Thomas Kenneth Niehaus

Thomas Kenneth Niehaus obituary, Lexington, KY

Thomas Kenneth Niehaus

Thomas Niehaus Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 2 to Jan. 7, 2023.
August 3, 1939 - December 29, 2022 Lexington, KY ?

Thomas K. Niehaus died peacefully on 12/29/22 in Lexington, KY. Born August 3, 1939 in Cincinnati, Ohio, he graduated from Xavier High School in 1957, attended Florissant Seminary in St. Louis for two years, and graduated from Xavier University in Cincinnati in 1965. Tom was awarded a Fulbright scholarship to study in Madrid, Spain from 1966-1967. He completed his PhD in Library Science at the University of Texas at Austin. In 1977 he moved to New Orleans to be the director of the Latin American library at Tulane University until 1990. Tom returned to his pastoral roots by attending divinity school at the University of the South in Sewanee, TN and was ordained as an Episcopal priest in 1993. His first congregation was St. John's in Sylva, NC. The second and last congregation he led was St. Thomas in Burnsville, NC where he & Julie lived for 15 years. Upon retirement he moved to Milwaukee to be near son Mark & grandson Oliver. While a member of St. Boniface in Mequon, WI he celebrated his 50th anniversary with Julie in 2014. Since 2018, Tom has lived in Lexington, KY to be nearer to daughter Emily and her family. Tom is preceded in death by mother Lucille, father Sylvester, step father Steven Douglas, Brother James "Jim" and Robert "Bob." Tom is survived by his beloved wife of 58 years, Julie, son Mark and grandson Oliver, daughter Emily Messerli, son-in-law Adrian, and grandchildren M?a, Kate and Marco. A private burial will be held at a later date.

In lieu of flowers or gifts please send memorial donations to the Abbey of Gesthemani, 3642 Monks Rd, New Haven, KY 40051. Thomas Merton, Tom's favorite theologian spent many years at Gesthemani. https://monks.org/monks-pages/thomas-merton/. Condolence cards may be mailed to wife Julie at 2020 Cambridge Drive, Lexington, KY 40504.

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January 7, 2023

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January 6, 2023

Carol Thomas posted to the memorial.

January 5, 2023

Lois Niehaus Swisher posted to the memorial.

Lois Niehaus Swisher

January 7, 2023

Carol Thomas

January 6, 2023

Tom is the reason I became an Episcopalian. It is as simple as that. He represented the best in Believing. He will be greatly missed.

Lois Niehaus Swisher

January 5, 2023

Bill and I are very sad to hear of Uncle Tom's passing. He was such a kind, gentle, and caring man and will be sorely missed by the Niehaus family. We were able to visit him in our travels this past October and enjoyed spending precious time with him. Family always enjoyed Tom's storytelling. Our condolences to cousins Emily and Mark and their families. Heaven has gained another angel.

Love,
Lois (Niehaus Swisher)

Laura Ike

January 4, 2023

I am sad to hear of Tom passing. Listening to him weave his message in a sermon was always delightfully inspiring and satisfying. He kept in touch after we moved from Burnsville. Simetimes I would lean on him for advice for gaining political perspective. What a dear man and adorable couple. Julie, my heart goes out to you and the family.

Nestor Lugones

January 4, 2023

A good man in the best sense of the word. And a dear friend.

Amy Donaldson

January 4, 2023

I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Niehaus´ passing and send all of the family and friends my deepest condolences. -Amy Donaldson (New Orleans friend of Mark´s)

Sr. Janet Schneider, CDP

January 3, 2023

Cousin Julie, I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I wish I had gotten down to Lexington to visit you both. I appreciated having the few conversations that Tom and I did have together. The world is a better place with people like him - and you - in it. May God bless you and your children with comfort and strength.

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