Stephanie Paulk

1972 - 2010

Stephanie Paulk obituary, 1972-2010, Decatur, GA

Stephanie Paulk

1972 - 2010

BORN

1972

DIED

2010

Stephanie Paulk Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 1, 2010.
Stephanie Ann Paulk, 38, died on Tuesday, November 30, surrounded by her family and loved ones. Stephanie lived most of her life in Atlanta, GA, and was a graduate of The Westminster Schools, Columbia University in New York City, and Emory Law School. Stephanie was elected to the Emory International Law Review and served a term as its Managing Executive Editor. She interned in the summer of 2000 at the Permanent Court of Arbitration, The Hague, Netherlands. After graduation from law school, Stephanie became an associate at the law firm of McKenna Long & Aldridge. After leaving the firm, Stephanie joined the staff of the United States Bankruptcy Court and became law clerk to Honorable James E. Massey until she became disabled from illness.

Stephanie's true passion was her artistic work as a poet and performer. A writer from an early age, Stephanie published her poems and creative works in school publications and literary journals. Writing and performing as JS Van Buskirk, she published the poetry collection, Just Ain't Got No Hustle: Assorted Poems, and the short story collection, Tiny Bedtime Stories. Stephanie performed as JS at ArtSpot and Eyedrum Galleries in Atlanta, appeared at the Decatur Book Festival, had many followers on Twitter and on her websites, and was featured in Creative Loafing. Most recently, as JS, she wrote the text and lyrics for the multi-media collaboration, Unless and Until, which has been presented at prominent galleries in Atlanta, GA, Jackson, MS, Memphis, TN, and Sewanee, TN. A retrospective of Stephanie/JS's works is presented at http://jsvanbuskirk.com/JSvanBuskirk/Welcome.html.

Stephanie is survived by her loving husband, Randy Prunty, her parents, Mr. and Mrs. James R. Paulk, Jr., and her sisters, Elizabeth Paulk and Julia Paulk.

A memorial service will be held at H.M. Patterson & Son, Spring Hill on Friday, the third of December at one o'clock in the afternoon. The family will receive friends one hour prior. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to either the Hope Lodge, 411 2nd Street, Rochester, MN 55901; or Palliative Care Fund, Parkland Foundation, 2777 N. Stemmons Freeway, Suite 1700, Dallas, TX 75207.

Arrangements under the direction of H.M. Patterson & Son, Spring Hill in Atlanta, GA.

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December 3, 2010

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December 3, 2010

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Judy Windham

December 3, 2010

I have very fond memories of Stephanie as a lovely, bright, and creative young lady in the elementary school. Her life was a gift and inspiration to all of us who knew her. My heart is with all of you today. Much love, Judy Windham

Chris Campbell

December 3, 2010

Honestly I did not know Stephanie personally; I only knew her through her performances and events at Eyedrum (as JS van Buskirk). The InfoDemo series she launched circa 2004 was absolutely brilliant.

But what I remember most is the time that she did tarot readings. Eyedrum was having one of their huge art opening events, and she had set up a little card table in the middle of the gallery and was reading tarot cards for patrons. I sat down for my reading, she dealt the cards, looked at them for a minute, and then blanched. Apparently the tarot cards told her that I was the anti-Christ or something. She recovered, dealt the cards again, and gave me a more reasonable reading (possible faked). Ever since then I've wondered what she found in my soul!

R.I.P. Stephanie, you were a true gem.

Lorese Garfield

December 3, 2010

I extend my heartfelt condolences to Randy and all Stephanie family.......Ms. Garfield {Conyers}

Chris Durand

December 2, 2010

I knew Stephanie at Columbia, especially when we were seniors. She was brilliant and very kind. And funny. She showed me some of her creative work, including the Spot the Dog cartoons that she put in the school newspaper. They were excellent. I am glad to learn from a mutual friend that she had such a loving marriage. She deserved that. I extend my heartfelt condolences to all her family.

Sarah Wyatt Patterson

December 2, 2010

Stephanie was my first friend at Westminster. Entering the school as a new student in 7th grade, I knew no one and was very insecure and shy. Stephanie befriended me, showing me around the school, and inviting me over to her house. I never understood why such a cool, self-assured girl would want to be friends with me, but I was so grateful that she did.

Christy Darden Brennan

December 2, 2010

I was lucky enough to know Stephanie in junior high school, when we were in a band together. She was the budding artist then and the lyricist for the group. The band only lasted about one or two practices, but I was lucky enough to gain her friendship. I loved her originality and creativity - she introduced me to much cooler music (Depeche Mode) than what I was listening to, and I loved her blue ceiling in her room. A few years later when I was able to design my own room, I was inspired by her and painted my own ceiling pink (much to the chagrin of my parents, but they eventually came around, especially once I told her that Stephanie had an electric blue ceiling). My parents were thrilled to reconnect with her in her adult years when she and my father worked at the same law firm. I have such happy memories of knowing her as a child and of her wonderful and loving family. She was a truly special person, and I am so glad that I knew her and only wish I had more contact with her as an adult. I send my deepest condolences to the family for the loss of such a genuinely wonderful, unique, and talented friend.

December 2, 2010

With many fond memories of childhood with our family and sorrow for your loss. From Clare, Nigel, Ruth, Paula and John in the USA and Mark and Florence in St Cloud, Paris.

Lee Paulk

December 2, 2010

With love and prayers, Lee, Shirley and family

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