Valerie Dryja

Valerie Dryja

Valerie Dryja Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Oct. 7 to Oct. 9, 2009.
Valerie (Lopacki) Dryja, formerly of Niagara Falls, NY, passed away Sunday, October 4, 2009 at Northgate Healthcare Facility. She was the daughter of the late John and Victoria (Kajdasz) Lopacki. She was predeceased by her husband, Frank in 1970; a son, Frank in 1985; and a sister, Stella Ohol.Valerie attended local schools. She worked for the former Chisholm Ryder Company in Niagara Falls for over 20 years. She also worked as a waitress with friends catering parties. She loved gardening, cooking, crocheting and traveling. She once toured five countries in Europe on a once-in-a-lifetime trip with family. Valerie belonged to the former Echo Club and Mothers Club of St. Stanislaus Kostka Church. She was a beautiful person who was always there with a kind word and smile for anyone who needed it. She treasured her grandchildren. She will always be remembered for her very caring nature.Valerie is survived by her daughter, Debbie (Henry J.) Ziuko of Niagara Falls; and son, Richard of Littleton, CO. She is also survived by grandchildren, Jessica Ziuko of Grand Island, NY, Dorothy and David Dryja of Littleton, CO, Jeffery, Christopher and Amy Dryja of Rochester, NY; four great-grandchildren and several nieces and nephews. She was the sister of Jen Jakubowski, Vicki Wegrzyn and John, Steve and Joe Lopacki.There will be no prior visitation. Private funeral services will be held at the convenience of the family. A Memorial Mass will be held on Tuesday, October 13th at 10:00 AM at Divine Mercy Parish, 24th and Niagara Sts., with Rev. Jacek Mazur officiating. Arrangements made through Zajac Funeral Home, Inc. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Divine Mercy Parish or the Alzheimer's Association of WNY, 2805 Wehrle Dr., Suite 6, Williamsville, NY 14221-7380.Visit www.legacy.com/niagara-gazette for online guest register.

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October 11, 2009

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ALICE STICKNEY

October 11, 2009

DEAR RICHARD AND DEBBIE,
IT HAS BEEN MANY YEARS SINCE YOUR MOM INVITED ME INTO HER HOME TO GO TO THE BASEMENT AND LISTEN TO JESUS CHRIST SUPERSTAR ON RICHARD'S QUADRAPHONIC STEREO OR PLAY PONG. I THEN HAD THE HONOR OF ATTENDING DEBBIE'S WEDDING, A CLASSIC AND MOST WONDERFUL EXPERIENCE. I HAVE FOND MEMORIES OF YOUR MOTHER. IT IS DIFFICULT AS WE LOSE OUR MATRIARCHS OF A WONDERFUL GENERATION. I'LL NEVER FORGET WHEN RICHARD SAID "HOW DID YOU FIND ME?" WHEN I ONCE CALLED. I REPLIED " I CALLED YOUR MOM." MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. LOVE FROM OUR FAMILY TO YOURS.

October 11, 2009

Richard,
We were truly sorry to read of your Mothers death. May we send you our deepest sympathy at this time and say our thoughts will be with you.

Frank & Charlotte Colucci

John Noworyta

October 8, 2009

Richard and Debbie,

My sincerest sympathy to you. May God grant your mother eternal rest and bless your entire family.

Debbie Koziel

October 8, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Fred Bulinski

October 8, 2009

Richard,

Sorry for your loss. It's been almost 50 years since we last talked at Duffy. I hope you get through this with the knowledge that God's love and mercy will be with you.

Kathy Diedrich Baumgarten

October 7, 2009

Dear Debbie and Family,
I only met your mother a few times when we were in High School, but she was always very kind. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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