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Pamela Nash Stoffan
Pamela Nash Stoffan
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Pamela Stoffan Obituary
Pam was one of Jehovah's Witnesses and enjoyed spending time with friends in the congregation. She loved cooking, baking, trying new recipes and was passionate about sharing with others.
Pam had a sense of adventure and was always up for any kind of outdoor activity. Some of her favorite activities included biking, hiking, kayaking, and traveling to new places.
Pam was well known for her thoughtfulness and generosity. She always found an opportunity to give a gift and celebrate her family and friends.
No one could escape Pam's sense of humor and quick wit. She loved to share a laugh and bring a smile to others.
Pam's five grandchildren were her whole heart. She doted on them and they brought her much happiness.
Pam will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her.
A memorial service will be held at 3pm on September 9, 2023, at the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses, located at 12522 Five Mile Rd, Fredericksburg, VA 22407. To attend virtually, please send an email to [email protected] to receive a Zoom link.
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21 Entries
Theresa Dixon Brown
May 16, 2024
Millan & Pam were the 2nd people I met the 1st time I walked into a Kingdom Hall back in 1987. They taught me so much about Jehovah and how to live a life pleasing to him. I've always told them & considered them my spiritual parents. Jehovah gives us so much family and even when life changes & distance occurs, that doesn't change. I love you all & I can't wait until the love of your life, your mother, grandmother, daughter, Aunt, friend & everything else Pam was to all of us is resurrected & we're all together again in Jehovah's new system.
Rachel Covey
September 9, 2023
The night Brody was born
Jacek and Ula Miloszewski
September 9, 2023
We met Pamela and Milan and their son and daughter-in-law Joshua and Casie in the summer of 2019 in wonderful circumstances. We had the unique opportunity to host them during delegate day and we immediately fell in love with them. What particularly caught our attention was how cheerful and smiling Pamela was. I thought that her son Joshua, whom I really liked and am still in contact with, had her smile and joke. I feel very sorry for your father and you, my dear brother. We love you.
Steven Gooden
September 9, 2023
Steve/Glynis Gooden,
I met her back in the seventies, she and her best friend Nola were faithful friends serving their God together. It turned out that I married Pam´s best friend in (1978) with the approval of the entire (Nash family ) Pam was our maid of honor, and she remained my greatest inspiration and support after the death (March 2006) of her friend. I know that she loved Milan so much, and I want to return the support and inspiration as a true brother, it is owed to you, from my Sister Pam, and our Father Jehovah.
To be continued,
always
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Sharon Ormeggi
September 8, 2023
I was fortunate to spend time in the ministry with Pam. On a hot summer day, one incident that happened while working a rural territory surprised both of us. As we turned into a driveway, the brakes on my car went out. We flew uphill toward the house. I kept trying to stop the car. We were both screaming. Finally, it stopped two feet from the porch. An elderly couple were sitting on the porch. As we got out of the car the man shouted, "Come on up and sit a spell. You look like you could use a glass of iced tea." We were really shaken, but they had no idea we nearly crashed into their porch. After using their phone, we sat a spell waiting on the tow truck and a ride home. We were able to give an encouraging witness and place the magazines. As we were about to leave, they waved and shouted, "Come back and see us anytime.
We would recall that incident many times and have a good laugh. I loved her dearly.
To all of the family, my deepest heartfelt sympathy
Sharon Ormeggi
Jim and Beth Howard
September 6, 2023
Dear Stoffan family, it´s been some time since we were together.We met back in the late 80´s in Columbia Md. You were living in the Deep Run mobile park. We recall the many trips we took together with our families camping and in the ministry. You were so kind and supportive a truly special couple. We will always cherish the time together and pray that Jehovah will give each of you the strength to endure your pain. Knowing Jehovah´s promises it won´t be long and you will hear Pam´s laughter and feel her loving arms hugging each of you.Continue to prepare now for the days ahead it won´t be long. Love, Jim and Beth Howard
Jeremy Wagner
September 5, 2023
The Stoffans had myself and a friend over for dinner one night...the invitation was unexpected and I knew that was a privilege. I know the Stoffans are always very hospitable...something that their boys have definitely inherited. I remember walking into the kitchen to find Pam and Casey making the Cornish Hens stand and go through a dance routine...it was a classic family sitcom moment. There was music playing, laughter and the smell of a wonderful dinner being prepared. It was a wonderful moment that makes me laugh and smile every time I think about it.
Robin McCarter
September 5, 2023
Pamela's smile is what I will always remember when I think of her. She was always willing to answer a question and help find a solution. She will be missed.
Gladys Monroe
September 5, 2023
Gladys Monroe
September 5, 2023
Andrea Allen
September 5, 2023
A year, I joined the VCU family and Pam welcomed me with such a beautiful smile and kind words. I will remember Pam's amazing style in clothes (very fashionable) not to mention she always looked flawless from head to toe. I'd joke with her whenever our paths crossed in the clinic and say " Pam, you belong in a fashion magazine, one day I'll be looking to see you on a cover page." Little did she know I often said this to her so I could hear her laugh....then I would laugh..... We'd say, " laughter is good for the soul." She brightened my day and I will truly miss her presence in the clinic. Rest peacefully and warm condolences to the family.
Andrea Allen
Co-worker
Christian Bergman
September 5, 2023
Pam was a kind and generous soul. At work, she carried a constant smile and helped all around her. Her absence continues to hurt but her memory is a blessing for us all. Rest in peace Pam. You will always be missed. ~ Christian Bergman
Arlene Rollins
September 5, 2023
Pam and I would share time at the water cooler. We would catch up on mutual friends, how we spent personal time and jut enjoyable moment together. What I will miss most is her kind words, and her warmth. She was truly so kind and caring. She always had a smile, a wave, a hug to offer.
Pam is a special lady and I will miss her.
Rest in peace Pam,
Arlene Rollins
Nurse Practitioner
Suzanne Folkerts
September 4, 2023
Her smile, her laugh, being so quick with her jokes - so many wonderful memories. The last time I got to see Pam, she made sure I knew she got to hug my daughter before I did after she was baptized - and I wouldn´t have had it any other way. My heart aches for the family and I´m so sorry for your tremendous loss.
Erin Sorzano
September 3, 2023
Erin Sorzano
September 3, 2023
Shawn and Carole Sillman
September 3, 2023
We have so many great memories! The big red van every week Saturday morning was such a big part of our lives! And let´s not forget the Jeremiah drama! To all the family, we are so saddened to hear this and pray that you can receive comfort and feel all the many prayers going up in your behalf. We love you all and will continue to pray for your peace and comfort.
Ernesto Molina
September 3, 2023
We gonna miss a really good friend!
Kristi Rickard
September 3, 2023
We had a part on the school together. The setting was the airport, she was scripted as a disinterested passenger, and she totally took on the part! I was caught off- guard by her shunning me so boldly I had to try not to laugh. It was great. She never did anything half-way and I enjoyed working with her in any assignment. Oh, and that was a substitute part- she was always someone I could call last minute to fill in because she was so faithful and willing. I´ll miss her so much!
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