Dr. Mario Aste

1943 - 2019

Dr. Mario Aste obituary, 1943-2019, Lowell, MA

Dr. Mario Aste

1943 - 2019

BORN

1943

DIED

2019

Mario Aste Obituary

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Professor Mario Aste, 76, a proud Lowell resident, passed away on February 6, 2019 at D'Youville Senior Care, surrounded by his loving family. Despite Mario's battle with early onset Alzheimer's, it was his zeal for life, devotion to family and friends, love for his city and community, and faith in God that supported him in his struggle and ultimately gave him peace. Mario was born on January 11, 1943 to the late Stefano and Francesca Aste. He grew up in Carloforte on the Isola de San Pietro of Sardinia, Italy. He graduated from Catholic University in Washington, D.C., where he earned an M.A. and a Ph.D in Italian and Romance Philology. There he met his beloved "Dot," marrying in June 1970. They settled in Lowell, becoming active parishioners and Eucharistic Ministers at Saint Michael Parish.  Their three children were Mario's pride and joy. Pictures of them adorned his university office, and his "bambini" often peppered Mario's conversations and lectures. Mario was truly a "Renaissance man." Fluent in several languages, he loved all types of music, the arts, his garden, cooking, and sports - especially soccer, as he was player, referee, and coach. As President of the Lowell Youth Soccer Association, he was part of the committee that created the city's first centralized location for soccer (Edwards Field). He helped the immigrant community as President of Lowell's International Institute. As a member of the Italian American Cultural Club, he loved raising the Italian flag at Lowell City Hall every Columbus Day. For many years, Mario demonstrated ethnic cooking at the Lowell Folk Festival, telling stories of his homeland as he prepared diverse dishes. He was a member of St. Vincent de Paul Society, Knights of Columbus, and Nocturnal Adoration Society. Mario was a perpetual community volunteer, including Boy Scouts and parish events. He served on Lowell Catholic High School's Board of Trustees, and he volunteered as a Spanish teacher at Saint Michael School for many years. As a professor of languages and humanities at Lowell State College, now University of Massachusetts Lowell, Mario's passion for teaching instilled a love of learning in countless students and colleagues for nearly 40 years. He served as Chair of the Language/Cultural Studies Department and President of the Massachusetts Society of Professors/MTA Union. His courses spanned a myriad of topics from Cinema, Culture, Religion, and Science. He served on many university committees and enjoyed several lifelong friendships which flourished over the years through a variety of conferences. His professional affiliations included the American Italian Historical Association, American Association for Teachers of Italian, Modern Language Association, and the American Association for Italian Studies. A recipient of various NEH and Lowell Art Council grants, Mario's ideas live on in his published works, including his books on Grazia Deledda and Pirandello, and his articles on Italian immigrants, folklore, and cinema. His love of poetry led him to pen his own poems, particularly when inspired by family or nature. Mario will be deeply missed by his wife, Dorothy Elaine (Balbirer) of 48 years and his three children: Stephen Robert Aste and wife Renee (Couture) of Lowell, MA; Marie Francesca Aste of Brookline, MA; and Kristina Elizabeth Aste-Mayer and husband Jean-Paul Mayer of Wilmington, MA; and his four cherished grandchildren: Katherine, James, Joseph, and Michael Aste of Lowell, MA. He will also be missed by three siblings: his brother Salvatore Aste and wife Silvana of Albignasego, Italy; his sister Vittoria Corda and husband Paulo of Quartu St. Elena, Italy; and his brother Angelo Aste and wife Maria of Cagliari, Italy. He leaves four in-laws: Mary Ann Harrison, Robert Balbirer, Frank Balbirer, and Paula Balbirer, as well as the late David Balbirer and Elmer Harrison. He is survived by loving nieces and nephews across the globe, as well as many dear friends, both near and far. Mario's family would like to thank everyone at D'Youville Life and Wellness Community in Lowell for their compassionate care, especially the dedicated staff on "C" Unit. Relatives and friends are invited to attend Mario's life celebration at MCKENNA-OUELLETTE FUNERAL HOME, 327 Hildreth Street on Monday, February 11 from 4 until 8 PM. His Funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Michael Church in Lowell on Tuesday, February 12 at 10:00 AM. Friends may gather on Tuesday from 8:30 to 9:15 am for additional visiting before the funeral. Burial in St. Joseph's Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Mario's memory to the "C" wing of the Special Care Unit at D'Youville Senior Care, 981 Varnum Avenue, Lowell, MA 01854, or to the St. Vincent de Paul Society at St. Michael Church, 543 Bridge Street, Lowell, MA 01850, or to the MA/NH Chapter of Alzheimer's Association, 480 Pleasant Street, Watertown, MA 02472.

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February 20, 2024

Suzette Couto posted to the memorial.

October 3, 2020

Antonella Cody posted to the memorial.

February 24, 2019

Meena Brahmbhatt posted to the memorial.

Suzette Couto

February 20, 2024

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Antonella Cody

October 3, 2020

I only found out today of Mario's passing. I am so sorry. He was an amazing person and teacher.
Thank you Mario for all you taught me. My memories of you will last a lifetime. You will always be loved. May you R.I.P.

Antonella Cody
University of Lowell 91

Meena Brahmbhatt

February 24, 2019

Dear Dottie,
Our heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

Meena & Jay Brahmbhatt

Linda Emerson

February 17, 2019

Dear Dot,

I just today saw Mario's death notice In the Sun. I am so sorry for your loss. I do know how devoted you have been to Mario these many years and I hope you can find solace in that. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy and know that you are in my thoughts.

Linda Emerson (a D'Youville friend)

Ray & Debbie Grimard

February 16, 2019

Dear Dottie,
Our heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Ray and Debbie Grimard

Arnie Mejias

February 14, 2019

Mrs. Aste, my condolences on the loss of your husband and Lowell treasure, Dr. Aste. I was your student in Jr. High and I later took an Italian Cinema course with Dr. Aste at UML. I remember how proud you were of him... rightly so.

Sonny @ sheila Emerson

February 13, 2019

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Leo baseball Boyle

February 12, 2019

Lowell has lost a giant of a man so giveing to the immigrants thru out the years. Mario was as close to a Saint as one man could be he touched so many us and made us a better person. R IP my friend.

Lillian Bellemare

February 12, 2019

My sincere condolences to you and your family Dottie. My husband Marcel and I always enjoyed our time with you and Mario after daily mass at St. Michaels.

After his long illness, Mario is surely at peace with the Lord.

Your loving friend Lil Bellemare.

Dennis and Donna Coffey

February 12, 2019

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Kevin McArdle

February 12, 2019

Dear Dottie and family. I am so sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kerry Conlin Gregson

February 11, 2019

I fondly remember Mario as a huge advocate for youth soccer in Lowell back in the early years of the league. Peace to his family..

Dottie Durkin

February 11, 2019

Dear Dottie and family,
I am truly sorry for your loss. Although I didn't know Mario until we met at D'Youville many years ago, I have always been so impressed by the unwavering love and support you all gave him. May he rest in peace!
Sincerely,
Dottie Durkin

February 11, 2019

Dottie,

I was so sad to hear of Mario's passing. Bob told me when he came home from the University today. It has been a long road for the both of you, and you are to be commended for your constant love and devotion to Mario all these years. He is now at peace. I have pleasant memories of babysitiing for you & Mario as your neighbor and student of the University. He helped to guide me when I needed to fulfill my language requirement as an undergraduate Biology major. Bob also remembers having pleasant conversations with Mario when he was president of the teacher's union. I will always remember his smiling face and caring personality. Prayers go out to you and your family.

Bob & Pat Giles

Ann Cameron

February 11, 2019

So sorry to hear of Mario's passing. I remember him well from my time visiting at D'Youville. He was blessed to have such a caring and compassionate family. My sympathy to all of you at this sad time.

Joan Copley

February 11, 2019

Dot
I admired your compassion and devotion to your husband and family . You and family will be in my thoughts
in the coming difficult days .
Joan Copley
DSC reception

Carlo Dutto Patricia Liske

February 11, 2019

Uniti a Dot e famiglia in preghiera, amicizia e grande affetto.

Kathleen Kane Dowen

February 11, 2019

Riposi in Pace Mario, mi manchi tanto...che sei stato un piacere caro Professore.

Gordon Stevenson

February 11, 2019

I was a wide-eyed freshman at Lowell State's orientation in 1974. Having tried high school Spanish and French with minimal success, I was desperate for a language class that would satisfy my Liberal Arts requirement for graduation. It was at this point that I met Professor Aste. He convinced me, as only he could, that his Italian class was the answer to my dilemma. In essence, the deal was: if you do you best, complete all assignments and show up for class, he would take care of the rest. In hindsight, I am convinced that had I not met Professor Aste that day, I would have flunked German (the one remaining language option) and consequently flunked out of Lowell State before it even become The University of Lowell. His faith in me, coupled with his joy of teaching a language and culture that he truly loved, was critical to my graduation. I was thankful that I got a chance to thank him personally in 2005 at my son's graduation from Lowell Catholic.

My thoughts are with the entire Aste family.

Gordon Stevenson
University of Lowell, 1978

Sharon Abbott

February 11, 2019

May You Rest in Peace Mario... Hugs and Prayers to you Dot and the Aste Family..❤

Celine Beaudry [email protected]

February 11, 2019

My Condolences to the family of a great man. Mario was always there for students at UML along with anyone who had the privilege of knowing him. May you rest in peace.

Celine Beaudry

Debbie and Frank Muise

February 11, 2019

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family - your dedication to the care of your husband was amazing- May he Rest In Peace now -God Bless him - our thoughts and prayers are with you

Kathleen McCarthy

February 11, 2019

Dr. Aste was my professor at Lowell State College. He was brilliant. Thank you for all you taught me, Dr. Aste. My sincere condolences.

Ralph Hogan

February 11, 2019

Thank you Mario, you introduced me to Fellini ; cinema, Coburn hall.
You enlightened me about the "Lead effects "of the darkened European period; Mid-evil technology; Oleny.
You improved my soccer skills and pushed me along to coach LYS.
My linguistic skills, well we will review those with vino at our next meeting.
God bless you & family.
Au revoir, Ralph

Mehmed Ali

February 10, 2019

A wonderful personality full of ideas and accomplishments. He ranks in the top tier of people in Lowell who always encouraged others. His contributions to the community were exemplary and he will be greatly missed. Condolences to the entire family.

Andrea Shelton

February 10, 2019

My husband Jimmy Lee Shelton knew Mario from his years at UMass Lowell as a courier Spoke very well of him with many fond memories

February 10, 2019

Dear Dottie,

I am so sorry to read about Mario's passing. You and I go back to St. Peter's School where you took over my teaching position when I went on maternity leave. I enjoyed meeting you both then and even had greater pleasure of reacquainting with you both when we taught at the Wang School together. Mario was a very kind and good man.
God's blessings on you and your family.

Anne Silva (Bergeron) Mullett

Brenda Maille

February 10, 2019

Dot and family, Although I did not know Mario while he was at UMass Lowell and only came to know him in his later years, I know he had a tremendous impact on the UML community. All of my friends who were either students or colleagues of Mario speak of him in superlatives that are reserved for only the most special people. Dot, I am blessed to have met you and to have been able to share so many heartfelt conversations. I am so impressed with your love, compassion and dedication for Mario. Your unwavering commitment to caring for him and making sure he received the best care possible was beyond impressive. You are in my thoughts. Brenda

Tom Leonard

February 10, 2019

So sorry to hear of Mario's passing. I saw Dorothy's love, devotion and kindness to him during her daily visits to D'Youville. It was a long struggle for you both. My prayers to Dot and her family.

Carol Jussaume

February 10, 2019

For the short time that we knew Mario and his family, the love and caring was so true . Mario was a blessed man . Rest well, Mario!

Joseph Lipchitz, PhD

February 9, 2019

Dear Mario, a friend, scholar and colleague for many years. You are sadly missed.

Matthew Proctor

February 8, 2019

Uncle Mario, I was saddened to hear of your passing but am grateful that you are in a better place now. Thank you for all that you have taught me as my godfather. I am honored and humbled to be your godson. My prayers are with Auntie Dot and the entire Aste family.

Chris Kleinhenz

February 8, 2019

I always enjoyed working with Mario on matters relating to the American Association of Teachers of Italian and the American Association for Italian Studies, organizations of which he was a longtime member and avid supporter. He especially enjoyed attending conferences where he always had a warm smile on his face and a kind word for his colleagues. We will miss him and all his good works. My sincere condolences to his family.
Chris Kleinhenz, University of Wisconsin-Madison

Jim Lombard

February 8, 2019

A wonderful man who will be dearly missed by his family. How fortunate you were to have had such a loving, devoted and genuine man as a father. Our prayers will be with you in the days to come.

Patricia Duff

February 8, 2019

Professor Aste was always a strong advocate
for his students at the University of Massachusetts
Lowell. He was very protective of the languages
and culture department. It was an honor to work with him.

Patricia Duff

Anne Urbancic

February 8, 2019

A strong and indefatigable promoter of Italian Studies, Mario will also be remembered and respected for his generosity of time and many talents offered to the Italian academic community. With his passing, we have lost a dedicated colleague. My deepest sympathies to the whole family.

Cheryl George

February 8, 2019

Thinking about you and your family. God bless you.

Frank Nuessel

February 8, 2019

With deepest sympathy for the family. Frank Nuessel, University of Louisville

Alessandra Aste

February 8, 2019

My uncle was special.
he was kind and a good person.
I will miss him, and all my prayers are with my cousins and my aunt.

Tom and Debbie Harrison

February 7, 2019

He was a special person. We met him at a family function and he was total enjoyment for me excellent conversationalist he will be missed Greatly

Kathy Doughty

February 7, 2019

Our prayers are with your family.

Ellen & Chuck Stokinger

February 7, 2019

Sincere sympathy Dot, Stephen, Marie, Christine and family, especially our godson Joseph Aste.

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