Mary Katherine Timberlake Gittinger

Mary Katherine Timberlake Gittinger

Mary Gittinger Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 15, 2009.
COLUMBIA - A celebration of the life of Mary Katherine Timberlake Gittinger, 93, will be held Saturday, January 17, 2009, at 3 o’clock in Smith Chapel (1422 Washington St.) of The First Presbyterian Church in Columbia. The Rev. L. Craig Wilkes will officiate. The family will receive friends after the service. Shives Funeral Home is assisting the family.

Kat, the widow of Professor C. McFerron Gittinger of USC, died January 13, 2009, in the Presbyterian Home in Lexington. Born in Linden, TX, Kat was reared in Camden in a family of 5 daughters. Her father was an oilman and former commissioner of Oil and Gas for the state of Arkansas. During the Depression her family went from wealthy to poor and Kat worked through her twenties to help her family survive. While working at Sears in Texarkana, she met her future husband Mc who was hired as the assistant manager. They moved to Columbia in 1943 when Mc was hired by USC to start the retailing department. When her youngest child entered elementary school, Kat began work as a secretary at S.C. National Bank (now Wells Fargo) and later as the minister’s (Rice and McClure) secretary at First Presbyterian Church. After her husband died in 1975, Kat enrolled at USC and graduated with a B.A. in English in 1981. She had a lifelong interest in words and grammar and her dictionary was one of her favorite books. At age 70, Kat moved to Woodbridge, VA, to be closer to two of her daughters and to be more involved in some of her grandchildren’s lives. She enjoyed her years as a reading volunteer with the elementary school, helping with the church library, playing bridge, providing after school care for her grandchildren, hosting family birthday parties and attending grandchildren’s sporting events. At age 89, she no longer wanted to live in her 3-story townhouse and mow her grass and wanted to down-size so she moved to the Presbyterian Home in Summerville, SC. Though she enjoyed Summerville, she longed to be where she had spent her adult life, so she transferred into the Presbyterian Home in Lexington in January 2007 and enjoyed watching her Gamecocks play their games on TVs. She also liked playing FreeCell on her computer and watching the Atlanta Braves.

Kat is survived by her 3 daughters and their husbands, Joanne and Ray Brown of Woodbridge, VA, Sandra and John Gates of Cocoa, FL, and Marsha Gittinger and Bob Danson of Hernando, FL. She is also survived by grandchildren, Shaun and wife Amanda Brown, Rian Brown, Caitlin Brown, Scott and wife Amanda Gates, and Stephen Gates, plus other family and friends.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Presbyterian Home Garden Club, 700 DaVega Drive, Lexington, SC 29073 or Harmony Care Hospice, 100 Ashland Park Lane, Ste. K, Columbia, SC 29210.

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January 27, 2009

Joanne Markley posted to the memorial.

January 23, 2009

Bryce Collins posted to the memorial.

January 17, 2009

Linda and Russ Ware posted to the memorial.

Joanne Markley

January 27, 2009

Uncle Barney and I send you our sincere condolences. I have fond memories of Kat when I was with her at Aunt Deanie's funeral. She was a wonderful person and so full of life. I will call Uncle Barney today and tell him the sad news. Our prayers are with you all.

Bryce Collins

January 23, 2009

Sandy,

Your mom sounds like a wonderful lady with a long and full life of service. I pray that all went well celebrating her life with family and friends.

God Bless,

Linda and Russ Ware

January 17, 2009

Marsha,
We were so sorry to hear about your mother. I know you will be thankful for all of the happy memories you have. We are thinking and praying for you and your family.

arthur & vivian kackley

January 17, 2009

dear sandy, marsha, joanne

our sincere thanks for your email letting us know about aunt kat. i have emailed you back requesting the telephone number to reach you. i regret that we have been unable to so. the obituary was beautiful and so fitting for such a beautiful lady. i know each of you were very proud of her as well you should be. she was very special as was uncle mc. we are so sorry that you are having to go thru this but how fortunate you are to have been able to have her these many years. certainly each of you are in our thoughts and prayers.

fondly,
arthur & vivian kackley

Linda Ranow

January 16, 2009

Sandy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you're going through this difficult time. Your family and friends are here to help you through the lonely moments ahead.

Pat Pyron

January 16, 2009

Dear Marsha:

I'm so sorry to hear about your Mother's dying. May bright circles of light surround you and your family.

January 16, 2009

Dearest Sandy and Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you! I'm here if you need anything!

Always,
Jalane and Afton Johnson

Renee Minor

January 16, 2009

I am thinking of you and your family and sending love and comfort your way.

Sue Johnson

January 15, 2009

Dear Sandy, John & Family,
Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you. I wish we could be with you at this hard time, but know we are with you in spirit.
Love Paul, Sue, Eric, & Ben

Kelly Hunter

January 15, 2009

Sandy,

I am very sorry to her about the loss of your mother. I wish I could be there with you like you were with me when my mother died 9 years ago. Losing a mother is very tough. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Kelly, Paul, Travis and Trent Hunter

Alan & Ann Herman

January 15, 2009

We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our sincere condolences.

Ann & Bud Vassey

January 14, 2009

I was very sorry to hear that your mother had passed away. I know you feel the same as I do that you have been blessed to have had so many years together.

You & your family will be in our thoughts.

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