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Ronald G. Couture
1958 - 2007
Ronald G. Couture
1958 - 2007
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Ronald Couture Obituary
Ronald was born in Rochester, NH on December 22, 1958, the son of Jacques and Georgette (Chasse) Couture and had been living in Flanders, Long Island, New York for the past 25 years.
He was a 1976 graduate of Spaulding High School in Rochester, NH, a 1980 graduate of the University of New Hampshire in Durham, NH and received his Masters degree from C. W. Post College in Long Island, NY. He was currently employed as a guidance councilor at Northport High School in Northport, NY where he touched many lives in his many years there. He loved biking, kayaking, downhill skiing, ice skating and tennis. He was predeceased by a brother, Donald Couture who died 1997 and by a niece, Krista Couture.
Surviving members of the family include: his parents; one brother, John Couture of Denver, CO; one sister, Giselle LaBruto of Farmington, NH, a special nephew, Anthony LaBruto of Farmington, NH. A very close friend, David Adeo of Ghent, NY and several aunts, uncles and cousins.
Friends and family are invited to gather at Our Lady of the Holy Rosary Church, 189 North Main Street, Rochester, NH for a Mass of Christian Burial to be held at 10:30 AM on Tuesday with Fr. Pierre Baker officiating. Arrangements are under the direction of the H. J. Grondin & Son Funeral Home, 177 North Main Street, Rochester, NH.
In lieu of flowers the family requests that memorial donations may be made to the Ronald Couture Scholarship Fund, c/o Jacques and Georgette Couture, 8 Letourneau Street, Rochester, NH 03867. To sign the on-line guest book, go to www.GrondinFuneralHome.com.
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Giselle Pomeroy
July 27, 2020
So many things to show you.
Giselle Pomeroy
July 27, 2017
On the ten year anniversary of your passing, I think it's safe to say that you are missed just as much as day one. You are a special soul and greatly missed. ❤
Giselle Pomeroy
December 22, 2016
Happy Birthday Ron, we love and miss you! Giselle, Tom, Anthony, Maggie & Dady
Grace Manalo
July 27, 2016
Dear Mr. Couture,
When things aren't looking to great and I go down a dark path somehow I ALWAYS find you in my thoughts with the light saying, "Mizz Grace...". I love you. Thanks for being my guide, inspiration, and strength.
Sending all of my love!
Love,
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Grace Manalo
July 27, 2015
Dear Mr. Couture,
I wish I could show up to your office to tell you all about my life like I used to. You'd never believe all that has happened since high school (the good, the bad, and the UGLY)! I'm forever grateful for everything you taught me and for your genuine compassion you showed me and all of the students who had the honor to have you as their guidance counselor.
Every time something amazing or something awful happens I think of you and feel your presence. Thank you so much for being their for me then and now. You are an angel to me. I miss and love you so much!
All my love,
Grace
Giselle Pomeroy
December 22, 2014
Happy Birthday Ron!
We love and miss you. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. Hope you, mom & Don like your Christmas Tree.
Love Always,
Giselle
December 23, 2012
Happy Birthday a day late. All my LOVE today and every day always and forever.
D.
Grace Manalo
July 28, 2012
Dear Mr. Couture,
Every year I've come to this website trying to find the words that would do my feelings justice. I still can't say I've found them. All I know for certain is that till this day, I am still learning from you. I still look up to you--you are a role model to me. I look back with a smile and great gratitude knowing that such an awesome, selfless, and beautiful person was apart of my life. I want you to know you're always in my heart and I appreciate all your help and support in the past, present, and future. Thanks for everything. I miss you so much.
Love Always,
Grace
Da vid Adao
July 20, 2012
Dear Ron,
Thinking of you always. Love Always from D. on Cape Cod
Your Friend
December 22, 2011
HAPPY BIRTHDAY Those you did so much for will always remember you.
Love is Forever.
Love D
Your Friend
December 21, 2011
Thinking of you always, Happy Birthday as your day approaches. I miss you here in the physical realm yet I sense your presence near at all times. I look forward to seeing you one day soon.
Love D
Lee Hunsaker
October 7, 2011
I lost track of Ron after college. We were fraternity brothers at Sigma Beta, same pledge class. A damn decent guy. I'm sorry we didn't stay in touch. God Bless, Ron.
July 27, 2011
I am so glad to know you are always near as you have been these last few years. Thanks for your positive energy vibrations, your smile and our conversations. Above all thanks for helping me learn on this journey.
Love Always and Forever
D
Giselle Pomeroy
July 27, 2011
Missing you on the anniversary of your death.
All our Love,
Giselle, Tom, Anthony, Maggie & Dad
July 12, 2011
To this day I am still reminded of the ways you helped shaped my life. Your footprint is enduring. Thank you for your guidance during formative years. You always had the best perspective on life.
TK
March 6, 2011
I see your smile everyday. Love
CC
December 24, 2010
On your Birthday and everyday we think of and remember how you touched our lives. Love Always
From
Cape Cod
July 28, 2010
Thinking of and loving you everyday.
Cape Cod
February 2, 2010
We still miss you and think of you always. We make the jokes for you but it is still not the same. You left a void that can never be filled.
December 21, 2009
Happy Birthday Tomorrow
Love Always
Cape Cod
October 19, 2009
You are in my thoughts many times throughout every day of the year.
LOVE always and forever.
June 25, 2009
Thinking of you always. Grateful to have you in my life. You taught us all so much that we always will remember.
Love and Peace Always.
David
December 22, 2008
Happy Birthday always.
David
December 15, 2008
You are always here in our hearts. We cherish your smile and the time you spent with us.
Love & Peace from Cape Cod
Giselle LaBruto
July 26, 2008
As we approach the one year anniversary of Ron's death my family and I would like to thank everyone for their kind notes, thoughts, and support. The past year has not been easy but like most of you we have felt Ron with us when something funny, mischievious, or thoughtful has happened. We are truly blessed to have had him in our lives.
Giselle
Anthony LaBruto
July 26, 2008
Uncle Ron was one very special person because he was my godfather and he was the first person who ever held me when I was a baby. We woud ski and ride bikes together and that was so fun! I miss you - Love Anthony
matt couture
October 15, 2007
i offer my condolences to memere, pepere, aunt giselle and uncle john.
Sarah Holzmann
September 13, 2007
Hello, I am Sarah Holzmann, from the High School newspaper. If anyone wants to me to include one of their quotes (you can say almost anything), just let me know. Thank you.
debbie kaplan
September 5, 2007
My son Ryan had the pleasure of having Mr. Couture as his guidance counselor and friend. Just over two months ago, I had the pleasure of listening to him introduce Ryan at an awards ceremony, and again at graduation. I watched as they exchanged the laughter they always exchanged. Our family will truly miss him. We hope that the kind thoughts and warm memories in this condolence book will help to bring comfort to you all.
Dana Cavanagh
September 3, 2007
To the Couture Family,
When we think of those companions who
traveled by our side down life's road, let us not say wih sadness that they left us behind, but rather say with gratitude that they were once with us. I am very sorry for your loss. Ron will be missed. Sincerely,
Dana Cavanagh ( Melville, N.Y.)
Gregory and Beatrice Guido
August 26, 2007
Ron was a great colleague, a fine professional, and a nice man. I'll miss him. He and his family will be in our prayers.
Craig Yanson
August 20, 2007
I was a student at Northport High School during Mr. Couture's tenure there. He really helped me a lot and even though I may not have been the best student he never gave up on making sure I did my best. When I was a senior he wasn't my counsler anymore but I still popped in to his office to say hi and see how he was doing. I will miss him alot and my heart goes out to his family and friends. R.I.P. I'll miss u and thank u for all u did.
Rosalie Lucia
August 17, 2007
Every day I come to work in the Counseling Center and pass by Ron's office. I still have a hard time believing that he will not be back here in September. He was so incredibly funny, kind, and generous. Ron's vitality energized the whole office. We will miss his fast-paced walk, his booming voice, his laughter, wit and irony. At office parties, we will miss his banana bread (male and female varieties). There were many inside jokes that we, as co-workers, shared (Sorry I stole that vase from you, Ron). His untimely death affects not only his family (whom he loved dearly) but also the students of Northport High School whose lives he touched on a daily basis. I am sure that we will speak of Ron often and remember him always.
Mary Koniarski
August 17, 2007
Mr. Couture was a special person. He will be missed at Northport High School.
Diane Christensen
August 16, 2007
Uncle Jacques, Aunt Georgette, John and Giselle - so sorry to hear about Ron - I can't even imagine what you are feeling - I know that Ron's in a wonderful place watching over all of you - love, Diane Christensen and family
Brenda & Jon Jacobs
August 14, 2007
Ron was our son's Guidance Counselor during his High School years & provided much needed guidance, empathy, compassion & support throughout. Our daughter only met him a couple of times during her freshman & sophmore years, so we will miss his guidance when she's making her college choices. Ron was always there for our kids, as well as for us when we had questions or needed clarification on any issues. Our school & community will certainly be lacking without him. Best wishes & condolences to the entire Couture family.
Stacey Schults
August 12, 2007
So rare do we find someone of such grace and integrity who has a wit that can make you smile on the worst of days. I will miss you Ron, and consider myself lucky to have known such a wonderful human being.
Heavens newest angel certainly will be missed here on earth.
My sympathies to your family and friends
August 9, 2007
To Ron; My friend, I love you,and thank you for everything. You were a true gentlemen, a rare find, a jewel. I will miss you.
Ms.C
Greenlawn NY
Carla Jennings
August 8, 2007
To The Couture Family,
Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Mr. Couture was my daughter's guidance counselor and was one of the best counselors we have come in contact with. Our family has recently suffered a great loss and he was comforting, understanding and very involved in making sure Erica got through her AP Exams with as little stress as possible under the circumstances. He will be greatly missed and will always be in our prayers.
The Jennings Family
lisa sisino
August 8, 2007
To the Family of Ron~
We don't realize how many lives we touch until we are gone from this world. Ron was truly one of those people. He was a warm, caring and giving man. He will be missed dearly by all. Take comfort that he is with the angels and they have wrapped their wings around him and he is at peace. He was taken too soon from us. I will miss you at Northport H.S.
Lorraine Lucas
August 7, 2007
Dear Mr. Couture,
I regret not sending this letter sooner, as I had always planned. You were a great counselor to my two sons, Brian and David. However,
you had a huge impact on David's life. When David was a senior, he was very concerned about getting into college, always feeling inferior as a student. When either David, or the both of us, would come in to see you for counseling visits, you made him feel like he was the best student in Northport High School. When you chose David to receive your Counselor's Award at the Senior Awards Night, you really made David proud of himself. I will be ever grateful for that. David and I came into the counseling center this past fall because David was transferring to another college. You readily took us into your office and helped us find another school for David. You always made David feel that he would be successful and he has been. Your belief in him, made him believe in himself. Because of your help and encouragement, David will be attending a great college next year. David, along with the rest of our family, is in mourning and will truly miss you.
Sincerely,
The Lucas Family
Jenny Konop
August 6, 2007
It is still very difficult to me to comprehend that Ron is really gone. After working so closely with Ron these last four years in the Counseling Center I cannot imagine the my world without him. For the last week I have been walking around in a cloud struggling to find the words to compose this note. He has been a rock and anchor for so many of us and I feel as though we have been set a drift by his loss. Ron was one of the most selfless, compassionate, and giving people that I will ever come to know and after spending the time in New Hampshire and down at Northport Harbor for the two services I am so grateful for the opportunity to see where he got that from. It meant so much to me to meet all of you and put some faces to the names I had been hearing all these years. How lucky Ron was to have all of you and lucky were we all to have Ron. Besides Ron’s calm soothing aside, I will never forget Ron and his unbelievable sense of humor. No other person could get away with the things he said, well, that was what I thought before I met the rest of the family:) When we need another dose of Couture humor, we will certainly have to make a call to New Hampshire. Thank you so much for sharing your son, brother, uncle, and friend with us. He has been my role model, hero, and friend and I will miss him dearly.
Love, Jenny Konop
Janet Koch
August 6, 2007
To the Family of Ron Couture,
What a wonderful man Ron was! Both of my boys had him as a counselor while at NHS. I remember sitting in his office many times staring at the photos of Anthony and hearing his stories of how thrilled he was to have him as his nephew. He was always there for my sons, and for me. Whenever I gave him a panic call he knew just what to say to ease my fears. He was so knowledgable in his field and gave great college advice to my boys. When one finally started college he would always visit Ron on his breaks to give him an update. We all loved him and will miss him terrribly. Our prayers are with you.
Eileen Hatzfeld
August 6, 2007
To the Couture Family,
Please accept our deepest and most sincere condolences. Heaven's gain
is truly our loss. My son Danny had the honor of having Mr. Couture as
his guidance counselor. Every year, without fail, Mr Couture's patience,
warmth and genuine concern guided Danny out of his "academic dilemas."
My family will truly miss him. We send our prayers to you and hope that all of these messages of love and respect for your wonderful son,
brother, uncle and friend will help to bring comfort to you.
With hearfelt sympathy,
The Hatzfeld Family
Inezmarie Graci
August 6, 2007
Dear Mr. C,
I was not as fortunate as my sister to have you as a counselor, but was lucky enough to know you as a person. You were a terrific man with a warm personality and big heart. You will truly be missed. Thank you for being a terrific friend to not only our family, but the countless other lives you have touched. Although you no longer may be with us, your love and warmth will never be forgotten.
Dear Mr. C's Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathies. As you can see from the many entries Mr. C was loved dearly and touched the lives of countless people. I hope that during this hard time that may ease some of your pain.
Love,
Inez
Tarran Martinez
August 5, 2007
I was shocked when I found out of Mr. Couture's death. He was an amazing, funny, nice man. His kindness and presence will be missed. RIP
Annamaria Graci
August 5, 2007
Dear Ron,
I hope you know what a special person you are. It takes someone very special to be able to give of themselves so freely and endlessly to both students and adults.
When I first meet you at the Middle School and we spoke a friendship developed and hasn't stopped.
You were my daughters counselor in both Middle and High School.
I enjoyed listening to stories you told me about your nephew Anthony. When I stopped by your office you always showed me new pictures of him. Your eyes always smiled when you were telling me what Anthony was up to.
I'm going to miss our first talk of the school year on Superintendent
Conference Day. The calls during the year when there was no name but a word or two message. I knew it was my friend calling.
My condolences and prayers are with your family. You will never be forgotten for you are in my heart.
With Love
Annamaria
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Carol Flynn
August 5, 2007
Dear Coutch
I was so shocked by your passing that it still does not feel real. You were the life of our department and I do not know how we will return to work in September.
When the Priest at your funeral mentioned that you were now seated at the table of the Lord, all I could think was that that meal must truly have become one "rockin party"!
I hope you realized how loved and respected you were. I learned so much from you about life and friendship and love. I consider you a very special friend who will live in my heart forever.
Love,
Flynnie
J Keane
August 4, 2007
To the family of Ron Couture,
Our condolences to the passing of a wonderful and caring man. As many other stories before, he also touched my family. My son had him as a counselor. Mr Couture was as honest and straightforward as could be when it came to giving advice to James. He always had us laughing and he really touched James' life in a very special way. He was always there to lend support. I Thank You now because I really never got to express my feelings of gratitude for all you did. We will all remember the big heart you had, and the vision of bigger things to happen. Sincerely,
Keane Family
Pamela Uruburu-Bank
August 4, 2007
My deepest sympathies to Ron's family. I've worked with Ron at the high school for years. My last memory of Ron was of his generous heart. My AP English students were taking the exam, and one student was taking it alone in another classroom in another wing. I had brought donuts for the students, and Ron made a point of bringing the entire box to that one student so that he could make a selection and not be left out. I will miss his warm smile and terrific sense of humor.
"Good night,sweet prince.
And flights of angels sing thee to thy rest."
Helene Rios
August 3, 2007
your presence and humor will be greatly missed in the attendance office in NHS. God comfort your family, and may you rest in peace.
Wanda Sarro
August 3, 2007
My deepest sympathy to Ron's family and friends. I was one of Ron's co-workers through the district, and whenever I got to speak to him on the phone, or he would stop by, he always made me laugh and smile. What a wonderful person he was, and I feel so lucky to have known him. He has left us way too soon. He will be missed more than words can express. Rest in Peace Ron.
Wanda Sarro and Family
Beth Turano
August 3, 2007
I was a secretary in the Guidance Office when Ron first came to the high school. I had the pleasure of working with him for three years before I left. It was the most amazing three years on a job. He was a true gentleman, kind, caring, funny, and was there for anyone who needed him. I remember when Anthony was born and he dedicated his bulletin board to him. It was so wonderful to see how much he loved Anthony and his family. My heart goes out to all of you. He was one of a kind who will be missed so very much. I am grateful that he was a part of my life for even such a short time.
Kim Knieste
August 3, 2007
To the Couture Family,
My heart was broken to hear of Ron's passing. Ron was counselor to both of my sons through their four years at NHS - WHAT AN AMAZING MAN ! We feel honored and blessed to have had Ron touch our lives. Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with all of you. Thank you for sharing Ron with the community of NHS. May all of us take a lesson from Ron and strive to be alittle like him -caring, compassionate & a sense of humor.
Rest in peace, heaven is so lucky to have you - Thanks for everything!
The Knieste Family
Kelly Marsden
August 3, 2007
My deepest sympathies to Mr.Couture's family and loved ones. It is a great loss. Mr. Couture was a wonderful person and always went the extra mile for his students. I had Mr. Couture as a Guidance Counselor seven years ago. He really made a lasting impression in my life.
Dr & Mrs Carmine Mandarano
August 3, 2007
Please accept our heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Ron was an amazing person and we were blessed to have him touch our lives. His endless support for our daughter will always be remembered. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Anne Whooley
August 3, 2007
Ron and I worked together as counselors for a short time before I left the high school. To his family, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. I believe that this thought speaks to the good and decent man that Ron was: What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others. I am glad that I knew Ron. Peace.
Tara Molesso
August 3, 2007
Ron was such a wonderful person. He is the type of person you would go to if you were feeling down. His smile would instantly cheer you up. I will miss you Ron!
Reading with Uncle Ron & Barney May 07
August 2, 2007
Top of the Rock April 07
August 2, 2007
Top of the Empire State Building April 07
August 2, 2007
Ron and Anthony skiing winter
August 2, 2007
Joan & James Lowenthal
August 2, 2007
My son was so fortunate to have Mr.Couture as his guidance counselor for the last two years. He spent over an hour with us helping James feel confidant about getting into college and he also returned numerous phone calls.
Mr. Couture had a soothing, sympathetic, honest way of putting things into perspective. He was patient and made you feel that your child was very important to him. My son was actually looking forward to writing his college essays and having Mr.Couture critique them.
Mr. Couture you were an amazing person and we will miss you. You touched our lives.
Godspeed,
Pamela Geres
August 2, 2007
I worked with Ron at Northport High School. Ron was such a good friend and he always lent a listening ear. Every time I think of him, I start to laugh and smile remembering the jokes we used to tell each other. He was sooo funny!! I also admired the love he had for his family especially Anthony. Ron will be very missed at Northport High School, HE WAS THE BEST!!!!!
Love and Prayers, Pam Geres
NORTHPORT HARBOR
Linda Gruhn
August 2, 2007
I met Ron at Northport High School, when the Transportation Department and the Word Processing Center were in adjacent offices. He impressed me immediately with his uplifting personality, and it seemed a perfect choice when he decided to become a Guidance Counselor.
This past June, I passed his office and his desk was piled high with folders that he was working on. He took the time to ask about my retirement plans, and with a hug and farewell wishes we went out separate ways.
May you rest in peace Ron, friend to so many, and I hope your family will find solace in knowing you are respected and loved by the Northport-East Northport Community.
God bless you,
Patti Bergbuchler
August 2, 2007
While I am deeply saddened by the untimely, unexpected passing of Ron, I feel so very blessed to have known such a magnificent man. Even though I was a new employee of the Northport Counseling Center last September, he really made me feel at ease and treated me as a long time member of the department (family). His quick wit brought joy and laughter to everyone he met. His kindness, integrity and attention to details are traits we should all exemplify. I will always remember his generosity and hospitality when he opened up his Florida home to my husband and me as we vacationed in a nearby city. Ron’s willingness to help anyone with anything is something I will never forget. He truly was a wonderful man; one I am so very proud to call my friend. I will miss him terribly. My thoughts and prayers are with all of his family and friends as we work through this difficult loss.
Love,
Patti Bergbuchler
Lenore Weibert
August 2, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the family of Ron Couture. He had a wonderful outlook on life as well as a great sense of humor. Ron was a colleague as well as a counselor to one of my boys. Our Family shares your loss. Lenore Weibert
Tiffany Pesale
August 2, 2007
Although I have only know Ron for just one year, his wonderful personality and thoughtfulness will surely be remembered. My sincere condolences to the family of
Mr. Ron Couture.
The Kahls
August 2, 2007
Ron was a dedicated counselor and someone who will be greatly missed. Our deepest sympathy goes out to his family.
Stephanie Gralow
August 2, 2007
I am very saddened to hear the news about Ron. I can only hope through reading these entries provides some comfort.As a teacher in the High School, Ron has given me his time , kindness, advise and a laugh or two. He was always willing to help any student. I looked to him for his expertise. He was truly talented and a master.
I will miss him.
Kristin Catz
August 2, 2007
To the Couture family,
Ron was so helpful to me during my first year as a counselor, and made me feel right at home. From dancing on desks to cracking jokes in the hallway, he was a breath of fresh air. He will be missed by everyone at Northport HS, and we were all lucky to know him.
--Kristin Catz
Catherine Martin
August 2, 2007
To the Couture family,
My husband & I went to UNH with Ron and were close friends for several years. We learned of his passing too late to attend the service. I hope that he did not suffer.
I remember his keen wit and sense of humor. I really enjoyed his company and were sad to lose touch. I am glad that he found a profession that so obviously fit him and allowed him to clearly make a difference in so many lives as demonstrated in the earlier entries.
Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time, God bless,
Cathy & Bruce Martin
Rita O'Hara
August 2, 2007
To the Couture Family:
My sincerest sympathies on the loss of Ron. I first met him when he worked in the Purchasing Dept in Npt-E.Npt Schools. He was such a wonderful person and when I heard he was coming to the High School Counseling Center I was thrilled. I knew we would be getting a dedicated, fun-loving addition. I was certainly right. I worked outside Ron's office for all the years he was with us and felt the love and devotion he had to his job and co-workers. I feel so fortunate to have known him and so badly that I wasn't able to get to meet his family whom he loved so much. Anthony was the love of his life and he talked about his doings so often. We all loved to hear his stories. Ron's sense of humor will be remembered by all, but his love for his students will live on forever. Your loss (and ours) is difficult, but knowing what he did for all can ease the pain. I worked in the school district for 45 years. Ron was one of the "Very Good Guys" that you loved to be with and to know. God be with you all.
Carol Flynn
August 1, 2007
Dear Mr.& Mrs. Couture, Giselle, John and Anthony;
I am deeply saddened over the loss of Ron. He was an amazing man and wonderful friend and I wish to thank you for sharing him with me and the other members of the Counseling Center. He was the life of our department and we will miss him greatly. Ron spoke of all of you often and was most proud of all of the wonderful family photos that decorated his office. Giselle, please allow us to continue to watch Anthony grow through photos; Ron was so proud of him that we feel as though he is part of our department.
Fondly,
Carol Flynn (Flynnie)
Dorothy Cappadona
August 1, 2007
Ron,
With appreciation for all that you were able to accomplish for our students at East Northport Junior High/Middle School. We will miss you!
Dorothy Cappadona
Darlene Walters
August 1, 2007
To all who knew Ron,
As I read the numerous samples of students and their families who were touched by the kindness, caring and special gifts that Ron offered, I will likely sound repetious. Nevertheless, I want to share how important Ron was to our family during the transition that my son experienced as a "transfer" student to Northport H.S., just prior to his Junior year. Ron took Chris under his wing and helped him in ways beyond scholastics. Since Chris was a straight A student, he was blessed in the grades department. But imagine the difficulties a 16 year old would have entering into a brand new school environment, not knowing a soul, and coming from a high school a fraction of the size of Northport. Ron was a true help to the whole family through all of this. I smile to myself as I remember how he would tease me when I would call (and call...and call) and ask if everything was going well. He would say, with a smile in his voice, "Okay, Dar...NOW what?!!" But I knew he didn't mind a bit. He knew I was a control freak.
One of my fondest memories of Ron was when I had Ron and a bunch of Chris's teachers over for a dinner party right before H.S. graduation. Ron's special humor and spark for life shone through.
I dropped by to see Ron (no appointment), in mid-June this year, to show him the printed announcement of Chris's graduation from the University of Virginia and to tell him of Chris's new job in investment banking. When I arrived at Ron's office, he was on the phone. I was in a bug hurry, going off to work so we just lipped a shared greeting and I signaled to him that I would call him and fill him in on the latest news. Sadly, I never did.
So Ron, from the Walters family, you were a gift in our lives, and you helped us more than I am sure you realized.
It was so shocking to hear of Ron's passing. Not knowing the details, I truly hope he didn't suffer. It's hard to imagine pain on such a happy face. I remember Ron sharing with my husband and me his difficulties with health as a teenager and it broke my heart.
God Bless your family, and enjoy the bliss of your paradise!
Lansing Corrigan
August 1, 2007
Ron,
You were a good friend, a wonderful co-worker, and the life of the party. You always made everyone feel special. You've touched our lives and will be missed.
Tom Kirdahy
July 31, 2007
My heartfelt condolences go to the family and friends of Ron. I met Ron in a bowling alley in East Hampton and he always had a smile and a kind word for everyone. When he wasn't laughing at me(!) he was making me laugh. Ron was a kind, thoughtful, gentle, wonderful man whose qualities of patience, thoughtfulness and service to others will never be forgotten.
David Adao
July 31, 2007
Ron, I always felt you worked too hard for your students,you always said that they were important to you. Those long hours when you would call and say after a long day that you were arriving home and going right to sleep, worried me. I trust that the students and parents appreciated what you did for them and everyone you came in contact with. We are sad for your loss, yet happy to have had the chance to participate in your life. Thanks for showing us all how to be better. While I always said they didn't pay you enough and the parents didn't appreciate all you and your coworkers did, you would work harder. God Bless
Mary-Jo Monusky
July 31, 2007
You know how special a person is when you haven't seen them in 30
years, and are still very sad to hear of their passing. I went to high school with Ron and remember his great sense of humor and kindness. I had spinal surgery my Junior year and was in a body cast for 9 months. I got out of my cast and went to Paris on a class trip. My mother remembers Ron telling her not to worry, he would carry my luggage for me. We returned from Paris and Ron invited
me to the Junior Prom,which was only weeks away. (I really thought I'd be sitting home that night.)Right before the prom, Ron found out he had Hodgkins Lymphoma. He started treatment right away and still took me even though he was not feeling well.
I was glad to make it to the funeral today and hear how he touched so many lives. He was truly a special person I will never forget.
Coimbra Sirica
July 31, 2007
Dear Couture family:
Like all of those signing this guest book, we've been grateful to have your son and brother in our lives. I asked for him especially four years ago, as a friend had told me that he was sensitive and kind, and would nurture my daughter through her four years of high school. He did that, and held my hand through the college application process. Just two months ago, he stood on the stage at Northport High School next to my daughter, and told of her accomplishments as a member of the class of 2007. He helped her get there, with warmth, patience and affection. We will miss him terribly.
Warm regards, Coimbra Sirica
Lori Chagnon
July 31, 2007
Ron was a great man and always will be in my thoughts. I will always remember the times we went Ice skating and he pushed me and we fell to the ice laughing. He was always a joker. I will miss him greatly. He was a brother I never had and always wanted. God bless the family. I will always love you Ron.
Nancy Gustave
July 31, 2007
Ron came to the Time Out Room across the hall from my classroom in the Middle School. He always had a smile and a marvelous sense of humor and would brighten my day. Sometimes he would have "group" sessions in my classroom during my lunch period and sometimes I was his group. What a good man he was. We both left the middle school together, he going to the high school and I retiring. What a positive impact he had on my life. I was shocked to hear of his passing. We have lost an angel in our midst. I guess Heaven needed him more. I am thankful for having shared some time with Ron. My heart reaches out to the family.
Ann Welsh
July 31, 2007
Giselle,
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. I know how important family is to you. You are in my thoughts.
Ann
Danielle Graci
July 31, 2007
Dear Mr. “C”,
You were my guidance counselor for six years… spanning my time at East Northport Middle School up until my graduation from high school. You were so much more then just a counselor though; you were a friend, a mentor, a father, and a confidant. I couldn’t possibly imagine growing up without you in my life.
For the past four years, I looked forward to coming home on breaks from college and surprising you in your office. I even remember calling you after my first week at Marist and expressing my disbelief that I already had a book to read and a paper due. You’re response was so characteristically you, “Well Miss Graci, what did you expect? This is higher education.” I’ll always treasure the time we would spend laughing and joking on your free periods. After visiting you this June and telling you that I received my B.S. and now plan to pursue a M.A., it became clear that your guidance truly put me on a path to become what I always dreamed of.
I’ll miss you so very much. I hope you knew how much I valued you in my life and all that you gave to me—wisdom, confidence, perseverance, and a profound sense of self.
My heart and condolences go out to your family. May the happy memories you brought countless others comfort them in their time of need.
You’ll always be in my heart.
With love and respect,
Danielle Graci
Lisa & Buddy Stuart
July 31, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Ron was such a wonderful person.
Laurie D.
July 31, 2007
Dear Couture Family,
We were all shocked to learn about Ron's untimely passing. He was a gentleman and an outstanding mentor to hundreds of students. His presence will be greatly missed at the Northport Schools. May you all find comfort in knowing that he was greatly respected and admired by his co-workers, students and friends.
Lynn Smith
July 30, 2007
The news came as such a shock to me this weekend. I could not believe that this was true. I never got to see you or speak to you before the year ended, but I knew Jackson would be a junior and that I would be seeing you and calling you with all my silly questions. You would listen, answer and tell me to keep in touch,You saw my two daughters Molly and Emma through High School and now my son Jackson. On the morning of Septmber 11/2001 we were together and I told you that we would always remember each other because everyone would remember where they were on that tragic day. I also tried to make you promise to stay in Nortport until all my kids graduated since you were the only one they wanted. Although this did not happen I want you to know how much you touched their lives and made such a difference. The kids always told me how much you helped them, guided and supported them. I will miss you so much as a mentor to my children and for being a friend and such a special person. I will miss hearing your voice and seeing that smiling face. You will always stay in our hearts and never be forgotten. You were taken from the people who love you too early but I hope that you are at peace.
Lynn Smith Northport
Catherine Macaluso
July 30, 2007
To The Family of Mr. Couture,
The shock of hearing that one of my most beloved mentors in Northport high school passed away was terrible. He was my sister's counselor as well as mine for each of our four years or high school and my experience wouldn't have been the same without him. He guided my sister to become the salutatorian of the class of '01 and he helped my family through one of the hardest periods of our lives. I could not have imagined going through junior year, or any of my four years without him.
He was an inspiration to all of his students and peers. I miss his caring smile and soothing voice. He always put me in a good mood and whenever I thought all was lost, he could fix it.
Never again will Northport find as genuine of a man as Ron Couture.
Sandy Disbrow
July 30, 2007
I want to extend my condolences on your loss. As a Northport parent, I enjoyed my dealings with Ron and always found him to be caring, humorous, and very honest, characteristics essential to a successful guidance counselor and human being. He was assuredly both. Please know that he was much loved and admired, and will be sorely missed.
Nora Mancini
July 30, 2007
Mr. Couture,
You were one of the most wonderful men I had ever met. You had the warmest heart, a caring and compassionate nature, and a smile that could brighten up any day. I was lost in high school and you always helped me find my way. You made me believe I could do anything my heart desired and set me on a path to success. You gace me the courage and strenght to try my hardest in school, and graduate early with confidence I would do well in the future. If I ever doubted myself I knew I could go to your office and no matter how busy you were, you'd sit down and talk me through anything. It's a shame that such a wonderful human being was taken away from us. But I know you're looking down on us with that beautiful smile of yours.
You will never be forgotten...rest peacefully.
Lauren Lucas
July 30, 2007
Mr.Couture,
You were one of the few people that could make my brother feel so confident about himself and his sucess. Although i did not have you as a counselor like my brother i would like to thank you so much for all that you did to help my brother. You are a great man and will be missed greatly. Thank you so much for your loving dedication. You have helped and inspired many. Let angels guide you in and God Bless.
Cecilia Koomen
July 30, 2007
Dear Mr. Couture's Family,
We are so saddened to hear of Mr. Couture's passing. My son was lucky enough to have had Mr. Couture as his guidance counselor for the past two years. This past January, I had the opportunity to speak to Mr. Couture about my son's plans for his future. Mr. Couture spent a full hour with us generously sharing his thoughts, knowledge and wisdom in order that my son was on the right road to fulfilling his dreams.
I came away from that meeting feeling blessed to have him as my son's counselor. He was a very special man and will be sorely missed by our community.
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
Sincerely,
Cecilia Koomen
karen martel
July 30, 2007
Dear Aunt Georgette, Uncle Jacques, Giselle, and John. I'm so sorry to hear of Ron's passing. Although we lost touch over the years, I will always remember him as a fun cousin. I'm sorry I will not be able to attend his service, but I will have you all in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Karen Martel
Mary Ann Powers
July 30, 2007
Ron:
From the day I first met you, you embraced me as a friend. Your incredible warmth, sense of humor and perspective on life helped me in ways that will stay with me forever. You had quickly become one of the best friends I have had in my life. You will live on in those who loved you and in all of the lives you touched in such a special way. I will miss you, my friend.
Brian Blake
July 30, 2007
Giselle,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. My condolences on the loss of your brother and Anthony's uncle.
God Bless.
Carol Hasty
July 30, 2007
Ma Tante Georgette, Uncle Jacques, Johnny & Giselle,
I'm so sorry that you are having to go through this difficult time right now and also for the second time. I will be praying for all of you to give you the strength to get through this. I know you will because of your strong family ties.
Ronnie was such a special person! He was always so happy and funny. He had the way of always putting a smile on your face no matter what kind of day you were having. He will now have eternal peace.
Please call me if you ever need to talk or for anything else that you may need.
I love you all!
Barbara Busch
July 30, 2007
Dearest Ron,
Your friendship,support, and wise counsel has touched me in ways that will remain with me forever. Although your passing brings pain to my heart, the memories of your life bring a smile to my lips. You brought laughter to all who knew you and touched their lives in a most positive way. I love you, my friend,and wish you peace.
Barbara
Sandi Tilton
July 30, 2007
Giselle,
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy in the recent loss of your brother. Although, I never met him, I always enjoyed hearing the stories of the fun and good times with "Uncle Ron" when he came home for a visit. May the good memories help your through the emptiness at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Anthony and your parents.
God Bless, Sandi
Laura M.
July 30, 2007
Going into Northport High School in 9th grade was a change for me. I got into a lot of trouble in class and with a few people. Mr.Couture was there to help me get over stuff and get passed things. He helped me stay in the classes that i was having trouble with, and was there when ever i needed to talk to someone whether it was because i was freaking out about life or i just wanted to talk to someone friendly. He was truly the most amazing man ive ever known. And it has to come as a complete shock that hes gone. Upon the end of the year he told me that ive become a totally differnt person and he knows that im going to do great in life, and i would like to thank him for having faith in me and believing in me. I'm gonna miss seeing him in the halls and hearing him say "Miss.Maloneee shouldn't you be in class right now," he was the life of the guidance counslors office in my opinion. I hope that during this time his family is copeing with this tragedy the best way they can my condolences goes out to them. RIP Mr.Couture you were a great man and a great friend! You may be gone but you'll never be forgotten.
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