Robert W. DeSio

Robert W. DeSio obituary, SARATOGA SPRINGS, NY

Robert W. DeSio

Robert DeSio Obituary

Published by The Saratogian from Sep. 11 to Sep. 13, 2020.
Saratoga Springs, NY- Robert W. DeSio, 96, passed away peacefully at his residence on Tuesday, September 8, 2020. Bob was born in Geneva, NY, the son of the late, Fredrick and Livia DeSio. He was one of six brothers and sisters. Bob married the love of his life, Pat (Brown) DeSio, from Schuylerville, NY and the two shared 70 years of marriage and had seven children together. Bob attended Hobart College for one semester before entering the Army Air Corps in WWII. He served in the Asia Pacific Theater in the 20th Weather Wing of the Air Force, serving for three years. While in the Air Corps he attended the University of Minnesota and Harvard University. He graduated from Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute in 1951 and remained there as a graduate student in physics as well as a teaching assistant. He joined IBM in 1953 and held his position for 33 years. During this time he served in many different positions including, Director of Applied Science, Director of Systems Engineering, Director of Advanced Market Development for the International Division, Director of Corporate Technical Institutes and finally as Corporate Director of University Relations. He received a Honorary PHD from Maryville College in St. Louis. After retiring from IBM he was VP for development and Long Range Planning for the National Technological University which is a consortium of 64 Universities. Bob and Pat moved to Saratoga Springs from Connecticut in 1986. He was a Hospice volunteer, Hospice Foundation Board member, former President and Board member for nine years of Saratoga Hospital, President of Saratoga Springs Historical Society, Saratoga Bridges Board member and President, Saratoga Bridges Foundation Board member and President, Lake George Opera Board, President of Friends of Lake George Opera, Skidmore College Business Advisory Board and mentor, Yaddo Garden Association 1000 hour volunteer, Friends of Saratoga Battlefield Board, Saratoga County Arts Council Board, choir and cantor at The Historic Church of St. Peter, recipient of the 1999 Saratoga Springs Rotary Senior Citizen Award, Capital Region Third Age Achievement Award, Treasurer for RPI 50 year club, Empire State College Foundation Board, Advisory Board at National University of Singapore, Board of Overseers of Regents College, Board of Governors of American Society of Training and Development as well as a former member of IEEE and ASEE. In 2020, Robert was chosen by the Rotary Club as the Citizen of the Year. Bob was truly "A Man for All Seasons". In addition to his parents, Bob was predeceased by one daughter, Robin DeSio of Colorado. Bob is survived by his wife Pat, their children, Olivia Lux (Michael) of North Plainfield, NJ, Pamela Kochuba (Tim) of Newtown, Connecticut, Cecelia Luongo of Roswell, Georgia, Marianne DeFelice (Anthony) of North Richland HIlls, Texas, Paul DeSio (Anita) of Heford, Arizona and Peter Desio of Saratoga Springs; as well as eleven grandchildren and eight great grandchildren. Family and friends are invited to call from 4-7 pm on Thursday September 17, 2020 at the William J. Burke & Sons/ Bussing & Cunniff Funeral Home. 628 North Broadway, Saratoga Springs, NY 12866. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11 am on Friday September 18, 2020 at the Historic Church of St. Peter, South Broadway. Burial with Military Honors will be held at 11 am on Monday September 21, 2020 at the Gerald B.H. Solomon Saratoga National Cemetery, 200 Duel Rd, Schuylerville, NY. Online remembrances may be made at www.burkefuneralhome.com. http://www.lastingmemories.com/robert-w-desio

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September 12, 2023

CeCi Savransky posted to the memorial.

September 12, 2024

If I could light a pathway of candles from me to you, I would follow it right now. Remembering how I cried at the honor dinner at ARP when you said, “if I don’t see you soon, I’ll see you in heaven”. Losing a parent is like losing a map of life. Harder to navigate. I love you and miss you, mom, Paul & Robin.

September 12, 2024

Miss you, Dad

CeCi Savransky

September 12, 2023

I miss you so much, Dad. I love you.

CeCi DeSio-Savransky

September 12, 2021

Dad,
One year feels like yesterday. And yet every day without you feels so long. As you always told me, the days are long and the years, shorter still.
I love and miss you so much

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Joe DeSio

September 18, 2020

Your kindness, wit, knowledge and wisdom always amazed me. I wish I could have spent more time with you and aunt Pat. You will be missed but as we know, we will see each other again. Oh, the party we will have.

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Anny & Vince O'Neill

September 17, 2020

Bob was truly so kind and caring. We knew him and Pat through St. Peter's Church. We were cantors together for many years. He had a beautiful voice. His love for Pat was undeniable. I'll miss his post of he and Pat on Facebook. Pat and your family were everything to him. He was so proud of all of you. He will be missed for sure. He was an icon in our church family and his kindness and respectful nature was a wonderful example for all.

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Judy and David Andersen

September 15, 2020

Bob, dear friend,
From that interview dinner at the Wishing Well in late 1991 when you locked your keys in the car and we gave you and Pat a ride home until the present, you have been a wonderful part of our life. So many memories - your outstanding leadership on the Saratoga Hospital board, your love of music, the dance lessons (you were the far better student), the Italian dinners, especially the one where you spontaneously serenaded the whole restaurant with “O Sole Mio” in Italian, your faith, love of family, Mrs. London’s, and, of course, Notre Dame football. We will sorely miss you but you will forever live on in our hearts.

Al Savransky

September 13, 2020

Bob (Dad):

It was an honor and privilege to get to know you. Your wisdom and experience was very enjoyable during our visit. You will live In our hearts forever!
Love, Al

Ce

September 13, 2020

Dad....this photo captures the essence of you. That confident smile. I’m still waiting for you old car ringtone to FaceTime us.

Words don’t serve me well right now... to Pay tribute to you. All you were and still are.

The years I spent with you and mom ....I got know know you both in a way I couldn’t have otherwise. All the funny bird calls and sings we’d make up. The best time doing aerial shots at the steak house with the naval cadets....the kind couple who bought our dinner because you served.

Your antics to get a laugh left us in stitches... The videos we’d watch of practical jokers... Playing rummi cube with the Disantos ...and you always cheating me on words with friends. Even your well remembered morning cough. Singing together with a one word prompt. I loved making you guys laugh with my evening stupid over the top cane dances.

Thank you for embracing Al and handing him the “torch”. He He thinks you are a great man and incredibly wise.

Until we dance and sing again...I’ll see you in my dreams.

As you’d say, the days are Long, the years are short.

I love you

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Cynthia Emerson

September 13, 2020

Bob was my husband's hospice volunteer in 1994 when he was dying from ALS. He would get him books on tape from the library and take my young son for rides in his sport car. He was a lovely, thoughtful man.

Mary DeFelice

September 12, 2020

We were so blessed to have Dad in our lives for as long as we did. He touched so many lives in his 96 years .... none more than my mom, my sisters, my brothers, and I ... love you Dad ... until we meet again ... love Marianne, Tony & Katie

Lynn & Mike Robert

September 12, 2020

He was a wonderful man and we know he will be greatly missed. Our love and prayers are with the family at this time.

You are with me always dad. Enjoy your family in heaven. You are my father and my best friend.

Olivia Lux

September 12, 2020

My wonderful father and best friend. Till the end you were giving me advice and love.
You are gone but everywhere I am things remind me of you...the beach, bike rides, cider donuts. Your sense of humor and wisdom are irreplaceable in my life.
I will keep you with me safe until we meet again.

September 12, 2020

Thank you for your service to our country. Rest In Peace.

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