and I often think of your Lou when we meet. In fact we were known as Luigi One and Luigi Two. Of course with a heart and personality as large as your Lou he was Luigi ONE and I was Luigi Two. I know it is now three years since his passing. I continue to be truly sorry for your loss and I will make every effort in trying to combat this terrible scourge even greater in his memory.
Evon
October 22, 2018
A year has passed and the pain is still intense. I miss him every day, but his legacy to me has been all the people who loved him. They have been supportive and kind which makes it easier to get through the days. I thank them all for all the love. Lou was a dynamic personality, larger then life which accounts for the large hole in my life. I miss you my love every minute.
Terie Lesner
December 27, 2017
I am so sorry for your loss. I enjoyed working with Lou at Merrill Lynch. He was always there to help anyone who needed it. He was no only knowledgeable but fun to work with. He will be missed.
Holly Disbrow
October 27, 2017
Dear Pagano Family,
I am truly sorry for your loss. I am so sad to hear the news of his passing. Lou was such a great, caring, inspirational person. Lou was my boss sometime ago at Merrill Lynch and I learned so much from him. He was such a great mentor. He will be truly missed!
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Norma Henry
October 25, 2017
RIP MR PAGANO, Class of 1974 N Snell-Henry
Michelle Freilinger
October 24, 2017
What an amazing man and a great contribution to all of us here at Merrill Lynch. Great colleague and friend. He will be missed.
Evette Kendall
October 24, 2017
My condolences to the family. I know this is a tough time. May your faith ease the pain.
Love,
Evette
Jill Jennings
October 23, 2017
My condolences and sympathies to the entire Pagano family . Lou was a great boss at Merrill Lynch and an even greater man.May he be at eternal peace and we will miss him and his warm heart and smiling personality.
October 23, 2017
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Marvin Lee
October 23, 2017
May God bless your family in this time of sorrow. Lou brought me back to Merrill Lynch New Jersey when the Atlanta Service Center was closing and always had time to chat with me. He will be missed.
George Semen
October 23, 2017
Dear Evon and family- We are truly heartbroken for your loss. Lou was a great friend over many years. When we worked together, Lou was a pillar of integrity that set a standard for others. He has a large number of fans who appreciated the personal relationships that he cultivated throughout the many years at Merrill Lynch. Lou was always someone you could turn to for advice and for a good laugh when you needed it.
Outside of work, Laura and I enjoyed the times we spent with Lou and Evon. The love of family that was shared during those times was always touching. Lou's heart was big and he will be truly missed.
-George and Laura
Linda Gissing-Olson
October 23, 2017
It saddened my heart to hear of Lou's passing. He was always my go-to guy with questions in my years with Merrill Lynch. Please give my sincere condolences to his family.
Jack Michaelian
October 22, 2017
Evon, Alissa, Joseph and your beloved children and grandchildren. I just heard about Lou. My heart is filled with sadness that a person so generous, caring, and full of life is no longer with us. I have the joy and pleasure having worked with Lou at Merrill Lynch. Lou was my first manager back in 1983. I learned much from him, including when to be tough, when to be fair and when to be compassionate. His laugh was infectious and he could light up a room. I loved to hear his stories growing up in Queens, and about his family, which meant so much to him. I am a better person for knowing Lou. My heart and prayers go out to you at this difficult time. I know Lou is already holding court in heaven. Sincerely yours, Jack Michaelian
Sharon and John Gargano
October 22, 2017
So very sorry to hear about Lou. An absolutely terrific guy! We worked at Merrill together.
Len Greenspan
October 22, 2017
In our hearts he will live forever.
Our sincerest condolences. We were blessed to have Lou as a friend.
Len Greenspan
October 22, 2017
In our hearts he will live forever.
Our sincerest condolences. We were blessed to have Lou as a friend.
Nancy Daneshgar
October 22, 2017
Dear Evon and family, I worked with Lou at Merrill Lynch for several years. He was one of the nicest, kindest, most sincere people I have ever known. He made the world around him a better place. He will always have a special place in my memory. I am so sorry. May his memory be a blessing. Sincerely, Nancy
Bill Hayward
October 21, 2017
Lou was a great guy and the reason I ended up at Merrill Lynch. So sorry for your loss...
Raquel MacKenzie
October 21, 2017
Evon and kids, I am so very sorry for your loss. I am so saddened to hear this news. The NPs broke all of the nurses hearts, when we heard this.. especially mine. He was my buddy. I had him through this journey several times and will never forget him. I just saw him in the halls at Jeff and he gave me the biggest hug that day bc I hadn't seen him in some time. He was one of the strongest patients I know! He had the best family and spoke of you all with the sweetest love. He fought hard everyday for himself and you all. I will miss him and wish life hadn't gotten so hectic and I got to have that pizza with him that we always talked about. With tears in my eyes, I pray for your family and friends Lou bc you made their world so much brighter with your smile. Rest pain free now and keep near for your family.
Raquel MacKenzie Nurse at Jeff
Renee O'Connell
October 21, 2017
My sincere sympathy to Evon and his family. To know Lou was to love Lou. I met him thru Merrill Lynch years ago. He would light up a room. His stories will be forever remembered. I was blessed to have him as a friend. A big grappa toast my friend may you rest in peace.
Diane Lolli
October 21, 2017
Dear Pagano family..Lou's passing is a loss all who knew him. He was fun to work with ..his humor and helpfulness went a long way toward making day-to-day life better for our clients and all of those behind the scenes just trying to get things done legitimately and quickly. He always guided us toward the right solution, while keeping things light and on an even keel. Lou always maintained his humanity whatever the situation, and most of all throughout his illness. We will all miss him, but you will most of all. So deeply sorry for your loss.
Anne and Matt McDonough
October 21, 2017
Evon and family, we are so saddened to hear about Lou. Your lifelong friendship with the Vessillo's and the closeness between you was beautiful to watch. Our hearts go out to you, and may Lou's soul rest in peace with so many friends and family who have gone before him.
Joe Muziani
October 21, 2017
Dear Pagano family: I had the pleasure of knowing and working with Lou in both Philadelphia and Somerset. He was a great manager and a great friend and will be truly missed. All of my love, thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.❤
Mahendra & Jodi DeSilva
October 21, 2017
Our thoughts and prayers to the whole family, I was very lucky to know Lou and have a personal and professional relationship for over 25 years together. From work, softball, and all the great stories over the years... he taught me so much.. both work and life. I will always remember him as a great man, great friend and a heck of a softball Pitcher, as well as a boss who always had your back ! Rest in Peace Boss ...
Kathy Corrigan
October 21, 2017
This world lost a bit of its light with Lou's passing. He had a huge heart and an amazing smile. I had the pleasure of working with him for years at Merrill and remained friends after I left. He will be missed by so many. My sincerest condolences to his family. Rest in peace my friend.
Sandi and David Anderson
October 21, 2017
Lou and Evon were destiny's children and the life they created is a magical one. As I read the comments of others I can clearly see how much Lou touched everyone in a most positive way.
Our hearts and prayers go to Evon, Alissa and Joe and the grandkids he loved so much and all his many loved ones that will move forward without him. Somehow , I think Lou has figured out a way to stay close by anyway. Lou could manage anything for his family. He's truly a miracle man.
Louise Fiore
October 20, 2017
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Deb Sheehan
October 20, 2017
This is a real bummer. Lou will always be in my heart. He was a great friend and mentor. May he Rest In Peace.
Debbie Sheehan
October 20, 2017
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
carlos santos
October 20, 2017
I am very sorry for your loss, Lou was my manager for fourteen years at Merrill Lynch. I allays enjoyed his car stories, one time he brought over one of his classic cars to work and everyone loved; and he was so happy to see that. He was always an inspiration.
Simon
October 20, 2017
My deepest condolences. May you rest in peace Jefe.
Miriam Martin
October 20, 2017
God has a wonderful new member in his blessed choir. Peace be with you Lou Pagano!
Jeanne Ford
October 20, 2017
Lou was always the best presenter at Merrill Lynch meetings. He commanded a room, leaving us all feeling as though we were long time friends. My heart goes out to Lou's family. He was one in a million and will be missed.
Lou Lanza
October 20, 2017
Dear Pagano Family,
I was just notified of your terrible loss. I met Lou at Jeff through the "Buddy" program there. As a fellow Paisano our discussions usually revolved around Familia and food. In fact we were known as Luigi One and Luigi Two. Of course with a heart and personality as large as your Lou I was Luigi Two. I am truly sorry for your loss and will make my effort in trying to combat this terrible scourge even greater in his memory. You all have another angel who will look down upon you. My Lou Rest in God's arms. Lou Luigi Two Lanza.
Megan Durning
October 20, 2017
I am so sorry to hear about Lou. He was smart and funny, a great leader, passionate about his family, and a mentor to hundreds of us at Merrill Lynch. He will be missed. My condolences to his family.
Gen Modesto
October 20, 2017
Please accept my deepest condolences.Lou will be fondly remembered by those whose lives he has touched here at Merrill Lynch. May his soul rest in eternal peace.
October 20, 2017
While we are sorry and saddened to hear of Lou's passing, it's hard not to smile as we recall memories of him. His antics and humor will be sadly missed. We will cherish his friendship. Evon, our thoughts and prayers to you and family. Carmen and Joan
October 20, 2017
Sincerest condolences from Frank Trapani and Family. I will forever remember the fun times along with our business relationship.
Rest in peace,Lou and God bless your family.
Frank
Monica Furr
October 20, 2017
We will all miss Lou; he touched so many of our lives. I will especially miss his anecdotes, he kept us laughing. I will keep the family in my prayers.
Pamela Petrinec
October 20, 2017
God bless my sweet friend you are now with the King at peace,and no pain.I love you always
Michael Rodi
October 20, 2017
Even in our advanced age of medicine, it seems almost impossible to stop cancer from eventually destroying the physical body. But only the person afflicted with this horrible disease can let it destroy their soul. Louie, assisted by the overwhelming love and support of his wife, children, family and friends, never, ever let this disgusting illness get anywhere near that tremendously huge heart of his and rob him of the fullness of life.
October 20, 2017
So sorry to hear of Lou's passing. My condolences to the family, we will all miss the funny stories and his big personality.
Regards,
Pat Smith-Stephenson
Mary Murphy
October 20, 2017
On behalf of myself and the rest of the Tropeano Family I would like to extend our condolences to you all.
We have lots of memories of Lou from Astoria, NY. Evon and family please know how deeply sorry we all are and that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. From the bottom of my heart I am truly sorry... Rest in Paradise Lou until we meet again....
John Darsee
October 20, 2017
My wife and I only had the pleasure of seeing Lou for short periods of time. As a physician who has provided care for many patients, I was always in awe of the force of Lou's determination and stamina, while remaining grounded in reality. What was most impressive is the love from his family, something that was surely a major factor in his life and in his prolonged survival from a terrible disease.
Joanie DelCampo
October 20, 2017
Lou was my manager back in the 80s. I have extremely fond memories of Lou. He was everything and more that is written in the obituary. So so sad for him to leave us at such a young age. Prayers to his family and may he always be alive with them. I feel homor d to have known and worked with him ❤
Kevin Fegely
October 20, 2017
Sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Ray and Peggy Gencarelli
October 19, 2017
Joe and family, Ray and I were so saddened to hear about your dad. He really was a special man, always a smilesnd never and unkind word. We know you will miss him but no more pain for him. Cherish all your memories of a man so loved and respected. God bless you and your family. Love to you and the family. ❤
Lisa Capparella
October 19, 2017
Dear pagano family-
Lou has always been an amazing patient advocate. i am so honored to have had a distinct pleasure to meet Lou and have enjoyed spending time with him at jefferson. He always had such wonderful things to say about his wife whom he loved dearly, his children and his beloved grandchildren. You all made him so very proud. I am so sorry to hear of Lou's passing. The world is a sadder place without his infectious smile, kindness amd caring demeanor. His presence will surely be missed by all. My deepest condolences to his family during this incredibly difficult time. Lou here is to corropolese tomatoe pie and Dibruno pretzels (no subway ever!)
Christina Gandarela
October 19, 2017
Our hearts are broken. Uncle Louie brought a smile into any room and his personality was larger than life. We love you and are here for you.
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