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Sandra Stetler Obituary
Sandy was formerly employed by Snyder County Bank of Selinsgrove as executive secretary; Lewisburg United Methodist Homes and the Big T Restaurant on Island Park; also a secretary for stock brokers Eugene Frey and Leonard Fellon and also secretary for Joe Peyser of Keystone Forge of Northumberland. While in high school, Sandy was a waitress at the Curve Inn Restaurant in Northumberland.
Mrs. Stetler was a member of Trinity United Methodist Church, Northumberland, where she assisted with an adult Sunday School class and volunteered in the nursery.
Sandy was the best wife, mother, grandmother and friend anyone could have. She was the rock of her family, always knowing what to say and how to say words to make the people around her feel special.
Her greatest passion was spending summers relaxing and fishing at her family's Canadian lakefront cabin with her loving husband of 39 years, Elwood "Woody" Stetler; cheering her grandsons at various events; cuddling her new baby grandson; hosting her family for holiday dinners and playing pinochle with good friends.
Surviving, in addition to her husband, are two devoted sons and daughters-in-law, Charles "Ed" and Temisa Stetler of Northumberland and James "Clint" and Kristin Stetler of Mifflinburg; one loving daughter and son-in-law, Andrea and Troy Teats of Winfield; five adoring grandsons, Jeremy, Jonathan, Noah, Gabriel and Tucker; three sisters, Joanne Bolig of Northumberland, Frances "Frankie" and Tom Jones of Sunbury and Marion "Mickie" Waters of Missouri; one brother, Charles "Buddy" and Judith Ditton of Northumberland; one sister-in-law, Kay Stetler Coup and Robert Coup of West Chester and many nieces and nephews.
Friends will be received from 7 to 9 p.m. today at the Jerre Wirt Blank Funeral Home, 309 Water St., Northumberland. A funeral service will be conducted at 11 a.m. Tuesday at Trinity United Methodist Church, Sixth and King streets, Northumberland.
Donations in lieu of flowers may be made in Sandy's memory to Trinity United Methodist Church, 6th and King streets, Northumberland, PA 17857, or to Township of Stone Mills Fire Department, 4504 County RD4, Centerville, ON.KOK_1NO
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Margaret Urey
October 21, 2006
I just received notice of Sandy's passing after arriving in Arizona this week. I know what a difficult time it is to suffer the loss of a spouse and a parent and wish you all well on your journey through this time of grief.
Bill/Gloria Dalius
October 3, 2006
Woody,
So sorry to hear of Sandy's passing. You have our deepest sympathy.
Carol Yeage
September 29, 2006
Woody,
You might not remember us, Carol Hudock and Bob Yeager. We both spent much time with Sandy and your brother Eddie. Sandy was sure a good woman and lots of fun. She sure was someone I looke up too ... she was one of the upper classmen I admired. I sure am sad to know she has died. If you get a chance to send us a line, we live in Georgia now. Email us at [email protected] . May the Lord comfort you now as you go on here on earth without you dearest wife and friend.
Carol Hudock Yeager
108 Woodridge Drive
Warner Robins GA 31088
Jeff Hager
September 29, 2006
Charlie, Our deepest condolences on the loss of your mother. If we can do anything, let us know.
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Donna Wagner
September 28, 2006
Woody,
I am so sorry to hear of your wife's sudden passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope to see you around Selinsgrove School District again.
Gretchen Loy
September 27, 2006
I am absolutely heart-broken to hear this news. I worked beside Sandy at SCTC and she was such a nice, genuine person with a big heart. We had lots of laughs even while working. I know she loved her husband and family greatly. May God keep her and her family in his care. My prayers are with you all.
barry pesci
September 27, 2006
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Joan Cunningham
September 27, 2006
Dear Woody and family:
You may not remember me, but we did a few grants together at Neshaminy.
My deepest prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family. May happy memories help to slowly heal the grief and put a smile back on your face.
Sandra Costanzo
September 26, 2006
Dear Woody and Family,
It is with deep sadness that we received the news of the sudden passing of your beloved wife, Sandy. Please know that the thoughts and prayers of the entire Neshaminy family are with you and your family at this very sad and difficult time in your lives.
Sincerely,
Nathalie Pritchard
September 26, 2006
Woody,
I was so sorry to hear about your wife. I know you were very devoted to her. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Ben and Andi Hummel
September 26, 2006
Wood and all: Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Remembering the fun we had here when you visited and had hoped you'd both make it out again to Wyoming's "wilds." Sandy will be much missed.
Bob & Shirley Blyler
September 25, 2006
Woody,
Our sincere sympathy.
Peggy Brecht/Whipple
September 25, 2006
Woody and family,
So very sorry to hear of your loss. May angels watch over you and yours as you go through this time of sorrow.
carole rowe
September 25, 2006
woody, i am so sorry to learn of the passing of your beloved sandy."trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not to your own understanding. in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths." that scripture quote has gotten me thru some pretty rough times over the course of my life since graduating from nhs, and my prayer is that it will do the same for you. your friend from school, carole russo rowe
Robb Whitmoyer
September 24, 2006
Dear Woody and Kids,
Sorry to hear about the death of
Sandy. My thoughts and prayers are
with you.
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