Peter John "PJ" Feeney Jr.

Peter John "PJ" Feeney Jr.

Peter Feeney Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 6 to May 7, 2007.
EASTHAM - Peter John 'PJ' Feeney, Jr., 60, formerly of Wellesley, died at Cape Cod Hospital on Sunday, April 29, 2007.

PJ was born on August 25, 1946, in Boston, and grew up in Dorchester, Hingham, Westboro, and Wellesley.

He graduated from Wellesley High School in 1964 and received his B.A. in history in 1969 and M.Ed. from the University of Massachusetts, Amherst, in 1975.

After teaching high school students in Philadelphia, (The School Without Walls, Parkway Program) and Newport, Vt., PJ joined the Peace Corps and served in Malacca, Malaysia, with the focus on public-health education.

His international career later included aid-related projects for public health (for example, gravity-feed water supply systems in rural areas) and public-health education in Jumla, Nepal; Kota Kinabalu (Sabah), Malaysia; Tanzania; and Haiti (Eye Care organization).

PJ was fluent in the Malay language. He also spent time in Homer, Alaska, with a king-crab cannery operation.

More recently, he ran a landscaping business on Cape Cod, managed operations for a recycling business south of Boston, and worked in marketing for a computer software firm in the Washington, D.C., area.

PJ was an adventurous traveler, a rugged hiker and cross-country skier, a voracious reader, and a captivating storyteller. He ran the Boston Marathon, and hiked the Long Trail from the Massachusetts-Vermont border to the Canadian border.

He was an avid chess player (including blindfolded), who taught the game's strategy to many others via chess clinics.

In his later years, PJ enjoyed sailing with the Nauset Sea Scouts, including cruises to Maine and with the Tall Ships in Boston and New York.

He was a member of the Orleans-Eastham Elks Club.

PJ is survived by his mother, Lillian Pearl Feeney; his sisters, Maureen Holmes, Joanne Petersen, and Cheryl Feeney; his brother, Jim Feeney; sister-in-law, Kyoko Feeney; son, Faresh Onn, his companion, Elizabeth Rowley, and many nieces, nephews, and cousins.

He was predeceased by his father, Peter John Feeney.

PJ was a loyal friend and leaves many friends on Cape Cod, in the Boston area, around New England, the United States, and in the aforementioned foreign countries.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, 44 Binney St., Boston, MA 02115; or to the First Parish Brewster Unitarian Universalist Church, 1 Harwich Road, Brewster, MA 02631.

A memorial service will be held at First Parish Brewster Unitarian Universalist Church, 1969 Main St., Brewster on Friday, May 11 at 11 a.m., with a lunch reception to be held immediately afterward at the Old Sea Pines Inn, 2553 Main St., Brewster.

Arrangements by Nickerson Funeral Home, Orleans, 508-255-0259.

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February 9, 2014

john collins posted to the memorial.

April 2, 2013

Peter Angel posted to the memorial.

February 27, 2013

Faresh Onn posted to the memorial.

john collins

February 9, 2014

I met PJ in Jumla Nepal in 1981 where I was in the Peace Corps and he was a health worker. He was a whirlwind. I have fond memories of playing chess with him. He really taught me chess. Cover the middle four squares! Anyway, he showed up in the middle of nowhere when I needed a friend. He helped me. I am sure it is how a lot of people feel about him.

Peter Angel

April 2, 2013

I worked for PJ on Cape Cod in the mid 1980s and have fond memories of my time with him. He was a larger than life character, and the world is a poorer place without him.

Faresh Onn

February 27, 2013

For all the times I missed wishing you a happy birthday dad. As you know we're not that great when it comes with dates. Haha. Rest well dad.
Your son,
Faresh

Faresh Onn

February 20, 2013

Just thinking of you dad.

T. Faresh Onn

February 11, 2012

Didn't know my father all too well and met him only once when I was 20 back in the 90's. Wish I could have known him better. Few days after his passing managed to catch a flight to the cape and visit long lost relatives and friends of his. It was good to know that he had friends and family who loved him so. They even said that I look and sound just like him especially when I laugh. Thanks everyone for sharing.

Yours truly,
T. Faresh Onn (Malaysia)

David Baldacci

October 29, 2011

I knew PJ from the Peace Corp, in Malaysia. Quite a memorable person. I came across his obituary today, somewhat by accident. It looks like he accomplished a great deal.
Peace

Kathy Chesnut (Vaudrin)

May 9, 2007

I hope you won't mind my writing an entry in the guest book. I live in Anchorage, AK and several weeks ago started thinking about PJ Feeney and wondering what had become of him. I knew him the year he attended Alaska Methodist University in 1972-'73, and had lost touch with him after last corresponding in the early '80's. I was so very surprised to come upon this obituary. He truly was a special person, as full of life and fun as anyone I've met since. I remember him well, walking the campus in his wool clothes and mountain boots, a portable chess game always at hand. I was forever stumbling upon him in the alcoves around campus, deeply immersed in a chess game with whomever would play. His laughter usually preceded him in the halls, and I remember it more than his voice. His zest for life was one of his most memorable qualities - he was a person who could have added so much to our state by settling here, but one could tell by the sparkle in his eye that wanderlust was a passion with him. My sincere condolences to his loved ones.

Julie Power

May 7, 2007

I am fortunate to have many wonderful memories of "The Mighty Peej," stirring up a roomful of people with his raucous recollections and vivid storytelling. I will miss him, but am glad to be able to share these memories with his family.

The Staff of Nickerson Funeral Home

May 7, 2007

We wish to extend our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.

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