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Ellie Nagle
July 2, 2025
It is now just past a year since we lost you. The loss has grown for me and the sadness and longing for you have grown sadder in this year. There is so much I need to tell you and I long to return to those summer evenings when we would lie in my bedroom and talk of whatever came into our minds and share a laugh or maybe a tear. I felt heard, loved, understood and cherished. We often ended the evening with a swim or a moonlit kayak ride, and always with a hug and "sweet dreams". These times are held deep inside my heart and soul. You may be gone, but you are remembered with my full heart and missed each second of every day. I hope you rest easy for eternity and if it´s possible I hope you happily recall the years we walked this earth together. Love never dies and my love for you is eternal.
Rest easily beloved Doatsie. My life is dimmer without you. My love to you forever, Ellie
Ellie Nagle
July 6, 2024
We always called my sister Doatsie. I am the youngest of the four Mahoney sisters. I hold my sister Doatsie deeply in my heart and soul. She was the kindest person I ever knew and one of the most brilliant. But most importantly to me, she was the sister that would get up at the crack of dawn and take her little twin sister downstairs and share her secret box of chocolate cocoa puffs, and sit in front of the television and watch the. Test pattern on the TV until the station came on and Boomtown aired She was the sister that would help you find your bathing suit and towel and take you down the stairs to the waterfront at our camp, and read books to you until your mother or father arrived for a ride in the canoe or a swim. She was the sister that helped navigate the end of our oldest sister´s life. she was also the sister that helped mend my own heart when my twin sister passed away. As adults, when she retired, we spent countless hours just talking and laughing and discussing political problems and trying to solve them and floating on our rafts or just our backs, or paddling our kayaks around our beloved Bate hill Pond. I travel the rest of my journey without any of my sisters, but the last part of my sister journey will be cherished because of Doatsie and who she was and how deeply we loved each other. If you didn´t know her, you really missed something special. I will try to honor her by the way I live for the rest of my life. it already seems like she´s been gone for eternity. May she rest in eternal peace, she made a difference, not only in my world, but all of you humanity. Love you, Ellie.
Rosalie Meenes Barsky
July 4, 2024
Doatsie (Mary) was my best friend's older sister and she was wonderful to hang out with when I was a young teen, trying to understand a changing world in the mid 60's. I will always cherish the memories of learning from her, admiring her and listening to Bob Dylan. My condolences to all her family.
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Amanda Kemp
July 3, 2024
I first met Mary in 1982/3 at the Masters School. I was about 16 and had heard a "feminist" was coming. I was really looking forward to meeting this new teacher. I was shocked that she seemed so gentle and caring. I don't know what I was expecting but boy was I happy to eat her brownies, oreo cookies, and other treats.
So many memories...
Mary introduced me to the a capella group Sweet Honey in the Rock and affirmed my love of Alice Walker.
She loved poetry and music, especially women's music.
We both loved this Holly Near album featuring Ronnie Gilbert.
She let me listen to the song "Harriet Tubman" again and again.
Here's the chorus:
"Singing come on up, I got a lifeline
Come on up to this train of mine
Come on up, I got a lifeline
Come on up to this train of mine
She said her name was Harriet Tubman
And she drove for the underground railroad."
I'd hang out with her and Paul as much as they'd let me.
I felt safe and loved around them.
Maybe one of Mary's greatest gifts was that she respected young people. She did not talk down to us.
She listened a lot and saw the best in us.
My heart is heavy.
I feel like I've lost an Other Mother.
Amanda Kemp aka Aminata Desert Rose Plant Walker Fire Woman
Megan McNamara
July 2, 2024
This is a wonderful account of Mary's very rich tapestry. Doatsie, as I called her in my childhood, was one of the sweetest and joyful people I knew. She never wore shoes at Bare Hill and fostered my love of spaghetti from a can. She made the best brownies and stayed up really late reading very interesting books. She watched us as we went swimming and joyfully laughed as we regularly tipped over the canoe. She was always aware that she had a lesson to teach and did so with thought provoking questions and stories of her experiences. She will be missed by many and her spirit lives on at Bare Hill Pond.
William Maher
July 2, 2024
It was a pleasure knowing Mary here at The Club. I'm glad she shared some of her stories with us.
Catherine Rivera
July 1, 2024
Mary was a very kind and loving woman. She welcomed me into her home like one of her own children. She invited every summer to her camp with her daughter Jessica and it was some of the best memories of my life. She will be missed dearly. I hope she is flying high and reunited with Paul.
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