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Margot Schoeps
September 14, 2023
Tom was a rare treasure of a friend. He was generous in his living and in planning for his end of life. His generosity is going on in good works through the lives of many. What a blessing
Marianne Milzoff
September 14, 2022
Tom, Miss you very much. You were such a good friend . Til we meet again, Marianne
Margot Schoeps
September 14, 2022
The example of Tom's generosity, kindness, gentle wisdom, care for the decency of humanity, and perseverance in the face of anythihg lives on in the lives of so many he touched. I am ever grateful for having walked life with him.
Lauren Taylor
September 19, 2021
Tom is in my thoughts often. His subtle humor and warm friendship will forever be remembered and missed. It seems impossible that a year has gone by since he left us. I miss him.
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Margot Schoeps
September 14, 2021
At this one year anniversary I am present to the amazing courage of Tom. He was steadfast in friendship....a real inspiration.
Michelle Powers
October 26, 2020
I will miss Tom very much. He called me every few months (and after a few weeks of phone tag we'd finally connect). He was a dedicated friend, and I will miss having such a caring person in my life and in this world. I hope wherever his spirit is, he has found comfortable shoes, delicious foods, and good books.
Margot Schoeps
October 12, 2020
Tom was a deeply compassionate and principled man....cherished for his generosity of spirit, sharp wit, willingness to engage in meaningful conversation, courage in the face of multiple challenges, and loyalty. I am so blessed to have shared life and love with him.
Marianne Milzoff
September 26, 2020
I learned a lot from Tom. He had a holistic, non judgmental view of the world. We had good conversations that enriched me. Rest in peace, friend.
MARCIA BEAN
September 21, 2020
Tom was a steady presence at CUUC - White Plains. It meant a lot to me when I first went to that church and he sought me out each week to say hello. I remember him wearing a "no death penalty" button and I was impressed that he was "vocal" about an issue that had fallen out of the news. I'll remember him as a patient, principled, warm person!
Alan Ani
September 21, 2020
A delightful, sweet friend with a good sense of humor. We shared some laughs. I will miss you Tommy.
Caroline Wu
September 21, 2020
Dear Judy,
I'm sure Tommy appreciated your help and your visits, and knew that he was loved. I'm sorry that I never told him how he was important to me.
Love,
Caroline
Lauren Taylor
September 21, 2020
Tom had a huge heart and was filled with compassion. he made everyone he spoke with feel important. He was passionate about his work and contributed to his congregation and to society in general in abundance. His passing leaves a huge hole that will never be filled.
John LeGloahec
September 21, 2020
I will miss Tom a great deal. We had not talked in some time and I am sorry for that - we would speak at length about the political environment - but I couldn't talk about the way things were right now. I am sad to think that he will no longer be here to see this country come out of this darkness on the other side.
Carole & Dinsa Mehta
September 20, 2020
We knew Tom for 25 years at CUUC. He was a gentle, compassionate man with a wisdom that he was very modest about
Our deepest condolences to his family. He will be missed
Lois Holt
September 20, 2020
The world has lost such a gentle soul ♥
Simone Taylor
September 20, 2020
My sincerest condolences to your family for the loss of your loved one, Please except my deepest sympathies.
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