Mary Mahoney Wood

Mary Mahoney Wood obituary, Harvard, MA

Mary Mahoney Wood

Mary Wood Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 1, 2024.
Harvard - Mary Mahoney Wood, known affectionately as Doatsie, died peacefully on June 28, 2024, at her home, The Club at Briarcliff Manor in New York, after a long battle with Alzheimer's disease. She was 77 years old and had her daughter by her side. Mary is predeceased by her husband and true love, Paul Wood; her son, Michael Wood; her sisters, Kathleen Mahoney Lockhart and Margaret Mahoney Burke; and her parents, Arlene and Joseph Mahoney. She is survived by her son, David Wood; her daughter, Jessica Wood; her grandchildren, Michael Jr., Zach, Kristina, Alex, Dylan, and Asia; and her great-grandchildren, Cece, Beau, and Addie. She is also survived by her youngest sister, Ellen Mahoney Nagle, and dozens of her adoring cousins and friends.

It is with great sadness that we bid farewell to Mary, an extraordinary woman whose life was dedicated to education, equality, and love. Born into a family of educators, she followed the Mahoney family tradition, pursuing a career in secondary education. She held a BS degree from Worcester State College and two master's degrees from Assumption College and Sarah Lawrence College. Her career began in Worcester, Massachusetts. She later moved to New York and joined the faculty at the master's School in Dobbs Ferry, where she served as a history teacher and devoted dormitory parent for nearly four decades. During her time there, Mary created multiple curricula in African American, Latino, and Native American studies. She was known to pull all-nighters writing heartfelt college recommendation letters for her students, whom she went above and beyond for.

Growing up during the Civil Rights Movement, Mary became an ardent advocate for the abolishment of segregation, discrimination, and disenfranchisement in America. Committed to these causes, she was in Washington, DC to celebrate the signing of the Civil Rights Act by President Johnson. Her passions then led to fighting for women's equality and the Equal Rights Amendment. She fasted with Gloria Steinem for the ratifying of the Equal Rights Amendment. Mary held the distinct honor of representing the United States of America at the 1985 World Conference of the Advancement of Women held in Nairobi, Africa. Her passion for equality and justice for all was a lifelong commitment. Mary fearlessly stood up for the causes she held dear and was arrested several times in protests for various human rights and equality causes.

Following her retirement, Mary found solace and joy in returning to her beloved family cottage on Bear Hill Pond. This cottage has been in her family for 98 years and is now being enjoyed by the fifth generation. She loved music, books, and writing. She was a true water baby when it came to swimming, with one of her favorite pastimes being floating and gazing up at the sky. She enjoyed kayaking with her beloved Paul. Mary spent each summer of her life on the pond, where neighbors became family, building her deepest bond with her lifelong friends, Linda Tatten and Jane McNamara. Mary and Paul were each other's soulmates; it was obvious to all who knew them how deeply they loved each other. They frequently hosted family and friends at their lakeside cottage and instilled in their children and grandchildren the importance of family, hard work, love, and loyalty. Mary will be remembered, loved, and honored for the rest of her family's life.

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July 2, 2025

Ellie Nagle posted to the memorial.

July 6, 2024

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July 5, 2024

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Ellie Nagle

July 2, 2025

It is now just past a year since we lost you. The loss has grown for me and the sadness and longing for you have grown sadder in this year. There is so much I need to tell you and I long to return to those summer evenings when we would lie in my bedroom and talk of whatever came into our minds and share a laugh or maybe a tear. I felt heard, loved, understood and cherished. We often ended the evening with a swim or a moonlit kayak ride, and always with a hug and "sweet dreams". These times are held deep inside my heart and soul. You may be gone, but you are remembered with my full heart and missed each second of every day. I hope you rest easy for eternity and if it´s possible I hope you happily recall the years we walked this earth together. Love never dies and my love for you is eternal.
Rest easily beloved Doatsie. My life is dimmer without you. My love to you forever, Ellie

Ellie Nagle

July 6, 2024

We always called my sister Doatsie. I am the youngest of the four Mahoney sisters. I hold my sister Doatsie deeply in my heart and soul. She was the kindest person I ever knew and one of the most brilliant. But most importantly to me, she was the sister that would get up at the crack of dawn and take her little twin sister downstairs and share her secret box of chocolate cocoa puffs, and sit in front of the television and watch the. Test pattern on the TV until the station came on and Boomtown aired She was the sister that would help you find your bathing suit and towel and take you down the stairs to the waterfront at our camp, and read books to you until your mother or father arrived for a ride in the canoe or a swim. She was the sister that helped navigate the end of our oldest sister´s life. she was also the sister that helped mend my own heart when my twin sister passed away. As adults, when she retired, we spent countless hours just talking and laughing and discussing political problems and trying to solve them and floating on our rafts or just our backs, or paddling our kayaks around our beloved Bate hill Pond. I travel the rest of my journey without any of my sisters, but the last part of my sister journey will be cherished because of Doatsie and who she was and how deeply we loved each other. If you didn´t know her, you really missed something special. I will try to honor her by the way I live for the rest of my life. it already seems like she´s been gone for eternity. May she rest in eternal peace, she made a difference, not only in my world, but all of you humanity. Love you, Ellie.

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Rosalie Meenes Barsky

July 4, 2024

Doatsie (Mary) was my best friend's older sister and she was wonderful to hang out with when I was a young teen, trying to understand a changing world in the mid 60's. I will always cherish the memories of learning from her, admiring her and listening to Bob Dylan. My condolences to all her family.

Amanda Kemp

July 3, 2024

I first met Mary in 1982/3 at the Masters School. I was about 16 and had heard a "feminist" was coming. I was really looking forward to meeting this new teacher. I was shocked that she seemed so gentle and caring. I don't know what I was expecting but boy was I happy to eat her brownies, oreo cookies, and other treats.

So many memories...
Mary introduced me to the a capella group Sweet Honey in the Rock and affirmed my love of Alice Walker.

She loved poetry and music, especially women's music.
We both loved this Holly Near album featuring Ronnie Gilbert.
She let me listen to the song "Harriet Tubman" again and again.

Here's the chorus:
"Singing come on up, I got a lifeline
Come on up to this train of mine
Come on up, I got a lifeline
Come on up to this train of mine
She said her name was Harriet Tubman
And she drove for the underground railroad."

I'd hang out with her and Paul as much as they'd let me.
I felt safe and loved around them.

Maybe one of Mary's greatest gifts was that she respected young people. She did not talk down to us.
She listened a lot and saw the best in us.

My heart is heavy.
I feel like I've lost an Other Mother.

Amanda Kemp aka Aminata Desert Rose Plant Walker Fire Woman

Megan McNamara

July 2, 2024

This is a wonderful account of Mary's very rich tapestry. Doatsie, as I called her in my childhood, was one of the sweetest and joyful people I knew. She never wore shoes at Bare Hill and fostered my love of spaghetti from a can. She made the best brownies and stayed up really late reading very interesting books. She watched us as we went swimming and joyfully laughed as we regularly tipped over the canoe. She was always aware that she had a lesson to teach and did so with thought provoking questions and stories of her experiences. She will be missed by many and her spirit lives on at Bare Hill Pond.

William Maher

July 2, 2024

It was a pleasure knowing Mary here at The Club. I'm glad she shared some of her stories with us.

Catherine Rivera

July 1, 2024

Mary was a very kind and loving woman. She welcomed me into her home like one of her own children. She invited every summer to her camp with her daughter Jessica and it was some of the best memories of my life. She will be missed dearly. I hope she is flying high and reunited with Paul.

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