Richard Parrillo

Richard Parrillo obituary, North Smithfield, RI

Richard Parrillo

Richard Parrillo Obituary

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PARRILLO, RICHARD D. (Retired Det. Sgt. RI State Police) 61, passed away unexpectedly from an aneurysm on October 6, 2016 with his loving family by his side. Rick was the husband of Sandra (Glaser) Parrillo. Born in Providence he was the son of Mildred (McManus) Parrillo and the late Dr. John Parrillo. Rick graduated from Providence College in 1977 with a degree in Political Science and received a BS in Criminal Justice from Roger Williams College in 1980. A life long Friar Basketball fan and season ticket holder he ardently supported his Friars. He was also an avid New England Patriots fan, who never believed the balls were deflated. A student of politics both local and national, Rick would debate the merits of an issue or politician until he won you over to his side. He was quick to share his opinion and you always knew where you stood with Rick. He was a member of the Rhode Island State Police for 25 years and honorably served in both the uniform and detective division. He retired as Commander of the Violent Fugitive Task Force, a coordinated effort between the RISP and US Federal Marshalls. He was in charge of the Narcotics unit of the RISP and additionally spent time in the Northern Area Detective Division and was the Detective assigned to investigate crimes at the Adult Correction Institution. In the uniform division he was Assistant Patrol Commander at both the Portsmouth and Chepachet barracks and an original member of the RISP Truck Squad. Rick was a dogged investigator and would not rest until the crime was solved. He earned his reputation as a savvy street cop and enjoyed the respect of all law enforcement. During his career he received over twenty departmental commendations and three Special Commendations from the Governor of the State of Rhode Island for his investigations on high profile cases. Married to Sandy for 32 years, he was her rock. They were a team who supported each other and shared in each others accomplishments. Together they attended many business, civic, social and charitable functions where Sandy would do her CEO thing and Rick would be holding court telling stories and making everyone laugh. The greatest joys in Rick's life were his children, Marissa and RJ. He was at every school event and sports event cheering his kids on and encouraging them to be their best. Rick was a Board member of the Forest Ridge Owners Association in Lincoln, NH and a member of the Sayles Hill Rod and Gun Club. He loved to ski and hike the White Mountains of NH where he and his family spent winters skiing the slopes of Cannon Mt. Rick's had a passion for gardening and was free to share his abundant crop with others. He is legendary for his zucchini bread which many say is the best they ever tasted. Besides his wife, Rick is survived by his loving children, Marissa E. Parrillo and Richard J. "RJ" Parrillo, his siblings John J. Parrillo and his wife Sandra, Dr. Stephen J. Parrillo and his wife Ada, Mary E. Parrillo, Dr. Geoffrey M. Parrillo, and Leslie A. Parrillo as well as many nieces and nephews and countless friends. His funeral will be held on Monday October 10, 2016 at 8:30 A.M. from the A.A. Mariani and Son Funeral Home 200 Hawkins St Providence, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10:00 A.M. in Our Lady Queen of Martyrs Church, 1409 Park Ave, Woonsocket. Burial will be in St. John Evangelist Cemetery, Slatersville. Calling hours will be Sunday 4 8 PM In Lieu of flowers donations may be made to The Tomorrow Fund, 593 Eddy St. Providence, RI 02903. For further information please visit, www.Marianiandson.com

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September 10, 2019

George Elefsiades posted to the memorial.

October 18, 2016

Joseph & Claire Cioci posted to the memorial.

October 15, 2016

Joe Connolly posted to the memorial.

George Elefsiades

September 10, 2019

I'm so sorry to hear about Rick passing he was one of the best guys I ever knew I only wish I could be half the he was just a good good person I got know him when him and another great guy Steve Lynch were assigned to the aci I love both them guys and to this day would do anything for them my sincere condolences to the family rick my friend rest easy I'll see you again love ya brother

Joseph & Claire Cioci

October 18, 2016

Our deepest condolences on the passing of your son. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Joe Connolly

October 15, 2016

To the Parrillo Family,
I graduated with Rick in '73 and we worked at Almacs in the late '70's. He was a great person to know then and it seems he just got better as the years went on. Sorry for the loss you have to endure.
Best wishes,
Joe

Marie Smith

October 13, 2016

I am so sorry Sandy! My condolences to you and your family! Just last week I was talking with him at the mailbox. He was a very funny open friendly person. My prayers are with you.
your mail person Marie

Jane Trombetti

October 12, 2016

My prayers and sympathy to Rick's family. So sorry for your loss. I knew Rick from Lincoln Woods. I met Rick through my sister Robin. Awesome guy who loved his family dearly. He will be greatly missed!!! My prayers are with you.

Ray Tessaglia

October 11, 2016

To the Parrillo Family, Saddened to hear of the sudden loss of Rick,He was a person liked by all. My thoughts and prayers are with you.......

Jackie Rakers

October 10, 2016

Sandy and Family - I am so very sorry to hear of Rick's passing and am so glad I had the chance to know him. What a great man! My thoughts and prayers are with you all and I hope your hearts are filled with warm memories to get you through this time. Jackie Rakers - IAMIC

October 10, 2016

To Sandy and family, It's with great sorrow I write this. I've known Rick for 22 years from Lincoln Woods he touched so many lives with his up beat spirit and great sense of humor. Not to mention his amazing zucchini bread and muffins he generously shared with us. God bless you and your family in this difficult time. Sending love and prayers. Love Robin (Zotti) Bradley.

Al Giuliano

October 10, 2016

Sandy and family. i couldn't believe it when i saw Rick's picture in the obituary. Many times, when walking at Lincoln Woods, i could spot him in the distance, walking toward me. His boyish grin, we'd stop, shake hands, spend a couple of minutes talking about the past, and present,always sharing a laugh, then continue our walk, always leaving with a smile on my face.I will miss seeing him there, now when i walk, and will always think of him, as will countless others who got to know him there. He was like the Mayor of Lincoln Woods.

Joan and Jerry Zenke

October 10, 2016

As I wipe my tears, I can only think of all the fun it was to talk to Rick. Always a hug and his first concern was for his family whom he deeply loved. Life too short for those left. God loved him and wanted him with him. Hug to you all. Joan and Jerry Zenke

Al Giuliano

October 10, 2016

Sandy and family, i couldn't believe it when i saw Ricks picture in the obituary. I've seen Rick many times during my walks at Lincoln Woods. I could always spot him approaching from a distance, as we walked towards each other, at the park. We stopped, shook hands, talked about the present, and the past, always shared a laugh, then continued on our way, always leaving me with a smile on my face. I will always think of him now, when i walk there. My prayers are with you, and your family, and Rick. I will miss seeing him at the woods.He will be sadly missed.

AL Giuliano

October 10, 2016

Sandy and family. I was shocked when i saw Ricks picture in the obits. i couldn't believe it. i walked many mornings at lincoln woods. and Rick walked in the opposite direction. i could always spot him from a distance, and as we approached each other, we greeted each other with a hand shake,laughed and joked, spoke about the present, and the past, then continued our daily walk. i'll always think of Rick when i walk there now. My prayers are with you , and your family , and Rick, i know hes already sadly missed.

Art Meadows

October 10, 2016

To Sandy and her kids, Carolyn and I are so very sorry to hear of Rick's passing. Our thoughts are prayers are with you and your family.

John Dunbar

October 9, 2016

I'm so sorry for this loss! Rick had a great impact upon my life when I was a teenager, living in the Hartford Housing Projects. I was on my bicycle watching him pull over speeders on Hartford Avenue. He would setup there often, and one day he called me over and introduced himself. One day he took me for a ride in his SP car to Burger King, and I believe that was the turning point in my life towards law enforcement. Years later, while working at P.C., I saw him at an Alumni Weekend where I learned that it was his alma mater! We had a great conversation that day reflecting on how we met and the day he took me to get food. He was a great man, and I will always cherish those memories of him and his friendship. I pray that God comforts his family and friends.

October 9, 2016

To the Parrillo
So very sorry for your loss.
Rick was a great guy.

Ret Lt. Paul T Kennedy

Nick Difilippo

October 9, 2016

Sandy and family,
Please accept my sincerest condolences for the loss of Ricky. I can say in all honesty that I never had a single conversation with him that did not leave me with a huge smile on my face. Heaven is now a more interesting place with Ricky holding court.

Tom & Alice Shiel

October 9, 2016

Sandy & family. Had lots of fond memories with Rick though LaSalle 73, Providence College 77 in the Dillion Club and Big East tournament games. Our deepest sympathy and will keep you in our prayers.

Rob Rainville

October 9, 2016

Rick was a good friend and he will be greatly missed. To his family, I send my deepest sympathies and will keep you in my prayers.

Bob D'Adamo

October 9, 2016

Dear Millie and the Parrillo family. Deeply saddened to read of Richard's passing. Privileged to observe him from his youth to an outstanding adult. Always courteous and respectful, a tribute to his family upbringing. My deepest and sincere sympathy to the Parrillo families.

Lt. Mark S. O'Connor (Ret.)

October 8, 2016

Very sorry to hear of Rick's passing. He was a friend all the way back to our years in La Salle Academy.

Stephen D'Acchioli

October 8, 2016

I worked with Richard way back in 1975 at Almacs on Murray Street. Very nice person even back then. His father was also my dentist. So sorry for your loss...a difficult time I'm sure.

Steve D'Acchioli

Jim & Loreen Rossi

October 8, 2016

Jeff, and family,

Loreen, Christopher, and I are so sad to learn of the passing of your brother. I know how proud you were of him, and I enjoyed all our many talks over the years in your dentist chair of his accomplishments, during my visits with you.

Our deepest condolences to you , Michelle, and your family.

Jim & Loreen Rossi

Mary Mack

October 8, 2016

To the Parrillo Family I am so sorry for your loss My prayers and sincere sympathies for you all. May your wonderful memories of Richard help carry you through this difficult time Sincere thoughts and prayers Mary Cerullo Mack

Cheryl DeMelo

October 8, 2016

Dear Leslie, Millie and family,
So sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with all at this difficult time. God Bless.

Donna & Chuck Cobb

October 8, 2016

Sandy,
Chuck & I where shocked to hear of Richard's passing. Please accept our deepest sympathy.

Doug Wacek

October 8, 2016

Sandy: I was shocked, and saddened to hear of Rick's passing. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Arlene Picozzi

October 8, 2016

Dear Parrillo family, He will surely be missed by the Lincoln Woods morning walkers.

Bob D'Adamo

October 8, 2016

Dear Millie and the Parrillo family,
I was saddened to read of Richard's passing.
I have fond memories of Richard from childhood to his adult life and accomplishments.
Courteous and respectful traits I will always remember.My deepest and sincere sympathy to the families.

Rose Marie Pullano

October 8, 2016

Dear Millie and Family, I am so deeply saddened for your loss.

Sandra I don't know you but he was a wonderful little boy so no doubt that he was a great husband and dad.

My prayers go out to all of you

Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Rose Marie(Iovino)Pullano
The old babysitter for Jackie, Stephen and Ricky.

God Bless you all

October 8, 2016

So sorry for your loss. Rick was quite a guy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We are out of town at this time otherwise we would be there.

Ret. Lt. Joseph and Maryann osediacz

Steve and Leslie Lefebvre

October 8, 2016

Dear Sandy,Marissa and RJ,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. He was man of quick wit, intelligence and true honesty and integrity. He would always make us laugh and smile with his stories and his interesting take on life. He had the unique ability to make you feel comfortable and at ease. When you were in his presence you knew that he was a true friend, father and husband.

We will miss him.

October 8, 2016

Dear Millie and family I am very sorry for the loss of your son and brother. It just doesn't make any sense to lose someone so accomplished and good. I guess it's time to rely on faith.
Alex Iovino

Ted Kidd

October 8, 2016

We lost one good guy, RIP Rick

Peggy Reynolds Parant

October 8, 2016

To the Parrillo family:

Our deepest condolences on the passing of Ricky. While I haven't seen him since we were all young, the Woodward Road family has so many fond memories for all of us. May he rest in peace.

MARY ELLEN PRATTE

October 8, 2016

My condolences to the Parrillo Family; I will never forget the time when Richard stopped me on 295 on my way to pick up Nancy.And he sounded so important when he asked me for my license and registration.. Of course he didn't give me a ticket he just wanted to make sure I TOLD Nancy THAT HE STOPPED ME..mAY YOU aLL FIND pEACE... mARY Ellen pRATTE...

October 8, 2016

Dear Millie and family,

With heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. We are thinking of you at this time and wishing you comfort and peace.

Maria & Raymond Coppa

October 8, 2016

Our deepest sympathy to the Parrillo family, we enjoyed seeing Richard on our daily walks at Lincoln Woods, may he rest in peace, John Puleo and Gail Tomasso

Ret. Sgt. George Thomas, EPPD

October 8, 2016

I am so sorry to read about the passing of Ret. Det. Sgt. Parrillo. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family and close friends. Our paths crossed often in our police careers and Rick was always a pleasure to work with. May he rest in peace. So sorry!!

October 8, 2016

Lincoln Woods will never be the same....

Fred Cawley

Elaine Papa

October 8, 2016

To the Parrillo family,

We are very saddened and shocked to hear of the passing of Richard.

Richard was so nice to our family and such a dedicated family man and a man of great integrity.

Please accept our deepest sympathy.

Elena Barone
Elaine Papa

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