Virginia (Ginger) Watkins

Virginia (Ginger) Watkins obituary, Rye, NY

Virginia (Ginger) Watkins

Virginia (Ginger) Watkins Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 31, 2023.
Virginia Watkins, known to family and friends as Ginger, passed peacefully on August 22, 2023. She will be remembered as a loving sister, mother and grandmother, a dedicated teacher, and a loyal friend.

Ginger was raised in Belmont, Massachusetts and would go on to live in Arlington, Newton, and Boston before moving to Rye, New York early in 2023. Her love of learning and commitment to women's education led her to Mt. Holyoke College, where she earned a Bachelor of Arts in 1966. She went on to receive her M.S. in Education from Wheelock College in 1968, and later pursued additional education and training from Tufts University and Lesley College.

Ginger dedicated 30 years to teaching and mentoring in the Newton and Brookline Public Schools, retiring in 2011. She was wholly committed to providing equitable educational opportunities for young children who benefitted from additional learning support. She was passionate about creating warm, inclusive, and safe environments for learning, in the classroom and beyond. She adored her students, choosing to have lunch with them every day at school, and was equally committed to their families. She was a unique and important member of the teaching community, building bridges between school staff, and mentoring countless teachers, interns, and paraprofessionals formally and informally.

Ginger was also the proud mother of three daughters, whose needs she always met ahead of her own. With incredibly limited time and resources, she managed to support them in all of their endeavors. Whether in after school sports or evening chorus concerts, she found ways to be present as an engaged volunteer or encouraging audience member. She ensured that each of her girls had the opportunity to attend college in pursuit of their individual interests and she encouraged them all to study, volunteer, and work abroad before she herself traveled outside the country.

A transformational moment in Ginger's life was her diagnosis with Alpha-1 antitrypsin deficiency in 1999, a condition that severely impacted her lungs. As was her nature, upon diagnosis she researched the condition, joined a community of "Alphas", and began to advocate for their shared cause. Over the course of the next several years, her breathing would continue to worsen, eventually requiring that she wear oxygen 24 hours each day. It was then that she made the incredibly brave decision to join the national organ transplant list in search of new lungs.

Late one evening in 2016, Ginger was granted a double lung transplant at Massachusetts General Hospital, a procedure that would bring her seven years of new life, thanks to her organ donor and transplant team. She made the most of those years, traveling to Spain, England, and Ireland, enjoying reunions with friends, and advocating for research through her participation in the Alpha-1 Foundation's signature fundraising event, the Celtic Connection. Most importantly to Ginger, she enjoyed more time with her family - reading books and baking banana bread with her grandchildren, adopting a senior dog, trying new recipes and restaurants, and taking road trips with her daughters and sons-in-law.

On the day preceding her death, Ginger shared with her children that all she had ever aspired to be throughout her life was loving, ethical, and good. She expected the same of them, and believed that, together, she and they had done a pretty good job.

Ginger was the youngest of three children and was predeceased by her sister, Janet. She is survived by her brother Jack and his wife Jane, her daughters Kate, Jennifer and Megan, sons-in-law Jeffery and Christopher, her niece Jennifer and her husband Brandon, her grandchildren and grandniece, and her dog, Little Mouse.

In lieu of flowers, Ginger's family asks that you please consider becoming an organ donor and/or making a contribution to the Alpha-1 Foundation.

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August 5, 2025

May Lawson Mamiya posted to the memorial.

September 23, 2023

The Massagios planted trees.

September 15, 2023

Sonny and Carol Flint posted to the memorial.

May Lawson Mamiya

August 5, 2025

Having just returned home from a brief "mini-reunion" with Belmont classmates Bev & Janie, I feel a wave of gratitude (once again!) for having considered Ginger´s a best friend during my "formative years." We raised a toast to her on the shores of Lake Winnipesaukee- and send aloha´s and love to all her family.
May Lawson Mamiya

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Sonny and Carol Flint

September 15, 2023

So sorry to hear of Ginger's passing. Although we haven't been in touch for many years, we have some fond memories from the 60's and 70's and the beach in Dennis. Time goes by too fast. Rest in peace, Ginger!

Jamie Fernandez

September 13, 2023

She was my teacher and someone I recall helping me through one of my toughest years of school. I was bullied and put under a lot of pressure with the learning disabilities I had. But she continued to work with me the best she could despite the struggles I had confronting my issues.

A memory that sticks out to me the most was a time where I got upset and began my wild sprint out of the school. My instinct was flight, which was dangerous because the school was near a busy road and I tried to scramble out the front doors. But in my attempt to rush out Ginger nabbed me and took me to the far wall and just sat down and hugged me until I stopped crying and squirming. She was patient and determined and I'll always appreciate that. Thank you for the memories, you'll always be an important part of my life.

Jen Campbell

September 8, 2023

Ginger was my first and finest mentor. I was enrolled in a special education Master's program through Lesley and Brookline Public Schhols. After I met her fleetingly, I asked specifically for Ginger to be my mentor and am so glad I did. Ginger introduced me to many techniques, situations, solutions and created many of my early teaching memories. She inspired me to be innovative and persistent in my support of special needs students. Ginger also taught me voice modulation and behavior modification skills that I am still using today as I start my 21st year of teaching. I stayed in touch with her until just after she moved to NY and I will cherish the dinners we had together as a colleague and supportive friend. She spoke often of her 3 daughters to the point where it feels that I know them personally. My deepest condolences to them and all who knew and loved Ginger. She was an amazing force to be reckoned with and will remain in my heart for the rest of my life.

Orlaith Delgado

September 8, 2023

Ginger was a pleasure to know and one of the favorites of the MGH Lung Transplant Team. Always glowing when talking about her family. She will be missed.

May Lawson Mamiya

September 6, 2023

Ginger and I met in elementary school and I am very grateful for the subsequent 7 decades of or friendship. In a diary in my mid-teens I wrote Ginger´s "greatest gift is that she sees the best part of people and is continuously trying to better herself. With her is security because you can really count on her." Those words proved predictive. What a remarkable mother, grandmother, teacher, advocate...friend.

Darrell Kotton

September 5, 2023

I was honored to know Ginger through our Alpha-1 Center at Boston University and Boston Medical Center and to see her regularly, including at the annual Alpha-1 Celtic Connection where she was on the organizing committee. Her joy in living life, curiosity, and pride in her family were inspirational and contagious. She was the ultimate educator, always teaching, whether it was to her students, her physicians, or the greater Alpha-1 Community. We will all miss you, Ginger.
Darrell Kotton, MD

Jennie Dundas

September 4, 2023

I grew up across the street from the Watkins girls on Moreland Ave. in Newton. I remember the very first day I met them in our backyard, as she came over to welcome us as soon as we moved in. I can still recall the visceral excitement of meeting her middle daughter, Jennie, who was closest to my age and who quickly became my best friend. Ginger always had snacks for us any time we came over. Grilled cheese and tomato soup come to mind, and fresh baked cookies, brownies, banana bread. I remember her laughing with her own mother, who would often visit with her dog, Whiskey. To this day, whenever I see a fluffy white dog, I stop the owner and tell them about Whiskey. I don't remember ever seeing Ginger sit down, as she was always busy cooking and doing other chores around the house, always with a ton of energy and a bounce in her step. I think of her literally every time I do the laundry and leave them on the bottom step, just as Ginger did for her girls, so the kids could learn responsibility by bringing their own clothes upstairs and putting them away. I loved her grilled cheeses. She was a wonderful mother, I'm sure she will be missed, and I appreciate the many afternoons I shared at her home back in the late '70's.

Becca (Tellalian) Cahaly

September 4, 2023

Ginger brought joy to all of our lives and was such an important person to so many of us growing up. She was loving, ethical and good and Kate, Jenny and Megan will continue to carry her legacy in the same way. Sending so much love and deepest sympathy to you all.

Dorothy Dundas

September 4, 2023

I first met Ginger on the day we moved into our house across the street from hers in Newton. She brought over a cake she had generously made for our family. Dorothy Dundas

David Curcio

August 31, 2023

I so fondly remember the night at the Watkins´s annual Christmas Eve party when Ginger finally invited me to sit in the kitchen with the grown ups. Those parties - every one of them so different - were always a joy and a beautiful celebration of friends during the holiday season.

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