Mary MacPherson Spilman

1929 - 2019

Mary MacPherson Spilman obituary, 1929-2019, Raleigh, NC

Mary MacPherson Spilman

1929 - 2019

BORN

1929

DIED

2019

Mary Spilman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Feb. 16 to Feb. 17, 2019.
Mary MacPherson Spilman
Raleigh — Mary McQueen MacPherson Spilman of Raleigh went to be with her Heavenly Father on Friday, February 15, 2019. Born in Fayetteville, NC, on March 14, 1929, she was the third daughter of Samuel Hinsdale and Mary ("May") Doherty McQueen MacPherson. She was predeceased by an infant brother, Samuel Hinsdale MacPherson, Jr., and by two sisters, Elizabeth Wetmore MacPherson Coblentz, and Sue Harden MacPherson Tillinghast; and by her husband of 63 years, Theodore Louis Spilman, Jr.
She is survived by their children: Mary MacPherson Poole and her husband, Timothy Ray, of Raleigh, NC; Theodore Louis Spilman, III and his wife, Cynthia Ann Kelly, of Poway, CA; Emily Moon Spilman Everhart and her husband, Guy W., of Lexington, NC; and Samuel Hinsdale MacPherson Spilman and his wife, Karen Elaine McLamb, of Raleigh, NC.
Also surviving are grandchildren: Mary McQueen MacPherson Poole Lucas and her husband, Dylan James, of Raleigh, NC; Timothy Ray Poole, Jr., of Clayton, NC; Elizabeth Hahn Spilman, of Louisville, KY; Theodore Louis Spilman, IV and his wife, Kristen Kay Brewer of Vienna, Austria; William Douglas Spilman of Fort Hood, TX; Gaston Meares Randolph, III, of San Antonia, TX; and Rosemary Carolina Spilman, of Raleigh, NC. Surviving great-grandchildren are Adelyn Claire Lucas of Raleigh, NC; Tucker James Lucas of Raleigh, NC; and Theodore Louis Spilman, V of Vienna, Austria. A surviving sister, Frances Broadfoot MacPherson, is a resident of Roanoke, VA.
Mary was a graduate of Seventy-First School, Fayetteville, NC; Peace College, Raleigh, NC; and Queens College, Charlotte, NC. She had taught Weekday Religious Education in the Rockbridge County Schools, Virginia, and Bible in schools of Cumberland County, NC. For twenty-five years, she had taught first grade in Mary McArthur, Seventy-First, and L.E. Auman Elementary Schools in Cumberland County. She was a faithful member of the Auxiliary of the Gideons International for over fifty years, serving as past State President.
Graveside services will be held on Sunday, February 17, 2019 at 3 p.m. at MacPherson Presbyterian Church Cemetery. A Celebration of Life Service will follow in the church sanctuary. The family will receive friends following the service in the church parlor.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Gideons International. Arrangements by Jernigan-Warren Funeral Home, 545 Ramsey St. Fayetteville, NC 28301.

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David Abernathy

May 1, 2019

I want to express our appreciation for Louis and Mary for the financial and prayer support they provided for my family in our work with Wycliffe Bible Translators over the years. They were a blessings to us!

Amy Button

February 28, 2019

She was a true southern lady through and through. She will be missed dearly by many.

Betsy and Tom Marshall

February 26, 2019

Dear Cousins-- Mac, Ted, Emily and Sam,
We were out of town during Aunt Mary's illness and service, or we would have been in attendance.
How fortunate we were to be with her at Smith Mt. Lake not that long ago. Mary was such a sweet aunt and I will miss her. It was a pleasure seeing her and the rest of the family every summer in Fayetteville. I have taken her book, Strictly Me, off the shelf and will think of her as I reread it.
Love to you all.

Judy Holmes Gilmore

February 26, 2019

Our deepest sympathies to your family. She was a treasure and we are happy to have had the honor of meeting her and visiting with y'all when you came to Texas. Love to you all.

Mary Edna Fraser

February 17, 2019

Oh Emily, Ted, Sam, Mary Mac and all those who are grieving...I am reading right now at the time of the services for your Mother at MacPherson Church. Mrs. Spilman was always one of the nicest adults of my childhood growing up in Fayetteville. Our parents loved each other and we spent much time in each others lives. All the Burkheads send their love and prayers.

L J

February 17, 2019

May the God of Loving-Kindness comfort the Spilman family and friends at this difficult time. My prayers are with the family. Jeremiah 29:11

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