Valeria Xan Lee

Valeria Xan Lee obituary, Gary, IN

Valeria Xan Lee

Valeria Xan Lee Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 11, 2024.
First Lady, Valeria Xan Lee"Ann" of Gary,In went to be with the Lord on Sunday June 2,2024 . She was born April 30, 1966, to the union of James Sr. & Patricia Gray. Valeria attended Horace Mann High School, where she was part of the track team. She was a member of Pilgrim Missionary Baptist Church, under the leadership of Rev. Charles L. Emery. Valeria served faithfully in the music ministry for 28-years at Tree of Life Missionary Baptist Church, under the leadership of the late Rev. Dr. Cato Brooks, Jr. She attended Ivy Tech Community College and received her Technical Certificate in Child & Youth Development. Valeria gave her love and passion to many youth organizations in our region, from Gary Community School Corporation, Crisis Center Alternative House and for the past 19 years she has been employed at United Health System - Midwest Center for Youth and Family in Kouts, Indiana. Valeria was also a member of the Order of Eastern Star, Deborah Chapter. In January 1985, Valeria met the love of her life Dyke Edward Lee, Sr. In August 1985 they were married at Mount Bethany Missionary Baptist Church, under the leadership of the late Bishop Willie D. Standifer. With this marriage we created a combined family of love with our children Adrian Gray & Arnisha Lee. Upon this union, two children were born. With love, Valeria followed her husband, as they accepted the call by GOD for her husband to serve as Pastor of First Tabernacle Baptist Church. She served as a Missionary, Sunday School Teacher, and a dedicated member of The Voices of Tabernacle music ministry. Valeria was preceded in death by her father, James Oliver Gray, Sr. one brother, James Oliver Gray, Jr. Mother-in-Love: Frankie L. Hunt, Father-in-Love: Jeff Lee, Sr. When we look upon the life and legacy of Valeria, we have a clear view of a woman of elegance, grace, and dignity. She leaves this legacy to her mother, Patricia A. Gray of Gary, IN, husband, Rev. Dr. Dyke E. Lee, Sr., her children: Adrian Gray of Indianapolis, IN, Arnisha Lee of Gary, IN, Breshonte (Carl) Seals, of Indianapolis, IN, & Dyke Lee Jr. of Chicago, IL. Brothers: Darryl Gray & Patrick Gray of Gary, IN. Sisters: Cynthia (Anthony) Jones of Milwaukee, WI, Regina (Derek) Givens of Gary, IN, Karen (Simeon) Davis of Gary, IN, Mierra Gray of Gary, IN, & Tawjahna Lampkin of Noblesville, IN. Uncle: Johnny (Sharon) Rogers Sr. of Merrillville, IN. Special Daughter/Niece, Johnetta Hunt. God-children: Queena Taylor of Merrillville, IN, Rev. Johnell Barron of San Diego, CA, Pastor Royce F. Thompson of Gary, IN & Kendall Taylor of Gary, IN. Special Sister in Love: Dora M. Parson of Portsmouth, VA. Family of Love: Jeff (Dorothy) Lee & James Lee, of Merrillville, IN, Vivian (Sidney) Jordan of Gary, IN, James (Augustine) Hunt of Merrillville, IN, Tommie (Tracy) Hunt of Terre Haute, IN, & Lawrence Hunt of Indianapolis, IN. Thirteen-grandchildren, & a host of nieces, nephews, & cousins. Vistation Thursday June 13,2024 12:00 p.m.-7:30 p.m. family & friends hour 6:00 p.m. Celebration of Life Friday June 14,2024 11:00 a.m. all services at First Tabernacle M.B. Church 643 W. 41st Ave Gary,In. Interment Calumet Park Cemetery Merrillville,In. Services Entrusted To Powell-Coleman Funeral Home.

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July 26, 2024

Linda Pearson-Donaldson posted to the memorial.

July 2, 2024

D. Irene Key posted to the memorial.

June 14, 2024

Jeannette Gonzalez posted to the memorial.

Linda Pearson-Donaldson

July 26, 2024

Wow! I'm just learning about Ann's passing. "Earth has no sorrow that Heaven can not heal". I'm so sorry, but when you smile, those are thoughts that you shared together! One memory sticks in my mind is when you and Ann came to get me and Leonard (my husband at the time) you both came to where we lived in Chicago to pick us up. Boy, did we have fun!!!! I love you and Ann. God bless her, she was a beautiful soul.keep those beautiful memories. Treasure them, hold them close to your heart. RIH, sister Ann

D. Irene Key

July 2, 2024

My deepest sympathy and prayers are with the family. First Lady Valeria's dedication to the Lord and her family is evident and something to be admired. I pray that fond memories will keep you in the difficult days ahead.

Jeannette Gonzalez

June 14, 2024

In loving memory of Lady Valeria Lee

Words cannot fully express the sorrow I feel at the loss of such a remarkable person. Auntie Valeria has touched my life in profound ways, leaving behind memories that will forever be cherished.

Her warmth and kindness knew no bounds. Whether through her infectious laughter, her wise counsel, or her unwavering support, she made a lasting impact on all who had the privilege of knowing her. Her love for life and her compassionate spirit were gifts that illuminated our lives. You were like a mother to me, and I wish I had more time to show you how much really meant to me. I Love You Forever and Always.

Albert & Gertrude Williams (uncle sam)

June 14, 2024

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Brittany Irby

June 14, 2024

My favorite memory that I will never forget is when Breahonte got married and momma Lee was giving advice on being a good wife and even though I´m no where near getting married, when I do, I´ll always remember her advice!

Queena Taylor

June 14, 2024

This beautiful soul, woman was the first sincere lady to accept me as a child later into an adult. She was always the same way no matter the time, distance nor situation at hand. I will forever love you ma as my godmother. The bond we had can't and won't be replace.
Always and Forever your goddaughter
Queena Taylor

Brigitte Lee

June 13, 2024

Ann was such a beautiful, and sweet spirit. She was married to my uncle, and they were just an adorable couple. Ann possessed the character of the Proverbs 31 woman. She will be missed.

Nykkia Cargle

June 13, 2024

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. The love of friends and family carry you through your grief. MISS you dearly Ann

Alice North Chess

June 13, 2024

Dr. Dyke Lee & Family, I offer my sincere condolences on the passing of Ann Lee. Ann had a calming, beautiful spirit. May God comfort the family during this difficult time. Rest in Paradise, Ann.

Mary A. Williams

June 13, 2024

I am a long distance Tabernacle family member. I sharing with Pastor Lee and family the sorrow over passing of First Lady.
When coming home to visit our Church I was always greeted with open arms by Pastor and Valeria. I find comfort in that loving warmth that I got. My Prayers love and thoughts will linger as I will continue to watch my Church family in worship and Prayer.
God promised her a home. she is at rest.
Sister Mary Williams
Arlington TN

Barbara J. Shaw

June 13, 2024

To Pastor Lee and entire family.We being members of our First Tabernacle Family, share in your sorrow over the passing of Dearly Beloved Lady Valeria. We
Pray you will all find comfort and strength in her loving precious memories.She had a spirit about her that touched the hearts of so many.
She is at rest now.No more sadness, sorry or pain again.God had a place waiting for her. Our love, prayers and thoughts are with you all.Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal.
R.I.H. Our Lady Valeria.
Sister Barbara Shaw and Dea:Leroy Shaw

Myrtle Mateen

June 12, 2024

Pat you have my deepest sympathy in the death but heaven gain of your daughter. WE have fellowshiped with them but I didn't realize this was Valeria I've known her since a child. I pray God gives you the strength you need love you.

Linda Wilson

June 12, 2024

I will never forget the time when Dyke and Ann came to visit me in Virginia Beach. With me being disable i asked Ann to comb my hair for me. Without a second though she combed my hair and braided it. That same night they were getting ready to rest, she came back in the living room and set down. I looked at her as asked her, are you waiting on me. she said "yes". I just got up and went to bed too. She was so sweet. Her concern for me I'll never forget. Praying for the family and keep those memories alive. Dyke, I love you and I'm only a phone call away.

Frances Bridges Resto

June 12, 2024

My heart was saddened when I heard of Valeria passing. I am praying for God to comfort and give you peace at this difficult time. For we know to be absent from the body is to be present with The Lord

Myrtle Mateen

June 12, 2024

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Lorraine & Pamela Friley

June 12, 2024

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Malika Beacham-Bandy

June 12, 2024

My heartfelt condolences and Prayers to the entire Gray family and extended family May The Lord send comfort and the peace that surpassseth all understanding in your hour of sorrow know now that she is resting in The Arms Of Her Father&Savior job well down she has finished her course I love you all

DJ Lee #MommiesBabyBoy

June 11, 2024

Ma, this feels unreal, I love you with alllll my heart! I miss u

The Davis Family

June 11, 2024

To The Lee Family
We The Davis Family sends Our Deepest Condolences and Prayers to you all during these days to come. I met Ann at Pilgrim see always had a smile of joy warmth kind and loving. Whenever I see her she always gave me a long warming hug. She was so pleasant and warm. A strong Woman Of God. I´m going to miss them hugs. R.I.P. Beautiful. You and your hugs and smile will truly be miss.

Mary Brown

June 11, 2024

Valeria was always kind and sweet to my family and I. To The Gray Family: May Our God Comfort Your Entire Family During This Time Of Sorrow.
Valeria has received her crown in God's Heavenly Kingdom. If we live our life's according to God's holy Word we will see her again. Rest In Peace God's Beautiful Angel. God bless

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