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Thomas L. "Tom" Dryer
1950 - 2015
Thomas L. "Tom" Dryer
1950 - 2015
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BORN
1950
DIED
2015
Thomas Dryer Obituary
Services will be 3:30 p.m., Saturday, Sept. 26, at Speaks Suburban Chapel, 18020 E. 39th St., Independence, MO 64055. Visitation will begin at 2:30 before service at the chapel. Committal services will be private at a later date.
In lieu of flowers the family would like to encourage everyone to sign your organ donor cards or contribute to the K.U. Medical Center Transplant Unit, 3901 Rainbow Blvd., Kansas City, KS 66160.
Tom was born June 4, 1950, in Independence, MO, and earned a B.S. degree from UCM. Tom's career was in materials management at many Kansas City area hospitals. He was an accomplished singer who sang in many bands and had recorded an album in Nashville. Most of all he loved being "Grampy" to his four grandchildren. He was a devoted Christian who was strong in his faith.
Tom was preceded in death by his father John Dryer, sister Sandi Hoover and nephew Matt Hoover.
He is survived by his wife of forty-three years Diane Dryer, of the home; daughter Sandi Moleski and husband Mike, Lemont, IL; son Ryan Dryer and wife Amy, Blue Springs, MO; mother Beulah Dryer, Lee's Summit, MO; grandchildren Donovan, Delaney, Raleigh and Sullivan and nephew Adam Hoover and wife Shauna, Grain Valley, MO.
Online condolences may be expressed at www.speakschapel.com
Arrangements: Speaks Suburban Chapel; 816-373-3600
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Fred Vail
December 20, 2020
Diane and family, I am so sorry to just learn of Tom’s passing. I thought of him and when I couldn’t find him on Facebook, I googled him. I want you to know he was one of the nicest guys—and most talented—I ever worked with. The album we did remains a personal favorite. Please call when you get a chance. Merry Christmas from Fred and the Treasure Isle Recorders gang. 615-297-0700
Dennis Minzes
July 31, 2017
Rest In Peace Tom.
September 26, 2015
I'm so sorry to hear about Tom. He was an excellent singer. I shall never forget the song " I'll Rise Again" he did at our church for an Easter Pageant. Goose bumps, chills, tears, all from the words of a song that was sang purely from the heart. My prayers are with the family! Can't imagine what his voice sounds now! God be with you all! Judy Craven-Pritchett
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Kris Lowery
September 26, 2015
My condolences go to everyone in Tom's family. I'm so sorry Diane. I especially want to send my love to Aunt Beulah. To lose one child is overwhelming, to lose two children and a grandson is incomprehensible. My husband (Danny) and I are both signed up to be organ donors. My Dad, Jim Dryer, was an organ donor when he passed and he helped so many people. I hope more people would understand that they or a loved one could save the life of other families loved ones. To give the hope, the gift, of life is what we should all aspire to. Love...
September 25, 2015
Diane and family,
Jack and I feel very fortunate to be neighbors with you and to call you friends.
The loss of Tom has hit us hard. The love you share for your family will get you through this very difficult time. Please know that Jack and I are never far away and our love and support is with you always.
We will keep our eyes on your Maggie girl.
Love, Jack and Jill Cochran
Jill Cochran
September 25, 2015
Diane and family,
Jack and I feel very fortunate to call you friends. You have been the best neighbors and the loss of Tom has truly hit us hard. The love you have for your family will carry you through this very difficult time. Jack and I are never far away.
We will keep our eyes on your Maggie girl.
Jack and I love you!
Jill and Jack Cochran
Nora Lee
September 25, 2015
Diane, like so many others I am shocked and saddened by Tom's passing. I have the fondest memories of Tom and always looked forward to seeing you both at reunions. My prayers are with you and your family. Sadly my health prohibits me coming to the services but my thought and prayers are with you.
Mike and Denise Parker
September 25, 2015
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Please know you and the kids are in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything we can do to help you in anyway, please don't hesitate to call.
Carol Smith
September 24, 2015
Diane, we are so very sorry for your loss. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May your memories of Tom help you through this tough time. Sincerely, Carol and Steve Smith
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