SUSAN DIANNE DELAP

1942 - 2020

SUSAN DIANNE DELAP obituary, 1942-2020, Toronto, ON

SUSAN DIANNE DELAP

1942 - 2020

BORN

1942

DIED

2020

SUSAN DELAP Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 5, 2020.
DELAP, SUSAN DIANNE (nee SMITH) 1942 - 2020 Susan died suddenly, following surgery at Trillium Health Partners, Mississauga, on Wednesday, August 26, 2020. She is survived by her daughters, Leanne (Bob) and Keri (Troy), her grandchildren, Max, Simone and Ben, her siblings, Bob (Sheila), Carolyn and Cheryl; she was predeceased by her sister Betty. She will be missed also by her nieces, Linda and Laura and nephews, Greg, Jeff and Scott, as well as her former husband, Fred, and her lifelong circle of friends. Born and raised in the west-end of Toronto, Susan was a passionate feminist, ahead of her time; she worked from the age of 12, when she stacked pins in a bowling alley. She was unable to follow her first dream, going to university, so she switched gears to focus on raising her daughters, always putting their needs ahead of her own. She worked the overnight shift in the data department at Sick Kids for many years, to ensure she was home for breakfast and dinner with her girls, and to take them to clubs and classes. Just before age 50, recently divorced, Susan reinvented herself: there followed a 25-year run as a real estate broker (at Royal LePage and RE/MAX), and a later-life career as property manager of The Murano Towers. She retired just five years ago, but never slowed down, guiding her Applewood Terrace Condo Board, as president, through two epic floods. She chaired meetings from her hospital bed, troubleshooting calls day and night. But she found her real meaning in life as grandmother. She was a tight team with Max, Simone and Ben, and Gramma's house has always been their favourite place, a cocoon of private traditions. She was delighted to see Ben graduate high school this year, Max graduate university and Simone about to begin her fourth year. Susan was fierce-even her surgeon called her a force of nature-and pride was at the centre of all that she did. Susan spoke her mind and did not mince words. She did things her way. Underneath she was generous, warm and loving, and she showed unwavering faith in, and support for, those she loved. A celebration of Susan's life will follow, when we are all allowed to gather again. For anyone wishing to make a donation in Susan's memory, the family suggests Camp Oochigeas.

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Carol A. Lester

July 5, 2023

I am so sorry to find Susan's passing. We were friends through GHSS. Susan was a strong woman that did so much as President of Student Council

Wendy

December 10, 2020

Sherry it's Wendy....Call me if you feel like reconnecting.
I'm so sorry about Susan. She was a great lady.
I'm at 647-408-1027
or..

[email protected]

Loretta Ardelli

September 13, 2020

My deepest sympathies to the family and friends in the passing of Susan. She was a very articulate individual who worked tirelessly while president of our condo board. She was a lovely lady and wil be missed.

Tony

September 11, 2020

Susan was a very loving, honest, descent, kind, and very well organized person. She was very fond of her family. I will miss her very much.

Patricia Cook

September 8, 2020

Friends are some of the most precious people in our lives. Sue was more than my best friend. She was my cheerleader and my confidant as I was hers. We had a special bond, always relying on one another and trusted each other with our deepest secrets. She had a caring heart, was ever so kind, compassionate, resilient and most of all courageous! We experienced the joy of raising our children side by side and later cherished countless stories of our beloved children. I will treasure my wonderful memories of our times spent together. The times we laughed and the times we cried. Sue brought me true joy and happiness. Rest In Peace my dearest friend. My family and I will miss you beyond words. Your bright light will shine on us. Forever in our hearts ❤❤

Jeff

September 6, 2020

Auntie Sue, I will always cherish the memories and never forget how amazing you were. You are loved by so many as you’ve impacted all our lives in such positive ways. I love you!

Laura Smith-Cooper

September 6, 2020

My cousins and I are so fortunate to come from a long line of strong, intelligent and beautiful women, of whom Auntie Sue was a prime example. Her last thought to me was (in part), "I am so lucky to have so much support. I will try my best to honour it." I can only hope to honour the legacy of our family and make them proud.

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Helen Trianos

September 6, 2020

With my deepest condolences to you and your family. I first met your mom Susan, when I was interested in finding a unit in the building and was told that there was a neighbour who was in real estate and perhaps she could help me. Needless to say she found the perfect unit for me. Over the years I’ve known Susan to be steadfast, honest and true and she will be sadly missed. God Bless xoxo
Helen

Sheila & Bob Smith

September 5, 2020

Sue, your passing has left a major hole in the hearts of your family and All those who knew you. Your tremendous courage and resilience through the pain, suffering and all of the things life threw at you were remarkable.
Rest In Peace Sue, you have earned it.

Sue & Mike

September 5, 2020

So very sorry for your loss - Our heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. May your mom's laughter and smile live in your hearts forever. God Bless xoxo

Terry and Rina Michaud

September 5, 2020

She was a great mom and a fantastic grandmother. She always was available for them. A great lady and she will be remembered as a loving and generous soul. Rest In Peace.

Sheila& Bob Smith

September 5, 2020

Sue, Your Loss has left a giant hole in the hearts of your whole family. You showed unimaginable strength and courage in your fight to achieve a level of normalcy, despite the pain and suffering you were incurring. Rest well Sue you deserve it.

Sheila & Bob

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