Mae May & Betty Sculthorpe

Please join us in celebrating the lives of sisters Mae May and Betty Sculthorpe on May 16, 2024 at 1PM at the Winn Family Cemetery, 4410 Grubby Road, Wilsons, VA 23894.

On May 16, 2023, our hearts were saddened and our lives forever changed by the sudden passing of our beloved Mae May. Ethel Mae Winn May was born on December 10, 1939 to Hildrey Procise (Buck) Winn and Winifred (Winnie) Bradford Winn and spent her childhood on the family farm in Wilsons, VA with her younger siblings Hildrey Lee Winn and Winifred Betty Winn Sculthorpe.

Upon graduating from Midway High School and Smithdeal-Massey Business School, Mae began her 30-plus year civil service career in Alexandria, VA where she met her husband of 63 years, Eugene E. May. Mae loved living in northern Virginia but soon moved to Milwaukee, WI for a brief time before settling in Dinwiddie County and eventually making her home in Sutherland.

After retiring at Fort Lee, VA in 1995 as a Budget Analyst, Mae became a substitute teacher in Dinwiddie County and especially loved working with the students at the high school. She also pursued her hobby and love of Longaberger baskets by becoming a consultant. Mae was known to family and friends as Mae May, the name given to her by her oldest grandchild, Craig. Mae May loved playing cards with family, spending time fishing, going to yard sales and playing slot machines.
Mae is survived by her husband, Eugene Edward (Gene) May, her children Michael Gene May (Lisa), Kelly Marie Fox (David) and Laurie Ann Robinette (Michael), her grandchildren Craig Winn Rathbone, Dustin Daniel Rathbone (Megan), Amber Houp Williams (Sammy), Andrew Ryan May, Ashley May Takane (Dan), Victoria Noelle Houp (Ryan Crowder), Raven Holly Robinette and her great-grandchildren Jordyn, Journey and Justice Williams, Parker and Kai Takane, and Rylee Crowder. Her seventh great-grandchild, Paislee Mae Crowder was born in the last year.
Our beloved Betty Winn Sculthorpe was born November 2, 1946 and departed this world on November 25, 2023 following a courageous battle with a brief illness. Betty leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter and cherished memories that will forever remain in our hearts.

Betty is survived by her devoted husband and partner of 42 years, William Sculthorpe, affectionately known as Dickie, her son Fletcher Earl Mayton Jr, fondly called Earl, her stepdaughter Alissa Sculthorpe, and three adored grandchildren Shawn, Meagan, and Mitch Mayton. She was a pillar of strength and love for her family and her presence will be deeply missed.

Betty's zest for life was evident from a young age. She found joy in dancing and attended dancing school, where her passion for movement and rhythm blossomed. Betty's journey led her to a remarkable 35-year career in civil service, culminating in her role as the Resource Management Chief for Kenner Army Health Clinic. Her dedication and hard work left an indelible mark on all who had the privilege of knowing her.

Betty's love for the holidays was infectious, as she delighted in hosting her Christmas parties and adorning her home with seasonal decorations. Her artistic flair knew no bounds, as she transformed ordinary objects into extraordinary works of art. In her leisure time, Betty honed her skills as an accomplished artist, capturing the beauty of her family and beloved dogs in her paintings and drawings. She also embraced the joy of music, teaching herself to play the piano with grace and passion.

Above all, Betty will be remembered for her infectious laughter, sharp intellect, and boundless compassion. Her kindness touched the lives of all who crossed her path, leaving an enduring legacy of love and warmth. As we bid farewell to our dear Betty, let us take solace in the memories we shared and the profound impact she had on our lives.