Scott Herbert Steinkamp

Scott Herbert Steinkamp

Scott Steinkamp Obituary

Published by Northwest Herald on Mar. 13, 2008.
Scott Herbert Steinkamp

Born: August 28, 1965; in Redbud

Died: March 11, 2008



LAKE BARRINGTON - After a brave battle with cancer, Scott Herbert Steinkamp, 42, died Tuesday, March 11, 2008.

The oldest of three boys, he was born Aug. 28, 1965, in Redbud and spent his early years in Decatur and Stonington, where he graduated from Stonington High School in 1983.

He received his B.A. and MBA in accounting from Eastern Illinois University and was a proud member of the Lambda Chi Alpha Fraternity. He was a certified public accountant and worked for Jim Beam Industries and the White Hen Corp. before finding his professional niche as an accounting professor, ultimately teaching at the College of Lake County.

He settled in Chicago and then Barrington with his partner, Timothy Barnett. With an insatiable curiosity and unlimited energy, he spent his time running and playing sports, learning German and the fiddle, and traveling, especially to Europe so that he could soak up the cultures of his ancestors. He loved many things: country music, animals, nature, gardening, pinochle games with his family, beach volleyball, and games of washers on the sidewalks of Chicago.

He wanted to learn and to live every day, and he kept this attitude long after he was diagnosed with cancer. He inspired his friends with the energy he brought to life, and his wit and love of fun brought out the best in others. It felt good to be around him.

His greatest pride came from his son, Tyler, whose sweetness, intelligence and genuineness reflect many of Scott's finest qualities. He treasured time with Tyler and with his nieces and nephew, and some of the best moments of his life were spent playing with them and helping them grow. He also was the linchpin for his family, the one who planned family gatherings and trips; the one who made sure that the family not only got together, but also that everyone - young and old - had fun. He had a genius for inventing games and a love for making his family happy. He will be missed by many.

He is survived by many who loved him, including his son, Tyler Barnett Steinkamp; his partner, Timothy Barnett; his parents, Herbert and Marilyn Steinkamp; and his brothers, Matt and Randy Steinkamp. He also is survived by his sisters-in-law, Tamara and Tammy Steinkamp; his nieces, Lauren, Haley and Bailey Steinkamp; and his nephew, Trey Steinkamp.

He was preceded in death by both sets of grandparents, Herbert and Edna Steinkamp of Stone Church, and Rudolph and Alice Schwengels of Nashville, Ill.

The visitation will be from 3 to 8 p.m. Friday, March 14, at Windridge Funeral Home, 104 High Road, Cary. The funeral will be at 11 a.m. Saturday, March 15, at Cary United Methodist Church, 500 N. First St., Cary. Burial will follow in Windridge Cemetery in Cary.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the University of Chicago Brain Tumor Center, RE: Scott Steinkamp, c/o Jean Arzbaecher, 5841 S. Maryland, Room J341, Chicago, IL 60637.

For information, call Windridge Funeral Home at 847-639-2191.

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April 9, 2008

Rai Salazar posted to the memorial.

March 20, 2008

John Henao posted to the memorial.

March 19, 2008

Jennie (Feezel) Sims posted to the memorial.

Rai Salazar

April 9, 2008

I knew Scott for a short time through work but more importantly through our very heated and wonderful tennis matches. I have every match I played against him recorded on my computer. During the last few months of his time here on earth I witnessed how horrible this disease is. I also experienced and was touched by the wonderful love and support of people who loved him . Scott was definitely a fiighter and hated to surrender in tennis and in life in general! I enjoyed being with Tim, Tyler and Scott during the winter of 2008. I am honored to have gotten to know Scott, his family and of course Tim and Tyler.

John Henao

March 20, 2008

Tim,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Although I did not know Scott very well, what I know of you gives me the sense that he must have been a loving partner and father. That love will live on through you and your son.

Jennie (Feezel) Sims

March 19, 2008

To the Steinkamp family,

I had the pleasure of going to high school with Scott but not the pleasure of keeping in touch with him after school. He was a great guy then skinny, red hair and freckels and a great sense of humor. I have good memories of Scott. I'm sure he was a wonderful man and father. I wish I could have known him better the past 25 years. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

May God bless you & keep you in this time of sorrow.

Kristina, Mike, Ben and Haley Lewis

March 16, 2008

Aunt Marilyn, Uncle Jr, Randy, Matt, Tim and Tyler,

I am so sorry to hear of Scott's passing. I was not made aware of this until late Friday afternoon. I know we can never replace his heart and attitude, but he will always be in our thoughts. I have so many memories of growing up with him. I'll never forget the way he would just hang out with me playing Old Maid or going for a walk with me around Nashville when we was visiting Grandma. I still have pictures that I took of him at Grandma' house. He will not be forgotten and will be deeply missed by all.

Love and prayers,

Ann Francisco

March 15, 2008

Mr. and Mrs. Steinkamp and family,

I am just so sorry to hear about Scott. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

When Scott came to Stonington, I was instantly drawn to everything about him. His face was always lit up with a smile and he was always there for me, good times and bad. Even though our lives took different paths, I will never forget our friendship and how much he meant to me.

Scott will always hold a special place in my heart and soul.


Ann Carls-Francisco

Don & Kim Morris

March 14, 2008

Marilyn,
Our thoughts & prayers are with you. I just can't imagine what would be in your mind right now. But I strongly believe God will comfort you and help you to through this difficult time.

Joe Marshall

March 14, 2008

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Scott was, and still is a great guy. I always admired his competitive nature. I'll keep you all in my thoughts

Nancy and Tom McNamara

March 14, 2008

Marilyn, Junior, Randy, Matt, Tim and Tyler, Tom and I send our deepest sympathies to you during these difficult times. You are in our prayers.

Char Fanning

March 14, 2008

Marilyn and family,

I just heard about Scott. I am so sorry. You are in my prayers.
Char

Martin and Mary Masel

March 14, 2008

We met Scott approximately two years ago under less than ideal circumstances. What a kind spirited, gentle soul whose life is certainly for a blessing. He will be deeply missed. Our prayers and thoughts are with Scott and his entire family now and always.

Annette Colbrook Lane

March 13, 2008

Randy and family- My thoughts and prayers to you in this difficult time.

Jack Kelly

March 13, 2008

The Stienkamp Family,

My deepest thoughts and sympathy is with all of you at this time.

Jack R. Kelly

The Masons, Nolan Paul, Tina, Mike and Nichole

March 13, 2008

Herb, Marlyn, Randy, Matt, Tim and Tyler. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. We are very sorry for the loss of Scott. Some of my best childhood memories were spending time with the Steinkamp family. May your happy memories of Scott carry you through this sorrowful time. Scott's positive attitude and out look on life was a true testament to the Steinkamp family. If there is anything we can do please don't hesitate to call.

Ramie and Samantha Walton

March 13, 2008

We were so sorry to hear about Scott. You are all in our prayers.

Judy Hogan

March 13, 2008

Randy,
I am deeply saddened and express my heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. I know what you are going through and hope you find comfort in your memories of Scott. The support of your family will help you through these difficult times. Take care, and you know I'm here for you.

Judy

Kathy Pearl-Cliff

March 13, 2008

Mr and Mrs Steinkamp,Randy, Matt, Tim and Tyler,
I am truly sorry for your loss, Scott was and always will be part of my greastest memories of college and after. He had a wonderful spirit and heart and he will be greatly missed. You could always count on Steiny.
Love, Kathy

Murray and Laura Schwengels

March 13, 2008

Herbert, Marilyn, Matt, Randy, Tim and Tyler, We are so very sorry for your loss. Scott touched many lives and will be deeply missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Please call if there is anything we can do for you.

Amy (Pacatte) Haugh

March 13, 2008

Steinkamps, Tim and Tyler,
What a sad day when I heard the news from Betty. I love the obituary - it was beautifully written. It defines Scott to a "T"! I am going to truly miss my "all greek brother". I was so fortunate to have a friend like him. I have many great memories of my days at EIU with Scott and Randy and fun times in Stonington at the "farm". I think we need a "Survivor" this summer in memory of Scott!

Brandy and Doug Hoy

March 13, 2008

Herb, Marilyn, Randy, Tamara, Matt, Tammy, Tim and Tyler, I am so sorry about Scott. I really enjoyed Scott. He was a wonderful man and he grew up to be a wonderful father. I want you to know that I am her for all of you and I know exactly what you are going through so let me know if you ever need anything. We will see you late Friday evening. Love all of you.

Cindy Georgoulis

March 13, 2008

Tim and Tyler our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and always.
Cindy,Dale Marie and Matthew Georgoulis
from the MUG

Damian Jones

March 13, 2008

Please accept my deepest condolences. Some of my greatest memories of my experiences at EIU was the time I spent with the Steinkamp brothers.

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