Patricia Jan "Dutch" Willis

Patricia Jan "Dutch" Willis obituary, Raleigh, NC

Patricia Jan "Dutch" Willis

Patricia Willis Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 5, 2024.
Patricia Jan Willis, also known as Dutch, passed away on January 3, 2024, at the age of 80 in Raleigh, North Carolina. She was born on January 13, 1943, in the home of her Grandma and Grandpa Courser in Winn, Michigan. Dutch was a loving mother to her son, Todd Willis, and her two daughters, Julia (Willis) Zervos (Clark Zervos), Margaret (Willis) Murphy (Paul Murphy). She also cherished her role as a grandmother to Erica Pires (Paulo Pires), Lauren Jones (Taylor Jones), Mason Zervos, Billy Murphy, Kate Murphy, Charlie Murphy, and Grace Murphy. Additionally, Dutch was a great grandmother to Lucas Pires, Mateos Pires, Payton Luers, Sadie Jones, and Magnolia Jones. Her siblings Terry and Maggie Foote, Corwin and Micki Foote, Marsha and Paul Osburne, and their families.

Dutch was preceded in death by her parents, Keith and Ernestine Foote, her brother Darwin Foote, sister in law Francine Foote, and her husband Ellwyn Willis. She will be deeply missed by her family and friends.

Dutch attended Vestaburg Elementary for her primary education and later graduated from Cedar Lake Academy for high school. She continued her education and became a Licensed Practical Nurse (LPN). Dutch dedicated her career to nursing, working as an LPN in Florida.

Dutch was an active member of the Seventh Day Adventist Church, where she found solace and strength in her faith.

A graveside service will be held to honor Dutch's memory. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to the Alzheimer's research foundation, as Dutch held a deep concern for this cause.

May Patricia Jan Willis, lovingly known as Dutch, rest in peace and may her memory be cherished by all who knew and loved her.

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March 26, 2025

Allen J Courser posted to the memorial.

January 5, 2024

Paula Fisk Fardulis posted to the memorial.

January 5, 2024

Bonnie J Lehmkuhle posted to the memorial.

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Allen J Courser

March 26, 2025

Always remember the times visiting with the family when a kid. Enjoyed out visits we had in Florida also. Love you and will miss you cousin.

Paula Fisk Fardulis

January 5, 2024

As cousins, Pat and I were very close growing up. I have many fond memories of our times together. Distance between us later had to do with miles and not lack of affection. She called me days before her passing to lend consolation to the death of my husband. We spoke openly and she told me she would not be here on earth very much longer and that she was at peace with that. Her peace gave me peace with her passing. She was sure, as am I, that she was destined for a more loving place. Can't ask for more than that.

Bonnie J Lehmkuhle

January 5, 2024

Patricia and I were great friends at Vestaburg School and for years after school. I happened to talk with Pat in August 2022 when I was working on. The school reunion. We talked for over 2 hours like our friendship had never ended. Pat was such a great person and friend. She will be missed. Loving friend. Bonnie (Tubbs) Lehmkuhle

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March 26, 2025

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January 5, 2024

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