Rufus Carrollton Harris Jr.

1923 - 2018

Rufus Carrollton Harris Jr. obituary, 1923-2018, New Orleans, LA

Rufus Carrollton Harris Jr.

1923 - 2018

BORN

1923

DIED

2018

Rufus Harris Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 29 to Jan. 31, 2018.
Rufus Carrollton Harris, Jr. died peacefully on Monday, January 29, 2018. Rufus was born September 6, 1923 in Macon, Georgia to Mary Louise Walker and Dr. Rufus Carrollton Harris. He is survived by his children: Elizabeth Harris Hawk (Thomas), Rufus Carrollton Harris, III (Victoria), Louise Harris Saik (Clifton), Douglas King Harris (Diana); his loving wife of 39 years Mary Lou Hevron Harris and her children: Michele Lafaye Lopiccolo (Frank) and Edward Emory Lafaye, III (Olivier); and his brother Dr. Joseph Henry Walker Harris (Elvy). He also leaves behind 12 grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren who called him Big Ruf. He is preceded in death by his parents, his son Charles Dicks Harris, his grandson Douglas King Harris, Jr. and his brother Louie Kontz Harris. Rufus graduated from Isidore Newman High School, Tulane University and Tulane Law School, where he was a member of the Law Review. He was a member of the Beta Theta Pi fraternity and was on the Tulane tennis team for 4 years. He was a Southeastern Conference doubles champion. He served as a lieutenant in the Pacific (USS Miami) during World War II. For over 40 years, he practiced law in the field of Admiralty at the Terriberry law firm. He had a distinguished career as a litigator and was always known for his professionalism. He was a member of the New Orleans Lawn and Tennis Club, the Southern Yacht Club, the Boston Club, and several carnival organizations. He was an avid tennis player, hunter, and fisherman. In retirement, he enjoyed bird watching and was a life master bridge player. Most importantly, he was always known as a gentleman. He was a member of St. Charles Avenue Baptist Church where he served as a deacon for many years. He was also a trustee at the church. He served on the board of Southern Baptist Hospital and was chairman of that board. He also served on the boards of St. Martin's Episcopal School, the American Red Cross, and Christian Health Ministries. Relatives and friends are invited to attend the service on Thursday, February 1, 2018 at Lake Lawn Metairie Funeral Home 5100 Pontchartrain Blvd., New Orleans, LA. Visitation will be from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m., followed by a service at 12:00 p.m. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to the Orleans Audubon Society 64340 Fogg Lane, Pearl River, LA 70452-5206.

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February 1, 2018

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February 1, 2018

Julian Kelly posted to the memorial.

February 1, 2018

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Glenn Ousset

February 1, 2018

Very sorry for your loss. His cheerfulness, gentleness, and character will be missed by all who knew him.

Julian Kelly

February 1, 2018

So sorry for your loss. I grew up in Rufus' company down at the duck camp, and he, through his words and actions, taught me what it was to be a considerate and courteous man, a gentle man, and above all, a true gentleman. He will be greatly missed.

Orleans Audubon Society

February 1, 2018

Rufus served on the Board of Directors of the Orleans Audubon Society for five years, during which time he chaired the Legal Committee and served on the Fund-raising and Sanctuary committees. In 2013, he became the first recipient of the Swallow-tailed Kite Award, honoring him for his service to Orleans Audubon and especially for his dedication to the Swallow-tailed Kite Project. He was a volunteer for the kite project for over 20 years.

The Board of Directors sends its sincere condolences to the family.

Jennifer and Tom Coulson

February 1, 2018

We will miss our dear friend, Rufus. He was so much fun to go birding with because he was always up for adventure! Rufus was also an important mentor to Jennifer, helping her to launch her career as an ornithologist. Our condolences to the family.

Dottie & Denny Higgins

January 31, 2018

Our condolences to the family We will miss his visits to Lafitte he was always so wonderful to talk to about his love of fishing hunting the beautiful pictures he would send us over the years we thought of him as a great friend

J. Scott Bond

January 31, 2018

My deepest condolences to Rufus, III. and the rest of the Harris family. He was a kind and gentle soul from the greatest generation. I will always remember him fondly. With Love.

January 31, 2018

Mary Lou,
My deepest sympathy and prayers. Rufus was a true gentleman and you you enjoyed a wonderful life together. I'm so glad you had such a long and happy marriage.
Irene Ernst Mackenroth, New Orleans

Bitsy and David Duggins

January 31, 2018

Rufus was The Gentelmans ,Gentleman!!! .... with a magnificent sparkle in his eyes ...a true treasure to have as a friend ! Joyous memories we will be blessed with forever....Our special love to you MaryLou and the family ! Bitsy and David Duggins

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Jimmy Nelson

January 30, 2018

Mary Lou, our deepest sympathy. Mathilde & Jimmy Nelson

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January 30, 2018

Mary Lou,

I am so very sorry for your loss. Rufus was such a kind man, and mom and dad thought the world of him. Please know that we are thinking of you and the family at this difficult time.

Caroline Murphy Christman

Beth Robinson Carroll

January 30, 2018

Rufus and the entire Harris clan, I am ever so sorry for your loss. Your dad was high on the list of those my precious mother held in great regard! Sending prayer requests for peace and comfort for you all.

George Matthews

January 30, 2018

What a wonderful and gracious gentleman. I know he will be greatly missed.

J C

January 29, 2018

Sincere condolences to the family for your loss. May beautiful memories of happy times shared bring you peace and solace. May the God of all comfort sustain each of you during your time of mourning.

GEORGE & SUSAN WHITE

January 29, 2018

Mary Lou, Susan and I have lost a true friend. We will miss his sense of humor. He truly was a gentleman and I considered him as a role model. If there is anything we can do to help you through this, please let us know.

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