Paul Curtin

1954 - 2020

Paul Curtin obituary, 1954-2020, New York, NY

Paul Curtin

1954 - 2020

Paul Curtin Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 13, 2020.
Paul Curtin
April 11, 1954 - December 4, 2020
New York, New York - Paul Scott Curtin was born on April 11, 1954 in San Francisco, California to Victor Thomas and Mary Louise Scott Curtin. He grew up in Miami, Florida, with his sisters Jane, Gail, Anne and Joy. His father, Victor, was instrumental in founding the Bascom Palmer Eye Institute where he spent his career as an esteemed ophthalmologist.
Growing up, Paul developed a keen interest in tennis, playing daily at the Royal Palm Tennis Club, along with other members of his family. In high school, he attended the Ransom Everglades School, where he played on the varsity tennis team which won the state championships in 1972. Paul enjoyed playing competitive junior tennis in Florida throughout his childhood years achieving state rankings in the 16- and 18-and-unders. He took a job sweeping the tennis courts nightly at Royal Palm to help pay for his school tuition costs. Here he began his lifetime habit of practicing what became his excellent "lefty serve."
Paul attended Harvard College for one year and then completed his bachelor's degree in American History in 1978 at the University of Miami where he played on the Men's Tennis Team. After college, Paul briefly played the men's satellite circuit before settling down in New York City to teach tennis, first at the Midtown Tennis Center and later at the East River Tennis Club.
In 2003, Paul's colleague and good friend, Paul Campbell, recruited him to direct the Junior Development Program at the Prospect Park Tennis Center in Brooklyn, New York. There Paul and Paul worked closely together, along with the leadership of the Prospect Park Alliance, to realize their vision of a vibrant, community-based tennis center offering a wide variety of programs and opportunities to children and adults alike. Working in Brooklyn marked an important shift in Paul's career. Although he continued to coach adults, he worked tirelessly to develop a thriving junior development program which would become his crowning achievement. Paul demonstrated unparalleled sensitivity in his work with the children and their parents. He built the the Prospect Park Junior Development Program from the ground up. The program operates year-round and serves over 1,000 children annually, many of whom receive scholarships. Paul's dedication and expertise made him a legend within the diverse community of Brooklyn youth tennis. His legacy will live on in every child and adult and whose development he selflessly fostered.
In recent years, Paul also volunteered his time to the nonprofit organization, "Kids on the Ball," which aims to "teach life lessons through tennis" to disadvantaged youth. Paul traveled with the organization to Cuba and New Orleans and volunteered several days per week this summer at the organization's flagship program in Burlington, Vermont, where Paul retreated to spend time with his girlfriend, Mary, during the height of the coronavirus pandemic.
Most memorable about Paul, however, are the dimensions of his character and personality that shown through both on the tennis court and off. Paul was warm, engaging, personable, funny, kind, graceful, discerning, and intelligent. In short, he was "great company." His genuine interest in others naturally drew them to him and generated many strong friendships, close family ties, and an abundance of mutually enjoyable relationships of all sorts. In addition to tennis and people, Paul loved music, physical exercise/athletics, humor, good food, beer, cultural pursuits, the great outdoors, and playing with dogs. He will be missed in ways that elude expression in words.
Paul died on December 4, 2020 at Maimonides Hospital in Brooklyn, NY, where he was taken following a cardiac arrest that occurred shortly after his arrival at work at the Tennis Center on November 21. During his two-week hospitalization, he never regained consciousness. Paul is survived by his sisters, Jane Curtin of Westchester, New York; Gail Curtin of Miami, Florida; and Joy Curtin Tompkins of Fort Lauderdale, Florida, as well as his girlfriend/life partner, Mary G. Kirkpatrick of Burlington, Vermont. Paul was predeceased by his sister, Anne, and his parents, Victor and Mary Lou.
Memorial services to celebrate Paul's life will be announced by the family at a later date (presumably post-pandemic). A Junior Tennis Scholarship Fund honoring his legacy has been set up in his name by the Prospect Park Alliance. Donations may be made to the fund online at: Donate.prospectpark.org/paulcurtin.

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May 11, 2024

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December 7, 2023

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Craig Massey

May 11, 2024

Paul was the real deal. Kind and talented. He was a role
model for many Palmetto students showing from a public high school you could go to Harvard University then give back so much from your life skills as he did with tennis....
God bless,
Craig Massey

Andrew Udis

December 7, 2023

A great tennis player and a great guy

RON FISHER

March 9, 2023

As a teenager in Miami in the late 70s, I taught junior tennis camp with Paul's sister Anne one summer and took a series of lessons from Paul. Paul was a gifted tennis player with such fluid, elegant strokes that, once seen, could not be forgotten. He was a great teacher even back then (in his early teaching days): so intelligent, thoughtful, patient, and encouraging. That was 47 years ago and I still remember him and the terrific lessons. We have lost a wonderful person and teacher.

Francesca Maxime

June 14, 2021

Paul had a kind heart, a generous spirit, and patience in droves. Humility and humor combined. While he may have spent the majority of his time developing the kids programs in Brooklyn at PPTC, he was generous with his teaching of adult clinics also, where we met. I am both shocked and saddened to learn of Paul's loss and know he lives on in the hearts and minds, and serves and volleys of many. Life is unpredictable. May all who knew him carry forward his grace and appreciation for planting seeds of goodness in our own communities, as he has. Warmly, Francesca

Patience Plumer Flick

February 28, 2021

What a great guy and a very bright family. I played with Jane at RPTC for years. Seems like all those kids were brilliant and accomplished. Terrible to lose him so soon. My heart goes out to his family.

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Ed

December 28, 2020

I met Paul at BTC this summer for the first time and was fortunate enough to play some tennis in the Friday AM clinics with him. I immediately appreciated his humor, good will, and pleasant fun personality. I am sorry for your loss.

Vicki (Bennett) Homer

December 24, 2020

Dear Jane, Gail, and Joy, We are so saddened by this profound loss. Paul was a gentleman on and off the courts. He will be remembered for his warm smile and witty humor. We have nothing but fond memories of Paul playing tennis, listening to jazz and "shooting the breeze." He will be missed by many and thought of often.
With sympathy and love, The Bennetts: Vicki, Kari, Bruce, and Sue

Andrew Udis

December 24, 2020

A class act and a damn good tennis player

December 20, 2020

Both my sons were students of Paul's, and truly loved him. He was so caring, so deeply connected to the kids he taught. He will be missed immeasurably by the Brooklyn community, and the children who cherished him.

Jodi Appelbaum-Steinbauer

December 16, 2020

I knew Paul and his lovely family growing up in Jr. Tennis in Miami. Many years later , I had the pleasure of seeing him at Prospect Park. He was telling me about the wonderful Jr. program they had there. He was so excited about the program. You could see his passion for the children. He will be greatly missed. My heart goes out to his sisters. May his memory be a blessing.

Patience

December 14, 2020

What a great guy and a remarkable family. Wish we could go back to the good ol’ days of RPTC. He seems to have lived an exemplar life and will be missed. I’m so sorry he’s gone.

Lori and Scott Brown

December 14, 2020

We knew Paul a little from tennis in Vermont. Even the little we knew him it was evident how kind and fun he was. What a loss to the tennis community and to his family. We especially send condolences to Mary. Our love and hugs to you,
Lori and Scott Brown

S Chambers

December 14, 2020

My condolences to the family. May you find comfort in your treasured memories and Gods promise to return our loved ones. 1st Thessalonians 4:13 & 14 .

Simone Taylor

December 13, 2020

No one can prepare you for a loss; it comes like a swift wind. However, take comfort in knowing God is with you and your family lean on him in your time of need. Please accept my most heartfelt condolences.

John H. (Jack) Hickey

December 13, 2020

Paul was a good guy. I knew him from school, either Pinecrest Elementary, Palmetto Jr. High, or Palmetto Sr. High. I also saw Paul at catechism class at Epiphany and saw him at Royal Palm Tennis Club. He was soft spoken and smiled easily. This is terrifically sad news. I see that he accomplished a lot and touched and improved the lives of many, many people. May God bless his family.

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