Thomas Michael "Tom" Ehlinger

1947 - 2018

Thomas Michael "Tom" Ehlinger obituary, 1947-2018, Houston, TX

Thomas Michael "Tom" Ehlinger

1947 - 2018

BORN

1947

DIED

2018

Thomas Ehlinger Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 19, 2018.
Houston - Thomas Michael Ehlinger (Col. Ret), 70, of Houston passed away Tuesday, May 15, 2018. Tom was born October 19, 1947 in San Antonio, Texas to Herman Joseph and Vlasta (Pat) Orsak Ehlinger. His survived by his wife of 48 years, Kathleen (Kathy) Rhone Ehlinger; daughter, Melinda; son, Daniel; brother, Ernest (Ernie) Ehlinger & wife Karin; niece Jennifer Ehlinger and grand-niece Emelia Ehlinger, all of Woodbridge, VA. Aunt, Mrs. Julia Timm, Hallettsville, TX. Tom is also survived by numerous cousins, extended family and dear friends.

Tom was raised in San Antonio, Texas and attended St. Margaret Mary's Catholic School. He graduated from Central Catholic High School in 1965. Earned a BS in Physics from St. Mary's University in 1969. He also earned a MS from Florida Institute of Technology in 1978 and was a graduate of the Joint Forces Staff College and Army War College. He met and married the love of his life, Kathy in 1970 in San Antonio. Tom served in the United States Army for 26 years before retiring with the rank of Colonel. His military assignments included Germany, Korea, Egypt, Kuwait and assignments in the United States. He was a veteran of the Gulf War.

After his Army career he worked for Valley Telephone Co-op Inc. in Raymondville, Texas for four years. He was currently employed by the Stafford Municipal School District as Senior JROTC instructor. He had started the program in 2002 and it was his pride and joy.

Tom was a longtime member of St. Jerome Catholic Church where he was Head Usher and a 3rd Degree member of the Knights of Columbus, Father Diefenbach Council 4550 and past Grand Knight. He was also a 4th Degree member and most recently Faithful Navigator of the Msgr. William D. Steele Assembly 2033.

The Ehlinger family was present to receive friends Friday, May 18, 2018 from 6:00 PM until 8:00 PM with a recitation of the Holy Rosary beginning at 7:00 PM at St. Jerome Catholic Church, 8825 Kempwood Drive, Houston, TX 77080. The Funeral Mass was celebrated Saturday, May 19, 2017 at 11:00 AM. A reception followed Holy Mass in the Father Raye Center on the church campus. Tom will be laid to rest at a later date in Holy Cross Cemetery in San Antonio, Texas.

In lieu of flowers, please consider contributions in Tom's memory to Knights of Columbus Council 4550 Scholarship Fund, c/o St. Jerome Catholic Church, Central Catholic High School Building Fund, c/o Central Catholic High School, 1403 N. St. Mary's St., San Antonio, TX. 78215, or St. Mary's University, One Camino Santa Maria, San Antonio, TX. 78228. Visit www.DettlingFuneral.com to leave words of condolence for the family.

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May 13, 2019

Sarah Estep posted to the memorial.

December 8, 2018

Jeff Oliver posted to the memorial.

May 21, 2018

Dcn Pat Cunningham posted to the memorial.

Sarah Estep

May 13, 2019

Tom, you are so missed. I think about you often.

Jeff Oliver

December 8, 2018

Katy,

Seeing Tom's notice of passing printed in the St. Mary's Gold & Blue has grieved me. As you may recall, Tom and I were very close friends from grade school on through college. Marilyn and I pray for his soul and all souls faithfully departed.

We hope you are doing well, and perhaps can see you sometime.

Sincerely,
Jeff Oliver

Dcn Pat Cunningham

May 21, 2018

Kathy, Melinda, Daniel, prayers for Tom and for you in a difficult hour. Carolyn and I will keep you all in memory and lift you up to the Father. May the consolation of the Holy Spirit be yours in this post-Pentecost season.

Larry and Sue Zan Pawlik

May 20, 2018

Our prayers to the Ehlinger family . You have our sympathy. God bless your family .

Susan Ehlinger Burrier

May 19, 2018

Dear Kathy, Melinda, Daniel and family, my condolences to you all during this difficult time! May God hold Tom in His loving arms! May God bless you all! My prayers are with you all. As Tom was our cousin and my brother Tom went before him to heaven, may they be reunited. Love always!

Eileen and Richard Pape

May 19, 2018

We are so sorry for your loss! Tom fought a great battle with his cancer! May he rest in God's peace. Now, he is with our brother, Tom! May God bless you all and give you peace! You are in our prayers.

Fraybert Orsak

May 19, 2018

My Aunt Pat and Uncle Herman always talked highly of Tommy and Ernie. They were so proud of them both. Always sharing pictures, recordings and stories with my mom and dad. Tommy was my dad's sister Aunt Pat's son. I'm sure Tommy was respected greatly by all people in his life and community. RIP cousin Tommy

Suzanne Penn

May 18, 2018

He was an amazing man and always kind and very helpful when I asked for advice. He will be greatly missed. My prayers are with you Kathy and family.

CSM Wiley C Lewis

May 18, 2018

COL Thomas M Ehlinger was a tremendous asset to have on the staff of the HISD JROTC sponsored summer camps and summer workshops. Despite his rank, COL Ehlinger was always willing to roll up his sleeves and help out in any given situation. He was, for many years, a positive influence on the lives of his JROTC students and the thousands of students and staff members at his school over the years. A person of his caliber will be hard to replace and unquestionably missed.

Sarah Estep-Guest

May 18, 2018

Tom was an absolute gem of a man. He was very caring and loved his family. He will be greatly missed.

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Leon Stern

May 18, 2018

Col. Ehlinger made a sincerely profound impact on my life. I was among his first JROTC graduates in '03. His wisdom, guidance, and mentorship made me into a better person and he will never be forgotten. Condolences to his family.

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Joe Longoria

May 17, 2018

A true solider for our country and a faithful warrior. May his soul rest in peace. He will be missed but we never lose our loved ones, we simply return them to our Heavenly Father after they accomplish their mission. Our condolences to the Ehlinger family...

Mary Jo VonFeldt

May 17, 2018

One of the nicest people I have ever met.
Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Stephanie Reagle

May 17, 2018

We will miss Col. Ehlinger at Stafford MSD. He was such a wonderful man. I enjoyed being in meetings with him. He was the real deal. Thank you for everything, Colonel! -Stephanie Reagle

Carrie Sorbet

May 17, 2018

I'm so saddened to hear that this world has lost one of the finest persons I know. He was such a kind, decent, good-hearted man and dedicated teacher to my son, daughter and daughter-in-law. He will be greatly missed!!!

May 17, 2018

Kathy, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Rita Villanueva

Luis De La Garza

May 17, 2018

Sending our thoughts and prayers to Kathy and family. May God give you strenght in these moments.

May 17, 2018

Rest in peace, Colonel! Thank you for all you've done for our country.
Vince Rounds
Central Catholic High School, San Antonio, Texas, Class of '65!

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