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Steven Patalano
1956 - 2015
Steven Patalano
1956 - 2015
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BORN
1956
DIED
2015
Steven Patalano Obituary
Steven was a passionate gardener, talented chef and avid cyclist. Above all he was a family man who was happiest when sharing his time with loved ones. His lasting legacy is the depth of his love which endures in those fortunate enough to have known him.
Steven is survived by his wife and sons, sister Gabrielle Patalano-Rindone (Michael), sister-in-law Ingrid Madera, brother-in-law Waldo Madera (Cecilia), and cherished nephews and nieces John Rindone, Joseph David (Carmia) and Nico, Mailen and Rosario Madera.
Visitation will be held on Tuesday, October 6, 2015 from 5-9PM and on Wednesday, October 7th from 2-4 & 7-9PM at Edward F. Carter Funeral Home, 41 Grand St., Croton-on-Hudson, NY 10520. A funeral mass will be held at St. Augustine Church in Ossining, NY on Thursday, October 8, 2015 at 11AM. Committal is Private.
Donations in Steven's name can be made to ALS Therapy Development Institute by visiting www.alstdi.org/donate.
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Alma Fein
October 10, 2015
Dear Grace and Family, my heart goes out to you. Although I only met Steven once, he impressed with his spirit and attitude. You were a tremendous support for him and he adored you. I know how difficult it is for you and the boys. You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers. With deepest sympathy for your great loss.
Ann Potanovic-Séman
October 6, 2015
Dear Grace, Boys and Family,
Our most heartfelt condolences and prayers go out to you during this most difficult time.
May you find comfort in knowing Steven is watching over you always.
Much love.
Ann and Family
Mary Ann Innace-Varner
October 6, 2015
We are praying for the progress of my cousin Steven's soul and keeping the Patalano family in our thoughts.
Love to all of you,
Mary Ann & Martin
Belle Mears
October 6, 2015
My prayers to your whole family Ingrid. May he rest in peace, and rise in glory.
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Thomas Gomez
October 6, 2015
I never met Steven, but recently have had the opportunity to work with James. My condolences to the entire Patalano family.
Bob Newton
October 6, 2015
I'd like to extend my sympathies to Grace, her sons, and all family and friends of Steven Patalano. May he rest in peace. Continue to be strong and hold onto your memories of him.
Julie Montgomery
October 6, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with the Patalano family.
Father of all mercies and God of all consolation,
you pursue us with untiring love
and dispel the shadow of death
with the bright dawn of life.
Give courage to this family in their loss and sorrow.
Be their refuge and strength, O Lord,
reassure them of your continuing love
and lift them from the depths of grief
into the peace and light of your presence.
Your Son, our Lord Jesus Christ,
by dying has destroyed our death,
and by rising, restored our life.
Your Holy Spirit, our comforter,
speaks for us in groans too deep for words.
Come alongside your people,
remind them of your eternal presence
and give them your comfort and strength.
Amen.
October 6, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May he rest in peace.
October 6, 2015
Grace, so very sorry to hear about the passing of your husband.
May the love of your family & friends surround you at this time and bring you strength.
May the memories of the beautiful life shared with your loving husband bring you solace during this sad time.
Hugs to you and your sons.
Diane (Potanovic) Driscoll
Staci Clarke
October 6, 2015
Grace, You and your family are in my prayers. Sending you love and my heartfelt condolences.
Ginny Lane
October 6, 2015
We met so fleetingly in Italy...but the strength that you both showed was so clear. Precious memories made on a beautiful Italian coast. May God hold you close in this most difficult time, Grace...and your sons be the greatest comfort to you. Love from Ron & Ginny in UK
Evan and Kevin
October 5, 2015
Grace, Thomas, James and Peter,
I wish I had the opportunity to know Mr. Patalano better. I've heard nothing but great things about him. With Mrs. Patalano by his side, he has raised three intelligent, well-respected sons. I admire the strength he portrayed while he fought this terrible disease. I hope the love and support from your loved ones bring you peace during this difficult time.
We love you and will always be here for you,
October 5, 2015
There are no words to express the deep sorrow that I feel for my dear friend Grace, and her loving sons, Thomas, James, and Peter.
May God put his loving arms around you all and give you peace that passes all understanding. We love you, Barbara, Sean, Olivia, and Juli
October 5, 2015
Steven rest in peace.you fought the good fight against this terrible disease.It was great seeing you in Florida in the beginning of the year.I will never forget your beautiful smile but most of all your spirit and love of family. May Our Lord and Savior comfort your beautiful family.
October 5, 2015
HI, i am not really good at things like this but i know stevens sister gabrielle for over 20 years i only heard loving and hearfelt things about steven his sons and his wife grace God took steven much too soon he took steven on my birthday which is the feast day of saint frances he and his loveing family will forever be in my heart and in my prayers love olympia and never be forgotten
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