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MICHAEL ALAN FESCEMYER
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MICHAEL FESCEMYER Obituary
Sgt. First Class Michael Alan Fescemyer, U.S. Army, died Saturday, November 12, 2011, surrounded by his loving family after a courageous battle with cancer. He was born in Pittsburgh, PA and made his home in Hopewell, VA while stationed at Ft. Lee, VA. During his military career, he served in Iraq and Panama. He was a member of Knights of Columbus Hopewell Council #4568. He is survived by his wife of 27 years, Lisa Fescemyer; two daughters, Kiersten Fescemyer Godwin and her husband Dale, Andie Leigh Fescemyer; his parents, Robert and Judy Fescemyer; two brothers, Robert Fescemyer and his wife Maryann, Timothy Daniel Fescemyer and his wife, Margaret, and a sister Marie Cote; devoted friends Tim and Linda Heretick; numerous nieces; nephews; cousins and other loving family members. The family will receive friends Monday, November 14, 2011 from 6 to 9 p.m. in the HOPEWELL CHAPEL OF J.T. MORRISS & SON FUNERAL HOME. Funeral services will be held Tuesday, November 15, 2011 at 3:00 p.m. in the funeral home chapel with Rev. Dr. Ivan Perkinson officiating. Interment in Arlington National Cemetery will be held at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made to Knights of Columbus, Hopewell Council #4568, P.O. Box 1350, Hopewell, VA, 23860. Condolences may be registered at: www.jtmorris.com.
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Bob Lisowski
November 8, 2023
God bless the Fescemyer family. You are all great people. Always remembered never forgotten.
Don & Lin Greb
November 21, 2011
Judy, and Bob, we never met your son but through many conversations with Bob, we certainly knew how much he was loved and how hard he fought. I pray God's peace will rest with you and the family as you come to grips with a new normal for your lives. We love you both and miss seeing you. Don and Linda Greb
Keith & Courtney Kartman
November 19, 2011
Bob, Judy & Family - we are thinking of you during this difficult time. Your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
JIM ARROWOOD
November 19, 2011
THE LIGHT WILL BE BURNING STRONG FOR A VERY STRONG MAN WHO FOUGHT TIL THE END FOR OUR COUNTRY AND FOR HIS FAMILY...GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS...
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Steven Gaines
November 18, 2011
To the Fescemyer family, he was a good friend of mine throughout my 229th MP career, he will be missed. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers, god bless.
Ms. DaSilva
November 18, 2011
To the family, Want you to know you have been in my thoughts and prayers. I was SFC Fescemyer's Nurse Case Manager at the Fort Eustis Warrior Transition Unit and though most of our interaction was over the phone. The last home visit that I got to see him in person was 9/12/11 along with SSG Nates and Mr. Haynes and we had a wonderful visit and listened to him talk about his family and how his goal was to get the bathroom and some other home modifications done and also take his wife on an Alaskan cruise. Another thing he talked about was how he started to crochet since he has been ill and wanted to crochet some baby clothes for any grandchildren born after he was gone. I know he was not able to accomplish everything he wanted to before God called him home, but the intentions were there. He loved his family very much and that was obvious. We will be having our memorial service for him today and looking forward to being able to pay my respects to a wonderful man and soldier.Share stories often and keep the memories alive as you get together. Take Care. Army Strong.
Cindy Englert Howcroft
November 17, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
November 16, 2011
Lisa and Family -
Dave and I are extremely sorry to hear of Michael's passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this time of sorrw and bereavement. Rest assure that prayer will help to lighten your burden.
Sincerely,
Gail Brower
rhonda jantz, muoio
November 16, 2011
michael was such a great guy. i haven't seen him since high school, i have such fond memories of him. he was funny and smart and what i remember most; he was so kind and friendly to everyone, i think he made everyone feel like they were his best friend. our prayers are with all of you, that you are able to keep your strength during this sad
and difficult time. i truely feel lucky to have known him.
Rick Geppert
November 16, 2011
To the Fescemyer family. Our sincerest condolences. The Geppert Family
Jean-Ken Nevins
November 15, 2011
Dear Bob and Judy: We did not know Michael, but with parents like you two, he must have been a great guy. Our prayers are certainly with both of you. If you even need anything, please don't hesitate to just ask. We love you both and will continue to pray for you and Judy.
Lisa DeVita
November 15, 2011
Bob and Judy and family,I am praying for comfort and peace .
Bonnie Lanning-Bergless
November 15, 2011
May you rest in peace Mike. God bless you. You have now entered the gates of heaven.
Bill Bauman
November 15, 2011
Dear Fescemyer family, I am so sorry to hear that Mike has passed away. This life can be so short and end so quickly. I wish I would have talked to Mike in these last few months, just to let him know I was praying for him. This life is but a blink of an eye compared to the next, and I can't wait to see him again when I am called home also. Our family will be continuing in prayer for your whole family. Thanks Mike for your friendship & service to our country. (Bill "Caveman" Bauman) -Riverview H.S.
November 15, 2011
To the Fescemyer family,
I was so sad to hear about Mike's passing. Although we did not stay in touch over all these years, I have wonderful memories of him and our years at Riverview HS. He was a great guy & I can't imagine the sadness of your loss. My prayers are with you all.
Jennifer 'Jenny Elder' Cooper
Lisa/Ellen Engel
November 15, 2011
Bob and Judy,
I am SO sorry. There are no words that can provide comfort in a time like this. I just know that Mike is with my brother Kirk Engel and my Dad, Ray Engel. Please know that we (your family in Pittsburgh) are all praying for both of you and love you both so much. We will be in touch when you return to Pittsburgh and Michael will be in our daily prayers. Take care. Our sincerest condolences. Ellen, Lisa, and Ellen Engel
Rose Marie Siciliano Kimble
November 15, 2011
Lisa, Kiersten,Andie, Bob, Judy Bob,Marie& Tim- I just wanted to send my sincere condolences to all of you! Mike was a great guy & we shared so many wonderful times together! May God give all of you the strength to carry on his memories! You have a wonderful family! Thanks Mike for serving our country!
November 15, 2011
To Mr.and Mrs. Fescemyer and the rest of the family,
I am so sorry to hear this sad news. Mike was such a kind person and an important part of my life growing up. May God bless his wife and daughters. Your family is in my prayers always. Eileen McShea Baeppler
November 15, 2011
Dear Judy and Bob,
We were saddened to read of the loss of your son. Our love, sympathy and prayers are with you and your family.
Carol & Paul Pollock
Kathy Allport
November 15, 2011
Bob & Judy,
Your amazing faith and love are beyond words. My prayers are with you and your family as you know that Michael is not suffering but still hurting to losing your son. God bless and comfort you during these difficult times and strengthen you in knowing you will see your son again in Glory! I love you both! To God be the Glory!
Pam Petrarca- Fitzpatrick
November 15, 2011
Mr & Mrs Fescmeyer and Family, My thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time. May Michael live on in his children and grandchildren. I hope your memories bring you peace and comfort.
November 15, 2011
FOR BOB AND JUDY:
I SHARE WITH YOU THE LOSS OF YOUR LOVED ONE AND PRAY THAT THE ROAD TRAVELED WILL BE BLESSED WITH FRIENDS AND RELATIVES WHO WILL GIVE YOU COMFORT AND SUPPORT. MY HEART ACHES FOR YOU...........GEORGE SEMENCAR & DAVID
Basil Bratton
November 15, 2011
SFC Fescemeyer, it was a privilege and an honor to serve with you in 2003 with the 229TH MP Company. I was an outsider to the unit, but you always made me feel like I was truly a part of a family. I will never forget you.
Larry Ferguson
November 14, 2011
Mr. and Mrs. Fescemyer My sincere condolences to you and your entire family. Mike was a great friend growing up and my heart goes out to all of you. God Bless. Larry "Sweeney" Ferguson.
November 14, 2011
Bob and Judy
Sorry to hear of the passing of Mike. I hope you can find some peace in the knowledge that his suffering is over. My prayers are with you and God Bless you
Red Craig
November 14, 2011
My deepest condolences go to your entire family. May beautiful memories and the knowledge that Michael is now "home with the Lord" comfort you in this difficult time. God bless you all. Beth Phillips (formerly of Oakmont)
November 14, 2011
To the Fescemyer family,Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow.
Cheryle McCann & Bill Godwin
p lawson
November 14, 2011
To the fescemyer family, so very sorry for your loss, michael will always be a true friend in heart and spirit. may the peace of god fill your hearts with Loving thoughts and memories. P. lawson
November 14, 2011
Our sincere condolences go out to the Fescemyer family. May Mike rest in peace in God's loving arms and may He give you strength during this difficult time. Lori Blacksmith-Tillman, RHS Class of '81
November 14, 2011
Dear Fescemyer Family,
Our son, Adam was a young soldier in the 229th MP with Sgt. Fescemyer in Iraq in 2003-4 and we really appreciated his taking care of our wonderful son. Our deepest sympathies on the loss of your beloved husband, father, son and friend. Becky and John Sparger
Lori Keener Gehry
November 14, 2011
Lisa, I am so sorry for your loss. Michael truly was a special person who will be dearly missed. I have many fond memories of our times together. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
November 14, 2011
Our heartfelt condolences go out to the Fescemyer family. May you find strength in God during this time of loss.
With Sympathy,
Wendy (Leeger) Reese
Riverview Class of 1981
Tim Kaiser
November 14, 2011
I am so sorry to hear of this news. It has been many years since I saw Mike but he was always such a great person and friend. Mike was also a great fullback who I followed many times on the field. My thoughts and prayers go out to his entire family. Thank you also for you contributions in service to our nation. God Bless you and your family.
Lynn Melle-Kendrick
November 14, 2011
My prayers are with you all at this difficult time. May he rest in peace.
Bonnie Lanning-Bergless
November 14, 2011
To the Fescemyer Family. So very sorry to hear about Mike. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. He is now in peace with God. God Bless.
Natasha Lee
November 14, 2011
Our condolences go out to the family of Michael. We've known Michael, Lisa, Kiersten and Andie for many years. My mother and Lisa met by working together and I met the family through babysitting the girls when Michael was in Iraq. Michael was always very nice to me and even helped me to get my first job. He has always been good to our family and we are blessed to have them as friends. Michael was a wonderful, caring man and will be missed. Lisa, Kiersten and Andie you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
-Deborah, Tasha and Garland
vickie Roidt
November 14, 2011
To the Fescemyer family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. You are all in our hearts and thoughts at this sad time.
With Sympathy,
Joe & Vickie McCurdy-Roidt
Malik Wheat
November 14, 2011
Dear Mrs. Fescemeyer and Andie:
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Although I know your heart is saddened, always remember that Mr. Fescemeyer is in a place where there is no pain, suffering, or worries. For to "be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord."
If you need anything, please let me know.
Love,
Malik Wheat
Howard Keener, Jr.
November 14, 2011
To the Fescemyer family, you have my sincere condolences and prayers. Mike was a good friend of mine growing up in Oakmont. I often walked home with him during lunch and we hung out after school too. Despite the years since then I still have fond memories and remember the great times we had. We all share in your loss. God Bless.
November 14, 2011
Fescemyer Family - Thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. He was a wonderful classmate to have had. Eternal rest grant unto Mike, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.
Christine Washlaski Lawrence, formerly from Oakmont, PA
November 14, 2011
Bob,Judy, and the entire Fescemeyer family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family .
From your friends at Lower Valley Ambulance Service
ARROWOOD
November 14, 2011
THE ARROWOOD FAMILY WOULD LIKE TO SAY THAT OUR SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY FROM THE MEN AND WOMEN WHO SERVED WITH HIM IN THE 229TH MP CO...MAY GOD BE WITH YOU IN YOUR TIME OF NEED...
David Carroll
November 14, 2011
Dear Fescemyer Family, I was so sad to hear of the passing of Mike - He will always be in my heart as a great friend whom I had many wonderful times with as a we all grew up together.
My families prayers are with you all.
Kathleen Broderick Lininger
November 14, 2011
To the entire Fescemyer family,
I am truly sorry for your loss. Mike was a great guy and I have fond memories of him during our high school years. From the entire Class of 1981 I wish to pass on our condolences and let you know that Mike will never be forgotten by his classmates. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
November 14, 2011
To the entire Fescemyer Family, from our family to yours, deepest sympathy in the loss of Michael. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. From Bill and Donna DeTurck
Melissa Curry Mencotti
November 14, 2011
Oh Lisa, I am so sorry to read of Mike's struggle and his passing. My heart goes out to all of you. May the love of Mike's and your many friends and family comfort and carry you.
November 14, 2011
Dear Family and Friends of SFC Michael Fescemyer,
I served with SFC Fescemyer in the 229th MP Company for several years. He was an outstanding soldier, leader and mentor in the VA National Guard and he lived the Army Values. He was a good family man and would show pictures when the rest of us would share. He gave great advice in our military careers helping some to advance and become great leaders. SFC Michael Fescemyer will truly be missed by so many. God Bless,
SFC Tammy C.J.(Lancaster) McGuigan
Alyce Clark
November 14, 2011
RIP SFC Fescemyer.... I'll never forget my first couple of years in the unit, I came to you for help & you never let me down. You were always full of wisdom and great stories. You will forever be missed!
Diane and Chris Wilson-(Semencar)
November 14, 2011
bob, judy and your whole family,
we are so sorry to hear about michael. since his battle against cancer began in 2006, i knew he would fight a good battle....he sure did. he beat so many odds, but God had a bigger plan for him. nothing we can say can help, but know how much you all are loved & respected. your whole family is a model of love, family, strength & spirituality. we, send you our love, thoughts & prayers.
Patti Rudy
November 14, 2011
Bob and Judy and family,
we were so sorry to hear of Mike's passing. He fought a good fight and lived a life you can all be proud of.You'll be in out hearts and prayers.
Patti and Bob Rudy
Katrina Howell
November 13, 2011
SFC Fescemyer taught me how to be a good soldier and MP. He will be missed...
Matthew Speirs
November 13, 2011
Fescemyer family
David Jones
November 13, 2011
I served with Sgt. Fescemyer in 2nd platoon 229th Co in Iraq. He was truly one of the great ones and I was always honored when he told me I could call him a "friend." He will be truly missed and my prayers go out to his entire family.
Rhonda Johnson
November 13, 2011
Thoughts and prayers in your time of loss. There are no words to ease the pain but may God ease your troubled heart.
Nicole & Henry Billings
November 13, 2011
We were so sorry to hear of Michael's passing. This is a terrible unexpected loss and you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
November 13, 2011
Dear Bob and Judy,
You and your family are in our hearts and prayers. We are deeply sorry for your loss.
God Bless you.
Jamey and Marlene Lavelle
W01 Lamont and Stephanie Taylor
November 13, 2011
Sorry to hear that you are gone. But we are glad to know you are in a better place.
November 13, 2011
Dear Bob and Judy
A loss of a child is almost more than a family can bear. We will keep you in our hearts and in our prayers.
God bless you.
Bob and Rosanne Lisowski
Regina Webb
November 13, 2011
Dear Heavenly Father, as you comfort this family of Michael Fescemyer to let them know it is alright to grieve for their love one. But also to celebrate his life and not to forget the memories he left behind. I worked with SFC Fescemyer while a member of Troop Command and on various missions after leaving Troop Command. He will be greatly missed, due to so many Soldiers lives he touched.
Blessings and praises to the familly to look upon the Lord your God for your strength in all things.
Todd Tassell
November 13, 2011
I don't know what to say. SFC Fescemyer was very devoted to his family. I will always remember the years we worked together in Troop Command. He was one of the most passionate people I have ever met. It suits him to have gone so close to Veteran's Day since after his love of family his love of country always shown through. I will miss you! I am praying for you and your family.
Walter Dronebarger
November 13, 2011
I was blessed to have served in the 229th MP Co and 91st Troop Command with this awesome man. He taught me so much not only about life but what it was to be a true soldier. He is loved by many and will be missed by even more. My heart goes out to the entire Fescemyer Family. Walter Dronebarger (SGT)
Walter Dronebarger
November 13, 2011
I was blessed to have served with awesome man in both the 229h MP Co and the 91st Troop Command. He taught me so many things not only about life but what it was to be a true soldier. No matter what he could always put a smile on your face. He was a mentor to so many in and out of the Army. He was loved by many and will be missed by even more. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family. I miss you Mike. Sgt Dronebarger
Amy Wingfield
November 13, 2011
My heart goes out to the entire Fescemyer family in the loss of your hero. He was a fine soldier, I was honored to serve with him. God speed my friend.
Amy Wingfield (SSG)
November 13, 2011
Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Bill & Paula Tomlinson and Family
Brian Miller
November 13, 2011
I remember "Mikey" as a wonderful, fun student to have in my music classes at Gilmore School. Of course, he made his "claim to fame" as George Washington in our musical. It was fun talking about that when we got together again at Marie's wedding.
My sympathies to the entire wonderful.family.
Sincerely,
Brian G. Miller
Fran Scatena
November 13, 2011
Bob and Judy,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know that Michael was a very special young man and you loved him dearly. My heart goes out to the both of you and I pray that God will comfort you in your loss and sorrow. Please know you are in my prayers. In Christ, Fran
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