Robert Moniz

Robert Moniz

Robert Moniz Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 19, 2008.
RALEIGH, N.C. — Robert Moniz, 48 years old, formerly of Dartmouth, passed away Oct. 13, 2008, after a courageous battle with cancer in Raleigh, North Carolina. He was the beloved son of Lillian Moniz of South Dartmouth.

He lived in Dartmouth his entire life until moving to N.C. a few years ago. He was a graduate of Dartmouth H.S., B.C.C., in Fall River and Babson College in Wellesley, MA.

He had a long distinguished career in bank management at local banks. Most recently, he was deposit operations manager at "Nuestro Banco" in Garner, N.C., until his illness.

He was a devoted son to his mother and loved spending time with his dog Shilo.

He is survived by his companion, John Schweitzer of Raleigh, N.C.; his mother, Lillian of S. Dartmouth; brother, Joe of S. Dart.; sister, Susan Pritchard and her husband, George of N. Dart.; niece, Stephanie Walsh of S. Dart.; brother, Wayne and his wife, Sue of S. Dart.; his best friend, Jackie Mayo of Freetown, Mass.; his dear friend, Jeanne Mauney of Cary, N.C.; sisters, Cheryl of F.R. and Brenda of Wareham; brother, Mark of N.B.

As per Bob's wishes, he was cremated and chose no memorial service.

Remembrances may be made to American Cancer Society, 30 Speen St., Framingham, MA. 01701.

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October 13, 2009

Jackie posted to the memorial.

October 12, 2009

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October 27, 2008

Ken Shanahan & Fred Schieferstein posted to the memorial.

Jackie

October 13, 2009

It's hard to believe that a year has passed already. Not a day goes by that I don't find something that reminds me of you. The hole in my heart will never be filled, but your memory will live on with me forever. Although today was such a sad day for me,I also feel blessed that the memories I have of you always seem to make me laugh. Not only were you my best friend, you were always my best medicine when things weren't going well. I miss our late night talks filled with laughs and sometime tears. George, Ross and I often share story about you and we always manage to end our conversations about you with a laugh. Ross still talks about the day he "fired" you. He misses you dearly. Bob, I love you and miss you more than you could ever know. Rest peacefully my friend until we meet again. Love - Jackie

October 12, 2009

One year later and I am still in such disbelief. I hope you truely "Rest In Peace" my friend and know that I have always loved you and always will think of you. Your family is also, for me, a very present and active thought. I know how they must miss you! Continued safe journeys, Mark ox

Ken Shanahan & Fred Schieferstein

October 27, 2008

Our sincere condolences to Bob's family and friends. We will always remember meeting Bob in P-Town and the many wonderful Columbus Day weekends we shared there.

Sergio Lima

October 23, 2008

What to write? I know that words will never say enough in a time like this but I will try. I think of Bobby as a member of my adopted family. My father has been blessed to have so many friends in his life. Some of these friends have touched my life in a way that these people have become the same as family members to me and my sister Sacha. So they become part of this "adopted family" in my heart and memories. Bob was a big part of the family.
Memories that include his restaurant, Golden Girls t.v. show, the beach house, his ceremony with Dan and of course the trip he made to Florida to share with me at my wedding. For years I have asked of Bob. Will he be there when I go home to visit? How is he? Have you heard from him? In all the recent family and friend gatherings Bobby was missed. We are left to carry the memories of him if we so chose to. In his own way he was very special to all of us. I have a special place in my heart and mind that belongs to him. My prayers and love go to his family and friends. He will be missed but never forgotten.

Joe and Jane Osborne

October 23, 2008

We were shocked and deeply saddened when we received this news today.

Every time we came back to R.I. to visit we always asked for Bobby, and were always extremely pleased when he would be able to attend many of the parties at Mark and Paul's. We loved his sense of humor and when we come back to RI for visits in the future he will be deeply missed.

Our deepest condolences to his family and friends.

Jean Forcelli

October 23, 2008

Bobby, you deserved a much longer life. Joe and I were so lucky to know you. Joe is heartbroken. There was a simpatico between you. Familiar souls. You were a sweet gentle man. We've missed you and we will miss you.

Sacha Lebre Lima Salazar

October 23, 2008

"Passa aqui" - to some, this phrase may just be translated as "pass it here!" To my brother and me, this phrase is an emotional reference to a simpler time. Bobby Moniz called us 'rug rats' and 'curtain climbers' and gave us savings bonds. He respected us, loved us and had lots of patience with us. And he taught us...kindness, silliness and twinkly brown eyes. I have missed you Bob and want you to know that it is okay...it will be okay...it has always been okay. We love you.

joyce beauchesne

October 22, 2008

Bob was a gentle man and a gentleman. My fondest memories are of the laughter we shared during so many wonderful parties at the various homes of our many mutual friends.

Jackie Mayo

October 22, 2008

Mom, Joe, Jonathan & family,
Bob was an incredible person and friend. He touched my life in so many ways, that I struggle to think of life without him. His sense of humor, compassion for people & his quirky little ways were just a few of the things that made having him as my friend so special. The laughs that we shared so often, the tears that we shared during trying times and the strength that we found in each other are things I will cherish forever. George, Ross and I are truly better people for having had Bob in our life. May the memories and love that you shared with Bob ease the ache in your heart during this difficult time.
Love,
Jackie

Dan Marcotte

October 22, 2008

To the entire Moniz Family:
It is with great sadness that I learned of Bob's passing. I will always have a special place in my heart for him. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.
Sincerely,
Dan

Mark Lima

October 22, 2008

I come upon this guest book and sense how surreal this moment is. My dearest and closest best friend is passed. Bob, Bobby, Bob-o, Robert-look into their eyes and see their love, Sergio at 3 and Sacha at 2 years old. When they asked, “Daddy, how come he’s still sleeping?”

It is your wish not to be memorialized but you have become a memory and as such, a treasure.Strange is our situation here upon earth. Each of us comes for a short visit, not knowing why, yet sometimes seeming to a divine purpose. From the standpoint of daily life, however, there is one thing we do know: that we are here for the sake of others...for the countless unknown souls with whose fate we are connected by a bond of sympathy. Many times a day, I realize how much my external and internal life is built upon the strengths of people, both living and dead, and how earnestly I must exert myself in order to give in return as much as I have received.

My great friend Bob, I thought of you with love today but that is nothing new I thought about you yesterday and days and days before that too. I think of you in silence when I often “think” your name. What I have now are memories when I see your picture in its frame. Your memory is my keepsake with which I’ll never part. Death has you in its keeping but I have you in my heart. Through the 30 years we’ve known each other we’ve both cried a thousand tears, felt a thousand pains, screamed a thousand words and also died a thousand deaths that leave a heartache that no one can heal. Then there’s love, this leaves a memory that no one can steal. In sympathy with your family and in love with you, my friend, your friend, Mark

Diane Fernandes

October 22, 2008

My deepest sympathy to Bob's family, his companion and friends.I had the pleasure of working with Bob at Compass Bank. He was witty, humorous and kind and always treated everyone with respect. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Nancy Wood (from Compass)

October 21, 2008

Bob was one in a million. I'll never forget his wit, and also his sincerity. My deepest condolences to Jonathan, Bob's mom and all his family and friends.

Marian (Amaral) LaMarra

October 20, 2008

Bob will always be in my thoughts and prayers. As my manager at Compass Bank in Central Information, he was my mentor and a dear friend.  My deepest sympathies to Jonathan, his mom,and his family and friends

Kathy Chabot

October 20, 2008

I am so sad to hear of Bob passing. I worked with him at Compass Bank and it was my pleasure. What a great guy!! My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.

Karen Ribeiro

October 20, 2008

My deepest sympathy goes out to Bob's family and friends. I had the privilage of working with Bob at Compass-Swansea Branch. He was a joy to work for. His great sense of humor and kindness will be missed by all who knew him. His compassion and concern for his co-workers was remarkable. My prayers will be with you all in this sad and trying time.

Doreen (DeMelo) Arruda

October 20, 2008

My deepest sympathy to all of Bob's family, friends & loved ones. I worked with Bob at Compass Bank long ago, and have so many good memories of him and his great sense of humor.

Helen Soares

October 20, 2008

My deepest sympathy to Bob's loved ones. I had the pleasure of working with him at Compass Bank. He was one of the kindest people I've ever met.

John M. Amaral

October 20, 2008

My sincere sympathy to Mr. Schweitzer his mon and family. His great sense of humor will be missed as well as his respect for everyone he touched. I know I am a better person from being in is company. A CompassBank co-worker.

liz Silva

October 20, 2008

My deepest sympathies to Bob's family, friends and companion. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Monica Dumas

October 19, 2008

My deepest symapthy to his mom, family and dear friends...I will always remember the sweet, kind soul that Bob was. Working with him at Compass was a pleasure, he will be greatly missed!

LINDA Petroino

October 19, 2008

We knew Bob through Mark & Paul and he spent many hours at our home ..we loved him and will remember him in our prayers. All our love and sympathy to you . Adam & Linda Petronio

Kathy Lopes

October 19, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. My heart goes out to his family and friends during this difficult time. I will always remember the great times we had working together at Compass. I was blessed to know such a wonderful man. My deepest sympathies to his entire family.

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