Philip M. Juliano

Philip M. Juliano

Philip Juliano Obituary

Published by The Press of Atlantic City on Mar. 8, 2007.


JULIANO, PHILIP M., 32 - of Somers Point died at home on March 6, 2007. Fil 13 was a larger than life figure with a zest and love for living that was legendary among his friends and family. An internationally renowned tattoo artist working out of his shop, Hot Rod Tattoo in Atlantic City, Fil was a featured artist at conventions throughout the United States and Europe. His work has been featured numerous times in magazines and newspapers and can be seen proudly displayed on his many clients. A tough and true warrior, Fil had a heart filled with love. Those who knew him found him to be fiercely loyal, generous and a true friend for life. Those who crossed him, his family or friends, feared for their lives. He was that big and that real. Fil was also the owner and founder of Aggressive Clothing which featured his cutting edge designs. He traveled extensively, each trip resulting in adventures that will be talked about for years by those who accompanied him. He loved performance cars, concerts, Sunday morning breakfasts and shocking the hell out of the rest of us! Fil leaves behind his beautiful and loving four-year-old daughter, Marla DeFeo-Juliano, and her mother, Rachel; his parents Jacqueline and Richard Juliano; his inseparable brother, Richard, Jr., whom he adored; his grandmother Joann Juliano; his aunts Kathleen Doles, Bonnie Lunsford, Christine Melamed, Michelle Juliano, Linda Juliano, Chris Curran, Cheli Curran and Patty Balbo; his uncles Michael Curran, John Curran, Matt Curran, Al Juliano, Joe Juliano and Bryan Doles; his cousin and brother in heart Christopher Alcoba; his "nieces to pieces" Devon and Kelly Doles; many cousins including Joseph, Sierra, Caitlyn, Kyle, Amy, Jennifer, Matthew, Jake, Michelle, Kimberly, Rebecca, Connor, Nikita and Godchild Mia Alcoba; his friend and partner Buffy; his lifelong best friend Terri Byrne and Godchild Kaitlyn; good friends and comrades in arms Chip, Scottie and Jeff; the Rothhouse-Guerrina Clan as well as other friends and loves of his life - you know who you are! Relatives and friends are invited to pay their respects from 9:30AM to 11:45AM on Saturday, March 10 at St. Joseph R.C. Church, Shore Rd, Somers Point. Mass will be celebrated 12 noon. Burial private. Funeral under the direction of the Middleton-Stroble & Zale Funeral Home, Somers Point. The family requests that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to "Marla DeFeo-Juliano's Education Fund" c/o Patricia Ferry, Ocean City Home Bank, 6302 Ventnor Avenue, Ventnor, NJ 08406. It was Fil's desire that his passing not be a source of grief but a cause to celebrate a life that was lived to the fullest. A man among lesser men, Fil will never be forgotten by all those who knew him. And don't be surprised if you feel his presence near you now and then, for giants can do anything they want and legends never really die.

This obituary was originally published in The Press of Atlantic City.

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December 13, 2024

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Beppi

June 24, 2025

The Juliano family!! Man I can´t believe this is already 2025!! I miss Phill so much he was my rock after my dad past it rocked my mother, family, etc!! Phil was a larger than life and he had a heart of gold along with his talents, love for his daughter, family, friends!! Seriously this is one of those passings I myself will never get over and I will always be so grateful to have a brother like you Phil!!! my heart goes out to his parents and daughter, literally everyone else who had the privilege to have him as a friend and family!! Love to the Juliano´s for the life Of Phil, all the love and support he gave us!! God bless Phil you know I will always love you brother

Matt Curran

December 13, 2024

Remembering my Nephew on his 50th. You left a big hole down here that will never be filled. And when I say big, I mean BIG! I don’t know what the hell your Mom fed you, but if definitely wasn’t what my Mom fed me! Rest In Peace

John Curran

December 13, 2024

Happy Fil13! I greeted everyone that way today...Eternal Love, John

Kathleen Doles

December 13, 2024

HAPPY 50th BIRTHDAY my sweet nephew!! You were a bright spot here in life, I am sure you are lighting up the heavens with your smile!!!
Love you,
Aunt Kat

Jaci juliano

December 9, 2024

Friday December 13 will be our Philip´s 50th Birthday!
Happy Birthday to you!!!
Please share a memory in his honor!
With all our love to all of you!
Mom and Dad Juliano

Bryan McCloud

January 23, 2024

Fil and the Juliano Family- I can´t tell you what brought me here on a random Tuesday in January. I often think of you as you were a larger than life figure. When you showed up to Rich´s bday party at the batting cage/water ballon place when we 10 (maybe wrong year?!?!?) I just remember thinking you were a giant.
I love watching Rich be a dad. His kids are classic. I love watching them skateboard on the same somers point streets we did as kids. Saw your mom a few weeks back In a big old Fil 13 sweatshirt. Miss you big man

Nicholas Brennan

December 17, 2023

Hey Phil. Just saying Merry Christmas. Hope you are having a good time in heaven. One day I'll do the driving for another trip to North Carolina. Best wishes and blessings to the Juliano family and you!

Caren Faisst-Darnae

December 15, 2023

I have a lapboard i use, that's a million years old, & i look at the Fil 13 sticker on it and think of you every time i use it. It's the one that looks like a can of spam. lol. It goes without saying that the 13 tattoo i received from you, one Fri the 13th took on a new meaning for me after you left us. I miss the times back then. Hot Topic, Hot Rod, Lady Luck, Absecon, conversations about life. I miss your face. Mom & Dad Juliano and family.... Phil is remembered by me and often. Sometimes I get reminders to post here and I don't but it is not because I have forgotten. I cannot believe Marla is 21! Sending so much love~! Merry Christmas.

Mom & Dad Juliano

December 14, 2023

To all dear family and friends: Please continue to leave notes on this site; It means so much and keeps us strong. Love to all and have a very Merry Christmas!

Jaci Juliano

December 13, 2023

P.S. I forgot to tell you that cuz Michele won Chef of the year in Las Vegas! WOW

Jaci juliano

December 13, 2023

There is so much news to share - our Sweet Marla is now 21! and we will not talk about how old I will be in January shh hush Don't tell. Daddy and I are doing pretty well and the Grands are keeping us busy. We love and miss you so much but I am sure you already know that. Marla comes here at least every month and she, Lucy, and Ollie are always huddled together doing all sorts of Art! hmm I knew you would like that! WHOA Next year you will hit the big 50 and we hope to have a party for you! Again, Happy Birthday!

To all family and friends: Please continue to share; It keeps us strong knowing that Fil is not forgotten!

December 13, 2023

Happy Birthday dearest nephew! We all miss you so very much - miss your smile!! We were just recounting the great Thanksgiving whipped cream war - stories that will live forever!!!

Love, Aunt Kat ❤

Jaci & Rich Juliano

December 13, 2023

Happy Birthday 49th Birthday to our dear boy!

March 15, 2023

I’m not really sure what led me here tonight. Phil just kind of popped into my head. He bought me my first drink on my 21st..many, many, many years ago, lol. He was one of my favorite people so many years before that though. Much love to his family and friends.

December 14, 2022

Philip, I spoke to Marla today. She just turned 20 on the 7thwow!

Mary B

December 14, 2022

Mrs J, I see your message below. He is remembered more often than you might imagine. I’ve moved “home” and am now often in places where I’d run into him after we were out of high school and we’d chat it up, always (he was always on some great adventure, it seemed). Some of those places don’t even exist anymore or are something else now but I’m reminded of him. “We” collectively are missing a number of people already that, for our age is just too high, from our grad class and many of those people were his friends. I’d like to think they are all together now, watching over all of us who were left behind- family & friends, helping keep us safe and laughing at us (a lot, an awful lot!). Please know he will never be forgotten.

December 14, 2022

I wondered all day yesterday if anyone would remember our son’s 48th birthday and you did. Thank you so much. Thirteens are everywhere, Philip.
We love youMom and Dad

Kathleen

December 13, 2022

Happy Bithday my dearest nephew! ❤

Love,
Aunt Kat

Ray

May 24, 2022

Thinking of you buddy.

Mom

February 25, 2022

Please continue to share with us. What a wonderful gift this has been from Philip´s Dad and Aunt Kathleen. Thanks to everyone who leaves a note now and then. We love and appreciate every story, wish, and memory! Love to all! ( ps to Devon...Congratulations... Uncle Fil is so happy, I´m sure)

Angel Brown (Everwine)

February 27, 2021

I posted this on my Facebook yesterday, and wanted to share

Was just lookin at my first tattoo....the one you did for me when you first started out....had me go to yuh cuzn's house in Ventnor....I laid across 2 dining room chairs in a bikini for almost 2 hours, not the most comfortable lol.
I was suppose to get a halo with wings on my hip.....instead I got Fil not quite 13 lol....that was right after high school.
Fast forward ten years.... I ran into you the end of Feb 2007 and we made plans for me to come to HotRod to get it fixed, something you were eager to do, 2 weeks from then.
Sadly, before that day could come, you were gone.
Since then, I wear my tattoo proudly and will never change it. I am so blessed to have an original from the early days❤ Miss u Fil 13
Rise in Power

Nicholas Brennan

December 15, 2020

Merry Christmas Phil. I know you can see everything where your at. Probably getting a kick out of what earth has become. Blessings to the Juliano family. See ya :o)

December 13, 2020

Happy Birthday to you, dear Philip, our first born. We love and miss you so. Marla turned 18 last week. Oh, my! Sleep tight Sweetie !

December 13, 2019

Happy Birthday dearest nephew, you are sorely missed!!
Love,
Aunt Kat

Jaci Juliano

April 8, 2019

Just wanted to share that I often read over every post that is here and it takes a while and it helps me ( and I know my husband does the same). I thank all of you from the bottom of my heart for this amazing gift. Please continue to share with us (including Fil) all of your stories, thoughts, and love. It means so much and keeps us strong.... Love , Mom

March 6, 2019

Found pictures of Godfather Fil holding Mia and remembering that day - you looked amazing!!! We all love & miss you so much. Memories of you fill our hearts, and we laugh just as hard today at some of the stories as we did when they happened!
Love you,
Aunt Kat

March 6, 2019

Cannot sleep, miss you so much., love you so much more....Mom

Nick Brennan

March 3, 2019

Thinking of you Phil. I always will remember you :o)

March 9, 2017

Monday, March 6th was 10 years. Sometimes it feels so fresh and other days it is like an ache that comes out of nowhere. To say we miss you doesn't truely express what we feel in our hearts and minds. Marla is 14 now and eerily like you. She is a gifted artist and an aspiring writer with quick wit, expressive language and insight well beyond her years. She is so smart yet so lazy about it; sound familiar? I really expected messages to be left here but maybe it is too hard. I know it feels that way for me but I am so glad this venue is here for us when we need it.
So much love, Mom

Nick Brennan

January 30, 2016

Love you bud. I remember when we went to N.C. State back in 1993. What a roadtrip that was. Hope one day we can sit back and laugh about how stupid we were when we were young. Love ya.

Partying like always

Ray G

January 28, 2016

You come up often, some days more than others. Today was one of those days. Me and Danielle were reminiscing today in particular. Wish I woulda went out with u that last night you called me to go to white trash Wednesday but it is what it is. Miss you comrade, broke the mold and took it with you. Wish you were around to meet my son. See u again someday brother.

December 13, 2014

Happy Birthday Fil. We drank and toasted to your honor tonight. Your mother drank a lot of wine.
Bob

December 13, 2014

Happy Birthday Big Guy!

All our Love Forever,

Mom & Dad

Karleigh

October 11, 2014

I miss you.

Molly

April 16, 2014

Missing You

Kelly Doles

December 13, 2013

Happy Birthday Uncle Fil! I miss you so much. I wish you were here with us. Keep watching over me up there. I love you! Legends never die.

Love 1/2 of your nieces to pieces, (your favorite)
Kelly

December 13, 2013

Happy Birthday! Miss you!!! Love, Aunt Kat

Karleigh

December 13, 2013

Happy Birthday!

Dad

December 3, 2013

We throwing a big one for you on Friday, December 13, 2013!!
But, I guess you already know it...

Dirty Chris

September 29, 2013

The back alleys and dive bars of AC ain't the same without ya big guy.We miss you brother. ACAC

August 14, 2013

I miss you tons. Sometimes I just lay awake thinking about how hard it was loosing you. You were an amazing person I love you and miss you so much <3

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Bryan McCloud

June 19, 2013

Thinking about you big man! I am glad you went from Rich's older brother to my tattoo artist, person I tried to copy and friend. Thinking about your daughter, mom, dad and my boy Rich out in Cali.
- McCloud

Lance Goodthrust

June 6, 2013

Don't worry Phil. Lance G is still alive. I made sure of it.

March 6, 2013

I love and miss you <3 six years ago today heaven gained an angel :* mwah

mandi

February 2, 2013

I was out of juice and had to force myself to drink crystal light. I still think its disgusting, and you'll never convince me otherwise! But since i couldn't stop thinking about you, (and i was really thirsty) i ran out to get some Smirnoff triple black, but they didn't have it.. so i settled for mikes hard lemonade (hehe... dork!!). :P miss you still!! xoxo

Molly Delaney

December 5, 2012

I had a dream about you last night and I just found out that there's going to be an insane meteor shower the night of your birthday. Don't worry... nobody has forgotten about you ;)

September 22, 2012

Karleigh

August 12, 2012

I miss you a lot today.

jason wilson

July 16, 2012

legends never die

T

June 3, 2012

Brother Im finding it harder and harder to live this life without you here to keep me sane. I grow so wiery of this life and I fear that Im close to breaking. Miss you so brother

Molly

May 18, 2012

You've been on my mind a lot recently. I wish you could be there tonight. As good as you were at starting battles, you were just as good at deflecting them when necessary and everyone would end up laughing instead. Heart.
Molly

March 6, 2012

THICKER THAN WATER....i miss you brother. wish you were here to talk. got a santa cruz screaming hand tat for you on the 13th. it was the first thing i would see when walking into your room when we were young, was that sticker on your tv. California is awesome bro, weather is amazing! all year round. see you on the flipside.

Dad

March 6, 2012

Everyone's still afraid of you.

You'll always be a warrior!

Mom & Dad

March 6, 2012

Richie is with us today. We love you and miss you terribly.

March 6, 2012

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C13

March 6, 2012

5 years too long. missing you.

Mitch

March 6, 2012

When we were kids your parents took us to Ocean City where we indulged in Snow Cones, midway games, and rides. When we got home you were terribly sick from your asthma and I cried cause I thought you were going to die. Uncle Jules hugged me and said, "he's really tough!" And you were. The next day you had to stay inside and couldn't go swimming, so I stayed in with you too. You told me we were more than just cousins, I was like a big sister to you. I'm thankful for our memories. I miss you everyday.

Robert Liguori

March 2, 2012

Just thinking of you... Robert

January 22, 2012

Karleigh

December 27, 2011

Thank you for the sign. I knew you were watching over me.

December 13, 2011

Happy Birthday to you...
Lucky you can't hear me singing this, if you can PLEASE let me know!!! Always looking for a sign...

Love, Aunt Kat

December 13, 2011

Happy Birthday!!!! We had Marla's Birthday Party over the weekend...it was fun...sure wish we could have seen you there...We love you...Mom and Dad

September 17, 2011

My sweet Fil...Bryan Bradley was struck by lightning and passed away...not fair...too soon...my heart aches for Carmen and the boys

Licia Gonzalez

March 6, 2011

My Dearest Gentle Giant... I just can not believe another year has gone by. It feels like it was just the other day. I still have my old cell phone where we texted for 10-11 hours when you were in Vegas. Sometimes I swear I see you in passing and I moved to AZ. They always said everyone has a twin in this world.... I miss ya and won't wait so long to write again... I love you more forever and a day!!! "Ur Nurse Naughty"

Karleigh

March 5, 2011

I will be remembering you through tonight...and forever. Another year has passed, but you will never fade in my thoughts.

c13

February 18, 2011

i lost the diamond you gave me for my nose on Valentine's day this year. made my heart hurt extra. 4 years later, this year has been a tuff one. I miss you dinosaur.

December 14, 2010

Happy Birthday, love and miss you...love your cuz, and the rest of the clan

Carol

December 10, 2010

Was decorating the house today, and you popped into my mind,I think about you often, especially around the holidays. Still see your stickers when I'm out and about and thy make my heart smile. Will be thinking about you on your birthday. Love Eternal.

c 13

December 8, 2010

you were in my dream the other night. I looked up and said I am so in love with you. woke up with a broken heart. 4 years later my heart is still consumed by you. i miss you c13

December 4, 2010

December is here...Marla's 8th birthday is on the 7th and you would turn 36 on the 13th..but we know now you are forever young....we love and miss you so very much...Mom & Dad

Karleigh D

November 25, 2010

I was thinking of you today on this Thanksgiving. No particular reason, you just always come to mind.

Karleigh

August 23, 2010

Your parents gave me more of your stickers last Friday the 13th and I have been putting them everywhere!!!

c13

May 19, 2010

heart

C13

May 10, 2010

when will my heart not feel this pain? i miss you...

antoinette

March 18, 2010

To Phil's Mom ~ I cannot remember if Phil passed on March 16th and if he did I have a strange story. First, I am Michael Resnicks old girlfriend. I was coming home on Tues & decided to take a different route. As I stopped at a light I noticed a small black banner hanging from the rear of the van in front of me: "Let The Legend Live On" or "keep the legend alive: Fil13. Then it dawned on me that this was for Phil. I thought about Phil for a moment and it was nice. ~Antoinette

March 16, 2010

three years...too long...can you just come back now? MOM

Mitch Curran

March 2, 2010

I'm so bummed this week. I miss your goofy grin. I was going to wait and send you a message for Saturday, but I am a non-conformist I guess? My sis tatted ur skull on her bodice - she didn't do it herself, which I think wld have been far more fun but WHAT EVA!

For my own personal day to day memory of you I have strategically placed your name & # on some of Mitchie's catalog and invoices...hahahah FILROLL13, luv it. Remember as kids everything was "schm---'ed" ya know -eh time schmime! I name "things" on my menu that way. I miss you

P.S. please help keep the creepy huge bird moths away from my house or at least make them stay at a distance that doesn't make my heart skip a beat & my voice shrill til it breaks glass? perciate it! love you!!!!

March 1, 2010

I was thinking about you today. we miss you so much, we always find ourselves talking about you, keeping your memory alive.

kels

December 19, 2009

i miss you all the time and need your shoulder to lean on. i know you're looking down on me keeping me safe though. to this day it still seems like i can dial your number and you'll answer and tell me everything is ok. so unreal, but i know you're around us everywhere we go keeping the ones you cared about safe.

c 13

July 28, 2009

missing you more today than yesterday, but not as much as tomorrow.

Caren Faisst

June 9, 2009

~thinking of you Fil~
xoxoxoxo

Heather Salvatore

May 29, 2009

To the fabulous Fil 13,

I met you about 11 years ago at a philly convention with my dad. He was best friends with buffy and you were still so young anf fresh. I was just a little girl about 15 and I had THE BIGGEST crush on you. I remember walking around that whole weekend trying to figure out excuses to talk to you. You were larger than life and made such a big impact on me that i never forgot you. I saw your picture in a magazine the other day and thought I would look you up only to find this. It is truly heart breaking and saddens me to my core that youre gone. You will be greatly missed.

Tara

May 1, 2009

phil,

I'm not sure why I keep thinking about you so much it's been so long since we even seen each other but you changed my life in more ways then you would ever know. I have to say that you meant more to me then any other person I have ever known. I wish we had more time than we had back then and if I would have known back then what was to be I would have changed alot of things. I cant stop crying in what happened to you and ask myself why?? I am the this person because of you and I thank you for that. I had alittle boy in Sept, his name is Dallis Louis Juliano Gaston after you, that's how much you meant to me!! I will always remember you in my heart and one day will will see each other again.

C 13

March 20, 2009

As time passes it hasn't gotten any easier. Life without you in it isn't really "life". Not a day goes by that I do not think of you. I miss you.

Licia

March 8, 2009

Fil... I spent all week with a huge knot in my stomach anticipating Saturday to come. Today I laughed, cried, and got really angry with confusion. You were, are, and will always be forever in my heart as my my Gentle Giant! See ya on the flip side..... ~muah~

Courtney

March 7, 2009

The Mr. & I spent today down in AC, and you were in the sea air. I dont think a day goes by that you're not in my thoughts. Miss ya!

Ashley S

March 7, 2009

Two years have gone by so fast. Still to this day I know that deep down in my heart, I totally kicked your butt in CenterCitySports. Except for the hiptoss you gave me.
Good times that cant be duplicated...


Legends Never Die.
13

Corrine

March 6, 2009

man its fri the 13th tomorrow just stopping buy to say miss you (2/12/09)

NUGZ

March 6, 2009

miss you brother L.N.D.

Jessee

March 6, 2009

MISS YOU.
XOXO (january 8 09)

Karleigh

March 6, 2009

I spent your birthday in AC. It's just never the same anymore. (December 24 08)

Mitch (Michelle)

March 6, 2009

Hello. I just sat here for a few waiting for the words to arrive. huh Word around the campfire is that Aunt Jaci's been plastering your stickers- what a fun idea. Cousin Frankie from my mom's side said he ran into your mom around Christmas in Manhattan - out of thousands of peeps he runs into your fam. That's crazy, they live just around the corner from each other too. Weird. He was sad to hear we lost you.

Losing you has really brought a different light into my head...wanna hear something weird (again) I am terrified of these HUGE moths here in Vegas, when I see them my heart sinks, they don't bite, they're not venomous, but the way they flutter is frightening - some are the size of YOUR fist. I call them Bird Moths. I used to pummel them with a broom, but I don't now...because I think of your reincarnation and wonder if you would take form of a bird moth? Because I just realized how colorful they are, like you were. I actually admired one tonight. If you do reincarnate in my lifetime - could you ask to be something less scary? lol I miss you. everyday.

Brian Dean

January 20, 2009

Hey Phil. I miss you bro!!!!

Bruno

December 19, 2008

Happy Birthday Fil!! Miss ya bud...

Mike

December 19, 2008

damn fil, happy birthday, its sad you aint here to enjoy it...r.i.p bro

Vinnie James

December 19, 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, BROTHER

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