Rose Tibayan

Rose Tibayan obituary, Chicagoe, IL

Rose Tibayan

Rose Tibayan Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 25, 2024.
Rose Eileen Flores Tibayan passed away peacefully at her home in Galena, IL surrounded by her family. She died after a courageous 14-month-long cancer fight. The Funeral Mass will be at 10:30 AM on Saturday, July 20, 2024, at Old St Patrick's, 700 West Adams, Chicago, where friends may call after 9 AM until the time of mass. Rose was the Director of Public Affairs for the City of Chicago's Department of Budget, Management, and Finance under former Mayor Lori Lightfoot. Before falling ill in April 2023, she looked forward to working with incoming Mayor Brandon Johnson. While Rose considered herself an East Coast girl, growing up in Newark, Delaware, then going to school and starting her career in New York City, she would fall in love with Chicago and find love in the Windy City. She moved to the Midwest more than 20 years ago to be with her husband, Don V. Villar, Secretary-Treasurer of the Chicago Federation of Labor. They had met in their previous lives - Rose, a former television news reporter, and Don, a former T.V. news writer/producer at WLS-TV ABC7 Chicago. The couple and their beloved calico Pumpkin are longtime residents of the West Loop. Rose began her T.V. career as a page at NBC's Rockefeller Plaza. She moved up to become a news assistant at NBC Nightly News. Rose credits a conversation with T.V. news legend Connie Chung for inspiring and encouraging her to become a reporter. Rose would go on to cover the news at T.V. stations in Guam, Fort Myers (FL), New Jersey, Philadelphia (PA), San Francisco (CA), and Milwaukee (WI). Highlights of her news career include covering the U.S. military in Guam and during the War in Afghanistan and interviewing Imelda Marcos, the wife of Philippine dictator Ferdinand Marcos. Rose was also a published author. She wrote a Resume Tape Book to help other aspiring T.V. journalists navigate the news industry. The 400-page book has helped scores of T.V. journalists in their careers. In her post-TV news career, Rose worked in corporate communications. She also had an entrepreneurial spirit. She started Blackline Review, a digital media company covering startups. At Blackline Review, six of her stories won Telly Awards. Her glowing beauty and generous heart struck those who met Rose. Rose competed in beauty pageants in her youth. She was Miss Teen cover girl and Miss Philippines USA. She also competed in the Mrs. International Beauty Pageant 2014, winning the popularity crown. Rose was very active in her community. In 2009, she organized a series of candlelight vigils in Chicago for two American journalists detained by North Korea. Two weeks after the very last candlelight vigil, where Reverend Jesse Jackson led the call for the release of the two journalists and appealed to President Barack Obama, the North Korean government released Laura Ling and Euna Lee. Rose was deeply concerned about women's issues. She started the Sampaguita Group Foundation to raise college scholarships for young Filipino women. She volunteered her time and skills to the Rizal Center, Chicago's Filipino American Community Center, where she helped create the website and organized the children's craft fairs and fundraising events. Following the 2013 devastation of typhoon Haiyan in the Philippines, Rose helped organize relief efforts at the center for the typhoon victims. Among the survivors were her mother-in-law and father-in-law. They were in the Philippines when the most powerful storm ever made landfall in history passed over them. Rose was a volunteer co-curator of the Philippine collection at the Field Museum. The museum has the largest collection of Philippine artifacts outside of the Philippines. During her battle with cancer, Rose and Don would spend their weekends at their home in Galena. After undergoing chemo at Northwestern Memorial Hospital in Chicago, she longed to be surrounded by the peace and tranquility of Galena. There, she would take walks with her husband or sit on her patio, surrounded by nature and wildlife. It was a welcome, therapeutic respite. Rose was also an animal lover. She's had eight beloved cats throughout her life. Her platform at the Mrs. International pageant was in support of animal shelters. She was a member of the Asian American Journalists Association, where she met her husband. She helped advocate and raise funds for the Hydrocephalus Foundation in memory of her father, Manuel Tibayan. It was only after Rose and her husband cared for him in their home during the final months of his life that he was diagnosed with the disease. Rose had a love for fashion. She attended the Fashion Institute of Technology in New York City for two years. She would then go to the University of Delaware, where she graduated with an English degree. She received a master's degree in journalism from the Columbia University of New York City. In one of the final recognitions for her selfless work for others, Rose was celebrated at the 2023 Chicago Labor Day Parade. She was named the Grand Marshall of the parade. Rose was preceded in death by her mother, Leticia Flores Tibayan, and her father, Manuel Ilagan Tibayan. She leaves behind her husband, Don, her sisters Rowin Windle-Couve and Raelynn Remy, their husbands Jerome Couve and Mitch Remy, and four nephews, Matthew Windle, Luke Remy, Samuel Remy & Christian Couve. Rose will be celebrated at a mass at Old St. Patrick's church in Chicago. Rose asked that donations be made to the groups she cared so much about instead of flowers - the Asian American Journalists Association, the Rizal Center of Chicago, or the Anti-Cruelty Society of Chicago. Online condolences may be left at www.furlongfuneralchapel.com

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June 24, 2025

donovan myrie posted to the memorial.

September 5, 2024

Ronette Wilson posted to the memorial.

July 22, 2024

The Marsalek Family planted trees.

donovan myrie

June 24, 2025

I was one of the people who worked with Rose way, WAY back at NBC in the 1980s. Rose and I worked together at NBC's Messenger Center, a rival to the Page Program (Pages weren't too fond of us as we were all competing for the same jobs!). I was also a contributor to The Resume Tape Book. The last time we saw each other was in 2005 at AAJA in Minneapolis (I was on one of her panels). We had a nice long talk after the panel and it was great catching up on where our careers had taken us over the previous two decades. We were supposed to have dinner together in 2009, but she had to cancel at the last moment. We would email back and forth sporadically (I'm laughing b/c once I had to be the "guy's point of view" for her cousin who was having a problem with an ex-boyfriend (thank goodness for old Yahoo emails as I was just re-reading it). I was out of the country last year when Rose passed and didn't find out about it until today. I am truly sad that she is gone- Rose Tibayan was one-of-a-kind and someone who brought lots of smiles and happiness into people's hearts. The world was a better place because of her (and her quirks!); it's a little emptier without her. =(

Ronette Wilson

September 5, 2024

Rose accepted an invitation to speak at Rowan University in Southern NJ in the early 2000's. She was eager to share her experiences with young journalists and television majors. She will be remembered as a kind and generous soul who inspired her community.

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Randy Garcia

July 20, 2024

Randy Garcia

July 20, 2024

Randy Garcia

July 20, 2024

Missing my good friend and colleague Rose

Randy Garcia

July 20, 2024

Love you my good friend and colleague, May you Rest In Peace

Jiji Connolly

July 10, 2024

Robert F Patterson II

July 7, 2024

I send my prayers and thoughts to her family
I'm very sorry for your loss

Robert F Patterson II

July 7, 2024

I remember watching her on WPVI 6ABC Action News here in Philadelphia, PA.

Etta McKenna

July 4, 2024

I knew Rose when we were Thursday volunteers at the Field Museum. She was generous and honest with her time and dealings with all of us members of the Philippine Co-curation project. She photographed all our events every month for 2 years and shared the pictures on our website. We enjoyed and looked forward to those events.

Etta McKenna

July 4, 2024

Our time together volunteering at the Field Museum especially during the Filipino Co-curation events.

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