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Regis Kitchen Obituary
REGIS F.
Age 45, died on Nov. 5, 2002 in Pleasanton, Calif. He grew up in Monroeville, graduated from Gateway High School and Penn State College. He is survived by his wife Jane; son Matthew and a daughter Meghan; his parents Regis A. and Josephine Kitchen; three sisters, Dorothy, Carol and Dolores and also two brothers Paul and DeLee. A Celebration of His Life will be held at the Monroeville Assembly of God Church, 4561 Old William Penn Highway, Monroeville, on Dec. 14, 2002 at 11 am. (JOBE FUNERAL HOME).
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Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2024
In the past 22 years,
I have visited you many times.
With each Penn State football game,
I visit the memories we made there.
Each time I listen to music,
I visit you in the lyrics of "our" songs
and hear your amazing talent on the piano.
Whenever I see our children,
it is a visit from you in their eyes,
their hearts, and their souls.
I visit you while I cook,
remembering your love for different cuisines.
Each holiday is a visit recalling
the traditions and experiences we built.
Traveling is a special visit
thinking of your passion for global exploration.
I will continue to visit you,
someday in heaven.
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2023
Wow, 21 years since we last shared a meal, a laugh, an adventure, a holiday, a school event. I always thought I would spend the rest of my life with you but take some comfort in that you spent the rest of your life with me and our children. I regret that our grandchildren never knew you and what a special grandfather you would have been. We all continue to love Penn State, where it all began. I hope you have been reunited with your brother and sister. As always, you are in our hearts.
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2021
Remembering you is easy,
I do it every day.
Missing you is the hard part.
There is not a single day
in the past 19 years that
I haven't thought about you.
Losing you happens every single morning.
My grief has been tempered
over these many years,
but my sadness is still raw.
You had a beautiful soul.
Even though you left this world,
you have never left our hearts.
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2020
The years do not get easier, but the days have found peace and acceptance. Eighteen years have included much change while the memory of you has not changed. Your two grown children, 4 grandchildren have added back some sweetness but your absence is felt everyday. The radio still plays “our songs” and occasionally a favorite movie comes on. I hope you experience joy every day.
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Jane Kitchdn
November 5, 2019
How can it be 17 years?
For Meghan, she has now been without you as long as she had you.
A few days ago, we were all together and shared sweet and funny memories of you.
You would be so proud of your children:
The adults they have become
The spouses they chose
The way they parent their children
Their work ethic
Their dedication to family
Your influence, while only for a short time, had a lasting impact on them.
You are missed and thought of each day.
Jane, Matthew, Meghan, Vanessa, Jaakko, Mason, Taylor, Luka, and Kira.
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2018
Sixteen years, I still miss you
As the days and years pass
I still miss you
As the pain of grief softens
I still miss you
As new memories are made
I still miss you
As I smile and laugh
I still miss you
Today and everyday
I still miss you.
Grandbaby#4 arrived this summer
Kira Josephine - named for you mother
Another legacy of love
Luka Fredrick, Taylor Aline, and Mason Regis.
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2017
15 years feels like a milestone that should bring good memories,
like a birthday or an anniversary. Every minute, every interaction, every decision, every detail on that day 15 years ago is still etched in my brain. It is still difficult to describe but I am pretty certain that losing you has changed my DNA. I am hopeful that you are always close by, like being in another room. Your grandchildren grew in number by one this year. Luka Fredrick (the second grandson to carry your name) was born on Nov. 21, 2016. Your baby girl had a baby of her own. And now there are 3. Now that half of the siblings are with you, I know that you are not lonely. That brings some comfort. Missing you as usual, loving you as always.
Jane Kitchen
November 6, 2016
Even though...
Even though fourteen winters have passed,
Your music is still heard on Christmas Eve.
Even though fourteen springs have come and gone,
We see you in the flowers that bloom.
Even though fourteen summers have taken place,
Your warmth towards others is still felt.
Even though fourteen autumns have fallen,
We listen for your voice in the cool breeze.
Mason, Taylor, and soon-to-be new grandson continue your legacy.
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2015
Mason Regis, age 4
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2014
12 years sounds like so much more than a dozen of anything. 12 years feels like an eternity. Missing you like it was still 2002. Much of our family has joined you since then, hoping you are rejoicing in the reunion. Your namesake is now 4 and every bit as charming as you. Continue to be gentle with that piece of my heart you hold.
Jeanne Bayles
November 12, 2013
It is hard to believe it has been 11 years. I will never forget Regis. Who could? A gift to his family but taken away so soon.
My prayers are with you all.
Jane Kitchen
November 6, 2013
grandson, Mason Regis, at 3 years old.
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2013
Moments turn to hours, hours turn to days, days turn to months, months turn to years...and all so quickly. Time spent without someone seems to go by both slowly and quickly. When I think about the time spent apart, it progresses very slowly, marking each holiday, celebrating each birthday and anniversary, attending family events. When I think about the time that has passed, it goes by very quickly. Eleven years already, too many, too lonely. Your memory is in every moment, every hour, every day, every month, every year.
November 9, 2012
Mason is so precious. It seems like just yesterday that Regis was sitting at the piano playing his gorgeous music.
Hugs,
Trudy
Jeanne Bayles
November 6, 2012
I think of Regis so often. When you are bigger than life in your quiet way, you are hard to forget.
Regis was a man who loved his family deeply above all else.
Thinking of you all Jane...Regis would be so proud.
Love,
Jeanne
Mason Regis, age 2
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2012
How can it be possible that 10 years have passed, that we've experienced a decade of life and changes without Regis, that this is an anniversary I never planned to recognize. This day is always the gateway to the holidays for me. Holidays remain bittersweet and he will always remain 45. Every time Apple comes out with a new technology gadget I think of how much he would have loved it. No other has been able to compare to him. 33 years ago at this time we were finalizing our wedding plans. Time is such a dichotomy, passing both slowly and quickly. Missing him every day.
Frank Woods
July 31, 2012
I was shock to hear about Regis. Regis and I went to school together at Moss Side In Monroeville. Deepest sympathy, love and prayers.
Trudy Atkins
November 10, 2011
What a gorgeous grandson. I know that Regis thinks so too.
November 5, 2011
Our Penn State legacy continues.
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2011
As I reflect on 9 years having past, a friend of mine eloquently put things into perspective for me. She wrote, "And as 9 turns to 10, and 10 to 11.....look around you at what the two of you created in family... Thinking of you, Regis, Matt, Meg, and Mason."
How true this is. I was beyond blessed to begin a family with Regis, whose legacy will continue until Christ returns to reunite all of us.
Time has not made the loss easier, but it has brought new experiences and people who help fill the void. Mason Regis is now one and looks so much like his grandfather. Thank you, God, for this precious visual reminder.
first grandchild, Mason Regis Kitchen
November 5, 2010
A husband, a father, and now a grandfather too
This is the legacy we have from you
While the memory of you remains the same,
Your first grandson now carries your name
He will grow tall and strong, honorable and true,
And be proud of the stories he hears about you
Wanting more than ever to share grandparenthood
Eight years gone by, how I wish I could
first grandchild, Mason Regis Kitchen
November 5, 2010
A husband, a father, and now a grandfather too
This is the legacy we have from you
While the memory of you remains the same,
Your first grandson now carries your name
He will grow tall and strong, honorable and true,
And be proud of the stories he hears about you
Wanting more than ever to share grandparenthood
Eight years gone by, how I wish I could
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2009
Seven is a significant number to God:
Days of creation
Of every kind of clean animal on Noah’s ark
Ewe lambs set aside by Abraham
Years Jacob served Laben
Years of abundance in Egypt
Years of famine in Egypt
Days of Passover
Loaves fed 4,000
Days marching around Jericho
Seven mentioned 398 times in scripture
Seven is now a significant number for me:
Years without you
Years missing you
Jeanne Bayles
November 6, 2007
Dear Kitchen Family,
I pray that as each year passes, your memories become sweeter the pain is diminished.
I think of Regis so often. He left a wonderful legacy and an imprint on my heart.
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2007
5 years of "starting tomorrow without you."
We little knew that morning
God was going to call your name,
In Life we loved you dearly
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you
You did not go alone,
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home.
You left us beautiful memories
Your love is still our guide,
And although we cannot see you
You are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken
And nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one
The chain will link again.
~ Author Unknown ~
Michael & Diane Silva
June 7, 2007
Dear Jane,
I was absolutely shocked when I recently read Regis’s father’s Obituary and saw that Regis had already passed. I knew that I had to try and contact you to express my deepest sympathy. When Michael and I moved to Austin, from Nashua, NH in 1990, you and Regis were our very first friends in town. You both made us feel right at home. I really enjoyed the time we spent with you both. We soon came to find out how small this world really is, when we found out that Regis and I are both originally from Monroeville. My father used to cut Regis’s parents grass when he was young. Even though we soon went our separate ways, Michael and I will always remember the hospitality you both showed to us.
17 years is too long. Let's keep in touch.
Karline Fischer
November 5, 2006
Dear Jane and family,
I did not have the privilage of meeting Regis, but I have heard many great things about him.
The loss of a husband and a father at such a young age must be very painful and heart-wrenching.
I was 31 years old when I lost my mother, and it took me almost 10 years to grieve her loss. To this day there are moments that I miss her terribly as a Mom and as a grandmother. She never met her grandchildren.
My hope is that what heaven has to offer is far greater, more profound and more fulfilling than any of our human relationships down here. So the loss is ours not theirs. The scripture that has brought comfort to me over the years is the following:
Psalm 116:15 "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints."
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2006
How do I measure the four years since you've been gone ?
By one thousand four hundred and sixty days
By thirty five thousand and forty hours
Some days I feel each of the over two million minutes
spent without you.
How did I cope during these past four years?
By being thankful for our children each of the over two
million minutes
By being blessed with supportive family and friends each of the
thirty five thousand and forty hours
By drawing strength from my faith each of the one
thousand four hundred and sixty days.
"to provide comfort to all who mourn,
and provide for those who grieve in Zion-
to bestow on them a crown of beauty
instead of ashes, the oil of gladness
instead of mourning and a garment of
praise instead of a spirit of despair..."
Isaiah 61:3
dawn stark
November 7, 2005
the mexicans celebrate a holiday called "dia de los muertos," where they honor and remember the dead, and as a part of that celebration, they believe that as long as someone is still alive who remembers the person who has died, then that person is not really gone. they are still here and still a part of us.
i love him, i miss him, but he is here with me whenever i need him, as he is for all of us.
love, dawn
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2005
Three years ago today Regis became part of the cloud of witnesses, entered into perfect communion with God, and learned a heavenly language. While my believer's brain rejoices in those things, my earthly brain is grieved.
My human self wants him to to be watching his children graduate from college, experiencing his children as adults, seeing his children get married, loving his grandchildren.
Then my believer's self reminds me...he already is. He has a perfect view.
Neva Lattanzio-Temple
March 14, 2005
Dear Jane,Even after all this time I don't know how to adequately convey my sadness at Regis' passing.Jane,we had many crazy moments at PSU even before Regis was a twinkle in your eye.(The closet).But Regis was something and someone special.I will always remember Regis welcoming me to Frankfurt and taking me around Europe on his days off.Not many friend's husband's would have been so generous with their time, in fact very, very few.It was an experience I have often talked about with my own children.As I read this collection of letters I see testimony that my life was not the only life Regis enriched.He had a real gift.He truly enjoyed showing this great big beautiful world to other people and helping them understand and appreciate other cultures.Regis expanded my horizons,so to speak, and for this I will always be grateful.I remember the Rhine and strawberries in Switzerland.So many things I remember.Regis made this world a better place to be just by being in it.Thank-you.Neva Lattanzio-Temple(PSU1979)
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2004
"He was my north, my south, my east, and west,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song.
I thought that love would last forever. I was wrong."
w.h.auden
Dawn Pickering
March 25, 2004
I only knew Regis for a few years, but considered him one of my dearest friends. He and Jane welcomed us when we were alone, with no family or friends in a new place. Regis and Jane Kitchen are the only ones I've ever spent Christmas eve with other than my immediate family. Just everyday events were fun when Regis was involved. Borrowing videos, chatting in the produce department at Safeway, or seeing him on campus helping out. Though he only lived 45 years, he lived a lot of life in that time. It is both a comfort and joy to know that I will see him again in heaven...for now, I can only imagine.
I miss you Regis.
Dawn Pickering
Dotti Wilhide
January 9, 2004
Hi Regis - On Sunday, January 4, 2004, Jim, Heather and I went to Dad and Mom's to have dinner. After dinner, Dad, Mom, Jim, Heather and I watched the video of the trip to England that you planned for Meghan's Junior class. You invited Mom to come along on the trip and she brought her camcorder. What a "Great Visit" we had with you! We saw you being their Tour Guide and showing everyone the castles, churches, and many other sites. I never knew you could dance so well. You really impressed us with your moves! We especially enjoyed the part where first you and then Mom stood in the English Channel. When you were drying your feet and putting on your socks and shoes, you just talked to Mom like the camera wasn't even there. There were no tears while we watched the video, just happy smiles and "Hey, there's Regis over there"! We are so glad that Mom took the camcorder.
Over a year has passed since you left us to reside in Heaven and we have gone through Christmas twice. We still miss you, but we try to remember how much you loved us getting together as a family. Well, you would have loved Dad's 90th Birthday Party on Dec. 13th! God blessed us with good weather so everyone could come and return home safely. Mom invited 97 people and 74 of them came to the party. I knew that Carol and Lorie were coming. Paul, Jessie and Jason were driving down from NH and picking up your kids, Matthew and Meghan. I was told that Mike and Cameron were flying in Saturday morning, so Carol stayed at the family home to wait for their arrival. As I was standing at the door of the party room greeting the party guests, in came Dawn, Kelly, Kelly's baby, Trinity, who is 9 months old and our brother, DeLee - WHAT A SURPRISE - just like something you would have arranged! I had no idea they were coming. I was told that DeLee couldn't get off work. Our cousin, Maxine and her group "It's Just Us" came and Maxine played the piano and the group sang. Dad danced with Carol, Lorie, Meghan, Heather and me and even Baby Trinity while the guests just kept saying, "This man is amazing" and "He doesn't look or act 90 years old!" Dad just keep grinning and his blue eyes twinkled. He had a wonderful time.
After the party ended, the family went back to our Parent's home. Mom had purchased blow guns that were made out of PCP pipe for the kids. The bullets were little marshmallows. Boy, did the kids have fun, including Matthew and Meghan. Mom is still finding little marshmallows all over the house. I told her that was love the kids left for her! The family spent the whole weekend together. Lorie left on Sunday and DeLee, Monday afternoon, but Carol, Dawn and Kelly and Trinity stayed until Tues. Mom and I went to lunch with them. Jim and I even got a motel, so we wouldn't lose any family time traveling. This time together was an early Christmas present for all of us!
Regis, even though we miss you very much -- I know that I will see you again when I arrive in Heaven. MEET ME AT THE PEARLY GATES, OK, JUST LIKE I USED TO MEET YOU AT THE AIRPORT!
I Love You, My Brother,
Your Sister Forever,
Dotti
josephine kitchen
December 28, 2003
Regis--you were our first boy after 3 girls.Daddy stayed up until 1:30 A.M. calling everyone to tell them he had a baby boy.
remembering:
What a little gentelman you were when you were just 4 and 5 years old. You held the doors open for the lady's when I took you shoping.
Herb Johnson (our neighbor) only wanted his wife to have a boy if he could be garenteed to have a boy just like little Regis.
How much you enjoyed animals.When you were 11 you made an incubator with light bulbs and hatched little peeps. When you purchased an AKC registered female Dachshund puppy with green stamps.
Taking piano lessons and playing in the high school chorus.
Working after school at Thorofare so you could pay your way to Switzerland as Gateway Highschools A.F.S. student in your senior year.
Going to New Kensington Penn State and calling Paul when the car broke down.While at main campus in your Junior year you went to University of Cologn in Germany. You stayed and back packed across Europe with Kathy Emery.
Your wedding in Hershey. Franz Knell was there.
Your stay in Nashua,N.H. where Matthew and Meghan were born. Your brothers Paul and DeLee joined you there.
Your move to Texas and a few years later to California.
It was at your house everyone gathered for Thanksgiving and Christmas Eve.
Regis--my 2 weeks in England with you, Meghan and the other students was meant to be. My heart is full of memories that I will always have with me.
As Paul so adequately put it--Until we meet again--and we will.
All our love eternally
Mom and Dad
Jeanne Bayles
December 26, 2003
Dear Regis,
We think of you often. You were such a good friend. Jane, Matthew and Meghan are doing well. You would be so proud of them.
Until we see you again,
Jeanne and Devon
DeLee Kitchen
December 24, 2003
Regis, Dear Brother,
I refuse to cry, I may well up, but I refuse to cry like a baby, sorry that you are gone. I want to use my tears for the joy that we will all have seeing each other in heaven. Besides, you are never to far away, I keep you right here in my heart. I try hard to live by your example, in a way, Mom’s example too, Loving, Giving from the Heart, Caring about others. I promise to continue to be fourth, God first, Others second, My Family third, I’ll be forth. I also promise to continue to ask What Would Jesus Do, just as I am sure you did.
Hebrews 13:1 Let brotherly love continue.
DeLee
Paul Kitchen
December 23, 2003
Dear Rege,
Remember when I hit you in the head with a rake after you took my toy? I loved you then, and I still love you now. Until we meet again.
Your Brother,
Paul
Jane Kitchen
November 5, 2003
It is 7:48 am on November 5, 2003
Exactly one year since my journey began
Our lives will never be as they were
We have worked daily to create a "new normal"
However the memories will always be a sweet aroma
I remember:
The volleyball court at Penn State where we first met
Weekend football games, the Phyrst, the Shandegaff, one wild trip to New Orleans
Our quiet engagement to everyone's surprise
Our wedding...it was the best
Moving to Germany, trips throughout Europe, the experience of a lifetime
Our two New England born babies - our proudest accomplishments - they were our everything
Growing as a family, the job transfers, new homes, new states, new opportunites
A priceless vacation at Disneyworld
Your unceasing dedication as a husband and father, always putting family first
Watching Matthew and Meghan grow into young adults-our greatest blessing
I know he is dancing on streets of gold now
Twenty-five years of sharing, loving and living
An eternity to look forward to.
Benny Clark
April 28, 2003
I met Regis at Apple, in Austin, back in February of 1993. I had the priveledge of working with him for several years. Regis was a positive influence in my life and a joy to work with. He could always turn a negative situation around to somehow make it positive.
I later transferred to California, to take on a new role at Apple, and Regis offered to have me stay with his family for a few months, just until I had a chance to sell my house in Austin and find another one in Livermore. I will never forget the many memories that I shared with Regis, Jane, Mathew and Meagan during that transition. I was welcomed with open arms by the whole family, and I certainly felt apart of the family during those months. All I could think about was, what a perfect family. The strong family bond was truely priceless in my eye.
Mathew and Meagan,
Regis was so proud of both of you, as you’ve heard from so many others. He would always talk about how fast you both were growning up and how well both of you had adjusted to living in a new area, when you transfered from Austin. I enjoyed listening to all the challenges that Regis brought up, and later realized exactly what Regis was talking about, when I had children of my own.
Regis was a very giving person who loved to help everyone. He certainly made a lasting impression on me - one that will never go away. I’m very thankful to have known Regis and know that his life meant so much to so many people. Now, he has moved on to help even more people.
Gwen Rowe Kelly
February 7, 2003
I did not know Regis really well; but, what I remember most about him and Jane is how nice they were to a stranger. Jane was my roomie at George Fox the Summer of 2001. What a blessing! I thought how wonderfully they complemented each other. And, Jane kept me laughing with her unique humor. Regis went to the store and brought back a tea kettle that had a whistle like a train! And, I was invited to go on the trip to Italy that he was planning. I will always remember the kindness and warmth that they extended to a stranger. God bless.
Lorie Cubanski
February 1, 2003
When Regis was a senior in high school he went to Switzerland as a foreign exchange student. He remained in contact with the Koenig's ever since and this is a lovely letter received from them:
Dear Regis;
To bury a friend is hard to bury our only one American son is against nature, because you are so young and a pain with words cannot tell. You were but 45 you are a man already you had a family, with a grown man's confidence. You were a good husband and daddy. You were handsome, intelligent and generous. Your gave love and friendship and you had love and friends. Your shared with all your smile, your charm, your help your enthusiasm. Your future was a promise of challenge and adventure. You were 45 but wise beyond your age and now you know already the answer to all questions.
I am asking: where are you really as this is but your body? Are you now the hot sun of California? Are you the cloud and the rain? Are you the wind Regis? Or are you the sky overhead? We will look for you always. And we will see you in every flower, in every bird, in every red sunset, as everything of beauty will forever be you.
You were an extraordinary person and extraordinary was your cruel sudden death. You were so amicable. Where has all this love gone?
I hope your journey has been good as you have already arrived.
Fly little bird of the sun. Fly high to the sky. We loved you!
Last greeting from
Mama and Papa
your Swiss parents
Katie Evans-Stone
February 1, 2003
Jane,
Gregg and Katie Stone here - and we want you to know that we are thinking of you! Regis' mother called me the other day after she spoke with you. We're so glad that you thought to have her call us, and we're sorry that we didn't know about this when it happened. It sounds as if you're all carrying on as best you can, and keeping Regis' memory alive. His Mom told me he used to play the piano at your holiday gatherings, and that took me back to highschool when we both played for the chorus. I remember his quick smile and his quick wit as well! This guest book is filled with wonderful, warm, loving comments and I hope they bring some comfort to you and your children, and Regis' parents.
S Guyer
January 22, 2003
Although we were fortunate to have Regis as part of our family, we were also just as unfortunate not to have the opportunity to participate in his zestful, fulfilling life. His endeavors and dreams, his challenges and accomplishments, always took him so far away. But how were we to know it would become even farther so soon? So many had the privilege to experience Regis’ outstanding qualities. This is proven by the repeated expressions from those whose lives he was a part of. On a selfish note, it saddens me that I was deprived of his virtue, but on an unselfish note, it gladdens me that he enriched so many others. He had so much to be proud of, and so many to be proud of him. God knows whom he needs for a job well done. He selects the finest. ‘Only the good die young’. Until he meets us again, he will remain in all our hearts. Next time I will make the opportunity to know him as so many already do.
Kris Lawley
January 19, 2003
Regis was a true friend and was a role model for me in both my personal and professional lives. I met Regis at Apple, ended up working for him and once when I was offered another job I was very hesitant to leave simply because I enjoyed working for him and with him so much. I can't say that about anyone else that I've ever worked for! Regis was always a source of great advice and encouragement (and at times I needed a lot of both). One of the last times I saw him in person was at a computer show (MacWorld) in Jan 02, we had made arrangements in advance to meet and show each other our kid's pictures during a business dinner. We showed off our pictures and then spent most of the dinner talking about our families while everyone else at the table was talking about work or golf! A lot of men I've worked with don't talk about their kids, wives or even their personal lives, but not Regis. His deep devotion to his wife Jane and his kids Matthew and Meghan was one of the things that made him so special.
I remember Regis telling me (years ago) how his son was already taller than him (and had bigger feet than him) and that his "little girl" had blossomed into such a beautiful young lady that he was in awe. When I was struggling raising a teenager, listening to Regis talk so proudly and lovingly about Meghan and Matthew's many accomplishments reassured me that it was possible to raise teenagers to be caring, smart, responsible, well adjusted and kind people.
I feel very fortunate to have known Regis and take comfort that my many fond memories of him cannot be taken away.
Jane, Matthew and Meghan, I hope that my memories bring some comfort to you too. With Love, Kris Lawley
Terry Barnes
January 17, 2003
Twenty-two years ago I met Regis at a computer company in Bedford,MA. It was a young company with a young staff and we had a ball each day at work. Regis' office was a big gathering place during break and lunch times. At that time he was in a cubicle, sometimes the noise level was so loud that we were asked to take the party elsewhere!
The fun did not stop there, in 1981 a small group of us were sent to Germany to set up a new facility. Living with Jane, Regis, Mark and Jean Pinetti, and Ken Newlands in a house in Germany was an experience none of us will ever forget. Small but important things like finding a restroom could not be accomplished without Regis. He taught us the important things in German like "check please" and "more wine". In our 20's, with Regis' help and direction, we toured much of Europe. The fun we had would not have been possible without him.
A couple of years ago Regis visited me in Memphis. We went out for a long and memorable dinner together. We relived the "old days" of Computervision and talked about our lives now and hopes for the future. Regis talked about his love for his family and how his life was richer than he had ever imagined it would be. Although he had goals for his future, he was content with his 'present'. His loss is huge, yet so is his legacy. The world just does not seem the same without him.
Annette Randolph-Spencer
January 14, 2003
When I first began work at Apple, I was very intimidated. Regis befriended me. He was very supportive of me, assisted in my 'Apple' education, and became my mentor. He was truly a champion of integrity, loyalty and respect....and always someone I will always look up to.
Vicki Oliver
January 14, 2003
Dear Matt, and Meghan,
Your Dad loved you both so very much. That love will last you a life time because it was from a big heart. He left you a legacy that you will pass on to your children and then they will to their children.
When times get tough, and they will, try to focus on the quality of time you had with him. Some of us go a lifetime and never have what you had with your father. Also know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
I can still hear him saying to your Mom, "Jane!", and it brings a smile to my face and a laugh to my heart.
God Bless and keep all of you.
Debbie Schneider
January 14, 2003
Reg, you were laughs and danish butter cookies and walks in Marblehead and my knight in shining armor (remember the wedding from hell)...I will always remember you.
Darlene, Billie, & Bridgetanne White
January 13, 2003
Jane, Matt,and Meghan-God has blessed you with your own personal angel-Regis; always near to guide you and keep you safe. We will miss him, but God must have needed him more. Our prayers are with you.
Patty Wood
January 13, 2003
Dearest Jane, Matt, & Megan,
What an example of a wonderful Dad your Dad was. The few times I had talks with him, it was mostly about his awesome children and how you both exceeded his expectations. He was also so sincere in asking how I was through my troubled times. I always admired you, Jane, for being the supportive wife in all that he did, even when you didn't agree. My thoughts and prayers will be with you always. And, if ever you need a post to lean on, I'm here for each of you!! I Love you All!!
God be with you now and forever...
Love Patty, Mattie, & Amanda Wood
Barbara Michelson
January 13, 2003
Although I only knew Regis for several years and mostly saw him at the wonderful Kitchen family holiday events, I felt I knew him well. He was such an open, warm person who made all feel very comfortable immediately. I count it a privilege to be a friend of the Kitchen family and treasure my relationship with Jane, Regis, Matt, and Meghan.
Celia Simone Nork
January 11, 2003
Menschen die wir lieben, bleiben fuer immer, denn sie hinterlassen Spuren in unseren Herzen.
(Persons we love, remain for ever, because they leave traces in our hearts.)
Dad, I miss you
Heidrun, Hans-Juergen Nork
January 11, 2003
Our daughter Celia spent a wonderful year as an exchange student in the Kitchen family. We thank you very much for that.
We enjoyed the several visits of Regis very much- he will always be in our memory and heart.
Psalm 91,11
Tom Bloom, PSU '81
January 11, 2003
I met Jane and Regis on Leete 3 (PSU) before they were Jane AND Regis. I remember seeing Regis' name on the door, and I thought, "this guy has to have a strong character to carry a wonderful name like that." I was right. Regis did have a strong character, but didn't take himself too seriously. He was always "Mr. Congeniality" and took part in (or instigated) activities with the folks living on Leete 3.
Every time I manage to catch an episode of SNL, I think of those late Saturday nights with lots of us crowded in his room watching SNL.
Dear Jane, Meghan, and Matt -- you are all in my prayers during this time of grieving. I hope you will all construct your own book of memories.
Judith Hayes
January 10, 2003
Dear Kitchens,
My love and sympathy go out to you. You will always have a special place in my heart for you unselfish acts of kindness to me and my son, Jacob. May God bless you. Love always, Judy Hayes
Jeri Schall
January 10, 2003
Dear Jane, Meghan, and Matt,
I am so proud of you. I know the last couple of months have been the hardest time of your lives. The Lord is going to sustain you and get you through this time. I hope you will talk often together about your dad and husband. Memories are what will get you through these lonely times. He left you all with a great legacy and he adored each one of you so much. Jane I know a few times Regis was dragged over to my house to move something or carry something heavy. What a man!! Meghan he adored you and he has given you a lifetime of examples of what a dad and husband should be like. He was so proud of you. Matt he also was so proud of you because you were his son and he knew you would do well in school. He has left you all with an empty spot in your heart. The Lord can fill that and give you peace. The three of you will need to work hard at talking and keeping together and sharing together the next seasons of your life. You are a blessed family who is surrounded by people who love you and will walk you through this time.
Love, Jeri
Kelly Laiewski
January 3, 2003
My sister and I had the pleasure of being somewhat close in age to Regis; so although he was our uncle, he felt like a brother. I'll remember him as a person who was constantly giving to others; whether through taking in exchange students, playing the piano at family events, flying family out for weddings or showing his nieces the sites in Europe. He was always quick to put others before himself and for that, he will be missed by many.
jerrie lajeunesse
January 2, 2003
dear jane,matt and meghan, we were all shocked and saddened to hear about regis.i will try to locate the franks. the house was sold some time ago but they all still live in town although not together. we will keep all of you in our prayers. with deepest sympathy, jerrie, jim, courtney and justin
Tom Bonacci
December 30, 2002
I have many memories of Regis and Jane, and everyone else from Leete 3
at Penn State. His untimely death will surely be felt by many. Regis and his family will be in our prayers.
dawn stark
December 30, 2002
my uncle regis has been someone that has consistently, throughout my life, opened my eyes to new experiences, whether it be through a trip to europe, a walk in the redwoods, or a bottle of wine. he was a truly remarkable person, and i miss him very much.
Susan Bournival
December 29, 2002
I met Jane and Regis just prior to Regis' work assignment in Germany. I was thrilled that we reconnected when they returned. Including a stranding in a snow storm at my house with a very pregnant Jane.
We have shared the birth of children, job changes, moves (theirs), loss, family celebrations, holidays and bags of M&M's.
Even though they moved from New England many years ago, we have still managed to stay in touch.
My memories of Regis are numerous and wonderful. I can still see him sitting in front of the upright piano in Nashua playing Christmas songs.
The last time I saw Jane and Regis in California, Regis took my husband and I on a tour of the local vineyards. We dined at Stacey's Cafe. Just before we left, Regis entertained us by playing the grand piano.
What has never changed over the years was Regis's devotion to Jane, Matthew, Meghan, his family, his friends and God.
We are all richer for having known him.
Jane, my thoughts are with you, Matthew, Meghan and Regis's family. My heart aches.
Always,
Susan
Janet Kirk
December 28, 2002
I have such fond memories of Regis during the short time period I knew him. He was a kind, loving and easy going guy. When I think of Reg and Jane I have a smile on my face. My heart is with Jane, Matthew and Meghan. Keep his memory alive though the stories you tell. Love to you all.
Dotti Wilhide
December 28, 2002
I am Regis' oldest sister. What a joy Regis brought into our family the day he was born. I will never forget how excited we all were. Regis was a wonderful brother,even as a child he tried to be kind, caring and helpful to everyone.He made us laugh when we were sad. When Regis became a man, he still was a Good Person. Just read through the other entries and you will read time after time how people were helped by him. Regis was a good son,brother,husband, father, employee and friend to the world. Even though God only gave him 45 years, he lived them to the fullest. Now he is in Heaven with Jesus. What a crown he must have! Regis, I will never forget you or stop loving you. Some day I will see you again in Heaven.
Sue and Eino Anttila
December 27, 2002
Regis was a good one which is why he must have been taken - must need a language intepreter up there. Remember Regis playing the piano, especially at Christmas. Always happy, always optimistic. We will miss his sudden visits but remember all the good times.
Steve Williamson
December 26, 2002
It's been many years since I saw Regis (elementary/high school, my paper route), but I remember his alert but gentle spirit and great sense of humor.
My sincerest sympathies to our old Monroeville neighbors, the Kitchen family, and to Regis' wife and children.
Steve Williamson
neighborhood pal
Joyce A. Godfrey
December 26, 2002
Jane, Matt, & Megan,
My deepest sympathies. I will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers
Nichole Martinez
December 26, 2002
Words cannot express the love Regis radiated not only to his family but to his friends and students. Regis was a father to me and gave me guidance and love in my time of need. I am forever thankful to him and the Kitchen family for having taken me into their family and loving me like their own. He is deeply missed and loved. I will remember him always as a wonderful father, a wise friend, a good husband to Mom. Most of all I will remember his laugh... it was always contagious. Regis I love you and miss you!
Bill Francart
December 26, 2002
It is tragic when the unthinkable becomes reality. Regis was a genuine person whose time here was much too short. He was one of many who were part of my life in a time of some of my greatest joys and fondest memories. I am grateful for having the experiences at PSU, and having shared them with all of those who I consider my college family.
I remember the trip to New Orleans like it was only yesterday - and I am still hopeful Russ will send me a copy of the picture of all of us sitting in that tree. New Years Eve on Bourbon Street. Saturday Night Live on a small screen color TV with Regis and Felix. Grain punch. Taco dogs and frozen yogurt.
Our thoughts and prayers are with Jane, Matthew and Meghan. I know Regis had to be a wonderful husband and father - just as wonderful as the person he was. While time may take away the pain of your loss, it can never take away your memories.
Kenneth Mayton
December 24, 2002
It was my privilege to be the pastor to Regis and his family for a short period of time. I shall remember him for his example as a church member, husband and father. Since I was born in Pennsylvania we would have some wonderful conversations about our backgrounds. He will be greatly missed by all of us.
Judith Mayton
December 24, 2002
Regis was such a prime example of what a good husband and father should be. I am glad that he was a part of my life even for such a short time.
Trudy, Don, Mikey, and Benjamin Atkins
December 24, 2002
Regis was our son's first cub scout leader--he was patient and loved all of the scouts. We'll remember Regis playing the piano and loving teaching children. We send our love to Jane, Matthew, and Meghan.
Lois Wible
December 23, 2002
When visiting the Kitchen's California address, Regis took us to see the local sites. During that trip, he confided that taking expeditions such as this, was something he really derived pleasure from, and he had, in fact, been practicing Europen travel with his children. Regis held a hope that some day he could retire to a second career- one he thought he would truly enjoy- taking tour groups overseas. I am sad that hope was not realized; I think he would have done a terrific job of it. I wonder...Do you think there are tours of heaven when you first get there?
Jeanne Bayles
December 23, 2002
The Kitchen family has been such a blessing in my life since I began working with Jane in the mid 1990's. Meeting Regis, Matthew and Meghan and having them as part of my life has been a joy. Regis, I will miss your kindness, generosity, but most of all your sense of humor.
Barbara Graves
December 23, 2002
I remember Regis fondly from his time in Marblehead, MA. He was so full of life! Regis brought me back a beautiful Christmas Pyramid from Germany--I will remember his bright light every Christmas when I light the candles. God bless Jane and family.
susan heckles
December 22, 2002
a big loss for the world as a whole. regis was kind, gentle, a man worth knowing.
Deborah Michelson
December 22, 2002
Regis welcomed me into his life and his family and made me integral part of both. I am very thankful to have known him and been a recipient of his kindness. I see his and Jane's legacy in Matthew and Meghan; they are both outstanding people. May God shine his grace and mercy on all of us.
Joyce Tokar
December 17, 2002
I am truly sorry for the loss of Regis. Our paths have crossed occassionally over the years since our time together in High School. Each reunion was a time of joy. And now this sudden saddness. Jane, Mr. & Mrs. Kitchen, & family, you have my heart-felt sympathy and prayers.
joel cummings
December 12, 2002
i went to high school and graduated gateway with regis and was in cub scouts with him also i remember when he lived near the end of saunders station rd... on aber's crk i think. sorry to hear of his passing... joel cummings
Carol Carlson
December 12, 2002
We are so proud to have had the priviledge of such a wonderful, caring brother. His kindness has been shared with so many people across the world. Many will never forget those random acts of kindness he did without a moments hesitation. While the loss to our family is undescribable we know that heaven welcomed this son, brother, husband, uncle, father & friend. I will forever miss you, my brother.
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