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Patrick Wells Obituary
Patrick was known for his sense of humor, gentle nature, and selflessness. He always put others before himself and was a considerate, thoughtful, and forgiving person. His charisma and loving personality endeared him to all who knew him. Patrick had a passion for making people happy, and he had a special talent for bringing joy to those around him.
In his free time, Patrick enjoyed indulging in his love for music and food. He was a true foodie and had a deep appreciation for all types of cuisine. Patrick also had a passion for fantasy fiction and was an avid reader. He loved diving into the world of imagination and getting lost in the pages of his favorite books. Additionally, he was a fan of the game show Jeopardy and had an impressive knowledge of trivia. Patrick was also a history buff and enjoyed expanding his knowledge on the subject. Puzzles were another favorite pastime of his, as they provided him with a sense of relaxation and satisfaction.
One of Patrick's favorite activities was fishing. He found solace in spending time by the water, casting his line, and enjoying the tranquility of nature. He also cherished taking naps in a cozy recliner, wrapped in a warm blanket. These moments of peaceful rest brought him much comfort and contentment.
Patrick is survived by his mother, Norma, wife Michele, his sons Shaun and Rolly, daughters Taylor and Amanda, daughter in law Kristine, brother David, and sisters Virginia, Cathy, and Mary. He was a loving grandfather to his grandson Shaun Jr. (SJ) and had a special bond with him. Patrick was predeceased by his father, Alvin Lewis Wells, Jr.
Patrick's professional career was centered around his passion for cooking. He worked as a former chef and cook, delighting countless people with his culinary creations. His talent in the kitchen was unmatched, and he had a natural ability to bring flavors to life. Patrick's dedication to his craft was evident in every dish he prepared.
In memory of Patrick, contributions can be made to the American Cancer Society. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to this organization to support their vital work in fighting cancer.
Patrick Allen Wells will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him. His legacy of love, kindness, and culinary excellence will forever live on in the hearts of his family and friends.
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Michele Wells
January 29, 2025
A Letter to My Husband on the One Year Anniversary of His Death
My amazing Prince,
Yesterday marked a year that you passed. I'm still here, I still love you and still miss you more than words can say. There's a hole in my heart that constantly aches... a pain with no home. Much has happened in a year, and yet, it still feels like yesterday.
Losing you has not been easy for any of us, not that we thought it would be. We still don't know how to move on, how to deal with the pain and have no idea what to do with this time. The days and nights are so long.
I never knew I could miss someone so much. Twenty years was a long time and now to be doing this alone, it just doesn't feel fair. But I know I'm not alone, you're still here with me, with us, protecting us now as we did for you.
I believe my love for you has deepened since you've gone, because I replay that conversation we had two days before you left. I didn't understand it then, but I do now, and it made me realize, that although we weren't sure of the outcome those last days, you must have known or suspected. I will never forget your words and feel so honored to be your wife.
While I should have spent the rest of my life with you, to know that you spent the rest of yours with me brings me enormous comfort, because you loved me till you went away and I will continue to love you till we meet again.
I miss you every hour of the day. The ache of loss has not lessened. My love for you remains constant. I´d give anything to have you come back to me, but I wouldn't want to see you in so much pain again. I hear your words to me each day, "Keep going, Shell, you got this. You're strong, you can do this, I'm with you and love you always".
And so, I keep going.
I miss you, and I love you, Always
Shell
Wait for me, I'll meet you here.... where the ocean meets the sky.
Amanda Buday
January 28, 2025
Gone From My Sight- Henry Van Dyke
I am standing upon the seashore. A ship, at my side, spreads her white sails to the moving breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength.I stand and watch her until, at length, she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.
Then, someone at my side says, "There, she is gone." Gone where? Gone from my sight. That is all. She is just as large in mast, hull and spar as she was when she left my side. And, she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destined port.
Her diminished size is in me -- not in her.And, just at the moment when someone says, "There, she is gone," there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the glad shout, "Here she comes!"
Love you bud.
Carol Buday
March 10, 2024
Thank you Pat for being a good stepdad to my grandkids all these years. I enjoyed your jokes. May you rest in peace.
Amanda Buday
February 24, 2024
The things that use to annoy and frustrate me are some of the things I miss the most. The way you could never close a drawer all the way. Candy wrappers on the floor and in clothes. Puzzle pieces that you lost along the way. Spilling your drinks in the freezer and on the floor when you would get ice. The tv being super loud from the room.
The simplest things gave you joy. Like when someone made you laugh and you would say, "Okay, that just made my whole day." Or how after a good shower you say, "Whew, I needed that." Your love of a basic burger and fries and your odd choice of old fashion candies.
I miss hearing your finger taps while you listen to music and you quietly singing along. Seeing you watch car auctions, history shows, football, golf and fishing. Hearing you play along to Jeopardy. I miss hearing your voice and hearing you walk down the hall.
I desperately wish that things worked out differently for you. You deserved better. You always said how you weren´t going to give up. How you were going to throw everything you had to it till the end, and how you´re not a quitter. You did all of that and then some. You fought so hard and so long with dignity and courage. Even when you said you were scared or irritated or tired, you showed up till the very end. I´m so proud of you and I wish I told you that more. And if this had to be your journey again, though I wish it weren´t, I would honorably be by your side again. We said how we were kind of in this thing together and as heartbroken as I am that you´re gone, I´m glad that I was able to be alongside you the whole way.
I miss you more than I could´ve imagined. You were a gentle, kind hearted, brave human who I will forever hold dearly. You did good bud. I love you.
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Melanie Lulue
February 5, 2024
Sending my deepest condolences with love and hugs. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. I'm just a phone call or text away.
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Michele Wells
February 4, 2024
It's so hard to come up with only one memory, a first memory or even a best memory, because you've given me so many memories, and although they haven't always been good memories, they are OUR memories. You could make me laugh like no one else, and give me at least one joke a day. You were there for me when I needed it the most and were there for the kids.
It amazed me how you could meet someone once and have them become a lifetime friend, how you could cook anything and how could you talk for hours about history. For twenty-years, I've always been able to say what I needed to say and now I'm at a loss. I have no idea how to process this. Every day you showed strength and the will to fight. Even in your last days and hours, you tried so hard to show how brave you were even though I know you were struggling. The way you loved us till the end and told us continually, will live on in us. We love you and miss you immensely. You will forever be my White Knight. When my time comes, I'll meet you where the sea meets the sky... and I hope you'll be waiting for me. Always yours, your Shell.
Michele Wells
February 2, 2024
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Mary Wells
February 1, 2024
My brother Pat was a kind and gentle soul. I am unable to pick just one memory to share because to select one wouldn´t be fair to the others that mean so much to me. I will say that Pat never met a stranger. To meet him and talk with him was to walk away with a friend for life. He could talk about fishing, cooking or his kids for hours. Each of those topics would bring an undeniable twinkle to his eyes. Although life was not always easy for him, he always chose to see the bright side. Even in his darkest days, he never gave up hope. I may not have seen him everyday or very often but when I did we picked up right where we left off. He was an amazing man that will be missed terribly. Rest in peace gentle soul. You have left an indelible mark on the lives you touched. You were loved.
Mary Wells
February 1, 2024
Ginny Wells
January 31, 2024
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Ginny Wells
January 31, 2024
I find it hard to pick one memory of my brother Pat. He´s the guy that would give you the shirt off his back and the last dollar in his pocket. He was a hard worker and loved to share his love of cooking. I can make awesome bbq ribs because of him. He was kind and sweet but strong and determined at the same time. He will be forever remembered as the guy who brought this crazy girl home from work with him one night because she had no where else to go. She came with a hefty garbage bag full of socks. No idea why. He was always bringing home strays. He loved to fish and could filet one like no other. We enjoyed many Marlin games together. I will miss him forever. Rest in peace my sweet Pat. You fought hard and deserve only peace. Thank you for being my brother.
Jennifer Breitkopf
January 30, 2024
It was a super honor to have met this wonderful guy which is Taylor Wells father RIP
Taylor Jeffery
January 30, 2024
I remember all the fun times we had fishing and goofing off. It was a wonderful time and I´m proud to call him dad. He was so special and he will be missed.
Ginny Wells
January 30, 2024
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