Vincent J. Iacoi

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Vincent J. Iacoi

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Vincent Iacoi Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 6, 2025.
Norwich - Vincent Iacoi, 89, of Norwich, CT, passed away peacefully on August 3, 2025. Born September 17, 1935, he was the youngest child of Mary and Louis Iacoi.

After attending NFA, Vincent began his career at the Norwich State Hospital, where he rose through the ranks to Director of Food Service, retiring after 40 years of dedicated service. He married the love of his life, Joan (Donais), in 1958 and went on to serve honorably in the U.S. Army from July 1958 to June 1960.

Vincent loved cooking, gardening, golf, the beach, cards, and cheering on the Yankees. He gave back to his community, most notably by co-chairing the Bishop Riley Open for over 20 years, an event that supported the St. Bernard's Scholarship Fund.

He is survived by his wife, Joan; his daughter, Ivy, and her husband, John; and his son, Jamie. He was predeceased by his siblings: Louis Jr., Joseph, Rose, and Frank. Known lovingly as "Uncle Sonny," he leaves behind many nieces, nephews and many cherished friends -especially his life long friends at Jim's Trailer Park in Misquamicut, where he and Joan spent 58 summers.

A Celebration of Life will be held Sunday, September 14th at the Calabrese Club, 28 Pleasant Street, Westerly, RI beginning at 12:00 PM.

Donations in Vinnie's memory may be made to the Misquamicut Beach Foundation - www.pledge.to/organizations/88-1762989/misquamicut-beach-foundation .

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Richard Buzon

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What a nice man, very kind,great to work with.

Sharon Iacoi

Yesterday

Forever in our hearts. We will always cherish the time we had together.
You were such a kind and generous person Uncle. You were a blessing to so many people. Lovingly, Sharon

Ron Serra

Yesterday

45 years we shared at Jim´s beach !! Rest in peace Vinny

Raymond Benoit

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Joan, Linda and I were so sorry to hear of Vinnies passing, please accept our sincere sympathy's to you and Ivy and Jamie, Vinnie was such a great guy,we thought the world of him, may he rest in peace. Ray and Linda Benoit

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Upcoming Events

Sep

14

Celebration of Life

12:00 p.m.

Calabrese Club

28 Pleasant Street, Westerly, RI