Stephanie Benson Young

1955 - 2022

Stephanie Benson Young obituary, 1955-2022, Murray, UT

Stephanie Benson Young

1955 - 2022

BORN

1955

DIED

2022

Stephanie Young Obituary

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Stephanie Benson Young

1955 ~ 2022

- Stephanie Benson Young, devoted wife, caring mother, and cherished grandmother, passed away on Tuesday, November 15, at the age of 67.

True to a phrase in her always-open kitchen, she was indeed "a mom with lots of frosting." At a piano, she could fill a room with cheer, majesty, or anything in-between.

She was known for the way she welcomed and fed friends, her ability to remember small but important details, the way she carried herself with calm assurance, and her great love for and testimony of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

As an accomplished pianist, she taught hundreds of children throughout the years. Stephanie thrilled her students during the annual Halloween recital by dressing up as a bumble bee, Maleficent, or in other fabulous costumes. She shared her musical talents at church when playing the hymns, accompanying musical numbers, and playing the organ in the Draper temple.

Stephanie fell in love with David Alan Young at Brigham Young University. They were sealed for time and all eternity in the Salt Lake City temple on August 4, 1976. Over a span of 20 years, she gave birth to eight beautiful children, starting with three girls and finishing with five boys. She instilled in her children the attributes of kindness, acceptance, gentleness, perseverance, determination, and above all, a devotion to God – attributes she embodied.

As her family grew and she claimed the title of grandma (a position that brought her especially great joy), she kept everyone knit together with strong traditions, boxes of chocolates, and Christmas pajamas. We still laugh at the wonderful wit found in her Easter treasure hunt clues, birthday cards, and keen one-liners. We will miss her laugh when solving a word puzzle, or guessing the plot twist of one of her favorite detective shows. Stephanie loved her country.

Driven by her strong faith and patriotism, she was always engaged in civic interests and up-to-date on current events.

Glimpses of her grand soul can be seen in her children: Kathryn (Jason Wood), Elizabeth (Matt Christensen), Mary (Dan Dyer), David (Rachel Condon), Jonathan (Jessica Bingham), Thomas, Matthew (Lisa Dickson), and Andrew (Sabrina Nielson), as well as in her 25 grandchildren. Stephanie is preceded in death by her father, Mark Benson, and her mother, Lela Wing Benson.

She is survived by her loving husband David, eight children, and beloved siblings Stephen, Stacey Ann, Margaret, Mary, and Michael.

We will celebrate Stephanie's life at a viewing and a funeral held at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, 2535 E Newcastle Dr, Sandy, Utah 84093. Viewing: Tuesday, November 22, 6-8 PM MST Wednesday, November 23, 9:30-10:30 AM MST Funeral: Wednesday, November 23, 11 AM-12 PM MST

For those who are unable to attend in person the funeral will also be streamed: https://zoom.us/j/95191955991.

A private interment will take place after the funeral. Flowers may be sent to Larkin Sunset Gardens at 1950 E. 10600 S, Sandy, UT 84092.

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July 16, 2023

Catherine W. posted to the memorial.

December 2, 2022

Sheila Siggard posted to the memorial.

November 29, 2022

Kathy,Lori,Dolly,Steve,Clark planted trees.

Catherine W.

July 16, 2023

Oh Mercy... David, my dear friend Vicki just shared with me today about your Stephanie. My heart is full for and with you. She will forever be imbedded in my heart as a wonderful soul of great kindness.

Love,
Cathy
PS: Until we meet again on the other side... hugs.

Sheila Siggard

December 2, 2022

Sorry this is a bit late, it was just sent to me. Hope you all get to see my message. What a beautiful obituary for a beautiful, amazing woman; masterpieces both! Sending my love and deepest sympathy. It has been my blessing to know and love you and now Stacey as we sing soprano together in the Midway Swiss Chorus. We're praying for your comfort and peace at this time of sorrow. Sending much love and many hugs, Kerry & Sheila Siggard (Sandy Granite Ward then, Farm Springs Ward in Midway now.)

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Kathy,Lori,Dolly,Steve,Clark

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Thomas Sorensen

November 26, 2022

David, sorry to hear about Stephanie´s passing. i hope you are doing okay. i wish I had staid in contact with you. I´ll never forget the time i ran into you at the basement phone at Logan Square ward. If you are in the Salt Lake area we should get together for lunch. my number is 801-597-2858. Also remember i taught you how to be a missionary. Hope you are doing okay! Tom Sorensen

Heidi

November 23, 2022

Grandma always knew how to take care of her grandchildren. Either using ginger ale or chocolate, we were always cared for. I love you forever
- Heidi

Ron & Henrietta Oyer

November 23, 2022

Stephanie and David were our neighbors in Redmond Washington. They are the BEST friends that a person could want. I used to love to hear her teaching students the piano. The music was very comforting to me.

Cyndy Weiss

November 22, 2022

Memory shared by Allison Weiss: Stephanie Young was my first piano teacher, if memory serves. They had the picture of George Washington praying over their mantel and a sweet spirit in their home. Great examples both of them!

Kirk & Jeannine Larsen

November 22, 2022

David,
Jeannine and I were so saddened to learn of your wife's passing. While we did not know her, working with you at the FHL was always a pleasure and we count you as a great friend. We pray you will be blessed with strength at this time and know that we love you. Kirk & Jeannine (aka Pres. & Sis. Larsen)

Nancy Christensen Bittner

November 22, 2022

Stephanie Benson´s hope a dreams are best expressed through her lovely and brilliant family. The work she will do in heaven will be same she did on earth, blessing her family. She is known in heaven. We morn with you and pray for you, love Nancy Bittner, (Matt´s aunt)

Jill Kinney

November 21, 2022

Stephanie was the very talented accompanist for our New Canaan Ward Choir (CT). She always made our choir sound better than we were. Many times after our performances I would thank her, especially when she was required to play particularly challenging accompaniments. One time I remember her saying, "It´s not always what you play, but what you don´t play!" So funny but true. Stephanie brought so much light into the world. My heart breaks for her wonderful family. I will miss you! XO

Spence Christensen

November 21, 2022

David and Lizzie, I´m so sorry to learn of Stephanie´s passing. What a wonderful legacy and loving example she left! My thought and prayers, Spence Christensen (Clayton´s brother)

Dan Roberts

November 21, 2022

The joy and pleasure of meeting Stephanie occurred during the period of time that my associate Kim Jorgensen and I remodeled a kitchen family room and master bath for the Youngs. She was always there with her smile and her greeting and encouragement.
So sad to hear of her passing and for the family and for our dear friend David, our love and our gratitude for being a part of your lives with the project.

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David & Laurel Udall

November 18, 2022

Stephanie was warm and kind and inviting. She was a born piano prodigy with a sharp wit and a keen sense of humor. She was one of my favorite cousins. She exemplified the gospel as a true " mother in Zion". She will be dearly missed by her lovely family and husband. Our hearts go out to David and her children and grandchildren and friends. We love you, dear sweet Stephanie. Until we meet again!

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July 16, 2023

Catherine W. posted to the memorial.

December 2, 2022

Sheila Siggard posted to the memorial.

November 29, 2022

Kathy,Lori,Dolly,Steve,Clark planted trees.