Sarnell Harriet Ogus

February 1, 1927 - April 2, 2024

Sarnell Harriet Ogus obituary, February 1, 1927-April 2, 2024

Sarnell Harriet Ogus

February 1, 1927 - April 2, 2024

BORN

February 1, 1927

DIED

April 2, 2024

Sarnell Ogus Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 3, 2024.
Sarnie was born February 1st, in Chicago, to Albert and Minnie Ogus. She was the youngest of four children: sisters, Libby and Geri, and her brother Bobby. When she was four years old, she nearly died from an ear infection, and suffered from hearing loss for most of her life. She was a bright young woman, and graduated from high school a year early, but due to finances, college was not an option.

At the age of eighteen, while she was working as a messenger at MGM studios , she met a young cameraman named Gerald Hirschfeld. They married after a two week courtship, moved to Greenwich Village in New York, and when she was twenty, she had her first son, Alec.

The couple moved to the suburbs of Long Island, and the family grew, adding two more sons, Marc and Eric. Due to the demands of her husband's career, Sarnie was left to raise the boys more or less on her own. Within a few years the family moved into a larger house, and Sarnie had a fourth son, Burt.

Eventually the family returned to Manhattan. As the boys became more independent, and her husband increasingly possessed by his career, Sarnie became a dedicated dancer, first taking lessons and then becoming a dance therapist. The mind/body connection inspired her for the rest of her life.

At the age of 43, Sarnie took her first lesson in a movement therapy called The Alexander Technique. She had been in an automobile accident and was due for spinal surgery when a chance meeting prompted her to try this mind/body technique. The lessons were so successful in alleviating her pain that Sarnie made the commitment to become a practitioner of the technique. Her success at treating people led to her decision to become a trainer; teaching others how to administer the technique. In 1972 she was certified as a teacher by the American Center for the Alexander Technique. She treated clients in her home studio, continued to train new practitioners, and eventually became an elder statesman of the technique, lecturing around the country. At around this time, Sarnie and Jerry gave up on their marriage and divorced.

A second marriage, to Irving Levine, an engineer, retired businessman, and psychologist lasted until Irv's death. The couple lived in East Hampton, NY, where Sarnie had many friends.

Sarnie's family has grown from four sons, and now includes eight grandchildren: Ian, Marina, Isaac, Max, Grace, Susan, Tanat, and Yosita; six great grandchildren: Andreas, Amelia, Astrid, Lincoln, Rosalie and Devon; and seven daughters-in-law (current and former). She is loved by all and will be missed.

By any measure, Sarnie had a full life. On growing old she said, "Things sag, and your skin changes. It's a good thing to embrace it, because the inevitable is going to happen...and hopefully, the more you embrace the fact that you're aging - without succumbing, without being old...Be young as you get old."

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James Pingelli

February 10, 2025

So very sorry to see this notice. I rented a room in Sarnie's apt. in NYC way back in 1974 when I was a freshman at Juilliard. She was always so sweet and warm and encouraging to me. I have such fond memories of her. May she rest in peace.

Kecia Chin

June 4, 2024

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Kecia Chin

June 4, 2024

With light in our hearts and fond memories, we bid farewell to Sarine, a remarkable individual whose presence in my life has left an indelible mark of inspiration and guidance. Sarine was not just a teacher but a beacon with experience, strength, and compassion, a mentor who believed in her students with unwavering faith and dedication.

Her journey as an educator at ACAT was more than a profession; it was a calling to nurture young minds and instill in us the confidence to overcome challenges. I know, Sarine was more than a teacher; she was a friend, a confidant, and a source of unwavering support.

For those fortunate enough to have been touched by her wisdom and kindness, Sarine's impact extended far beyond the classroom. Her belief in her students' abilities knew no bounds, teaching them to strive for excellence even in the face of adversity. Sarine's legacy lives on in the lives she touched, the lessons she imparted, and the kindness she showed. Her laughter, smile, and dedicated diligence were the hallmarks of her character-a true force of nature who inspired those around her. In my most challenging experiences, with a scoliotic body...tears in my eyes, I said "I can't do this Sarnie". She looked at me directly -into my eyes and said, "Yes you can, that's why I gave her to you." Being the true force of nature she was - she was having none of me. She laughed and smiled and with her dedicated diligence, she walked me back over with her poised calm, she placed my hands on her, and she set me on my path. It was not until looking back today, she was in my life, not by accident.
Rest in peace, dearest Sarine. You have been, and always will be, my inspiration. Love always Kecia

Gwynne

May 9, 2024

Sarin was a teacher at ACAT where I attended. She was a strong but gentle soul. I spent time with her over the summers in East Hampton and when she moved back saw here on occasion after she move back to NYC. She will be missed.

Bonnie Munshin

April 18, 2024

Sarnie was a very good, special friend to me and I will miss her. She was there through so many parts of my life and always had a wise word or a laugh.

Ann Bair

April 8, 2024

sarnie was very good friend of mine, a mentor and a teacher. I will miss her and I am missing her right now. Rest in peace Sarnie dear Love Ann

Eleanor Rosenthal

April 8, 2024

So sorry to hear about Sarnie; she was so special it seemed as if she would live forever. I first met her at ACAT in 1973, and we stayed friends after I returned to San Francisco. I saw her several times when she lived in Easthampton, and was lucky enough to see her later on her visits to Burt and his family in San Francisco. She was loved by all; you couldn't not like her!! And she had such versatility; her people-helping skills were extraordinary. So her golden glow is gone from the world...such a great loss to us all.

Linda Brown

April 8, 2024

In 1972 I met Sarni's son Marc and soon after, Sarni. We were in our 20's and Sarni in her mid to late 40's. She was so beautiful, strong, accomplished and had such a bright spirit. I wanted to be like her when I grew up! In the mid 70's I lived in her 82nd street apartment for a brief time. I didn't see her much after that as I moved to Connecticut and she to Long Island, but I always asked Marc about her. A bright light has definitely gone out in our world.

Judy Stern

April 7, 2024

SARNI was my teacher, mentor and friend. I still transfer the powerful energy and expertise she gave to me so generously. She lives on in all who knew her and loved her. JCS ACAT 1987

Tania Kimche

April 6, 2024

Tania Kimche

April 6, 2024

Tania Kimche

April 6, 2024

a few more pictures of Sarnie's spirit and beauty

Carol Ogus Woodruff

April 5, 2024

So many memories of Sarnie, it's hard to find just one. After my father Bert
(Bo bby) died in 1960, Aunt Sarnie and her sisters Geri and Libby remained in touch with us and never missed an important event in my life. One day several years ago Sarnie told me that one of my father's final wishes was to ask her to stay in touch with his children. And she fulfilled it joyfully--never seeming to find us a chore or a burden. As I child I took her interest and love for granted. It wasn't until I grew up that I realized the effort it must have taken her to be in our lives after he died.

I can't tell you how many times she asked me to visit. I'm sure she meant planned, visits, however. And yet, it didn't seem to phase her in the least when seventeen year-old me showed up on her doorstep one summer, uninvited and unannounced. There were many wonderful invited visits of course, yet I wish I had taken many more trips to see her.

One more memory springs to mind. When I was sixteen and had my confirmation, she and her sisters flew to Raleigh to celebrate. We all went out to a lively dinner. Don't know why it came up, but Aunt Sarnie wanted to prove to Geri and Libbie that she could tell the story of Little Red Riding Hood in Yiddish. And so she proceeded to tell the story, but she was laughing so hard we could barely hear anything she said.

Laughing is what she did. Always joyful and generous, it was impossible not to feel anything but happy around her. I loved her and always will.

To my cousins, Marc Eric, Alec, and Bert, my heart goes out to you. I know how it feels when the light of someone who was a towering figure in your life goes dark, but as we say, "May her memory be a blessing."

Leslie Wagner

April 5, 2024

A resilient, remarkable woman. My condolences to the family.

Eric HIrschfeld

April 5, 2024

Eric HIrschfeld

April 5, 2024

Eric HIrschfeld

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Eric HIrschfeld

April 5, 2024

As a child of course I held my Mother in the highest regard. But even then it struck me that she garnered an unusual amount of affection from others. I would ask myself," Is my Mother different or special?" The answer is/was YES.

Mia Deprey

April 5, 2024

I didn't get to know my great aunt well but reading about her just now I realized she's truly a kindred spirit. I hope she knows how grateful I am for her contribution to the world of dance therapy. Apparently we're a dance family and I never knew. Sending my love - your distant-ish cousin Mia <3

Bill Connington

April 4, 2024

My deep condolences to Sarnie's extended family. Her friends and colleagues will miss her deeply. Sarnie was full of vitality, vivacity, humor and wisdom. She taught many of us so much - both as teachers of the Alexander Technique, but also how to live with verve and flair. Her memory is a blessing.

Frances Robertson

April 4, 2024

"Flights of Angels sing thee to thy rest" thank you dear teacher for all of your wisdom. Walking from W. 66th through Central Park to the east side for my lesson, excited with anticipation and joy for the changes I witnessed in myself and the winter to spring, The photo is of Kathy Miranda and myself with Sarnie

Tania Kimche

April 4, 2024

oh so very sorry to hear this.
I met Sarnie and Irv originally in Sag Harbor thru mutual friends and strangely and happily became her downstairs neighbor one 96th St.
loved Sarnie....laughing, drinking wine, sharing stories and meals, walking Sadie...
her love of life, people, good nature and FUN will be sorely missed. 1 in a million our Sarnie XX

Eve Towns

April 4, 2024

Suzanne Sylvor

April 4, 2024

This is a great sadness for those who knew and loved Sarnie. Even though she lived to be 97, her death is so heartbreaking.
I know for me, I lost a dear friend and sister. We traveled the world together, laughed, and cried over so many years.
Fate united us as neighbors, and life took us on an incredible journey.
Her presence on earth is over, but our myriad memories are forever with us.

Suzanne Sylvor

April 4, 2024

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Brooke Lieb

April 4, 2024

Sarnie was my teacher and trainer during my Alexander Technique Teacher Training, welcomed me as her colleague, and when she returned to NYC this time, we became friends, sharing many lunches, dinners and friendship. Sarnie even popped in for an Alexander lesson when she was 90. I love Sarnie and will always remember her enthusiasm for life and her pizazz!

Suzanne Toren

April 4, 2024

Sarnie was present at every important inflection point in my life. If not for Sarnie, I would not have met my husband, would not have become a Feldenkrais teacher, would not have dressed in "my" colors (sounds trivial, but was not), would not have had the love and compassion she supported me with when personal tragedies occurred..... She was --and still is---my role model, ever since we met , in a Gestalt therapy group, 50 years ago. Elegant and vivacious, inside and out-----she is a joyful spirit who will live always in the hearts of all who love her. i am profoundly grateful to have been her friend.

Alan Ogus

April 4, 2024

I have fond childhood and adult memories of my Aunt Sarnie who took a special interest in me especially after the death of my father when I was 14 years old and never stopped for the next 63 years. Her passing saddens me but I take solace in the fact that that she and my mother Jackie are both residing on the Celestial Plane taking charge, taking names and potching tuchus.

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April 4, 2024

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Rubi Dominguez

April 4, 2024

Sarnell always had such a positive spirit, even im her worst moments she would always smile at me. She taught me to be a strong and independent woman that always gets her word across. Her mind and spirit despite her condition were such a beautiful thing to witness. I became very close to her we understood each other very well. She onces told me that im like the daughter she never had and "i would always say but i look nothing like you." She said "that doesnt matter"
I will miss sarnie very much she was deeply loved. My condolences to the family and as i always said it was an honor to work with sarnie. Our strong independent lady has laid to rest.

Michael Ogus

April 4, 2024

My memories of Sarnie are almost all from my childhood. I remember family gatherings on both sides, and there were always diverse personalities and opinions, and there was always someone who was not liked by someone else in the family.........oh, but not Sarnie. We all loved her. Being around her was a party for us kids, and my sense was and is that the adults felt the same way. Her light was SO bright, as I´m sure it is now. I´m trying to picture Sarnie and Jackie together - which they are - and the joy they are spreading.

Harry Katch

April 4, 2024

Sarnie was always an inspiration to me. I learned about feminism from her and she was a huge mentor to my mother as well.

My fondest memory is when I was about 15 and I stayed with her and Burt at her very cool apartment in Manhattan.

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