Thomas G. Burris

Thomas G. Burris

Thomas Burris Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 29, 2007.
HUDSON, N.H. -- Thomas G. Burris, 71, a past Exalted Ruler of the Tewksbury-Wilmington Lodge of Elks, died yesterday, June 28, at Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston after a brief illness. He was the beloved husband of Marilyn A."Mal" (Lapham) Burris, with whom he would have celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary today, June 29.

He was born in Lowell, on Jan. 24, 1936, the only child of Maxwell and Emily (Marsh) Burris. He was raised in Tewksbury, and graduated from Tewksbury High School in 1957. He lived in Tewksbury the greater part of his life before retiring to Hudson, N.H., in 1989.

Mr. Burris remained a communicant of St. William Parish in Tewksbury throughout his life.

He served in the Navy during the Korean War era, and was honorably discharged as a machinist's mate 3rd Class. He had served aboard the aircraft carrier USS Wasp for his sea duty.

He founded the T.G. Burris and Son Plumbing & Heating Company in Tewksbury, which remains active and family-owned under the new name, Burris Plumbing and Heating Company.

Mr. Burris was well-known within the Elks community for his tireless devotion to the Elks organization. He served as Exalted Ruler of the Tewksbury-Wilmington Lodge 2070 from 1972 to 1973, and had held every position of officer within the lodge during his long career. He was especially active in the Elks National Foundation and had attended many national Elks conventions as a delegate from Massachusetts.

He was also a former member of the Father Coppen's Council, Knights of Columbus in Tewksbury, and the Tewksbury Veterans Association.

Besides his wife, he is survived by four children, Theresa "Terry" Smith, Kevin T. Burris and his wife Inga (Fosse) Burns, Barbara Baker and her husband David, all of Hudson, N.H., and Patricia Dascoli and her husband Michael of Tewksbury; his mother-in-law, Ida Cann of Tewksbury; a sister-in-law and brother-in-law, Marsha and Arthur Sawin of Lowell; 10 grandchildren, Emily and Jason Smith, Ian and Matthew Burris, Rachel Baker, all of Hudson, N.H., Erin Collinge and her husband Nathaniel of Tyngsboro, Kevin Burris, Keith Burris, Deanna and Michael Dascoli, all of Tewksbury; two great-grandchildren, Kalli-Rose and Kaelyn; and several nieces and nephews.

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July 10, 2007

Jerry Haines posted to the memorial.

July 3, 2007

Patricia posted to the memorial.

July 3, 2007

Tracy McCarthy posted to the memorial.

Jerry Haines

July 10, 2007

Marilyn,
My condolences to you and your family. It's times like this that a person has to be strong. God bless you and protect you.

Patricia

July 3, 2007

GOD TOOK THE STRENGTH OF A MOUNTAIN,
THE MAJESTY OF A TREE,
THE WARMTH OF A SUMMER SUN,
THE CALM OF A QUIET SEA,

THE GENEROUS SOUL OF NATURE,
THE COMFORTING ARM OF NIGHT,
THE WISDOM OF THE AGES,
THE POWER OF THE EAGLE'S FLIGHT,

THE JOY OF A MORNING IN SPRING,
THE FAITH OF A MUSTARD SEED,
THE PATIENCE OF ETERNITY,
THE DEPTH OF A FAMILY NEED,

THEN GOD COMBINED THESE QUALITIES,
WHEN THERE WAS NOTHING MORE TO ADD,
HE KNEW HIS MASTERPIECE WAS COMPLETE,
AND SO,

HE CALLED IT ... DAD

DAD YOU ARE MY ROCK, I LOVE YOU...

Tracy McCarthy

July 3, 2007

Dear Mal and family
I'm so sorry for your loss. Tom holds a special place in my heart. I wish I was there for you and your family. Patty send a real nice picture of you amd Tom so that helped me alot. I will remember the good times. I'm sure he's happy being with all his freinds and family up there!!!! I hope you are OK I know it will be very hard for you but you have a great family to help you. I wish you well and I will miss him very much.
Love you all Tracy

Susan Hewitt

July 3, 2007

Marilyn,
I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband Tom. He was a really nice man. It is hard to know just what to say, but I am very sorry. Condolences to your children and grandchildren as well. Take care of yourself. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Brenda Stefaney

July 2, 2007

Kevin, Inga & Family, sorry for your loss our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.

Mike & Brenda Stefaney

KATHLEEN BROTHERS

July 2, 2007

Marilyn
Please accept our condolences on the passing of Tom. Please know that our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Kathleen (Bancroft) and Arthur Brothers (Class of "56)

Ginny Rogers

July 1, 2007

Barbara, Jim & I are thinking of you and your family at this difficult time...

Donna Allen-Deyoe

June 30, 2007

With Love Uncle Tommy! You will be missed by all of us!

Carol Cucurullo

June 29, 2007

Mal & kids, Was saddened to hear of Tommy's death. He will be missed. My prayers go out to all of you.

Meredith

June 29, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Mr. Burris was such a kind and gentle man. He truly was a sweetheart.

Robert Marsh

June 29, 2007

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my condolences to the entire Burris family, you will all be in my prayers.

Kim Plourde

June 29, 2007

I will miss you Uncle Tommy, you were like the Dad I never had!!

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