Steve Meltzer

1944 - 2019

Steve Meltzer obituary, 1944-2019, -, NC

Steve Meltzer

1944 - 2019

Steve Meltzer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 3, 2019.
Steve Meltzer

- - Steve Meltzer, ardent blues fan, lover of barbecue and chocolate chip cookies, movie trivia master and all-around good guy, died March 1. The cause was pancreatic cancer. He was 75.

Born Feb. 24, 1944, in swampy, sultry Miami, Florida, Steve experienced life without air-conditioning and teeming with tenacious palmetto bugs and mosquitos. Growing up in this quagmire left an indelible impression.

As an adult, he didn't like to sweat, abhorred insects and preferred enjoying the natural world from a climate-controlled car or home.

After a few fun but unproductive years as a University of Florida engineering student, he realized the country would be safer with someone else building its bridges. History was his passion.

He graduated from University of Miami in 1972 with a bachelor's degree in history and political science and from Florida Atlantic University in 1974 with a master's degree in education.

In the early '70s, he worked for the Palm Beach County, Florida, school system helping black and white students, all dropouts during the turbulent years of integration, re-enter the classroom or start vocational training.

He spent most of his career in government, working for the Arizona Department of Economic Security and the Social Security Administration in Florida and Arizona.

Steve possessed a dry sense of humor, a love of steam-powered trains and an aging guitar he longed to play like Eric Clapton, which, despite his best efforts, didn't happen. He also possessed an unfailing sense of fairness, forged by his background and experience.

He was the son of a Russian-born father whose own father fled the aftermath of the 1917 Revolution and worked as a tailor in the United States to bring his family here. Steve believed in the dignity of those seeking safety and opportunity in this country.

Growing up, he watched black children bused by his whites-only school in segregated Miami. That experience transformed him into a dedicated civil rights supporter. He also championed opportunities for women, not just in words but in actions, moving from one sweltering, bug-infested state to another in support of his wife's career.

After a lifetime in relentlessly sunny states, Steve wanted to live, as he described it, "where people actually experience weather." He found the perfect climate -- meteorologically and politically -- in Asheville. He loved the area for its wide-ranging music, creative vibe and progressive politics. And, yes, its ever-changing weather. Until he became ill, Steve volunteered at the Weaverville Public Library and with RiverLink.

A self-described neat freak, he leaves his wife of 44 years, Liz Doup of Weaverville, with a garage full of cleaning supplies and an astonishing number of replacement bags for four vacuum cleaners. As she attempts to match his cleaning and organizational skills, she can reflect on a lifetime of early morning ocean swims, late-night pizza runs and an untold number of rock concerts.

Steve is survived by his sister, Beverly (Larry) Gowdish of Bonita Springs, Florida; sister-in-law Nancy Reed (Tom); and brother-in-law Mark (Donna) Doup, all of Columbus, Indiana. Also: seven nieces and nephews and 11 grandnieces and grandnephews.

Those wishing to honor Steve can celebrate his life in ways meaningful to them. For those who want to contribute to his favorite charities, MANNA FoodBank and Appalachian Bear Rescue top the list of organizations he supported. Also: Southern Appalachian Highlands Conservancy and RiverLink because Steve understood the importance of protecting wild places even if he didn't want to hike through them.

Much gratitude to many for countless acts of kindness. Most important, heartfelt thanks for a steady dose of the world's best medicine: laughter and love.

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January 6, 2025

Marc Catone posted to the memorial.

January 5, 2025

Ray Bohannon posted to the memorial.

February 26, 2024

Marc Catone posted to the memorial.

Marc Catone

January 6, 2025

Ray Bohannon, yes Steve Meltzer was in the Navy and aboard the Rigel during the time period you mentioned. He was a close friend of mine for 45 years and often told me about his time in the Navy

Ray Bohannon

January 5, 2025

I wonder, did Steve serve in the US Navy around 1968? I remember a good friend aboard the USS Rigel about that time.

Marc Catone

February 26, 2024

Steve, I remember all the times we spent together no matter where we were...AZ, FL, CA, NY, PA, DC, NC. You left a permanent record in my memories. Sometimes, I get sad when I remember you are gone, but you really aren't gone because I remember the laughter (and there was a ton of laughter). Don't forget the tomato juice.

Love,

Marc and Donna

ken swart

February 26, 2024

steve was a true mentsch. (a very good and decent man.)
i always enjoyed spending time with him and liz.
"zichrono l'ivracha."
may his memory be a blessing for everyone who cared about him.

Philadelphia--2014

Marc Catone

February 26, 2020

A year later...miss you, but feel that you are still around.

Victoria Cline

May 7, 2019

Steve was my cousin. I never met him in real life. I managed to find him on Facebook a few years ago by recognizing his baby picture. He looked very similar to me. I got to know him through his clever comments on my page, and a few Hannukkah cards. Reading his obit has made me so proud to share DNA with him. There was a good guy in my lineage. My sincere condolences to Liz and Beverly, his sister.

Gretchen Day-Bryant

March 17, 2019

Liz, I'm so sorry. Steve was such a good guy, and I admired your relationship so much - such good humor and companionship. Please take care of yourself. Sending you love and sympathy.

Brenda Mellowe

March 15, 2019

I just heard about it ! Steve was incredible. I have such great
Memories of Florida- how he
Sheltered us in your home during hurricanes, the ballgames
he and Don went to. And yet when Don died last March, there he was cheering me on without a clue as to what was going on. Such an unforgettable guy.

Glenn Singer

March 12, 2019

My deepest sympathy, Liz, for your loss. Steve was a truly good guy with an incomparable dry sense of humor. He was a very wise person, patient, understanding, kind. You made a great couple. I am sure your heart is filled with so many, many good memories.

Kathy Laskowski

March 11, 2019

Such a spot-on tribute. Just soooo, soooo Steve. He will be missed. My heart goes out to Liz and his family.

Oline Cogdill

March 11, 2019

My heartfelt sympathy to Liz and his family. Such a nice man.
Oline Cogdill

March 10, 2019

Rosemary Deutsch

March 10, 2019

The world has loss a beautiful person. I lost a wonderful friend.

March 7, 2019

What a beautifully written tribute to a wonderful man. Our hearts go out to Liz and others in the family for their loss. -- Scott Anderson

March 7, 2019

Very sorry for the loss of your loved one May God the hearer of prayers comfort you during this difficult time and give you strength. 2 cor. 1:4

Linda Helms

March 6, 2019

Such happy memories of my dear friend, so very sorry to hear you've gone away.

March 6, 2019

I met Steve when he and I were working at a car dealership in Delray Beach, Fl. We had many chats about doo wop music, yard work, and his beautiful garden.
I will miss my friend in the blue vest and black jeans.
Liz, you have my heartfelt condolences. He was a wonderful and caring man.
Judi Jarecki

Debbie Bruce

March 6, 2019

I met Mr. Meltzer when I worked for the Town of Weaverville. He was a very nice man. I'm sorry to hear this.

Barbara Mitzel

March 6, 2019

In loving memory of a kind,wonderful man who welcomed me,a newcomer to the office, and became my mentor at work. Memories of going to model train swap shows with me and my husband to search for that "special" train memorabilia. Visiting the Boca Raton airport to watch and listen as the historic B17,B24, and P51 Mustang flew over on their annual tours. Enjoying dinners, music and conversations together. Steve is a good friend that will be forever in my memories.

With heartfelt sympathy. Hugs and love to you Liz,
Barb

Bill Asman

March 5, 2019

Steve and I met up with an old friend at the Smithsonian in 2011

Marc Catone

March 5, 2019

March 4, 2019

i know he was "the bear" to you, but he was more of a big teddy bear for those of us who knew him and appreciated him as the consummate good, decent guy, as you described him... a real "mensch.
"zichrono l'ivracha."
may his memory be for a blessing.
-ken swart

Lynn and Rich Novicky

March 4, 2019

Lynn and Rich Novicky

March 4, 2019

Happy trails, dear friend....

Lynn and Rich Novicky

March 4, 2019

Barbara Sutton

March 4, 2019

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your loved one. May reflecting on all the good times you've shared together help ease the pain that you feel. May the God of all comfort strengthen you during this time of sadness and His promise for the future bring you peace. (Hosea 13:14)

Linda Barnhill

March 4, 2019

Thank you Steve for staying at a motel while the Na Na's had their annual get together. And for cooking a buffet for us at a previous one. You truly were a women's advocate and loved your wife! Ann, see you in June with bells on.

Cheryl Kotecki

March 3, 2019

This is a loss to our dignified circle of friends - oh wait, this is Steve and his great sense of humor and hearty chuckle we are talking about. I learned a few things I didn't know about Steve reading this, and we really like the photo here, even though we never knew him with this dark beard. My condolences to you, Liz - we loved Steve and we love you.

Chris Ferree

March 3, 2019

Steve, Liz and I first met when Liz and I were working at the Palm Beach Times in West Palm Beach. Steve and his roommate Ken Simon lived next to me in WPB. He and Liz and many of our friends often hung out at my apartment. This is where Steve and Liz got to know each other. "Hold my foot" was a thing we all used to say and Steve held Liz's foot more than anyone else. I have photos to prove this. And now, wherever Steve's afterlife is, we know that he is holding Liz's foot and we are all rejoicing in the memory that we had a chance to have Steve in our lives and our lives in those of Steve Meltzer and Liz Doup.
-- Chris Ferree

Joan sSands

March 3, 2019

My heart is broken

Gloria Adams

March 3, 2019

Ann, what a beautifully written memorial of your husband. Now I feel sad that I never met such a wonderful person. My heart goes out to you and I hope we can all get together soon!

Marc Catone

March 3, 2019

We will love you forever, Mr. Bear. I know you knew that. Will never forget all the fantastic moments spent with you and Liz. Especially that trip to San Diego on Bicentennial 4th of July...1976. We shall meet again.

Marc and Donna Catone

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