Thomas Marshall Smith

1958 - 2016

Thomas Marshall Smith obituary, 1958-2016

Thomas Marshall Smith

1958 - 2016

Thomas Smith Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 3, 2016.
Thomas Marshall Smith was born on November 22, 1958 in Houston, Texas, to Joan and Gordon Smith. Tommy was active in Boy Scouts, Little League baseball and Luther League, and graduated from Ross S. Sterling High School in Baytown. He is a graduate of Texas A&M University, Class of 1981, with a degree in physical education. Tommy was a huge part of Aggie student life, as a Fish Camp director with Student Y, a resident advisor, and member of many intramural sports teams. In his early career, Tommy was a much-loved teacher and coach at Gentry Junior High in Baytown, where he met his wife, Cheryl. They were married on December 10, 1983. Tommy had a long career with scholastic services and felt like his work was more of a calling than a job due to his love and appreciation for students and educators. Tommy was an accomplished and highly sought after volunteer in many groups, including Bands of America, Houston Golf Association, and Houston Livestock Show & Rodeo. Most recently, Tommy was the front ensemble coordinator for Bands of America at all of their Texas and Grand National Performances; Vice President for Operations for the Shell Houston Open Golf Tournament; and a team leader and committee chair for the Houston Livestock Show & Rodeo. Most importantly, he was a tireless supporter of his sons, Taylor and Tanner, and threw himself into all of their sports and music activities with unbridled enthusiasm. He was president of the band booster organizations at the boys' schools in Austin and Sugar Land, and traveled as a parent volunteer with the Carolina Crown, Capital Regiment and Cavaliers organizations in Drum Corps International.Tommy was a man of God, raised in the Lutheran church, and baptized and confirmed in the Christian faith. He lived that faith reflecting Christ in all he did. He was deeply loved and respected by his family, friends and colleagues. For his family, he laid the foundation for a life marked by togetherness and shared experiences, and set enduring examples of grace, humor and responsibility. He was known for introducing himself to strangers and making them feel welcome, and he and Cheryl developed close and long-lasting relationships with their neighbors in both Austin and Richmond. He was a master storyteller and could make you laugh and cry all at the same time. A true servant leader, everyone who knew Tommy also knew his huge heart and spirit. His is an enduring legacy. He will be deeply and forever missed by us all. Tommy is survived by his wife of 33 years, Cheryl Lynn Vermillion Smith of Richmond, Taylor Smith (son) and Thallia Malespin (fiancée) of Philadelphia, Tanner (son) and Corey Smith of Frisco, Joan (mother) Smith of Yorktown and San Antonio, Marcy (sister) and Mark Probst of Katy, Sharon (sister) Smith of San Antonio, Allison (sister), Jason, and Jack (nephew) Mull, of North Richland Hills, and a large extended family. He was preceded in death by his father, Gordon Smith. Visitation will be Monday, December 5 from 5pm – 9pm at Settegast-Kopf at Sugar Creek, 15015 Southwest Freeway, Sugar Land, TX 77478. Celebration of Life services will be Tuesday, December 6 at 1:00pm preceded by visitation at noon at Living Word Lutheran Church, 3700 S. Mason Rd., Katy, TX 77450.

Memorials may be made to:
Bands of America
Music for All Development Department
39 W. Jackson Place, Suite 150
Indianapolis, IN 46255-1010

Houston Golf Association/First Tee
5810 Wilson Road, Suite 112
Humble, TX 77396

Carolina Crown
227-A Main St.
Fort Mill, SC 29715

The ARC of Fort Bend County
123 Brooks St.
Sugar Land, TX 77478

Houston Rodeo Association
Houston Livestock Show and Rodeo
P.O. Box 20070
Houston, TX 77225

Wakeland High School Band
10502 Stargazer Dr
Frisco, TX 75033

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December 8, 2016

Tara Malbrue posted to the memorial.

December 7, 2016

Rusty Little posted to the memorial.

December 7, 2016

Susan Miller posted to the memorial.

Tara Malbrue

December 8, 2016

Cheryl, I am so sorry for your loss. Looking at the pictures here, I can see he was a man full of life and vigor. Hang on to those memories and I'm praying that you find peace and comfort in the days to come. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family always.

Rusty Little

December 7, 2016

Tommy was one of the happiest and most outgoing people I've met. He made me feel the same way in his presence. My sincere condolences to his family and the many, many people he touched in his life.
(HGA member)

Susan Miller

December 7, 2016

Our sincere condolences on your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Karl, Susan, Ryan, Ben and Jake Miller

Joe Trueblood

December 6, 2016

Cheryl and Boys, I offer my sincerest condolences. Tommy and I had just recently spoken via phone - discussed business and life events and laughed together. I always valued our relationship and we always had good times together. He was such a good man. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

Brandye Wright

December 6, 2016

Cheryl and Family, Tommy was an amazing thoughtful man, I had the privilege to be on the HGA board with him. He has touched so many lives with kindness....and always put a smile on the faces of everyone he met. You and your family are in our prayers.

Jamie Waugh

December 6, 2016

Cheryl and Boys,
Y'all don't know me, but I was a huge fan and supporter of Tommy. He was an Awesome Man that had much respect and love in our industry. Tommy was able to bring together many people from vastly different backgrounds, to build a company with few customers into an industry leader. Without Tommy, his company would have never grown into the company it is now. This happened because Tommy took the time to make all of his customers feel special and important. Tommy was very loved and respected by all his customers (FRIENDS). He will be sorely missed by all of us who worked with him. All of Tommy"s friends in the business will be lost without him. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.

Carol Rohrer

December 5, 2016

Cheryl,
In the passing of your husband, I know that you will find peace and consolation through your faith and family. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.

Joel Hannemann

December 5, 2016

Cheryl, very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Peace and comfort.

Woody Fail

December 5, 2016

Kathy and I are at a loss for words. What will any of us do without Tommy? I am a better person for having known Tommy. Our condolences to his family and friends. Rest in eternal peace my friend.


Woody and Kathy Fail

Mary Rinehart

December 5, 2016

Cheryl,

So sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. Prayers are with you.

December 5, 2016

Cheryl, I am so sorry! My prayers are with you and your boys.
Jean Rich (Austin)

Judy Negus

December 5, 2016

Cheryl, I'm so sorry. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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Becky Klare

December 5, 2016

Chery, Tanner and Taylor, I was so sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. I know he will be truly missed.

The Paiga Family

December 5, 2016

With heavy hearts we are praying for your family.

Tiffany Perry

December 5, 2016

My husband & I moved to Houston from England in 2013-2016. I got involved volunteering for the SHO. Tommy was my leader, teacher & mentor. He also became my friend. His generosity, patience & humour always got me through those 4am starts. He was tireless & managed to be everywhere at the same time! First person in, last person out. What a special man. I liked him so much and will miss him. I hope his family find comfort knowing he was so loved.

Ruth Green

December 4, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We are so sorry for your loss. Please know we are here to support Tanner in any way we can with the Wakeland band family. We are a family and truly love and care about Tanner and all of the Smith family. Tommy left a great legacy and Tanner made him proud by many things but especially the way he has taken on the Wakeland band and made such a great impact in such a short time. Our prayers are with you all.

December 4, 2016

You will remain always in our hearts, forever in our memories.

Stan & Loweta Jorgensen

December 4, 2016

Dear Smith Family.........I was saddened to hear of Tommy's passing. I came to know him via the Shell Houston Open. He was a gem to work with and always seemed to carry a smile regardless of the situation. His tireless volunteer efforts in the Houston area will be greatly missed. My wife and I extend our deepest sympathies during this most difficult time

Al Grazis

December 4, 2016

My deepest sympathies are extended to Tommy's family. Tommy is a model of the core values we attempt to instill to the kids in the 1st Tee program. I appreciated the leadership qualities he projected. As a member of the committees he led, I always felt I was volunteering with him, never working for him. Truly an example we all should strive to emulate. He will be greatly missed.

December 4, 2016

Tommy, was a great asset to the Houston Golf Assoc. His presence will be missed at the SHO. I had the honor of working with him for two years as Vice-Chairman and I admired his commitment to the tournament and the volunteers. I am glad to have known him. May God bless you and your family in your time of sorrow. David Merritt (Frisco, Tx.)

Brittany Platz

December 4, 2016

Dear Smith Family,
We extend our deepest sympathies to you on the passing of Tommy. What an incredible life he lived giving so much to so many.
Dave and Brittany Platz

Carol and Randy Barta

December 4, 2016

Dear family....Randy and I are so sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. He worked so well with our group at the SHO - HE WAS ALWAYS there to help when On Course Shuttle needed him. What a great and gracious man. So caring and wanted everything to go just right for everyone, including the volunteers. I can still see him be-bopping across the tent to ask me if I needed anything....We are heartbroken. Know you all are in our prayers and Tommy will truly be missed a lot. Randy and Carol Barta

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