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Patricia Horvers
September 27, 2008
Dearest Logan, Honey you don't know me but I was a friend of your moms. I lost my mom when I was seven....many years ago. I was so sad , hurt and felt very lost with out her. The hurt will get better in time. I still miss her very much and she has been gone for 47 years. But I learned that my mom is always with me now and your mom is too. She loved you with all her heart and there will be times that she will leave you little signs to remind you that she has her arms around you and is still watching over you. There were 4 children in my family too and so much had changed. You still have so many people that love you and need you. Don't be afraid to cry and be angry about not having your mom...It's ok. But don't ever forget even though she is not here physically her spirit will NEVER leave you and you have the power to keep her memory alive and I know you have many ,many happy memories with her. God Bless you child. I wish I could hug you and comfort you. I am still praying for you and your family.
logan leonard
September 27, 2008
mom i can't believe your gone i love and miss u
ash
September 26, 2008
i ammm so sorry
logan leonard
September 26, 2008
i will alwayssss miissssss youuuuu and loveeeee uuuuuu. you are still inour prayers your daughter logan
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Jessica Bickford
September 18, 2008
I worked with Sonja in 2000. I was so sad to hear about her family losing her. I wish I had I kept in touch with her over the years. She was a great person and made a positive impact on many people. I admired and respected her for what she did for her family. They will be in my thoughts during this difficult time.
Judith A. Matthews-Scott
September 10, 2008
I believe Sonya was the daughter of a Rita Wood Grenier both Everett Scott and I (Judy Matthews Scott) attended school with at St. Joseph's and Old Town High School. WE lost our son a year ago to heart disease Rita. Please accept our prayers ! Love you! Judy and Everett Scott hope you have e-mail Rita ! I saw you last at the old Ames Store in Stillwater, Maine I believe.
Wanda Seymour
September 8, 2008
To the Grenier and Barclay families:
NATIVE AMERICAN PRAYER
Author unknown
I give you this one thought to keep-
I am with you still-I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not think of me as gone-
I am with you still-in each new dawn.
My thoughts are with you,
Tammy Walker
September 7, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Jill McCarthy
September 7, 2008
I have already signed the guest book, but I felt impelled to do it again. People have already mentioned it and I just can't get it off my mind. The night of the funeral...there was a beautiful rainbow. It completely amazed me since the service spoke of you being a rainbow. What was more amazing, is there was no rain...just a beautiful rainbow in the middle of the road. 10 minutes later it disappeared. Thank you for letting us know you were with us. I hope you could see how many people love you and miss you. I can't stop thinking about all our laughs and all the times you were watching out for me and how much I will miss you. All of us will miss you. Every time the girls are back together we will will remember you and SMILE. You are missed so much Sonya and our heart aches every day. I have your picture on my desk and I had it up at my house..the one of us at your wedding. You were sooo beautiful that day. If I know you..you are just as beautiful running around in that wedding dress. We had so much fun the day you tried it on.
Just know I love you. I was very lucky to have you in my life .
All my love, Jill
Vicki (Hesseltine) Blais
September 5, 2008
To Jeff and Family,
Sonya and I went to Old Town and hung out once in a while when we were going to school. Even though we hadn't seen each other much over the years, when ever we saw each other in passing, she would always give me a hug! I will miss that huge smile of hers. Sonya touched so many lives. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Aunt Dee
September 5, 2008
I will miss you very much. Everytime I see the kids I will be thinking of you. You made a great rainbow for all of us on the night of the service which told us you are watching from above. love you lots Aunt Dee
Sonya and Jeff
September 4, 2008
What she adored the most
September 4, 2008
Logan, Sonya and Derek
September 4, 2008
Sonya and Logan on her wedding day
September 4, 2008
A Wish Granted
September 4, 2008
Friends Forever
September 4, 2008
Her Beautiful Smile
September 4, 2008
Sonya and Kenzie
September 4, 2008
Nicole Footman
September 3, 2008
I've read it more than once in this guest book, and I'm sure it will be written over and over again: Sonya was unlike anyother person I had met. Proud parent and wife, easy going, so funny, beautiful in more ways than one... I will never forget her deep, hearty laugh along with her big smile. Sonya and I worked (and complained!) together as W.S. in the mall. She was such an inspiration to me - to many. I'll miss our early morning McDonalds run ("We're getting paid for this!") and our hour long phone conversations (again, "We're getting paid for this!"). Most of all, I will miss you Sonya. To Jeffery, Logan, Derrick, Madyson and Mackenzie ~ I can't begin to imagine the heartache you are feeling. You know Sanya would want you (all of us) to be smiling in her memory. It's really hard but I'm smiling knowing she's resting, looking over all of you. I love you, Sonya...we'll do our calendar from Heaven! (Haha!!)
Love always, "D-LICOUS" (a nickname Sanya gave me which I then put on my license plate!)
Mike and Pat Horvers
September 2, 2008
Dear Jeff, children, family and friends,
I looked up to the sky the other night. It was a beautiful night with a display of stars, like diamonds in the sky ...
I said a prayer for Sonya. Thinking about how peaceful it must be in Heaven. And how I felt relieved knowing Sonya was finally resting free of pain and sadness. She was like a star shining in Heaven....Just then I witnessed the bigest and brightest shooting star that I had ever seen and I knew Sonya had something to do with it. I understand your loss, I lost my mom when I was seven.But throughout the years and even now she gives me signs that she is still here with me. Sonya's love for you was so strong I am sure she will do the same. Keep an open mind.... You'll know when she sends you one. She is with you all now. I know there is nothing in this world that can take away your heartache but take some comfort knowing that Sanya is resting in the Lord's arms. She was such a beautiful mother who adored her family more than anything. I knew her since she went to school with my son T.J. and I loved her. It's hard for anyone that knew her not to feel this loss. My heart aches. She was an inspiration to us all. May the Lord watch and comfort you. May your sadness be replaced by the multitude of happy memories that you shared....My Love and prayers are with you and Sonya. Look to the Heavens find her special star. God Bless you all.
Dear Sonya, This is such a sad time. I thought you were the sweetest girl in my sons life. You grew into such a beautiful ,strong woman. You were taken much too soon but you leave behind a legacy of love. You have a lot to be proud of. I will always remember you. my love to you...rest honey you had a long journey.
Heather Simmons
September 1, 2008
To Jeff and Children,
It was an honor knowing you wife/mother, Sonya, who was a strong person. Even in her own way she helped me through my trying times. She will always be LOVE and MISSED by us all and never will be forgotten!!!!!
Sonya, We love you.
Preston Stuart Jr. (Bunky)
September 1, 2008
Cousin Marie said it best I guess, if you knew Cousin Sonya, you won't forget her. The only thing that will differ is what you remember her for. I remember her for many things; her stunning beauty, her strong will, her love for her friends, her love for her family, her lack of patience, and just how strong she could be when trying to throw her off the float out to Pushaw!
I can honestly say that every time I think of Sonya, a smile comes to my face.
There are two things her brother Rick and I would tease her the most about; the first being her BIG hair! When she was a teen, she had the BIGGEST hair I have ever seen! Rick and I would tease her about how hard it must be to get herself AND her hair into that little red car. Then we asked if her hair stuck to the ceiling like velcrow. She would give us that eye of hers, laugh, and drive away........
The other thing is, we would tell her that with the big hair, the tall build, and a name like "Sonya", she is going to be the next "American Gladiator". (In case you are wondering, that was a huge show back then)
Of course Rick and I were referencing the TV show but I guess with the fight she put up combatting this terrible disease, Sonya DID become a REAL American Gladiator! Rest in peace my beautiful cousin, I will never forget you.
Karen and Lisa
August 31, 2008
Sonya, you will always be in our hearts and prayers. From a couple of old friends from the Island.
Hilda and Frank Geroux
August 31, 2008
my sympathy goes out to the barclay family. may god be with you
Dottie Ehman
August 31, 2008
Sonya will forever hold a special place in my heart. She had a way of touching people like no other. Her laugh was such that when I think of her laughing it makes me smile. Sonya has to be one of the strongest young women I have ever known. And she was a concern mother right to the end. I am so proud to have know and to able to call her my friend. Sweet Sonya, you have done your work here your children and husband are safe. Be at piece we will always love you
Marie Caliandro
August 31, 2008
My sister, well people who really knew her need no explinations.. She was a true person in herself... We has many great times, as kids dishes was always a major issue.. Mom would always have to supervise the water fights...Sis was the most loving MOM and friend.. Every day when I look into her little ones eyes, I will know she is always watching over us.... Each one of the children have so much of her in them.. Logan- The strong little women she has become... Having to grow up so much sooner then her years to care for the little ones, and being such a hudge part of thier lives she is so strong and mature.. Derek-Her ROCk.. would just cuddle with mom for no reason at all.. Just because her knew she needed a hug... Madyson-Her little glamour girl, always playing dress up, And Mackenzie- Well that little girl is sis all around.. she will tell you just how it is and use those eyes to express every bit of it.. you always know when she is in the room, Her children were there strength,..Her husband Jeff is a great dad and will make sure those kids are never forgetting the MOM they all knew and LOVED.. Sis has so many great friends in her life, and so many touched her life in a way that gave her comfort.. My sister will live on in so many people, and will never be forgotten.. Take that special moment in time to always step back and look at the people around you some day those people can change your life.... We love you!!!!! Sis, Tim, Josh & Lorrin
Linda Looman(Sibley)
August 30, 2008
To the Grenier and Barclay Family,
I did not know Sonya all that well, however I did see her around alot. I am so thankful her wish was granted, and she can now rest in peace knowing that you(Jeff, Logan, Derek, Madyson & Mackenzie) have a new home to lay their heads at night. She was one amazing woman. She touched many lives of people who knew her and even people who didnt. Her family meant more to her than anything. R.I.P. Sonya. To both families, she will always be your gaurdian angel, she will always be close to you all.
Katee Ries
August 30, 2008
Jeff and family,
Sonya and I became friends after high school. Though we lost touch I thought about all the good times we had. My favorite memory was cruising around Old Town in her red car. I am so sorry for your loss.
Michelle Parker
August 30, 2008
Though I have never met Sonya in person, the impact she had on the community was apparent when literally everyone in the community came together to grant her last wish. She was a true fighter, in every sense of the word. And her courage will be lifting spirits for many years. To her family, Sonya will live forever in your hearts and memories. Take comfort in talking about her with friends and family and she will never be gone. Thanks to Sonya's courage and love of life, I make every day count as though it could be my last.
Shane and April Beal
August 30, 2008
To Jeff and Sonya's family and kids, We're so sorry to hear about her passing. May her memories bring you joy and laughter. God Bless.
Wendy Seymour(Barnet)
August 30, 2008
Sonya you will be forever missed by everyone that was blessed to now you. I will forever remember all the great talks and times we shared as being cousins and as friends. The laughs that we had and some of the conversations we shared most people would have thought we were crazy, but we never really did care. Sonya your children are truely blessed to have such a wonderful mom, and are going to have beautiful memories of your times spent together. Dont laugh to hard with Grammie Jeanne and I will see you in Heaven...Love Ya Girlfriend :)
Gail Mckenney
August 30, 2008
I never knew Sonia well but she and her family were always in my thoughts. I can't imagine what losing her means to her family but I know that with faith and love they will remember the love and the joy she brought them.
Jeanne and Amy Tinkham
August 30, 2008
Sonya and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of grief. Sonya and my family go way back in her high school days and working at Ames. I (Jeanne) remember one of her proms in her jack and jill gown, she was so beautiful and she will always be beautiful. I (Amy) remember the night we were all at the High street graduation and show when Sonya walked in and the presence was so appreciated and we know all know you are in a better place now and you will be greatly missed. We love you!
Jamie
August 30, 2008
Sonya was unlike any person I have every met. I was there to help her but I know that she also helped me. She helped me to see what a strong woman looks like and helped me to know who I am. I was able to speak the truth with her and she appreciated it. I loved going to see her and it wasn't work to me anymore. I felt guilty because I enjoyed being around her so much and was getting paid for it. I loved feeling like a part of your family and never did I feel like an outsider. Sonya welcomed me into her home and her heart and it was so easy and natural to love her. She was funny and open. She was who she was and I appreciated that in her so much. She taught me a great lesson: No apologies, be who I am, don't back down, and don't give up. She was a great mom and loved snuggling with her children. She showed me how to be a good mom just by how she looked at her children. They know she loved them more than anything. I hope to share the same message with my children. I could go on and on with how in such a short time she touched my life. I will never be the same. Thank you Sonya. I love you. Thank you Jeff, Logan, Derek, Maddie, and Kenzie for letting me share some of myself with you and for sharing yourselves with me. Thank you Rita for letting me call you Mum!
ann ross c.n.a.
August 30, 2008
Sonja was a delight to care for, and she will always be remembered, for her courage and her strength, most of all the love she had for her children.She was always telling us how much she loved her family , and she shared many happy stories and pictures with the staff. I admire her willingness to hold on to her hope and she fought a great fight. she was definately a fighter.She will be remembered fondly, and greatly missed. god bless!
August 30, 2008
I just want the family and friends of Sonya to know that all of the many people who knew Sonya At Relay for Life are going to keep walking and keep raising money to fine the cure so other young mothers won't have to go thought what Sonya did. We miss Sonya at Relay this year I believe she was in the hospital so she could come up and walk with us. Just know that everyone there that knew her had her in our prayers and that next Years Relay for Life in Old Town we will remember her and keep fighting to fine the cure
God bless you all
Melanie Kimball
August 30, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. Sonya was such a wonderful, beautiful person. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Marty Rowe
August 30, 2008
Jeff: Stay strong, I know You like Your wife are an amazingly strong person. What a gift your children have had to know thier mom and to have you to carry on her memory. Draw lots of pictures of her
Scott and Cristina Hesseltine
August 30, 2008
Dear Dick, Rita, And all family.
Words will not heal you pain, but it is a comfort to know that people care. Sonya grew to be a great mom and she was taken away too soon. We will miss her and We will be there for your family when you need us. Let us know what we can do. Sonya was an inspiration in the fight she put up and she has earned her rest. May God Bless all and help you with your loss.
Melissa MacArthur (Geroux)
August 30, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Elizabeth
August 30, 2008
To the children of Sonya, I am so very sorry you lost your mommy. She was a very strong woman and loved you all soooooo much. You may not be able to see her, but mommy is in your hearts and mind. When you are sad, talk to her, you may not hear her talking to you, but she will be listening. She will always be with you as your special "angel".
To the husband of Sonya,
I am so sorry, life is not easy and there are things that happen that we will never understand. When I lost my son, I thought WHY? and all I could think of was God must have needed him more than me. Be strong Mr. Barclay, your wife was a beautiful strong determined woman who fought to live, now you do the same for her, yourself, and your beautiful children. May God be with you.
LOIS HARTFORD
August 30, 2008
I DIDNT KNOW SONYA ONLY THRU READING HER HEARTBREAKING STORY . SHE WAS SUCH A BRAVE PERSON THE LOVE FOR HER FAMILY WAS TRULY GREAT .YOU ALL ARE IN MY THOUGHTS. GOD BLESS YOU AND SONYA
Lorrin Hesseltine
August 29, 2008
Sonya was my aunt. But she was even more like my second mom. She always new how to make people laugh and without her in my life im not sure where i would be today.
she was always there for me and she never let me down. There is not a second that has gone buy that i don't think about her and smile. She truly was my hero and she will always be in my thoughts. I love her more than words could ever explain.
melissa boober
August 29, 2008
there wont be a day that i will not think of you you was the best friend and the best mom in the whole wolud there no butter that can make a mom like you your the best sonya your the best think thats evey happen to jeff and the kids ill miss your nice smile when i see you soneday we will meet in a place call gods place untill then we pary for your familey ok love always melissa
Donna Pease
August 29, 2008
To the Family of Sonya:
I never had the pleasure of meeting Sonya, your mother and wife. However, I felt very compelled to help with the building of your home. She just seemed like a wonderful mother, it seemed that she put her life on hold if you will for her kids. She didn't have time to deal with this "disease" she had kids to raise and that is exactly what she did. It didn't seem to matter what she was going through, what mattered was safety and security for her kids and that was her focus. What incredible strength. My husband and I just realized that he and Sonya graduated from Beal College in the same year. She was a very inspirational person!! We wish only the best for your family. Please understand that I know for a fact there are guardian angels in the world and all of your kids will have one.
I will be participating in the Komen Race for the cure on September 21st in honor of my mother and Sonya. I challange anyone reading this Guest book to join us in any way possible. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Donna, Chris, Adam & Alex Pease, Winterport, Maine
C Morris
August 29, 2008
Even though I didn't know Sonya I was really touched by her story and so happy she was able to get her wish for her family before she passed. To her children always remember mommy will always be in your heart and will always be watching over you. I am so sorry for your loss and will be praying for you.
Melissa (Ackley) Martin
August 29, 2008
My prayers are with you all. Sonya touched many lives and we all will remember her. What a wonderful person and a beautiful family.
Kimberly (Donaldson) Wing
August 29, 2008
Rita, Dick, Marie and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I truly enjoyed getting to know Sonya and your family during our years together at "Ames" I will always remember Sonya's great, fun loving personality during those years. She left great memories for many of us over the years and I will be forever greatful. Time has seperated us and for that I am sorry, but I am truly glad to have known Sonya during those years. Sonya grew into a very strong and inspirational woman, daughter, sister & mother over the years. Cherish those memories and may time heal your broken hearts.
Virginia Greene
August 29, 2008
The Barclay and Grenier families: my deepest condolences to both families. Sonya fought a long and hard battle and she is at peace now. The strength she showed will be with her children. It was wonderful that the fiends, strangers, businesses and community fulfilled her one wish before she was taken by God. She will be remembered by many.
Miss Michelle & Miss Morgin
August 29, 2008
Jeff, Logan, Derek, Mady-Cakes and Kenzie
Miss Morgin and I know how much mom/Sonya loved you all very much. She couldn't have been more proud of all of you. Please don't forget to dream BIG and live LARGE!
You are all in our thoughts and our hearts.
Heidi Gallant ( Olsen)
August 29, 2008
Sonya and I were distant cousins and went to the same school. We had the same Aunt Jeanie. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you who are hurting. I talked with her at The Children's Place about a year ago and was amazed at how brave and amazing she was.
Marie Robichaud
August 29, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about Sonya, she fought so hard and for so long. I just want you and your family to know that my thoughts and prays are with all of you.
kim willette
August 29, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Stephanie Mishou
August 29, 2008
I went to school with Sonya. Even though we lost touch, she will always be remembered. Try to remember the good times. These memories will help you heal. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Shannon
August 29, 2008
Sonya, you will never be forgotten, we will take care of your kido's, they will always get hugs from Paige and I. Rest in peace with my bro! I will miss your beautiful smile. Love and miss you already.
Jessie
August 29, 2008
I never had the pleasure of meeting Sonya but her story has touched my heart. My prayers are with your family.
Lyn Bates
August 29, 2008
You were an inspiration to me growing up in the tough "teenage years", and you helped me through some very difficult times. You taught me also, to never give up and keep pushing ahead. You are at peace now after a great fight against a terrible disease. You have taught your children some very great and important lessons about life, just as you did mine. To Jeff and the kids, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Sonya we are all going to miss you, keep watch from up there and feel at peace at all the accomplisments you achieved..rest in peace my friend.
Trysha Jean
August 29, 2008
I first met Sonya around the age of four when she worked at the pre school I attended. As the years passed, I would see her every now and then around town. She always had a smile on her face and would greet you with a friendly hello. While I was not nearly as close to this wonderful woman as many others, I cherish the handful of memories I shared with her and I will never forget the impact she has had on my life. Her courage, determination, and strength are aspects to be admired and my deepest sympathies go out to the many others who were blessed by her presence.
Kristie Haverlock
August 29, 2008
To here about the passing of your family member I was deeply saddened. I had the opportunity of talking with sonya alot while waiting to pick our daughters up at High Street Academy and from these small talks it was very obvious to see that she was all about her family and a strong woman that fought very hard but never forgot what she wanted for her family. Your mom was a great woman that will never be forgotten....the family is in our prayers
PAT NADEAU
August 29, 2008
NOW WE KNOW WHAT AN ANGEL LOOKS LIKE ON EARTH. MAY THE LORD PUT HIS ARMS AROUND YOU ALL. YOUR MOM WAS A HERO AND ALWAYS WILL BE.
Lori Kimball
August 29, 2008
I am sorry to hear of your loss.Sonya was a great women.I was lucky enough to have meet her I took pictures of her and her family for a couple of years and always looked forward to seeing her and her family.She loved her family very much.She will be missed by all.Our thoughts and prayers are with her family.
Michelle Alley
August 29, 2008
My deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with your family. I did not know Sonya but when her story was on TV I placed the name with her face, I had been at the Mother and Son dance, and had the pleasure of watching her as she enjoyed the evening with her son. I am so inspired by her and her story the more I learn, it seems that she loved you all so very much. I am sure that your hearts are heavy now, may time replace that with all the wonderful memories that you were able to share. God needed another angel, and she will always be watching over you all. God Bless you All!
Linda Pelletier
August 29, 2008
MY prayers are with you all I never
knew this lady . she gave it all she could ,
Love and Prayers
A friend
Linda
Carla
August 29, 2008
You are not gone; only gone from our sight. I can't even imagine the look on your face when your grandparents stepped forward to take your hand. I know you are already busy on the other side preparing for the arrival of others. When you see my ship on the horizon, please wave to me from the crowd so I can see you? Godspeed Sonya... your family will be watched over and safe; fear not.
Melissa Sibley-McAlpine
August 29, 2008
Jeff & Family, you do not know me but Sonya did. I remember sending her a card one day and then I called her, she said that you(Jeff) asked who I was and she told you a friend from school. I was 2 years behind Sonya. She has always been an inspiration to me, I looked up to her for guidance. She could always make me smile no matter how bad I felt, even after the loss of my dad to cancer. She has taught me and inspired me to not take life for granted or hold grudges & end up with regrets. She has taught me to always fight for what it was in life that meant the most to me. I will leave on the note that my deepest sympathy is with you at this special time. However I had a great nephew born on Aug. 26th and I feel it was for the reason that I would soon lose a friend to a long battle that she was never willing to give up on. He means the world to me, I feel he is my friend, your mother, wife, daughter, niece or very dear friend's Angel that was sent to me from her all though she did not know that. I will forever remember the smile on her face no matter how she was feeling, when ever we talked about her husband or children. My heart goes out to all of you(family & friends). Take Care. God Bless and always remember she loved you all very much and will always be looking down upon you until you meet again, in heaven.
Lisa
August 29, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Catherine Robertson
August 28, 2008
My deepest sympathy to all of you. As I watched Sonya enter the gym last May for the High St. Academy year end show, she became my hero. No one and nothing (esp. cancer) was going to keep her from being there. Each of you must know that her love for you all was immense and intense. She did her best to get it all in with the time she had and, in doing so, inspired us all. My thoughts are with you. Take Care.
Paula
August 28, 2008
Passion,will, strength, determination, love, courage, spirit, inspirational, and happy, are all words to describe an incredible women I never met. I know Sonja is at peace now and an angel in heaven preparing to care for her family from above. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. May your sadness be replaced with joyfull memories and your pain be replaced with the love that she filled your hearts with. God bless you!
B Knowles
August 28, 2008
I did not know sonya but like many i saw her story on TV and have kept up with all of the updates. I was inspired by sonya and the love that she has for her husband and kids,to be so selfless,and only worry about her family,and making sure that they had a safe home after she was gone.You dont have to know this woman,to know that she must have been one of the strongest,and most courageous people that god ever put on the planet. I am sure that today she is looking down on her children and her husband with so much love. I know the days ahead will be very difficult I recently lost my aunt to cancer who left behind 4 children as well,and though we may not understand it now,but god must have a bigger plan for sonja,as she is now with the angels and will always be with you. Take care and know that all of the sadness will one day be replaced with loving and wonderful memories of her.
Kim Simpson
August 28, 2008
To ALL of Sonya's family and friends, I am so thankful for the time that I have been able to spend with Sonya over the last 3 months...For many years several states were between us, but our childhood memories, our 13 mile bike rides to each other's house, Sonya laughing hysterically at me when I fell in a puddle of water cross country skiing on Pushaw Lake, and her undeniable laugh were kept fresh in my mind. Jeff, you have kept this family strong through these tough times, and I give you much credit. Logan, Derek, Maddie and Kenzie will forever have the images of their strong, loving mom to remember. We are all so lucky to have been touched by Sonya. God bless you!
Denise Plourde
August 28, 2008
My mom and I had the pleasure to meet Sonya for the first time this past June. We were both truly amazed at her desire to fight to live and no matter how bad she felt-she managed to crack a joke and smile to two strangers! This woman was a hero and an inspiration to many and she will never be forgotten...
Love and Peace to the family:)
nicole wickstrom
August 28, 2008
to logan (daughter) my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. your friend nicole.w xoxoxo
Tiffany and Lauren Tibbits
August 28, 2008
Sonya put up a strong fight. Our family will miss her greatly. Jeff, you and the kids were what kept her going. Stay strong.
We're here if you need us. We love you guys!
August 28, 2008
To the entire commmunity, family and friends of Mrs. Barclay, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. May Sonya rest in peace, may the home that love built forever hold her closely to your hearts.
avis noyes
August 28, 2008
you dont know me but as a breast cancer patient I feel for the whole family I know what a strain that cancer can have on a family. Just know that many of us are thinking about your family and sending many prayers your way. take care and take one day at a time
Carolyn Cates
August 28, 2008
I worked with Sonya for a couple years in Orono. I remember her always saying she wanted to have a big family and to be happy. I'm glad through her life that her wish came true. Though she wasn't able to live a long life, she was very happy. I will definitely miss her. My deepest condolences go out to her family. She was a great person. Stay strong.
Sonya's beautiful day. I will miss you. Love always Jill
August 28, 2008
Holli Smith (Sibley)
August 28, 2008
I've known Sonya since the first day of Kindergarten. Though were not close, we were friends for awhile. I saw the Bangor Daily News yesterday and I was very saddened to see that she had passed away. Rita, George, Jeff and family...you have my sincere condolences for your loss.
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Jill McCarthy
August 28, 2008
Through my entire friendship with Sonya, the only thing she ever talked about was all the wonderful things she wanted for her children, her family. You got your wishes my dear...a safe environment for your kids. You are one of the strongest people I have ever known and you will be missed more than you know. You touched so many people and if we can only have a little bit of the fight you had in you, we will all be better people. My thoughts are with all the children and family in this time. I have so many wonderful memories of Sonya. Unfortunately I could not fix the distance between us before her passing, but know I love you more than you'll ever know. You are a mother, daughter, sister, wife and a friend so many of us looked up to. Your time here was not long enough, but you are in a better place with no longer any suffering. I am a better person to have had you in my life and called you one of my good friends. You are an Angel watching over us now. We will miss you and love you!!! Please know you WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!
Steph Johnston
August 28, 2008
You will greatly be missed Sonya! Working with you at VS was always a blast, you always had a smile on your face and you always wanted to brighten someones day! You always brightened mine! I will miss you greatly and so will everyone who worked or knew you! We love you!
Mindy Parent
August 28, 2008
To the family of Sonya;
I am so very sorry for the loss. I know Sonya was a very strong woman. You dont know me, but I was deeply affected by the story when it aired on T.V. I have kept right up with every story and updates all through the months. I was so happy to see that someone so close to home-had their dream come true. Jeff and Family, a letter is in the mail for you as we speak-you should get it by Saturday. If there is anything, ANYTHING I can do for you and the kids, let me know. Take care, and remember, Sonya isnt suffering anymore-and she got to enjoy her new home with her family, that was the most important thing she wanted before it was her time to go, and she had it come true. Take Care and God Bless you all!!
R.I.P. Sonya Barclay
Lu Arnold
August 28, 2008
I knew sonya from the mall.. she was always smiling when she visited. She should be everyone's personal hero for being such a strong woman and fighting her huge battle. She may have not won but she taught us all to be better people and to love the ones who are near. I will miss you.
Tammi Pearson
August 28, 2008
Sonya had the most courage and strength of anyone I have ever known. She will be deeply missed by all those who knew her. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Becky Feero (Minnis)
August 28, 2008
For all of Sonya's family and friends up there in Maine. I will never forget the way Sonya always made people laugh no matter how bad the situation was. I will treasure my memories of her from school and our class reunion. Sonya was always a great person to everyone. My deepest sympathies to her husband and her children. May they remember what a wonderful mother and wife she was. Family meant everything to her. Heaven is blessed to have her there.
meagan flynn
August 28, 2008
we will miss you sonya..
Cathy OConnor
August 28, 2008
Sonya's story is one of deep love and inspiration. What a wonderful woman! My prayers to her dear family.
Shellie Graves
August 28, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Kristen Smith
August 28, 2008
i grew close with Sonya at CCOM over the last few years. She is a beautiful, strong woman who loved her family more than life itself. She always told me to not take my child for granted and to make sure I kiss and hug her everday and tell her I love you because you never know when the last time will be. I admire all that Sonya was, is and ever will be. She holds a special place in my heart. I'm going to miss her dearly. My prayers to the family as you go through this hard time. May you find comfort in knowing Sonya is watching over you every day.
Melissa Lin (Wickett) & Family
August 28, 2008
To the Barclay's and Grenier's- Sending my deepest sympathy to you during this difficult time. May Sonya's dreams and the will to fight be in the hearts of all. She will be missed by all that knew her.
Traci Hambrock
August 28, 2008
I never met Sonya but was so deeply affected by the story that aired back in may about her and her wonderful family. May god bless them and they know that she touched so many others with the story and how many people around the state of Maine and beyond felt her love for her family. I personally was touched in many ways and it changed me for the better. May she rest in peace and the love and care she showed many help the family with this time of grieve. May the angels sing to the family from above!!!
Suz Norton
August 28, 2008
My deepest sympathies to Sonya's family. She lived a full life and her love and spirit will carry on.
davida willette
August 28, 2008
you dont know me but i read and saw your story on the news. i am sentimental i guess i lost my mother to cancer. it was a great thing for the town of old town to rally and grant sonja her dying wish a new home. i want to send my deepest condolenses to the barclay family.
Eleanor M.
August 28, 2008
I did not know Sonya I learned of her long battle with Cancer on tv. When Channel 5 did the coverage on building a safe haven for her family. My mom is a Breast cancer survivor of 2yrs. now. I have lost many family & friends to Breast Cancer that turned like Sonya's. It is very hard to see someone you love have to go through this. Then all you can do is be there with love & support. I'm going to pray for Sonya's family every day along with others that I know who has had their life cut short with Breast Cancer or any type of Cancer. My heart goes out to Sonya's family & friends that her memories will live on forever. Heaven is very lucky to have a special Angel like Sonya.
Karen & Steven Rideout, Sam Boyington
August 28, 2008
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Barbara stone-family
August 28, 2008
TO the family, friends of Sonya Barclay. will frist i want to say that she fought hard all the way, and i thank god that she did enjoy the house for a while and know she can rest at peace knowing that her husband and kids has a good home, will we want to send our condulances to each and every one of you. that our sympathiese are with you all and may the lord give you all comfort and strenght. know she isnt suffereing any more that she is home with the lord, and she is alive in heaven watching over you all. she was an inspirishing to us all. we dont know her but what i saw on tv she made me feel that she had alot of faith in the lord and she know where she was going. will she was a wonderful and very special will she will be surely missed by her smile. may god bless her family. know we will see her again. rest in peace.
M Rice
August 28, 2008
God Bless you all. May you always remember the good times and memories of you wife and mother. May she rest in peace. Sonya was an inspiration to us all.
Jen Brown
August 28, 2008
May you rest in peace, knowing you were loved by so many. May your family be healed in time knowing you are at peace now and watching over them always. You were such a strong woman and fought a great battle. Jeff, Logan, Derek, Maddie, and Kenzie, if I can do anything, please do not hesitate to call. Sonya you will be dearly missed. Love You
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