Pamela Wilder Fuller

Santa Paula - On March 9th my lovely wife Pamela Fuller made her transition into the next adventure on her path. She was and will always be a person of passion, kindness, and love. Pamela was a human being's human, and she believed in service everyday. Her legacy is goodness, and we were lucky to have her in our lives, leaving an overwhelming hole. We now rejoice in the time that we were fortunate enough to have this remarkable spirit, and are experiencing the absence of this beautiful soul who was our rock.

Pamela was born April 25th 1949 in Evanston Illinois to Dorothy "Dodie" Wilder Fuller, and Charles "Bud" Fuller, and was their youngest of four children. She was truly a character whom excelled in horse back riding, state champion spring board diver, musician, and multi talent in many creative efforts. She thrived on spiritual growth, empowering and educating others, creating, embracing, and nurturing both her family relationships, and those with her many friends! She had several occupations through her many wonderful years including teaching, restauranteur, massage therapist, Reiki practitioner, was an early participant in tech, and even produced a feature film. She leaves behind her three siblings Amy, David, and John, her loving sons Aaron, and Byron, the daughter she never had Eve, and of course her best friend and husband Chip. She loved her numerous nieces and nephews, and adored her three grandchildren Julien, Xavier, and Alex. Pamela sang choir and attended service at Ventura Center for Spiritual Living, was a proud member of various fellowships, and leaves friend circles in Virginia, North Carolina, California, and you'd be hard pressed not to find a connection of her's in all of the 50 states. It is an understatement to proclaim she left her mark from Virginia Beach, to Norfolk, to Outer Banks, to Ventura, and Santa Paula. Her three cats Romeo, Sasha, and Gabby have lost their human North Star, and we all feel a bit like lost kittens without her earthly presence. She truly quested for knowledge on any subject, loved culture, loved speaking in accents, preparing and enjoying delicious flavors of the world, live music, film, and her favorite pastime laughter. Just remember in times of sadness when thinking of PWF, just search in the sky for a bird of prey, as she so loved them, and she loved you.

"A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others"

-Wizard of Oz