Thomas Fishbein

1949 - 2016

Thomas Fishbein obituary, 1949-2016, Highland Park, IL

Thomas Fishbein

1949 - 2016

Thomas Fishbein Obituary

Published by Chicago Tribune on May 21, 2016.
Thomas Alan Fishbein, 67, of Highland Park, Illinois. Loving husband, father, grandfather, brother, son, uncle, and friend. Lawyer, public speaker, writer, artist, and animal lover. Tom made life fun for everyone who knew him. In the early morning of May 18, 2016, Tom passed away peacefully at home, in the company of his family, after a series of long illnesses. Tom was born in Chicago, Illinois, on January 19, 1949, the first of nine children of Alene and Richard Fishbein. Tom's five sisters and three brothers saw him as a role model, always looking to him for sage advice. He met his wife, Claudia, in Ann Arbor on February 2, 1969, while they were students at the University of Michigan. College sweethearts, they affectionately called each other "sweetie" for the next 47 years. On February 4, 1973, they were married in Dearborn, Michigan, later settling in the Chicago area. Tom's joy in life was raising his children and spending time with them and their families. His eldest son, Robin, is a math genius and amateur pianist. Robin married Jennifer (née Keast) in summer of 2014, and their daughter Marion Rose was born in March 2016. Tom's son, Ben, returned to the US after several years abroad to found a company and has been Tom's closest companion and YouTube co-star. Tom's youngest son, Teddy, performed in the Marching Hundred at Indiana University and now leads a digital marketing team for a major healthcare system. Teddy married Tiffany (née Walker) in summer of 2008, and their daughters Adalyn Walker and Quinn Walker were born in April 2011 and March 2014. Tom's daughter, Allison, became a strong, independent woman at a young age, first blossoming as a champion swimmer and later working in education and the non-profit sector. Tom took great pride in his children's achievements and interests, reveling in both the little and big things. From math competitions to scholarships to calzones to acting to music to chess to swim records to low-budget productions and much more. He supported his children through everything. His life was devoted to providing the best for them; his life was a major success. A celebration of Tom's life will take place on Wednesday, May 25, between 3:30pm and 7:30pm, at Heller Nature Center, 2821 Ridge Rd, Highland Park IL 60035, with visitation starting at 3:30pm and reflections starting at 6:00pm. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Tails Of Hope, where Tom adopted his faithful companion, Rusty: www.tailsofhope.org.

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Brian Johnson

February 26, 2023

I met Tom and Claudia in January, 1975, in Nice France. They were staying in the same Hotel as us, but had the balcony room, which they graciously shared. As a small cadre of Americans in winter weather, we bonded in that month. We stayed in touch for a while, but lost contact. I am sad to find this obituary, but remember him positively and wish his family well.

June 3, 2016

As Nana Irma said about Tom, he entered the lives of the students he taught as a Chicago Public School teacher. Tom entered all of our lives and his amazing spirit and soul will live on forever.
Love you Tom forever.
Sally Jo Fishbein Marver

May 26, 2016

I'm so happy I spent a few moments with Tom near the end. Rest in peace my high school friend.
-Mark Feierberg

May 25, 2016

He'll always be "Tommy" to me. My sincere condolences to Tommy's wonderful Family.
Margie Mintz Rosenbaum,
Childhood Friend, U-High '66

Joe Belmont

May 23, 2016

My parents and Tom's were friends years before I met Tom; then he and I were friends as kids and in high school, more than 50 years ago. We lost touch, but I was glad that I was able to visit with him and Claudia a few months ago. He will be missed.

Mark & Tracy Heiden & Familu

May 22, 2016

Our thoughts are with the Fishbein family. We enjoyed meeting the entire family at Robin and Jen's wedding, it was clear how proud Tom was of his children.

Linda Walsh

May 21, 2016

I have known the Fishbein family for over 50 years. I met Tom's sister Sally the summer before our Freshman year in high school. I spent many days at their home in Glencoe and had too many good times there to count. Although I did not know Tom well, I know he was a loving father, husband, grandfather and friend to so many. He suffered a long time. May he ow rest in peace.

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