Marla Oakes

Marla Oakes

Marla Oakes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 19, 2008.


OAKES Dr. MARLA COLEEN CLARK OAKES Dr. Marla Coleen Clark Oakes, departed this life on Monday, September 15, 2008, surrounded by her loving family. She was 55 years old. Dr. Oakes was born in New Orleans, Louisiana, on All Saints Day, November 1, 1952, the third of eight children of Mrs. Ethel Mae Tanner Clark and the late Rev. Alex Joseph Clark. After graduating with honors from Francis T. Nichols High School in New Orleans, she attended the University of Missouri-Kansas City, on a music scholarship. She continued her education at the University of New Orleans (UNO) and completed her B.S. in Speech Pathology and enrolled in a master‘s program in the area of Special Education at the University of Missouri in Columbia, Missouri. Dr. Oakes later earned a Master‘s of Science in Special Education from UNO. She attend Howard University, in Washington, DC as a State of Louisiana Board of Regents Fellow; at Howard, she earned a doctorate degree in Communication Sciences and Disorders. Dr. Oakes held a number of positions within the public school systems of St. Louis, New Orleans the District of Columbia, Fairfax County, Virgina and Prince George‘s County, Maryland, as well as serving as an adjunct instructor with the Department of Special Education at Howard University. She also served as a consultant to the ministries of education of Sierra Leone in West Africa and Kakamega, Kenya in East Africa. At the time of her transition, she was Executive Director of the Office of Early Intervening Supports for the District of Columbia Public Schools. She was a member of Shiloh Baptist Church in Washington, DC where she served on the Deaconess Board, the Family Life Center Board and Alpha Circle. She was also a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. and the Red Hat Society. She leaves to cherish her memory, her husband Vernon Oakes; mother, Ethel Mae Tanner Clark; son, Dr. Phillip Eugene Jones, Jr.; daughters, Daphne Philisia Victoria Jones and Danielle Marlissa Jones Rease; daughter-in-law, Jamila Jefferson-Jones; son-in-law, Ronnie Rease, Jr.; grandchildren, Alexandria Chapmon Jones, Ronni Lyne Rease, LaNeah Knejuane Rease, William Jefferson Jones, Maya Daphne Jones-Rease and Phaelin Bernice Jones; sister, Helena Clark Smith; brothers, Bobbie Clark, Alex Clark, Jr., Otto Clark, Sr., Robert Clark, Sr., Matthews Clark and Mark Clark, Sr.; sisters-in-law, Ruth, Camilla, Melda and Veronica Clark; and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins and friends too numerous to mention. She was preceded in death by her father, Rev. Alex Clark, Sr. Relatives and friends are invited to attend the visitation on Saturday, September 20, 2008 from 10 a.m. to 11 a.m. at Northern Missionary Baptist Church, 3333 Clara Ave., St. Louis, MO, followed by the funeral at 11 a.m. Floral arrangements should be sent to Northern Missionary Baptist Church (florists may contact church administrator Victoria Butler @ 314-323-1676 to schedule delivery of arrangements). Condolence letters and cards may be sent: c/o Helena Smith, 2145 Riverwood Trails Dr., Florissant, MO 63031

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October 17, 2008

Erik James posted to the memorial.

October 16, 2008

Tawanya Scarboro posted to the memorial.

October 5, 2008

Eileen Spears posted to the memorial.

Erik James

October 17, 2008

To the family of Dr. Oakes,
My heart goes out to you for the loss of your wife, mother and freind.
Marla was my principal at Sugar Creek Charter School in Charlotte, NC from 1999-2000. I enjoyed and respected her very much and she will be sadly missed.

Tawanya Scarboro

October 16, 2008

I met Dr. Oakes in 1999 when she became principal of Sugar Creek Charter School. It was such a joy to work with her! I just received the information today regarding her passing. She was not only my principal, but she also did my house blessing in 2001. My heart goes out to family, friends, and colleagues. She will greatly be missed.

Eileen Spears

October 5, 2008

Dear Oakes and Clark Family,

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

May God hold you and watch over you all.

Ed and Eileen Spears

Loretta W. Williams

September 23, 2008

To Marla's family,

We joined with you in mourning the homegoing of beloved Marla.

God is your refuge and fortress, in Him please trust. Don't fear the terror by night for He has angels all around you.

Deacon John J. and Rev. Loretta W. Williams, Shiloh Baptist church

Jimmie Lucas

September 22, 2008

To Vernon and Family

It was with great sadness when I learned of the passing of Marla. In our last conversation, you mentioned her illness. I prayed for her then as I pray for you and your family now. LaShawn and I send our deepest condolences.

Shirley Cole

September 22, 2008

To the Oakes Family
I will miss our morning discussions and her warm smile. I pray that God provides strength, peace and comfort to your family during this time. Love - Co-worker and friend.

David & Jackie Hayes

September 20, 2008

We give thanks to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ for allowing us to travel along Marla's path. We didn't speak often, yet we felt her warmth everytime our paths crossed. Knowing Marla was a wonderful blessing! While we have lost a another Jewel, we know the Father has another angel at His side. We extend our sympathy and love to the family. We'll miss you Marla!!!

Carrie Sleep

September 20, 2008

My deepest condolences to the family...I will always remember everything I learned while working with Dr. Oakes...she was and will always be an inspiration to me. Her legacy will live on forever in each and every school district she touched. I will forever remember her smile!

Hilda Ortiz

September 20, 2008

Please accept my condolences for your loss. Although I worked with Marla for a very short time, I knew of her dedication to students who had very special needs.

Gwendolyn/Ethan Parker

September 19, 2008

To the Oakes family,
I am sorry to hear of Marla's passing. She was a a wonderful person, and will surely be missed by all that knew her. I listened to the announcements at Shiloh, because I loved her voice. May God continue to bless you'll.

Reather Felton

September 19, 2008

September 19, 2008
To Marla's Family I share in your sorrow.I will miss her and that lovely
smile.I've known Marla since she joined Shiloh and was assigned to
Alpha circle. May God Bless each of you. Danielle know that Alpha circle is here for you.

Rev. Desiré P. Grogan

September 19, 2008

To Vernon, Danielle and the Entire Oakes Family:
Marla and I bonded as friends during the season of the Revelation Bible Study Class at Shiloh Baptist Church in Washington, DC. Her love and reverential awe for God's Word became so evident that when I found myself in need of a co-teacher for a short season, Marla not only stepped to the plate but carried the Revelation Bible study sessions to new heights under the Spirit's anointing! Many were the Biblical paradigms we shared during some of her most difficult days that kept us both looking up! I praise God for her life and will dearly miss my sister in Jesus!

R.J. Parker

September 19, 2008

Marla and I have been close friends since she and her children came to Shiloh in the late 1980s. We have supported each other in many of life's situations throughout our friendship.

I will deeply miss her and the special memories that came out of this friendship, her deep love for her family and friends, her beautiful spirit, and the shining inner light that was hers alone.

My prayers and love go out to her children and family right now. And may the reassuring thought that she is now with our Heavenly Father at peace and in no pain comfort them now and going forward.

Shirley Myers

September 19, 2008

To The family
May it ease your sorrow to know that others share in your loss
with heartfelt Sympathy

Dolores Sawyer

September 19, 2008

To the Oakes Family,
I am saddened to learn of Marla's transistion. I have known and loved her a rather long time (since the late 80's). I will surely miss seeing her smiling, happy face around the church and at our various meetings. We were Red Hat Sisters and members of several of the same committee. Working with Marla was always a joy and a learning experience. Please accept my deepest condolences in this time of you grief. May God ever be your guide and protector now and evermore.

Patricia Trimble

September 19, 2008

Danielle,
I am so sorry to hear about the lost of your mother. My family and I will like to extend our deepest sympathies to you and your family. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Laura Carroll

September 19, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Resa Wynn Butler

September 19, 2008

I have known Dr. Oakes since a child. She was a loving and warm person. I have been blessed to have her as a teacher, mentor, Principal and later, co-worker. Her enthusiasm and love of all children will be sorely missed. To Mr. Oakes, Phillip, Danielle and Daphne, know that your wife and mother was loved by everyone she came in contact with. I will keep you in my prayers.

Thomasina McLeish

September 19, 2008

Danielle and family, there aren't enough words to let you know how sad we are with your Mom's passing. Marla was not only a friend but my Red Hat sister. Her smile and gentleness will be missed by all who knew her. Let happy memories bring a smile. May God surround you with His love and protection. Peace and blessings. Love, Thomasina and family

David & Lillian Gibbs

September 19, 2008

Dear Family members of Marla,

May I send you my deepest sympathy at this time and say that my thoughts have been with you since I heard of the death of your love one.

I admired her greatly. You must be even prouder of her devotion to you. I know you will be brave in your sorrow, as she would have wanted you to be.

Gwendolyn Hawkins Bazuaye

September 19, 2008

I will remember our long talks in your office. Rest well. With love, your colleague and friend.

Mildred Washington

September 19, 2008

Dear Family:
I have known Marla for a very short time but she truly was a loving and dedicated individual. She always wanted what was best for the students. I realize that this time is heartbreaking but know that God has prepared a special place just for her. She will be deeply missed and I pray that God hold each of you in the palm of his hands. No words can express how I truly feel but know that I will forever pray for the Oakes family.

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