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Patricia Van Eman Obituary
Age 81, of Mt. Lebanon, beloved wife of Robert A. Van Eman and the late Stephen Joseph Arnold; dear mother of Stephen Jr., Myra Ellen, Mary Pat (Dennis), Clifford, Kathleen (Rosceo), Brennan, Roberta, Ronald (Lynn), survived by 4 beautiful grandchildren, predeceased by her parents and brothers & sisters from Uniontown PA. Lifetime member of the Mt. Lebanon Women's Club, active member of the Mt. Lebanon PTA and the Western Centers Parents Group. Patricia was an avid golfer, bridge player and bowler. She also enjoyed singing and playing the piano. Family & friends are welcome Wednesday 2-4 & 7-9pm at FREYVOGEL-SLATER FUNERAL DIRECTORS, 112 Ft. Couch Rd., (opposite Macy's, So. Hills Village). Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Thurs. at 12:30 at St. Thomas More Church. Memorial contributions may be made to Allegheny Valley School Development Dept, 1996 Ewings Mill Road, Coraopolis, PA 15108.
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Ed and Nancy Arnold
June 11, 2009
Sorry I could not be there. Your mother was one of my favorite people. Her loving outlook affected all around her. She took top notch care of my brother when he was sick and set an example for us all. I am proud to be related by law to your mother.
Deepest sympathy,
Uncle Ed and Aunt Nancy
Tom & Laura Arnold
June 10, 2009
Dear Arnold Cousins,
I am very sad to hear of your loss. Your Mom’s gracious, humble, and happy nature always impressed me and seemed to have a naturally calming effect on me. When I see pictures of our families together at your Mt. Lebanon home, I can’t help but smile. Not sure how Aunt Pat kept her composure with all of us rascals. We were certainly very lucky to have spent time together and, like all of you, she is in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Tom (and Laura) Arnold
Joan Overman
June 10, 2009
Dear Arnold cousins,
As I am the youngest of Ed Arnold's children, most of you were grown and out of the house when I came. I remember playing the piano for Aunt Pat. She made me feel special - like a "star". My condonlences on your loss. Remember you are in my prayers always.
With deepest sympathy,
Joan (Arnold) Overman and family
Russell Arnold
June 9, 2009
To the other Arnold clan,
My condolences on your loss. I have fond memories of your Mom (Aunt Pat). I remember her unique smile and laugh and how gracious she was to let me stay with you all one summer, but mostly I remember the good times we had in the 1960's when your mother would host our large family bringing together the two Arnold clans. Wow, 11 cousins (at the time). This says a lot about her heart and how much she cared for others. Your memories of your mother are much longer than mine, but remember she lived a long full life and cherished you all. She now gets to be with those she loved that have gone before her. If I use but a few of her examples of how to live life, I will be a better person for having known her. I will remember her always and again express my deepest sympathies for your loss.
My love to you all,
Rus Arnold (and family)
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Mary Benoit
June 9, 2009
Dear Cousins,
I feel your loss and please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. One of the first things that came to my mind when thinking of Aunt Pat and you all are the Christmas Eve parties and the gatherings we had on the side porch of her home in Mt. Lebanon. I will treasure my memories and hope that your memories get you through this time.
Love you all,
Mary Benoit (and David, Christopher and Katherine)
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