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Pay and Lyndsay McFetridge
October 17, 2023
Dear Livi Tommy Sammie and Auburne
Dee
Tom and Marlene and extended family
I so sorry we can´t be with you today but we will be with you from Okato
As I sit here and write this so many memories come flooding back from your time in Okato
Tom was so loved in our district
As a nurse working with him in the beginning when you all came here
I remember when he told me he was going to set up a Emergency Department in New Plymouth determination made it happen!!
Then Dr Goble WOW an amazing contribution to Health on line.
I remember
The phone call asking me to sell your beautiful villa in Okato a home that he loved
I said no your not leaving He replied Pat "it´s time to move on "
And move on you did
We missed you all so much
The memories of talks over coffee on the deck
The stories and laughs and the excitement he had about what he was going to do in the future
Tom will be remembered for the many things he has achieved but the most precious memory is his smile, his big hugs whoever you met him and his unconditional love he had for life and his family
He will always be remembered and loved
Pat and Lyndsay McFetridge
Philippa Edlin
October 16, 2023
I didn't know Tom, but knew of him, through his Mum, Marlene. It's been a long time Marlene, since Upper Hutt Health Centre days, but I've never forgotten you or the pride and affection with which you spoke of your "kids". Please accept my deepest sympathy and sadness at the loss of an adored and hugely respected son, Dr, family member and friend. I'll be thinking of you as you negotiate your way through this heartbreaking reality. Love and warm thoughts, Philippa Edlin
Gerard Holdsworth
October 14, 2023
Tom so sad to hear of your passing been a while since I’ve seen you wish we caught up more
Marilyn Baldwin (Tierney )
October 13, 2023
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
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Warwick Manning
October 13, 2023
Colin Payne
October 13, 2023
Dr Tom, your direct friendly support, advice, help and intervention on health & personal issues 30 + years ago whilst in New Plymouth will forever stand strong with me & many others. Thankyou mate. RIP.
Mary
October 12, 2023
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.He was a man on a mission,and followed through with his actions to get the health message out to those who made it less of a priority.
Mary Newton
October 12, 2023
To Melissa and family. So sorry to hear of your huge loss. I remember how much you loved your big bro.
With love
Mary Newton
Ex- IBMC
Linda Henderson
October 12, 2023
Words cannot express how much Dr Tom will be missed in this world.
I will always remember Tom's exhuberance, passion, inspiration, compassion, humility and heartfelt caring nature. His huge 'presence' filled a room, as much as his stature did.
I helped Tom tell 'his own story' by launching his first book at the 2005 London Book Fair, then promoted his second book and 'Healthy Thinking' programme into the corporate world.
He helped so many people in every area of his life and believed that laughter was the best 'medicine' of all.
Sincere condolences to his beloved family, friends and all the communities where his caring presence made a real difference to people.
"Footprints lead to the shore of the sea! Beyond that point, no trace remains" - Rumi.
Linda Henderson, Wellington.
Sioux Harlen
October 12, 2023
Our thoughts are with you all at this very sad time
Brett and Sioux Venables
Warren Hall
October 12, 2023
Very sad to lose you Dr Tom. Here's a photo from happier times with you, Tommy & some of the cousins. RIP
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