Neil A. Harriman

1938 - 2018

Neil A. Harriman

1938 - 2018

Neil Harriman Obituary

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Oshkosh - Neil Arthur Harriman died at home on 7 December 2018 after a rather lengthy decline is his health.

Neil A. Harriman was born on 1 August 1938 in St. Louis, Missouri, only son of Ruth and John Harriman. He grew up in St. Louis along with his older sister, Ruth. Neil received his Bachelor of Arts from Colorado College, Colorado Springs, Colorado in 1960, followed by a Doctor of Philosophy from Vanderbilt University in Nashville, Tennessee in Biology in January 1965.

While at Vanderbilt, Neil met Bettie Ralph and they were married on 13 July 1963. Together, they moved to Oshkosh, Wisconsin in September of 1964 when Neil joined the Biology Department faculty at University of Wisconsin-Oshkosh, primarily to teach Botany classes and do plant identification research. Neil remained at UWO until his retirement in May, 1998.

Neil was a dedicated teacher and found great satisfaction in not only teaching about botanical information, but helping the students learn how to be life-long learners. It gave him much pleasure that three of his students went on to get their own PhDs in Botany: Robert Jansen, Bruce Parfitt (deceased), and Melodie DeVore. His research work of collecting, identifying, and conserving plants was also a pleasure to him. When Neil arrived on campus in 1964, the herbarium facility in Halsey Science was barely more than a room with cabinets waiting to be filled with dried, identified and properly labeled plants, arranged in a systematic fashion. Today it houses almost 125,000 specimens from Wisconsin, the United States and around the world, including over 70 type specimens (the type speciman is the one upon which that species' scientific name is based). Among those are 3 named in Neil Harriman's honor. After Neil's retirement, UWO named the herbarium in his honor. It is now the Neil A. Harriman Herbarium, containing not only plant specimens, but Neil's personal extensive botanical library.

Neil belonged to numerous botanical societies during his career, including American Society of Plant Taxonomists for which he served a 3-year term as Secretary and Program Chairman. He served as Editor of The Michigan Botantist for many of years, and as a reviewer and author in the Flora of North America project of the Missouri Botanical Garden. Over the years he submitted numerous scientific articles to many of the journals of these societies.

During his 34 years as a member of the UWO faculty, Neil received a number of awards and recognitions. In 1973-74, he was given the Citation as an Outstanding Teacher. In May 1986, Neil was named a John McN Rosebush University Professor for Excellence in Teaching and Professional Achievement. In 1993 he received the UWO Endowment for Excellence - The TRISS Endowed Professorship.

When Neil retired in 1998, he was granted Professor Emeritas of Biology and Microbiology at UWO by the Board of Regents and continued to work in the herbarium as long as his health allowed.

Neil's joy for editing the written word extended beyond botany as did his willingness to "help-out" when needed. During his retirement, Neil joined his wife Bettie as co-editors for the quarterly journal of the Wisconsin Society for Ornithology from 2003 -2014. He also contributed his editing skills to the production of the "Atlas of the Breeding Birds of Wisconsin," a 600 page book published by the Wisconsin Society for Ornithology (2006).

The essence of Dr. Neil A. Harriman is perfectly stated by one of his graduate students, Tom Eddy: "Forty years ago, as a young graduate candidate at the University of Wisconsin-Oshkosh, I was encouraged by Dr. Neil A. Harriman to conduct a systemic study of the vascular flora of Green Lake County. My thesis research and association with Neil resulted in a profound change in my life trajectory, both personally and professionally.

Besides our independent plant collecting, Neil and I participated in numerous botanical outings organized by the Botanical Club of Wisconsin. Neil's taxonomic knowledge was encyclopedic. He exercised a superlative command of language and proper use of grammar. Whether in lecture or private conversation, he could turn what first appeared to be a collection of unrelated facts into a relevant lesson, frequently accompanied by humorous euphemisms.

Neil was an unpretentious and modest person, preferring not to draw attention to himself. In 2009, the herbarium which Neil founded in 1964, was dedicated in his honor: the Neil A. Harriman Herbarium. While such an honor might offer one an opportunity to grandstand, Neil chose not to speak at this ceremonious tribute.

The natural world was held in reverence by Neil. Whether botanizing a natural area, roadside right-of-way or parking lot, his eye was trained on the ground. Besides collecting new plant records, Neil regularly collected and properly disposed of someone else's litter.

Neil gifted generously to his local animal shelter. He held a tender spot for cats and dogs waiting to become adopted. On numerous occasions I witnessed a similar mindfulness by Neil toward other peoples' lives whose unfortunate circumstances were less than ideal. He was generous, big-hearted and aspired for the common good. For all this, I owe Neil a debt of gratitude for his mentorship and unflagging friendship."

Neil is survived by his wife Bettie and many friends who offered comfort and assistance with his care. His final week was under the excellent care of Aurora At Home hospice care which gave much physical support and comfort to Neil in a most experienced and professional manner while at the same time providing an easy emotional and caring support for Bettie.

A celebration of Neil's life will be held on Wednesday December 12, 2018 at Konrad-Behlman Funeral Homes-Westside from 1-3 p.m.

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January 10, 2022

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December 15, 2018

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Robert G. Michaels (class of 1970)

January 10, 2022

I have just become aware of the death of most respected UWO professor Dr. Neil Harriman. My learning experiences in his classes [Botany] have stuck with me throughout my teaching life. I'm sure hundreds of his students have expressed collegiate memories with/of association with Dr. Harriman.

I was an [innocent] wide-eyed freshman in Sept. 1965. I so remember many life changing lecture wisdom observations presented to his class for our common thoughtfulness.

" There is no substitute for excellence..."

" Not everyone is entitled to an opinion; informed people have earned the right to express it."

With most reverence and appreciation,

Robert G. Michaels (Bio major class of 1970)
[now] LaCrosse, WI

David Vander Linden

December 15, 2018

The Oshkosh Area Humane Society would like to extend its condolences to Bettie and all the friends and family of Neil.

Neil has been remembered as one of the great
professors at UWO, and also remembered for all
his kindness, and his donations, to the Humane Society through the years.

Our sympathy to you Bettie at this difficult time.

Marion Brodhagen

December 11, 2018

My condolences to Bettie, and to Neil's friends far and wide. I was a student of Neil's thirty years ago; he offered a struggling farm kid a job in the herbarium. Neil was my first and most important mentor, and I can still remember many of his conversations and lectures. He taught me much about plants, and about life. Now that I am a university professor myself, I sometimes find myself imitating and quoting him. Rest in peace, dear Dr. Harriman.

Barbara Ruedinger

December 10, 2018

My deepest sympathy to you Bettie on the passing of Neil. Thinking of you, Barbara Ruedinger

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Greatly enjoyed experiencing Lambeau with Neil and Bettie, Rest In Peace. We will miss you, Pam and Julie.

Pam Ruder

December 10, 2018

David Sabaj-Stahl

December 9, 2018

I am so very fortunate to have known Neil for the better part of four decades. He was so outstanding in so many ways that there simply isn't enough space to list all of those qualities. He is the most compassionate, selfless, mindful and attentive man I've ever known. Even though I pale by comparison, Dr. Harriman never once made me feel anything but good about myself. Time and again he lifted my spirits when the easier choice would have been to simply turn me away. He made me believe in myself during the most trying times of my life, and often he was the only one standing in my corner. Without his unconditional support I would not be who I am today. Neil Arthur Harriman, Ph.D. was a giant among men. Hands down, there just ain't none better.

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