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Mary Bennett
January 19, 2012
Tried to reach Tom to wish him a happy birthday today, and found the sad news instead. Am thinking of Mary. Knew them both in Boston at Dyer/Brown and through Museum of Transportation/ Museum Wharf connections. Glad to reconnect with Tom when I moved to Charlottesville, Va in 2008 and got to see a play at Blackfriars with the man himself. Mary, search on your name leads me to think today might be a doubly hard day for you. I have never met your children, but will keep them in my prayers.
January 15, 2012
Dear Mary, Tommy and Mary Elizabeth,
Our entire family was so sad to hear of Tom's death. What a kind and gentle man he was, and we always enjoyed seeing him (and all of you) throughout the years. Surely he fought a hard battle and hopefully didn't suffer. He loved you very much and was so very proud of all three of you. God bless you all. Fondly, Meg, Byron, Ben and Sarah Kate Traynham
January 12, 2012
I was honored to work with Tom for 5 years, and considered him a talented and warm hearted friend. I am grieved to hear of his passing. I will miss him.
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Rodger Slate
January 11, 2012
My prayers go out to Tom's family. He was a great gentleman to work with.
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Gail Rice
January 10, 2012
To the McLaughin Family, I was so sorry to hear about Tom who was a friend and great guy. I was in high school with Tom and we lived in the same neighborhood, speight forest, in Tarboro. He was always kind, real and a man of his word. He did help to make this world a more beautiful place. Love and Prayers, Gail Fleming Rice and family (Farmville, NC)
January 10, 2012
Hi Katherine, So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I know what you are going through. But what a well-lived life. Bill Winslow
Lyla Washburn
January 10, 2012
To the McLaughlin family, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. As Mary Lou stated, I knew Tom mostly through Katherines adoration. It is obvious he will be greatly missed by all who knew him. How wonderful though that he could leave such a legacy for others to enjoy for years to come.
Gus Pistolis
January 10, 2012
Dear McLaughlin Family,
I was genuinely saddened to get a call this morning telling me of Tom's passing. Please accept my deepest condolences. There was never a doubt in my mind after meeting Tom in the halls of THS that he would leave lasting impressions with everyone he met throughout life, wherever life's travels took him. Truly, Tom's bright spirit and body of work live on for those of us fortunate enough to know him. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Marcos Silva
January 10, 2012
I worked with Tom in the 90's. Tom worked to his own schedule much to the chagrin of others in the office. Most of his creative work came late at night as he listened to Ted Koppel on Nightline as the rest of us slept. I admired his work and always wished I had half his talent.
I had the great honor and privilege of working on two of his major projects. Years would go between my contacts with Tom but when I saw him it was as if it had only been days. I spent a half hour with him two months ago we caught up on life in general.
Tom will be missed. He was very gentle and I can't recall him ever speaking ill of anyone.
My prayers and condolences are with the family.
January 9, 2012
To Tom's Family: Tom was in my high school graduating class and I remember him fondly. Please know how deeply sad I am to learn of his passing. He made his mark in high school, and as I can see, all during his life. With deepest sympathy, Mary Earle Nettles Stallings
Anne Beinecke
January 9, 2012
I will always treasure the fun times and conversations I had with you and Mary, Tommy (Mr. Robusto) and Mary Elizabeth. So witty, smart, and kind, and with all the extraordinary talent you had to offer the world, you are too young to not still be here. I will miss you, Tom, and never forget you. You were always a great brother-in-law and friend.
January 9, 2012
Dear McLaughlin family, I send my deepest condolences. I have fond memories of Tom as a good-looking, smart, athletic and cool senior at Tarboro High when I was a lowly freshman. I knew his parents through the Carolina Telephone Company family and the school system and I taught with Katherine. My thoughts and prayers for comfort and peace are with you. Kathy Brock Harris, Tarboro, NC
Mary Lou Pridgen Emmons
January 9, 2012
To Tom's wife and children and Katherine and her family,
My prayers go out to your family. I will always remember going over to Katherine's house as a child to play. Katherine always adored her older, cool brother and loved to show him off to her friends when he was around the house. He is in a better place now celebrating with his parents. Skippy, you can love on him once again.
Marion Kent
January 9, 2012
My sincere Condolences. I enjoyed my time with Tom on the THS baseball team. A truley wonderful person.
bruce burris
January 9, 2012
didnt know him , but idid and do know his sister. sorry katherine. my thoughts and prayers
Stuart Connock
January 9, 2012
Dear Mclaughlin Family,
I have worked with Tom on various projects over the last 35 years. In each of those instances, I was always impressed with his design talent as an Architect and ability to take an idea and create a lasting architectural statment. Most recently, I was privledged to work with him on several projects at Henricus Park, the latest, Rocke Hall, in a photograph attached to my remarks. His passion was contagious and his demeaner gracious and welcoming. Tom was just good to be around. My thoughts are with you and all who will mourn his passing.
Stuart W. Connock, jr, Chief of Parks; Planning and Construction Services, Chesterfield County Parks and Recreation / Formerly Vice-President Wilson-Moreth Connock, Landscape Architects.
Elliott Law
January 9, 2012
I enjoyed working with Tom for a period of 5 years or so. His design talent raised the bar in our office. Beyond his striking hand drawn building elevation proposals, Tom knew how it would go together, how that image could be achieved. He loved good design, good food and a good ACC matchup. God bless.
January 9, 2012
My sincere condolences to his wife and children. During my time at Odell, I greatly appreciated Toms
easy going approach and his ability to work with the members of his team and his ability to communicate his ideas of design to the others. I believe the healing gardens and the St. Francis Cancer Center are a fitting tribute to his ability. He has brought a lasting memorial to others who are combatting this disease, and hopefully will appreciate his contribution to life as we know it. It is truly a beautiful and healing place.
Mark Attwood
Jeff Woosley
January 9, 2012
I had the honor of working with Tom for several years, he was a talented architect, and more importantly a kind and gentle friend, whom we will miss. We will keep Tom and his family in our prayers.
Susan Hawthorne
January 9, 2012
Deepest, heart-felt sympathy. Tom was a sweet and gentle man.
Randy Holmes
January 9, 2012
My deepest condolances to his wife, children and extended family. Tom was an admired architect and signficant contributor to our built environment. He will be missed.
-Glave and Holmes Architecture
Kevin OMalley
January 9, 2012
Tom was a regular attendee at our Monday night basketball at Sacred Heart Church in Newton in the early 80's. It was always fun to have him part of our group. He always had a smile on his face. Please know that Tom and you will be in my prayers.
Charles Grant
January 9, 2012
Dear Mrs. McLaughlin:
It is with great saddness that we at Henricus Historical Park have learned of Tom's passing. Tom was our official town architect and a great friend to all of us. This news comes as a shock. We've lost a beloved and highly respected man whose talents helped transform this important 17th century site for the education and enjoyment of generations to come. Tom will be sorely missed by all associated with Henricus. I counted Tom among my friends and I always enjoyed working and conversing with him. He took a great deal of pride in the work he did for us and we took a great deal of pride in being associated with him. We are truly saddened by his passing. May God bless the McLaughlin family.
Charles Lewis Grant, acting Executive Director, Henricus Historical Park, Chester, VA
Dotti Cullinan
January 9, 2012
Dear Mary,
We are so saddened to hear the news about Tom. Besides loving to be in his company, we remember how wonderful it was to work with him on our renovation. To this day, we enjoy the fruits of his lovely design. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you, and keep you all. Love, Kevin and Dotti Cullinan
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