Nicholas Hope Wilkinson

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Nicholas Hope Wilkinson

Nicholas Wilkinson Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 12, 2023.
NICHOLAS HOPE WILKINSON

Nick Wilkinson, the noted playwright, casting director and great friend to so many, has taken his last curtain call and made his final exit stage left.

Nicholas Hope Wilkinson started his life's journey in Malvern, Arkansas, on March 15, 1954, and finished his colorful and illustrious time on this Earth on September, 29, 2023, on the Hawaiian island of Kauai. Pretty sweet step-up, eh?

Along with his brothers and sister, Nick spent his childhood in various small towns in Texas and also on Guam. Guess the guy had a thing for islands. Having been brought up under the loving gaze of his treasured mother, Bonnie, he learned to love nature, animals and cornbread, not necessarily in that order.

After he graduated from Center High School, he went to Tyler Junior College and The University of Texas at Austin. (Hook 'em, Horns!) During this time in his life, he discovered his love of theatre and was proud to be a resident member at Shakespeare At Winedale. When he wound up his studies at UT, Nick worked as an Associate Producer at Center Stage Theatre in Austin (back when Austin was really weird). During this time, he decided to try his hand at playwriting and ended up as the winner of the Texas Playwright's Award. What a start.

To raise money for the inevitable move to New York City, Nick spent an entire summer baking and selling cheesecakes with his best friend and striving actress, Jessie Jones. Shortly after their arrival in The City, Nick was hired by T. Edward Hambleton to be the assistant to the casting director at Theatre Communications Group. After a few years, Nick became Director of Casting at TCG himself and became a prominent player in regional theatres across America. During this time, Nick became a beloved champion and friend of the community of actors in New York who referred to TCG as Central Casting. He practically lived in the theatres on and Off Broadway and was well-known in all the favored watering holes for theatrical types. All to say, he was the toast of the town.

Not surprisingly, ABC lured Nick away from theatre and into the melee that was network television. Eventually, he leapt at an offer to be the Director of Casting at the Goodman Theatre in Chicago, totally forgetting how cold the winters could be in that windy city. Luckily, after only a few months ABC reached out its corporate claw once more, stole Nick away and hurled him into the hot mess that is Hollywood. After many years of working in Movies and Mini-Series, Nick realized he couldn't bear to hound Ann-Margaret's agent yet again to star in another TV project so he took a hiatus to study at the California Culinary Academy in San Francisco. He made it all the way to Sauces and Gravies before he threw in his spatula and rushed back to Hollywood to work in casting again at ABC, in the Daytime division. It was during this time, Nick met the love of his life, a successful television writer/producer, Jamie Wooten. They met on a blind date and were together from that moment on. Theirs was a beautiful thirty-year romance.

Nick's third deployment to ABC was the charm and he finally retired from Casting and indulged his knowledge and love of art with a stint as a Docent at Los Angeles County Museum of Art. He then returned to one of his original dreams, to become a writer. Teaming up with Jessie Jones - of cheesecake fame - yet again, they wrote episodes of network comedies, including the Emmy-winning Disney television series "Teacher's Pet," and projects for USA, WB, UPN, SYFY, Nickelodeon and Fox.

Through the next few years, Nick, Jessie and Jamie became writing partners and as their hair began to turn gray, the three decided to leave before Hollywood said, "Get out." The trio, who by this time were writing under the pen name Jones Hope Wooten, moved to Asheville, North Carolina and became a playwriting team. Playwriting was where Nick found his greatest success and enjoyed the happiest years of his life. As Jones Hope Wooten (Nick took his mother's maiden name "Hope" as his nom de plume), they exploded into the theatre world with a series of popular laugh-out-loud Southern-flavored comedies, all available from Dramatists Play Service or Theatrical Rights Worldwide - order your copies today! Over the next twenty years and twenty-five plays and with more than 8,000 productions in every state in the U.S. (and over twenty-one different countries), Jones Hope Wooten more than earned their reputation as three of the most produced playwrights in America. Nick had realized his dream and was one proud playwright.

Taking time between plays, the trio traveled the world together - and they had a ball! They journeyed far and wide, from Iceland to the Galapagos, New Zealand to Greece, Easter Island to Malta (more proof the man always loved islands) and Casablanca to Rome, always Rome, a place that captured Nick's heart.

And speaking of hearts, Nick and Jamie finally married at the Algonquin Hotel in Manhattan in 2013. Since they were both writers, of course they had their wedding party dinner around the famed Round Table there. Besides Jamie, Jessie, theatre and travel, Nick had many big loves in his life. Among them were California plein air paintings, Florence, Italy, Joseph O'Conner novels, coconut peanut butter, labradorite, Tabasco, Cycladic art, turtles, doing laundry (yes, laundry), Dillards Clearance Centers, a good Cabernet, Wheel of Fortune slot machines, nachos, Nokomis art pottery, Adele, visors, France Vingt Quatre News, the musical 1776, fresh walnuts, long talks with old friends on the phone and Velveeta Rotel dip (who are we to judge?). He also spent his adult life trying to see every Vermeer and Caravaggio painting around the world. But above all, Nick loved animals, especially cats (he volunteered at an animal rescue facility in Asheville). One of his favorite places to visit was the Torre Argentina Cat Sanctuary in the center of Rome. Animals everywhere have lost one of their most constant and caring champions.

Nick is survived by his husband, Jamie, and his best friend and writing partner, Jessie. He's also survived by treasured nieces Kim and Andrea, a much-loved nephew, Eric, cherished grandniece, Amelia, precious cousin, Melissa, brothers Wayne and Tim, nephew Thomas and other Wilkinson, Wooten, and Jones family members, Hope cousins and an incredible community of beloved and supportive friends around the globe, as well as his extended theatre family who made his life's journey so amazing.

Nick was a gentleman in the true sense of the word - kind, caring, generous and sweet. He made everyone he met feel like the most important person in the world. This incredibly witty, warm and hugely talented man leaves behind a legacy of joy - laughter that he's brought to millions on the page, on the stage and in theatres everywhere across America and around the globe. What a wonderful gift to leave to this world. Please keep Nick in your hearts and think of him when you're enjoying a particularly good cocktail or scratching a cat under its chin.

Nick's ashes will be scattered in Rome and off the coast of his and Jamie's beloved Hanalei, Kauai. Those of us who knew and loved him feel fortunate and honored to carry his memory forward.

Donations in his memory can be made to Animal Haven of Asheville, NC - the city where the JONES HOPE WOOTEN COMEDIES first came to life. www.animalhavenofasheville.org

And surely Nick would do a little dance if you would donate to any Democratic candidate running against any incumbent Republican anywhere. Anywhere!

Arrivederci and Aloha, Nick!

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November 17, 2023

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November 16, 2023

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November 8, 2023

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Pam Wilkes

November 17, 2023

Nick and I have been friends since 7th grade. He was smart, talented and "crazy" fun. High School was a blast with Nick around! We continued our friendship after high school in Austin at the University of Texas. I was blessed to get to visit with him over the years in Asheville and in New York. Nick was great at staying in touch, calling to check on me and other friends, sending cards and pictures of all the amazing places he, Jamie and Jessie visited.
We talked the day before he and Jamie left for Hawaii. He said he was going to his favorite place in the world. He said he´d call me when he got home. Can´t believe you´re gone. Miss you so much.
Rest In Peace Nick.
Love you always....

Jones Hope Wooten

November 16, 2023

Nick´s Celebration of Life Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sxDxkBTQmak

Steve Johnson

November 8, 2023

Nick and I met in 1966, when he moved to Center and began 7th grade. We shortly became friends and have remained so for the rest of his life. Gosh, I loved Nick! He, another friend named John Griffin, and I remained part of each other's lives till the very end. When my wife, Renee, and I began to date our Junior year, my idea of a good time was for her to go with the three of us on our latest adventure. I've described life around Nick in those early years as being a roller coaster; just as you think things are slowing down, here comes another hair-pin curve and a drop-off into the unknown. He was the most amazing, creative, and unpredictable guy I've ever known and I'm so thankful he was there to make life fun!

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John CURTIS Hall

October 27, 2023

Some people are like constellations, they only touch the earth for a season.
All our love,
John Curtis and Suzanne

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Mickey Nugent

October 17, 2023

I met Nick in the early 80´s when he served as a judge for a Christmas talent competition at the Broadway Dinner theater in Westchester County outside of NYC. I was just out of college and it was a wonderful opportunity to meet talented performers and casting directors like Nick who was currently the ABC soap talent director. I´ll never EVER forget meeting him after the performance and the kind words and advice he gave my 24 year old self. He said Mickey I voted for you and your a very talented young man who will work plenty. Keep up your charming demeanor and with that energy you will go far. He was soft spoken and I swooned with his every word. Oh and (ahem) I lost 4 votes to 3

I brag to Jamie that I met Nick wayyyyy before he did!
Love you Nick. Say hi to my Mom and Pop as well as Jamie´s family!
Mickey Nugent
Tucson, Az

Ken Robbins

October 16, 2023

I remember how warmly Nick welcomed me into his acquaintance, his lovely smile, and his quick wit. Blessings to you, Jessie and Jamie.

Theresa Osborn

October 14, 2023

Sending much love.

David Matthews

October 13, 2023

Nick was a wonderful person. To those who love him, the loss is immeasurable. Sending much love and support to Jamie and Jessie.

Nancylee Myatt

October 13, 2023

Let's never forget that Nick was a romantic. He proposed to Jamie on bended knee ON TOP OF THE EIFFEL TOWER! Surrounded by tourists! Come on, y'all? We should all take a page from Nick's lovely, joyous life. If you're going to do something do it with flair, love and perfect timing...

Jan Powell

October 13, 2023

My heart goes out to Jamie and Jesse on the loss of their beloved colleague Nick.
He was a delightful, funny, fun individual and we are all poorer for his loss.

Chris Chavez

October 12, 2023

Rest in Peace Nick ! I remember the dinner we had at your place back in the early 90´s ! You were always very kind to me when I came into town from Japan Rest now! Love, Chris

nancy norland

October 12, 2023

My husband and I met Jessie, Nick, and Jamie on a cruise about 13 years ago and we were immediately struck by their joy and love of life. We have so enjoyed meeting up with JNJ a few times since then. Nick was always attentive and wanting to know what we had been up to since the last time we had seen each other. I know he will be missed more than words can describe. RIP, my friend. <3

Nancy Ross

October 12, 2023

Oh, Nick. Such a beautiful soul. In her didn't-like-anyone-but-Mom little child phase, my daughter held Nick's hand all day. When I stayed with Nick and Jamie in L.A., Nick put a bowl of gardenia blossoms in my room. My kids talked about our time in LACMA with Nick as our guide for years. Nick and Jamie. A couple who knew how to live, love, and enjoy and support each other in the most beautiful way. See you on the other side, Nick. I miss you. We'll watch out for Jamie for you in the meantime.

Elizabeth (Garrett) Hornick

October 12, 2023

attending one of his workshops @ TJC...he will definitely be missed! RIP

Cathy Woo

October 12, 2023

I learned so much in this beautiful obituary. I laughed. I cried. I will gladly send support to Animal Haven of Asheville, I send love to Jamie and to our dear Nick, because I'm sure he will receive it! He always 'got' everything.

Sandy Mooney

October 12, 2023

The Farmers Market in LA was the perfect place for my dear friend Jamie to introduce me to Nick. The three of us would meet, drink coffee, and talk and laugh for hours. Nick´s kindness and the twinkle in his eye warmed my heart and showed me who he was. Later, the fun would continue with my trips to Asheville. My memories of Nick are running around Asheville, shopping and sightseeing, tidying up the house for more out of town guests, and of course In The Kitchen! I would visit in November. The savory smell of his spiced pecans baking in the oven paired perfectly with the colored leaves piling up in the front yard. Nick´s passion for life showed up in his admiration of the smallest miniature art, to the most glorious sunset. He will be missed!

Heather & Harvey Myman

October 12, 2023

A wonderful tribute to an incredibly talented, warm, big-hearted man. We send our condolences and love to Nick's family and loved ones.

Greg Robins

October 12, 2023

Without Nick's influence I likely would not have accomplished my degree. Such a sweet, handsome guy. He will be missed!

Patricia Green

October 12, 2023

A lovely gentleman and a delightful talent. Hope it was a huge flight of angels, Nick. Rest in peace and laughter.

Roger S. H. Schulman

October 12, 2023

I didn't know Nick, but I know Jamie, and to know Jamie is to love him. And to be loved by Jamie is to be lovable, kind, funny and genuine. My condolences to Jamie and my wish for fair skies and following seas to Nick.

David W. Crawford (Doc)

October 12, 2023

Tyler Junior College...1973...He was acting in Desire Under the Elms. We met and have been friends ever since. He lived near my Aunt in Ashville. He always loved talking with the students at TJC.

Isabel Omero

October 12, 2023

I fondly think of Nick as an artist himself. His miniature creations linger in memory.

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