Robert "Bob" Murphy

Robert "Bob" Murphy obituary, Stoughton, MA

Robert "Bob" Murphy

Robert Murphy Obituary

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Robert "Bob" Murphy, 73, a longtime resident of Stoughton, died peacefully at Good Samaritan Medical Center in Brockton surrounded by his family on Thursday, August 25, 2016. He was the husband of Natalie M. (Lutkus) Murphy for 46 years. Son of the late Arthur R. and Geraldine (Foley) Murphy, he was born in Boston and raised in Hyde Park. Robert was a graduate of Hyde Park High School, Class of 1961. He was an Airman in the U.S. Navy and a Veteran of the Vietnam Era. He resided in Stoughton for the past 46 years. Mr. Murphy was a Trooper with the Massachusetts State Police, retiring as a Homicide Detective working with the Norfolk County District Attorney's Office. He worked for the Massachusetts State Police for 26 years before retiring in 1994. He then worked for the Massachusetts Parole Board for 9 years. In addition to his wife, Mr. Murphy is survived by his children, Kristin M. Buker and her husband Daniel and Robert A. Murphy and his wife Lucy all of Rockland, as well as his grandchildren, Rachel and Lauren Buker and Olivia and Elizabeth Murphy. He was the brother of Janice A. Aviza of Durham, NH, Virginia M. Murphy of Albuquerque, NM, William J. Murphy of Westborough and the late David G., Paul F. and Richard D. Murphy. He is also survived by 10 nieces and nephews. Funeral Service will be held from the Farley Funeral Home, 358 Park St., (Rt. 27) Stoughton on Tuesday at 10:30 AM. Visiting Hours Monday from 4-7 PM. Interment with Military Honors will take place at Massachusetts National Cemetery, Bourne. In lieu of flowers, donations in Robert's memory may be made to Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, PO Box 849168, Boston, MA 02284.

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July 24, 2017

Michael McKay posted to the memorial.

August 30, 2016

The Gatturna & Carrara Families posted to the memorial.

August 29, 2016

George Grigas posted to the memorial.

Bob Murphy, was my best and long lasting Friend. I' knew Bobby when he first because a Trooper. I was 15 year's of age and he became my mentor and Friend for well over 40 years. We departed of some time but Fate brought us together when he worked out of t

Michael McKay

July 24, 2017

Bob Murphy, was my best and long lasting Friend. I' knew Bobby when he first because a Trooper. I was 15 year's of age and he became my mentor and Friend for well over 40 years. We departed of some time but Fate brought us together when he worked out of the DA's Office and I helped him close over fifty cases. Bobby turned me into a real Trooper - He was a Cops, Cops. I knew his wife and kids from an early age. He helped me through life, and tought me at a latter age about people. I will Truly miss Him. A Friend, Partner, and a person who would take on any task no matter what it was. Bobby and Myself were going to write a Book together back in 1990. But he was living the life. So I in turned wrote the Book myself and added he name within it. It was called A Big House for Little Men, by Michael W. McKay. Myself, Bobby and Andy, hung each week-end watching NASCAR. He was a big fan of it. Bobby, I will always remember you and so will my wife and 2 Kids. My wife remembers when you came to our wedding. When they made you, they broke the mold. You had so many FRIENDS. and I was so lucky that you came into my life, we met and we both came from the same part of Boston. So, I will end saying I love you Bobby, and for those of you who don't know what this means, Google it. I've said it all my Friends who Died. "SYOTOS" Your Friend Michael W. McKay aka (Mikey Thurber)

The Gatturna & Carrara Families

August 30, 2016

To the Murphy Family - Bob was such a nice guy and a great friend to my dad. We had so much fun with Bob when he found out my dad never went fishing and decided to take him on a fishing trip. They had more laughs that day. Please know that you are all in our prayers and may the memories that you keep close get you through this most difficult time.

George Grigas

August 29, 2016

Bob was a great guy. It was always a pleasure to work with him when he had business with the prison.

Bob O'Keefe

August 29, 2016

Bob was one of the funniest, most interesting, focused and smartest men I ever met. I was fortunate to work with Bob on the Mass Pike for five years, and then at the DA's office in Norfolk County for seven years. I was lucky enough to call him a friend.

Bob O'Keefe, Sgt. MSP, Ret., Millis

Maura Gostinger

August 29, 2016

Bobby was my cousin and only three years older than me. I have many memories of him when I was younger and lived in Massachusetts. He would often stay at Grandma's house at the same time Janice and I were there. When I was in the convent, he gave me a ride in his flashy red & white Chevy. He took my sons and I to a Red Sox game. My sons, Travis and Tom still have the fishing rods he gave to them when they were young. Through the years we intersected, but I knew that if I called him we could pick up from the last time. I spoke to him a month ago around his birthday and he told me he was doing well even after being diagnosed with cancer. The last thing I said to him was I'll be praying for you and I love you." I am sad that he has passed away and he will be missed. My thoughts are with Natalie, his children, Janice, Ginny and
Bill. May the Lord comfort you and may his memory bring you a smile. Maura (Campbell) Gostinger

Leo Gerstel

August 29, 2016

A tremendous investigator, the real deal, an unassuming guy. So sorry for your loss.i had the pleasure of working with bob on a couple of occasions on the job. Will miss him.

Irina & Bob Carpenter

August 28, 2016

We're so sorry to hear about your loss. May you find peace in the memories you have of him that will be there forever in your hearts.

Diane Lilly

August 28, 2016

To the Murphy family,
Very sorry to hear about your loss.
I worked with bob on the state police. He always watched out for me, and made sure the boys treated me right on the job. Classy guy. Rest in peace Bob.

Christine Robbins

August 28, 2016

Dear Murphy and Buker Familes,
We are so saddened for you all. May your memories and love for your dad bring you peace and comfort during this difficult time. We are thinking and praying for you all.
Love, The Robbins Family (Christine, Scott, Christopher & Hailey)

Carol Donahue

August 28, 2016

To my great friends & family Bob will be missed by all who knew him. With love to Nat and family

Deb and tony Sperdigliozzi

August 27, 2016

Tony and i are so sorry for your loss. Memories can not be taken from you, so reflect on your memories and God will get you through this difficult time.

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