Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 14, 2025.
Mary M Leno, long-time resident of
Cambridge, MA, died on September 4, 2025.
Mary worked hard for social justice. She was active in advocating for the LGBTQ community, low- or no-income people, women, and housing justice.
Her work for equal rights and dignity for the LGBTQ community earned her a special award from the Cambridge City Council at the city's annual Pride Brunch. She was a lifelong lesbian.
She was a strong advocate of housing for all, and initially moved to Cambridge because the city had rent control.
She was a photographer and chronicler of social movements. For many decades she photographed graffiti, and later added protest signs and protest t-shirts. Her vast political button collection is archived at the Cambridge Public Library and Northeastern University.
Mary was a daily visitor to Graffiti Alley in Central Square with her step-dog Al and his successors Desi, Bella, and Rosie. One of her photos was chosen for the 2025 Cambridge resident parking sticker.
Mary worked for the Cambridge Commission on the Status of Women for 20 years. She was the cornerstone of Cambridge Women in Cable, a collective that produced programming about women's issues, perspectives, and experiences, at Cambridge Community Television from the late 1980s to the early 1990s. She starred in a skit called Ladies Against Women Against AIDS with her long-time partner, the late Betty Furdon, and another friend, dressed as conservative older women discussing the AIDS epidemic. She initiated the weekly BeLive series Women in the Arts, Women in Labor, and Women in Health.
She was active with and volunteered for the Cambridge Women's Center, the Women's School, Food for Free, and the Eviction Free Zone. Mary took great pleasure driving her friends and neighbors places through her self-named Senior Lesbian Urban Transport (S.L.U.T.).
Mary was born on November 11, 1940, in Ipswich, MA, where she lived throughout her high school years. She loved the marsh and the seashore, as well as the Clam Box.
She would like to be remembered for having a good sense of humor and wrote her own obituary:
She was born and then she died.
So long, it's been good to know you.
After living with her diagnosis of Alzheimer's for many years, Mary chose to die in Switzerland with the help of Dignitas. Mary's brother, Harry Leno, and her niece Penny Leno of Ipswich predeceased her. She leaves her family, including her niece, Heather O'Hare, and nephew, Lance Leno, of Ipswich, grandnieces Analise Leno of Ipswich and Abigail Dupray of Rochester, NH, grandnephews Arthur J. Harris of Rochester, NH, and Lance Leno Jr. of Charlo, MT, and her cousin, Cyndi Funchion, of Danvers, MA. She also leaves many friends, who will miss her terribly.
All are invited to a Celebration of Mary's rich life on October 19 from 1-4 pm at Sonia at the Middle East Restaurant in Cambridge, 480 Massachusetts Avenue, entrance on Brookline Street. Donations may be made to Just A Start (
justastart.org).